Wondering about Aquarius Male
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Virbra on Tuesday, April 9, 2013 and has 9 replies.
Hi. Okay, so I am wondering what is up with this aquarius I have been dating for like 2 months. He was very hot in pursuing me from day one. I was not too sure but after a month we had sex and I was hooked. The issue is I have tripped on him quit a bit and I think he is pretty much sick of me at this point. Last week his phone was stolen and I did not hear from him all week and I went to his house out of the blue. He was totally cool, let me right in and we had a great time. The next morning I left early and I think it may have kind of pissed him off. He was going to go get a new phone. I emailed him my number (since he lost his phone) and he emailed me back (from his new phone) but did not give me his number. I kind of feel like he is messin with me at this point. Although he is very sweet and completely caters to me when we are together. Like no guy I have ever dated. So basically, 4 days later I have no number for him and he knows that is buggin me. I just sent him an email and said that I really was sorry for how I acted initially and that I hoped he would give me a second change (I was really a bitch).
Was it a good idea to email him and say I was sorry? Any thoughts?
I should throw in there, we always see each other every Friday and I am sure if I emailed him on Thursday I could get him to meet me. Is that a completely stupid idea? Will I be right back there again on Monday?
Was it a good idea to email him and say I was sorry? Any thoughts?
I should throw in there, we always see each other every Friday and I am sure if I emailed him on Thursday I could get him to meet me. Is that a completely stupid idea? Will I be right back there again on Monday?
Okay, I was wondering about that. I get it. I do respond when I need to just chill. I need to work on that. Must be some Virgo/Libra thing. So if he does not get a hold of me do I just chalk it up or can I attempt some light hearted contact in like 3 or 4 days?
I am cracking up that my first message said "(I was really a cookie monster)" I have no idea where that came from. HAHA!
Okay, step off...basically. LOL. Thanks. You are awesome. 
I would be wondering why he didn't give me his new number. That triggers a possible red flag in my brain.
Did you contact him constantly when you did have his number? Like lots of calls or several texts a day? If so, that may be why. I don't think they like it when you blow up their phone. It appears clingy, like you are chasing them. If you did, then that could be why he didn't give you his number. If you didn't do that, then back to the red flag consideration.
I agree with the others. Just wait and see. That's all you can do.
Did you contact him constantly when you did have his number? Like lots of calls or several texts a day? If so, that may be why. I don't think they like it when you blow up their phone. It appears clingy, like you are chasing them. If you did, then that could be why he didn't give you his number. If you didn't do that, then back to the red flag consideration.
I agree with the others. Just wait and see. That's all you can do.
Oh, also, aqua men come on hot and strong in the beginning, then they tend to cool off some. It seems to be a pattern. When they do that, just give them their space and do your own thing.
On the phone thing...I did kind of text him a lot. Not A LOT but a lot, probably for him. He actually told me he kind of liked not having a phone cause no one could bug him. I took that as he loves his peace and he was enjoying controlling how much contact people had, including me. I really did not take it too personally. In fact, right now I am not super upset. I am noticing that he is in his own world until we are together and then he is completely present, and so amazing. I was actually thinking that he is so into me when we are together that is why he needs a break when we are apart. Who can give that much of themselves on a regular basis? I am going to completely lay off. Show that I have self control and then send him a message on Friday if I have not heard from him and ask him to meet me at his favorite restaurant after work. He had said he wanted to go there. We always work stuff out when we are in person cause he is the best communicator and I am very calm and accepting of other peoples reality. It is the times that we are apart that stuff gets feisty.
But if I do see him after we are together I am going to talk to him about how much time he needs to himself. I am cool with that if I understand him. I don't want to push up on him. I don't want to encroach on his space. And I want him to know that.
But if I do see him after we are together I am going to talk to him about how much time he needs to himself. I am cool with that if I understand him. I don't want to push up on him. I don't want to encroach on his space. And I want him to know that.
Also, I know what you mean about the obligation. Who wants that? I definitely do not want to feel like I am that to a person. Thanks a lot you guys.
Hey, I just wanted to update you...my guy called me last night with his number. Four days later....not great but still acceptable. . I called him back and we missed each other a few times so I texted him and said "I am at my kids game, I will call you later." I called him back around 9:30 and left a message. He texted me this morning and was like "you never called?" "I still miss you." I am like WOO HOO! I texted him and let him know I had called and left a message. Just wanted to say thanks for the advise.
. I called him back and we missed each other a few times so I texted him and said "I am at my kids game, I will call you later." I called him back around 9:30 and left a message. He texted me this morning and was like "you never called?" "I still miss you." I am like WOO HOO! I texted him and let him know I had called and left a message. Just wanted to say thanks for the advise.Related Topics
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