Wondering about Aquarius Male
Hi. Okay, so I am wondering what is up with this aquarius I have been dating for like 2 months. He was very hot in pursuing me from day one. I was not too sure but after a month we had sex and I was hooked. The issue is I have tripped on him quit a bit and I think he is pretty much sick of me at this point. Last week his phone was stolen and I did not hear from him all week and I went to his house out of the blue. He was totally cool, let me right in and we had a great time. The next morning I left early and I think it may have kind of pissed him off. He was going to go get a new phone. I emailed him my number (since he lost his phone) and he emailed me back (from his new phone) but did not give me his number. I kind of feel like he is messin with me at this point. Although he is very sweet and completely caters to me when we are together. Like no guy I have ever dated. So basically, 4 days later I have no number for him and he knows that is buggin me. I just sent him an email and said that I really was sorry for how I acted initially and that I hoped he would give me a second change (I was really a bitch).
Was it a good idea to email him and say I was sorry? Any thoughts?
I should throw in there, we always see each other every Friday and I am sure if I emailed him on Thursday I could get him to meet me. Is that a completely stupid idea? Will I be right back there again on Monday?
Was it a good idea to email him and say I was sorry? Any thoughts?
I should throw in there, we always see each other every Friday and I am sure if I emailed him on Thursday I could get him to meet me. Is that a completely stupid idea? Will I be right back there again on Monday?
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For the longest time, Scenic, I thought you were a Libra.
I realize that means admitting I can't read. Since it's in your avi description but it is what it is.
Not wanting to labelled or put in a box is definitely so Pisces though.
But fair dues.
That's interesting! I do have a good amount of libra friends and generally get along with people of that sign. Maybe their leebness rubbed off on me. ; ) (I feel like now I need to put a warning label that says my generalizations are not fact or something. But, you guys should automatically read that whenever you see me post, now. If you do, then I am obviously a master manipulator. Instilling some subconscious shit into your minds. Hahahaha, just kidding.)
9 Wing 1
general description
Average 9/1 has a sort of cloudlike softness. The one-wing adds a flavor of intellectuality, but nine is more powerful, so the 9/1's thoughts are not likely to receive much reality-testing. As a result, 9/1 often has a set of beliefs about the world that may seem superstitious or magical to others. For 9/1, this is no problem, because, strange as it may seem, these magical beliefs often seem to actually work for them. Unlike 9/8, 9/1 has a kind of refinement and poise, because of the one-wing's desire to be perfect. But 9/1 is more likely to lie down and take a nap than the more workaholic 1/9.
balanced and transcendent states
Balanced 9/1 somehow becomes more present. Now there is really somebody home, a genuine being with actual goals and self-interest who happily starts creating results in the world. Nine begins to show some threeish ambition and the one-wing begins to loosen up its perfectionism. While such a person is still probably involved in activities that are non-threatening and not particularly visible in the world at large, the results often affect others in ways that are surprisingly useful and subtle.
Advanced 9/1 finds deep sevenish joy in the accomplishment of personal goals. Usually the goals involve teaching or otherwise empowering others. Oneish intellectual rigor assumes real importance when the desire for withdrawal diminishes, allowing 9/1 to risk genuine involvement. Thoughts and internal images finally correspond to actual reality and 9/1 is able to transmit to others a special and powerful kind of integrated self-actualization.
general description
Average 9/1 has a sort of cloudlike softness. The one-wing adds a flavor of intellectuality, but nine is more powerful, so the 9/1's thoughts are not likely to receive much reality-testing. As a result, 9/1 often has a set of beliefs about the world that may seem superstitious or magical to others. For 9/1, this is no problem, because, strange as it may seem, these magical beliefs often seem to actually work for them. Unlike 9/8, 9/1 has a kind of refinement and poise, because of the one-wing's desire to be perfect. But 9/1 is more likely to lie down and take a nap than the more workaholic 1/9.
balanced and transcendent states
Balanced 9/1 somehow becomes more present. Now there is really somebody home, a genuine being with actual goals and self-interest who happily starts creating results in the world. Nine begins to show some threeish ambition and the one-wing begins to loosen up its perfectionism. While such a person is still probably involved in activities that are non-threatening and not particularly visible in the world at large, the results often affect others in ways that are surprisingly useful and subtle.
Advanced 9/1 finds deep sevenish joy in the accomplishment of personal goals. Usually the goals involve teaching or otherwise empowering others. Oneish intellectual rigor assumes real importance when the desire for withdrawal diminishes, allowing 9/1 to risk genuine involvement. Thoughts and internal images finally correspond to actual reality and 9/1 is able to transmit to others a special and powerful kind of integrated self-actualization.
unbalanced and unhealthy states
Under stress, nineish withdrawal increases, accompanied by oneish judgment of self and others. 9/1 retreats into a fantasy world inhabited by comfortably fuzzy generalities and stereotyped images of other people. These are the people 9/1 wishes could inhabit the real world -- wishful, perfect images of real people. Unfortunately, because 9/1 is convinced of the reality of these internally generated images, real-life interactions suffer when people do not live up to their idealized images. But the 9/1 tries very hard not to notice.
In the extreme, it becomes nearly impossible not to see the discrepancies between the perfect inner images and the outward reality. Total isolation becomes the only way to avoid seeing that the world is populated by disturbingly imperfect, unpredictable, demanding, untrustworthy beings. Life falls apart at the seams and psychotic 9/1 eventually may reach a state of catatonic pseudo-coma. Even eating and drinking can become too much work. No one is home in the body, and the body itself is allowed to fall into ruins.
Under stress, nineish withdrawal increases, accompanied by oneish judgment of self and others. 9/1 retreats into a fantasy world inhabited by comfortably fuzzy generalities and stereotyped images of other people. These are the people 9/1 wishes could inhabit the real world -- wishful, perfect images of real people. Unfortunately, because 9/1 is convinced of the reality of these internally generated images, real-life interactions suffer when people do not live up to their idealized images. But the 9/1 tries very hard not to notice.
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