Aries girl and a scorpio guy (Page 2)

i'm glad that he's been really good to you now🙂 as i said, gives me hope. i know that we can overreact and overthink some things without having all facts available. thank for the keeping busy advice. i try my best. i was sick recently and he came over and took care of me and was all over me. he talked about his plans except he never mentioned anything for both of us to do together. like he says i'd love to go to this place and i say this place is great but ne doesn't say let's go there. it's silly i know🙂 am i allowed to whine a little?🙂

lolz ironic, mine said something similar the other night. we were talking and he's going off into the military, he leaves sunday (so i've been an emotional wreck... minus him knowing). so we were talking and i felt 'hey you're leaving might as well ask', asked him if hes ever lied to me, does he remember the amazing things he said to me in december (said he wanted to start a life with me and doesnt want me to ever go away).. he said he'd never lie and yes he remembers everything. he eventually says i 'think to much' ugh...

your allowed to whine within reason... theres only so much they can take unless ur getting to emotional wreck mode. then ur allowed to unload and either he'll listen or he'll run. no middle ground for these boys, u either love them or hate them. no two days are ever the same, but when u catch them looking at u with those hypnotic eyes... ur hooked.

pb: how are you going to deal with him away? for how long?
i promised myself that i won't ask him again now he has to do the asking. i already did couple of times and he turned me down since he had some prior engagements but he apologized many times and was thankful. but i don't care about exuses🙂 the way i look at it if he wanted to go he'd find a way. but that's an aries in me talking🙂 it kind bothers me when he's telling me that other people ask him out and he hangs out with them. now, he's bringing up all those former girls of his. like i care about his past conquest i just don't want to know. i never do that to anyone. in my opinion is a bit disrespectful. right?

he said to me in december (said he wanted to start a life with me and doesnt want me to ever go away).. he said he'd never lie and yes he remembers everything. he eventually says i 'think to much' ugh...- does it mean he'll be with you when he'll be done with the service or is it just something he said that's more of a fantasy thing? not that i want to put this stuff in your head but i'm sure you already thought of it.
'think to much' - it's not your behavior that makes you "'think to much'"
uuuuuuggggggg🙂

exactly!!!!!!! like wtf is wrong with them!?!?!?!?!? omg yea first off why mention ex's!? i dont care who you've dated i've never mentioned who i dated... yea kinda rubbed it in his face the other night cuz i was tired of hearing him bring up the past... im sry whatever u did before me DOES NOT MATTER TO ME!!!! and yea whats wrong with thinking—? like seriously you ever feel like wacking them in the face, like 'oh yea sry i have a brain and actually think about the dumbass shit that exits ur mouth'.. like OOPS!

yea i get a lot of those moments... and yea he mentioned crap and said he wanted to be with me forever... and yea i still have questions never answered... i've come to the conclusion dont bother asking, honestly it used to drive me nuts thinking about what he said and the meaning of it... but i've learned its whatever is on his mind at the time. like he means it... but u bring it up later and its like that one emotionally open moment is closed. yea he still feels that way.... but hes never gonna let you hear it again. so half the time i just keep my hears wide open and hear all his wonderful words and then lock them forever in my head. then hes back to same ol' scorp confusing, whinny, or withdrawn and its like come on!

and yea dont worri you're not getting twisted thoughts into my head cuz they've already been there. its kinda like you take things as is and dont bother worring about them cuz they will drive you nuts. yea im not sure how im gonna deal, probably just gonna hangout with my friends more, or save up and go shopping right b4 he comes back. hes leaving for 3 months i wanted to cry the other day cuz i kno im gonna miss him like crazy and hes got my address, i told him its over if he doesnt write to me while hes gone and im meaning at least once a week, he agreed so.... lets see how that goes. theres just so much to think about and yet nothing at all. theres so many highs and so many lows and then sometimes u just gotta laugh about whatevers going on. we were listening to the disney princess collection cuz my itunes went on random it was hilarious. but yea i dont care for excuses and i totally agree with u (aries side) that fi you wanted to see me you'd see me! i once yelled at him to go to hell cuz he said he might not be able to pick me up and he kept me waiting, he eventually realized when i sent his txt messages right back to him (fwd) he called and got on his way to see me. then complained when i said 'yea im still mad at u!!!'. oy dumbest arguement in the world, i have no idea why i adore this man, probably because hes one of the few guys who don't become my minion and the fact that we just connect on so many levels and it never makes sense as to why (you get that with ur scorp weird connection??) and yet sometimes its just the challenge. its great to meet someone who challenges u and makes u think more than you normally do, then there are times they're so sweet and there for giving advice. then other times im not sure, u ever feel like ur not on the same planet?? honestly i know what ur dealing with and it drives me nuts, im not chasing him like i once so its just all chilled.