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Jul 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15279 · Topics: 125
antibling, don't try to pretend you wouldn't ebay your granny. come on now.
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i know two other leos on a fairly intimate level (used to know more) and have found them to be quite honest.
also, contrary to antibling's h8ing, which he so kindly injected into this post about whether leos lie a lot, i have not found these other leos, nor myself, to do anything dramatic to seek attention.
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and the exaggerating in strories - that was when i was 8 years old.
This is different. My Cap didn't discuss his ex-girlfriend with me until he was a little tipsy and I brought up some things that made me mad dealing with her and her inability to let him go. He always blows her off and never brings her up willingly. So maybe its not a Cap thing and just a 'good relationship that just didn't last' type of thing.
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Jun 05, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 327 · Topics: 40
I feel you, the magical feelings that drift away...
And I think the reason you feel that you can never be satisfied is because the guy isn't EVERYTHING you want him to be. And most people will never live up to your desires or what you truly want in a person.
If I'm right, then I think maybe you should just try and focus on the good things, unless the guy is a major dick.
I'm going through this, and at times I dont want to keep going, and sometimes I'm not happy because the guy I'm with seems to be clueless with me. But, I truly like him and I find that he is a good guy.
I think maybe you should just focus on what YOU want, and if the guy isnt entirely perfect, than you should just either take it the way it is, or leave it.
You shouldn't let previous relationships hurt this one, not everyone is the same and nothing lasts forever, by this I mean, that there is always something new.
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Feb 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 847 · Topics: 15
It's only been a week or two that he's pulled away, right? Give him his time to pull away. Sounds like things have really been on the up and up since last year when you were on this site. Seems like he's just having a normal guy moment of pulling away to think. In the whole of things...a 2-year relationship isn't a really long time that you have to feel exasperated over having waited for so long. For real...it could be much longer...MUCH longer. I think you should just not overthink things and he'll come back ready to continue. No worries.
OMG...
i was watching tv late the other week, and it was on! what a blast from my past, flygirls, wanda, et all. used to watch with my son, he's 26 now, probably had a lasting effect on him...LOL. now my favorite saying is "everybody here is equally kind".
thanks for the memories,
pan