Posted by AriesLove
What's your sign?
Posted by RamOfPeace
No
Posted by AriesLovePosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by AriesLove
What's your sign?
What do u mean
You didn't post your sign before.
But if you've been apologizing and contacting her straight, I say give it a rest for minute. Give yourself a week no contact see if she reaches back out to you.
If not, go buy her something real nice and surprise her.click to expand
Posted by AriesLovePosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by AriesLovePosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by AriesLove
What's your sign?
What do u mean
You didn't post your sign before.
But if you've been apologizing and contacting her straight, I say give it a rest for minute. Give yourself a week no contact see if she reaches back out to you.
If not, go buy her something real nice and surprise her.
are you even an aries?
AriesLove....March Ariesclick to expand
Posted by CurlyAries
It depends, What did you do to break her trust?
Posted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by CurlyAries
It depends, What did you do to break her trust?
Something similar to cheating.click to expand
Posted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by CurlyAries
It depends, What did you do to break her trust?
Something similar to cheating.click to expand
Posted by malloryorPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by CurlyAries
It depends, What did you do to break her trust?
Something similar to cheating.
Wtf lol
So you cheated. Okay, glad we cleared that up. So much for the "I loved her too much," you boys are so full of shit. But continue...click to expand
Posted by CurlyAriesPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by CurlyAries
It depends, What did you do to break her trust?
Something similar to cheating.
This will definitely be hard to get her back, in my opinion. Being an Aries, trust is one of, if not THE MOST important thing to us. In a way, trust weighs more to us than love. Once you break our trust, it will take a long time for it to ever be restored.
I am in love with a Virgo man and he broke my trust a year and half ago (it was not to the extent of cheating) and I'm finally open to just having a friendship with him.
So something as big as cheating or something similar...... you're in for a ride. You have to be sure that she is what you want. Don't keep her around because she's convenient or anything like that. If you LOVE her and you are IN LOVE with her, fight for her. She has to be the only woman in the world, especially since you cheated. It will take a lot of time and she will be distant for awhile probably but you being Virgo, I figure you should understand that.
Give her some space, if she doesn't reach out, & she probably won't (we Aries don't beg for people to be in our lives if they do something that makes it seem like they don't care) be open with her always. Tell her your feelings, appreciation.
A nice gift and sincere apology would be nice. A nice evening of showing her you love her and she is the only woman you want. Because knowing us, once we have the man we want, there is no other man on the Earth that can get our love. She definitely feels betrayed. Idk how old you are, but you need to mature and be serious about her.click to expand
Posted by trollbait
Did you say shit about her behind her back and she found out?
lol
Posted by trollbaitPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by CurlyAriesPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by CurlyAries
It depends, What did you do to break her trust?
Something similar to cheating.
This will definitely be hard to get her back, in my opinion. Being an Aries, trust is one of, if not THE MOST important thing to us. In a way, trust weighs more to us than love. Once you break our trust, it will take a long time for it to ever be restored.
I am in love with a Virgo man and he broke my trust a year and half ago (it was not to the extent of cheating) and I'm finally open to just having a friendship with him.
So something as big as cheating or something similar...... you're in for a ride. You have to be sure that she is what you want. Don't keep her around because she's convenient or anything like that. If you LOVE her and you are IN LOVE with her, fight for her. She has to be the only woman in the world, especially since you cheated. It will take a lot of time and she will be distant for awhile probably but you being Virgo, I figure you should understand that.
Give her some space, if she doesn't reach out, & she probably won't (we Aries don't beg for people to be in our lives if they do something that makes it seem like they don't care) be open with her always. Tell her your feelings, appreciation.
A nice gift and sincere apology would be nice. A nice evening of showing her you love her and she is the only woman you want. Because knowing us, once we have the man we want, there is no other man on the Earth that can get our love. She definitely feels betrayed. Idk how old you are, but you need to mature and be serious about her.
i really appreciate your advices. Also this hapenned few days ago. So should i giver her some time and then be open to her. Or should do it immediately
You need to leave her alone for a while. If you do it immediately you'll drive her away.click to expand
Posted by AriesLovePosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by trollbait
Did you say shit about her behind her back and she found out?
lol
No. I lied to her. I dont really want to talk about it specifically. Jusy trying to find some advices from another aries women.
We told you. Give her some space....but let her know that you were wrong and you know she's hurt, so you will give her a little space. She might reach out, might not. Either way buy something special that you think she might like. Ship it to her or deliver it yourself. And be patient....all you can do.click to expand
Posted by AriesLovePosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by AriesLovePosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by trollbait
Did you say shit about her behind her back and she found out?
lol
No. I lied to her. I dont really want to talk about it specifically. Jusy trying to find some advices from another aries women.
We told you. Give her some space....but let her know that you were wrong and you know she's hurt, so you will give her a little space. She might reach out, might not. Either way buy something special that you think she might like. Ship it to her or deliver it yourself. And be patient....all you can do.
how can i let her know all the things u said above if i dont talk to her.
Before you give her space, text her or something let her know you will be giving her space so she doesn't think you just gave up. Then just chill for about a couple of weeks and be patient. Give yourself time to think about your wrongs as well.click to expand
Posted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by trollbait
Did you say shit about her behind her back and she found out?
lol
No. I lied to her. I dont really want to talk about it specifically. Jusy trying to find some advices from another aries women.click to expand
Posted by AriesLovePosted by youdontneedtoknowme
Because we talked to each other everyday since the first day of our relationship. Imagine that. We talked like that for nearly 2 years. Couple of weeks not talking to her is gonna be so tough to me i might just get over her while being patient.
Well then we know you are just playing a game with her. You just don't like being ignored. No love.
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Posted by xtina
My birthday is April 13th. I'd say give it time but definitely eventually contact her and SHOW her you mean what you say, that you are man of your words. A man of integrity. But you must have patience. Trust is not given its earned through time, patience, and understanding.
But the biggest thing is if you want to show her you're serious about your love you need to step up and no more empty promises. So if you can't live up to your words don't say them. Like someone said earlier. You have to want it and be willing to fight for her. We Aries are a masculine sign but only because we hide our vulnerability because we are very vulnerable and that is our feminine side. And getting her to open up again will be a way of gaining back trust but it will require YOU to open up and be vulnerable. Good luck my good sir for you do not have an easy task at hand.
Posted by youdontneedtoknowme
The way she talked to be few days ago and now when she is ignoring me is already breaking my heart.
Posted by xtinaPosted by youdontneedtoknowme
The way she talked to be few days ago and now when she is ignoring me is already breaking my heart.
I'm sorry to hear that. We Aries are good at cutting people out of our lives but it doesn't mean we cut them out of our hearts. You have to understand we are very scared and vulnerable.
I know you are scared but you have to ask yourself do you love her enough to risk getting brutally hurt? Like Bob Marley said everyone you know will hurt you you just have to find the ones worth the pain.
So do you love her enough? Because if so get ready for battleclick to expand
Posted by Satyamsoni3
I didn't read all the replies here, but I think is depend of what you used to hurt her. Aries need time.... So, let her some time, then try to catch up her with something funny, use some jokes you used together, some funny pictures, etc. For me this was working very good and in my case, he back to me instantly. I am Leo, he is Aries. I think in your case is more simple as you are the man and Aries is girl. So, you just give her a little time, do not be desperate and try again with something that you know she likes so much !
Posted by RumiL
Everything xtina said!
If you didn't exactly cheat..she may come back to you..
I'd say just give her some time but be around her and let her know your feelings. We easily forgive too![]()
People can not even guess how sensitive we are lol.
Be sincere about your feelings with her. Dont give up! (:
Posted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by malloryorPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by CurlyAries
It depends, What did you do to break her trust?
Something similar to cheating.
Wtf lol
So you cheated. Okay, glad we cleared that up. So much for the "I loved her too much," you boys are so full of shit. But continue...
i said something similar. I didnt cheat on her literallyclick to expand
Posted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiL
Everything xtina said!
If you didn't exactly cheat..she may come back to you..
I'd say just give her some time but be around her and let her know your feelings. We easily forgive too![]()
People can not even guess how sensitive we are lol.
Be sincere about your feelings with her. Dont give up! (:
thanks. I wanna ask something else. Do u aries fall in love with someone else easily after you break up with someone.click to expand
Posted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiL
Everything xtina said!
If you didn't exactly cheat..she may come back to you..
I'd say just give her some time but be around her and let her know your feelings. We easily forgive too![]()
People can not even guess how sensitive we are lol.
Be sincere about your feelings with her. Dont give up! (:
thanks. I wanna ask something else. Do u aries fall in love with someone else easily after you break up with someone.click to expand
Posted by RumiLPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiL
Everything xtina said!
If you didn't exactly cheat..she may come back to you..
I'd say just give her some time but be around her and let her know your feelings. We easily forgive too![]()
People can not even guess how sensitive we are lol.
Be sincere about your feelings with her. Dont give up! (:
thanks. I wanna ask something else. Do u aries fall in love with someone else easily after you break up with someone.
It depends on whether she was in love with you.. If she was. I doubt..highly... That too so soon.
But we cannot say.. She may find someone who looks 100% promising..
What are her personal placements??(moon, merc, Venus mars ?)
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Posted by RumiLPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiL
Everything xtina said!
If you didn't exactly cheat..she may come back to you..
I'd say just give her some time but be around her and let her know your feelings. We easily forgive too![]()
People can not even guess how sensitive we are lol.
Be sincere about your feelings with her. Dont give up! (:
thanks. I wanna ask something else. Do u aries fall in love with someone else easily after you break up with someone.
It depends on whether she was in love with you.. If she was. I doubt..highly... That too so soon.
But we cannot say.. She may find someone who looks 100% promising..
What are her personal placements??(moon, merc, Venus mars ?)
click to expand
Posted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiLPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiL
Everything xtina said!
If you didn't exactly cheat..she may come back to you..
I'd say just give her some time but be around her and let her know your feelings. We easily forgive too![]()
People can not even guess how sensitive we are lol.
Be sincere about your feelings with her. Dont give up! (:
thanks. I wanna ask something else. Do u aries fall in love with someone else easily after you break up with someone.
It depends on whether she was in love with you.. If she was. I doubt..highly... That too so soon.
But we cannot say.. She may find someone who looks 100% promising..
What are her personal placements??(moon, merc, Venus mars ?)
we were definitely in love. I was her first boyfriend. And to update for you guys. I talked to her today. Well actually all she was doing is replying my texts. And i talked again about the problems. Telling her i ám sorry etc.. she said that it's not my fault. It's just she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. So i guess this is the end?click to expand
Posted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiLPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiL
Everything xtina said!
If you didn't exactly cheat..she may come back to you..
I'd say just give her some time but be around her and let her know your feelings. We easily forgive too![]()
People can not even guess how sensitive we are lol.
Be sincere about your feelings with her. Dont give up! (:
thanks. I wanna ask something else. Do u aries fall in love with someone else easily after you break up with someone.
It depends on whether she was in love with you.. If she was. I doubt..highly... That too so soon.
But we cannot say.. She may find someone who looks 100% promising..
What are her personal placements??(moon, merc, Venus mars ?)
and i dont understand how the personal placements workclick to expand
Posted by trollbaitPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiLPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiL
Everything xtina said!
If you didn't exactly cheat..she may come back to you..
I'd say just give her some time but be around her and let her know your feelings. We easily forgive too![]()
People can not even guess how sensitive we are lol.
Be sincere about your feelings with her. Dont give up! (:
thanks. I wanna ask something else. Do u aries fall in love with someone else easily after you break up with someone.
It depends on whether she was in love with you.. If she was. I doubt..highly... That too so soon.
But we cannot say.. She may find someone who looks 100% promising..
What are her personal placements??(moon, merc, Venus mars ?)
we were definitely in love. I was her first boyfriend. And to update for you guys. I talked to her today. Well actually all she was doing is replying my texts. And i talked again about the problems. Telling her i ám sorry etc.. she said that it's not my fault. It's just she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. So i guess this is the end?
Yes.click to expand
Posted by xtina
@OP
Has she ever told you before she didn't have feelings for you anymore?
Posted by SensitiveBlues
how did you cheat on her?
lol you deserve it.
what a weak piece of sheet. you didn't think about her feelings, so selfish, you only think of how you'll feel not talking to her
Posted by xtina
If you feel uncertain you can remain her friend. If she truly loves you then she won't be able to help grow back those feelings eventually. Just give her enough time and space. Not too much. Not too little. I wish you the best❤
Posted by trollbaitPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiLPosted by youdontneedtoknowmePosted by RumiL
Everything xtina said!
If you didn't exactly cheat..she may come back to you..
I'd say just give her some time but be around her and let her know your feelings. We easily forgive too![]()
People can not even guess how sensitive we are lol.
Be sincere about your feelings with her. Dont give up! (:
thanks. I wanna ask something else. Do u aries fall in love with someone else easily after you break up with someone.
It depends on whether she was in love with you.. If she was. I doubt..highly... That too so soon.
But we cannot say.. She may find someone who looks 100% promising..
What are her personal placements??(moon, merc, Venus mars ?)
we were definitely in love. I was her first boyfriend. And to update for you guys. I talked to her today. Well actually all she was doing is replying my texts. And i talked again about the problems. Telling her i ám sorry etc.. she said that it's not my fault. It's just she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. So i guess this is the end?
Yes.click to expand
Posted by youdontneedtoknowme
Because we talked to each other everyday since the first day of our relationship. Imagine that. We talked like that for nearly 2 years. Couple of weeks not talking to her is gonna be so tough to me i might just get over her while being patient.
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