Aries is sad because you think they're selfish...

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...when their actual soul purpose is to develop an ego.


How true?
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Probably.
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Huh?
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Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
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Posted by Noni05
lol I was just reading this Aries libra article



http://astrologyclub.org/aries-libra-opposite-signs/



Good news ! Libra and Aries compatibility, whatever its quirks and foibles, will mean a relationship that is always evolving, always moving forwards and never caught up in the past. Neither sign holds grudges and each will be quick to forgive and forget – even if Libra misses an important deadline or Aries burns dinner three nights out of five. Don’t underestimate how vital this “move on” energy can be for saving a relationship with as many ups and downs as Aries and Libra. Compatibility can be rescued well enough if the will is there.
I must admit I am totally smitten for this guy as he is me. Sure he has a quick temper but I find it's totally harmless and over as quick as it came-if he sees i'm upset or hurt he can't seem to handle it. (as oppossed to Virgo who would stonewall me for days on end and not give a crap)


It's still early days but i'm in love with everything about us and the relationship dynamic so far.
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Posted by IamTheRam
Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
So it's actually something I read and was looking for verification on. My Aries so far is pretty damn considerate i'd say. He does little things for me here and there and pays attention if I mention there is something I need or can't find, next day it'll be on the table waiting for me.


He sometimes forgets that not everyone has energy and restless mind as him though, so I have to remind him I need a breather before we get into action or onto the next thing. He would literally be non stop and think he can drag me along also otherwise. I like to take time to savour and reflect whereas he would just bash right through everything haha! The guy is non stop sometimes!
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Posted by Noni05
lol I was just reading this Aries libra article



http://astrologyclub.org/aries-libra-opposite-signs/



Good news ! Libra and Aries compatibility, whatever its quirks and foibles, will mean a relationship that is always evolving, always moving forwards and never caught up in the past. Neither sign holds grudges and each will be quick to forgive and forget – even if Libra misses an important deadline or Aries burns dinner three nights out of five. Don’t underestimate how vital this “move on” energy can be for saving a relationship with as many ups and downs as Aries and Libra. Compatibility can be rescued well enough if the will is there.
I must admit I am totally smitten for this guy as he is me. Sure he has a quick temper but I find it's totally harmless and over as quick as it came-if he sees i'm upset or hurt he can't seem to handle it. (as oppossed to Virgo who would stonewall me for days on end and not give a crap)


It's still early days but i'm in love with everything about us and the relationship dynamic so far.
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It absolutely will not work if you are sane! Their selfishness for whatever reason is barbaric to a loving Libra. For instance I knew this Aries woman who after she got married in Tennessee, flew to Los Angeles to continue to f*** her boyfriend on the side for eight months because that's what she WANTED to do. She didn't care about her kids she didn't care about her husband or her responsibilities. SELF_ish


I mean these people selfishness is Savage! For a little while things are going to be cool and yes generally speaking Libras are Smitten by Aries; they're easy to talk to they're really good friends they have a soft side when you're hurting but when it comes down to a relationship and understanding what it means to give and to take these people are morons.


Aries men can be madly in love with you and still keep a dating site profile up and f*** other b****** they are going to screw who they want to screw Libra and there's no understanding manipulation or love that's going to turn that around.


In addition Aries and libras are both masculine signs; libra is a cardinal sign - leader- you are not going to lead the Aries to do s*** and most of them are real stupid and incompetent when it comes to love it's like literally being 50 years old dating an infant.


After you tell them what hurts and they see your tears and they love you and you communicated in 50 different ways they still get up and do what the f*** they want to do cuz they are some of the most selfish ass mother f****** m****** in the zodiac.


So I left my Aries alone and told him to go back with the cancer who was willing to tolerate all of his infidelity, his irresponsibility with money his in consistency and his selfishness and in addition to that they have really bad tempers they go off and they just blow up for no reason so when he proposed to me I told him to go kiss my ass.


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Posted by IamTheRam
Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
So it's actually something I read and was looking for verification on. My Aries so far is pretty damn considerate i'd say. He does little things for me here and there and pays attention if I mention there is something I need or can't find, next day it'll be on the table waiting for me.


He sometimes forgets that not everyone has energy and restless mind as him though, so I have to remind him I need a breather before we get into action or onto the next thing. He would literally be non stop and think he can drag me along also otherwise. I like to take time to savour and reflect whereas he would just bash right through everything haha! The guy is non stop sometimes!
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Enjoy it while it lasts- the natural state for Aries and Libra is opposition. Opposition is the natural flow of things for the Libra and Aries relationship so lust makes the powerful Universal force of keeping us opposed helpful. But Libra all the understanding compassion rationalization intellectual analysis ain't gonna do shit in the final analysis you'll see but until then enjoy it while it lasts because it will be brief.

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Posted by IamTheRam
Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
So it's actually something I read and was looking for verification on. My Aries so far is pretty damn considerate i'd say. He does little things for me here and there and pays attention if I mention there is something I need or can't find, next day it'll be on the table waiting for me.


He sometimes forgets that not everyone has energy and restless mind as him though, so I have to remind him I need a breather before we get into action or onto the next thing. He would literally be non stop and think he can drag me along also otherwise. I like to take time to savour and reflect whereas he would just bash right through everything haha! The guy is non stop sometimes!


Enjoy it while it lasts- the natural state for Aries and Libra is opposition. Opposition is the natural flow of things for the Libra and Aries relationship so lust makes the powerful Universal force of keeping us opposed helpful. But Libra all the understanding compassion rationalization intellectual analysis ain't gonna do shit in the final analysis you'll see but until then enjoy it while it lasts because it will be brief.

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So you are saying upbringing/morals etc is not a factor whatsoever in a male/female who chooses to cheat and that he WILL cheat on me? Seems a little know it all...are you still hurting?
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
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Posted by IamTheRam
Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
So it's actually something I read and was looking for verification on. My Aries so far is pretty damn considerate i'd say. He does little things for me here and there and pays attention if I mention there is something I need or can't find, next day it'll be on the table waiting for me.


He sometimes forgets that not everyone has energy and restless mind as him though, so I have to remind him I need a breather before we get into action or onto the next thing. He would literally be non stop and think he can drag me along also otherwise. I like to take time to savour and reflect whereas he would just bash right through everything haha! The guy is non stop sometimes!


Enjoy it while it lasts- the natural state for Aries and Libra is opposition. Opposition is the natural flow of things for the Libra and Aries relationship so lust makes the powerful Universal force of keeping us opposed helpful. But Libra all the understanding compassion rationalization intellectual analysis ain't gonna do shit in the final analysis you'll see but until then enjoy it while it lasts because it will be brief.

So you are saying upbringing/morals etc is not a factor whatsoever in a male/female who chooses to cheat and that he WILL cheat on me? Seems a little know it all...are you still hurting?
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You will see.... I guarantee it, you will see. All of your excellent Libra theories observations arguments will mean nothing in the end.... Libra and Aries are opposed in the astrology Zodiac wheel and no I don't think that home training is going to change planetary positions.


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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by IamTheRam
Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
So it's actually something I read and was looking for verification on. My Aries so far is pretty damn considerate i'd say. He does little things for me here and there and pays attention if I mention there is something I need or can't find, next day it'll be on the table waiting for me.


He sometimes forgets that not everyone has energy and restless mind as him though, so I have to remind him I need a breather before we get into action or onto the next thing. He would literally be non stop and think he can drag me along also otherwise. I like to take time to savour and reflect whereas he would just bash right through everything haha! The guy is non stop sometimes!


Enjoy it while it lasts- the natural state for Aries and Libra is opposition. Opposition is the natural flow of things for the Libra and Aries relationship so lust makes the powerful Universal force of keeping us opposed helpful. But Libra all the understanding compassion rationalization intellectual analysis ain't gonna do shit in the final analysis you'll see but until then enjoy it while it lasts because it will be brief.

So you are saying upbringing/morals etc is not a factor whatsoever in a male/female who chooses to cheat and that he WILL cheat on me? Seems a little know it all...are you still hurting?
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And PS no I'm not hurting at all in fact I'm quite in love these days but you will be hurting dealing with an Aries for any more than a romp in the hay.


And despite the greatest efforts on both parties behalf and my personal experience as a psychic reader both parties eventually naturally fall back into the position that the stars have aligned - opposition.


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100% fact a Libra changes an Aries on this. Yes of course the Aries is selfish by Libra standards, but it’s not like he thinks it’s fair, it’s just a bit automatic, he doesn’t know what he’s doing exactly. Aries want to be better, he sees something he wants to be, he will adapt, the Libra shows him the way. The Libra stands by his side, and he will appreciate it, he will do the same in return, he will love the Libra for this. It’s not because the Aries wants to be selfish, it’s because he doesn’t want to let his guard down, for the right women he will, for a Libra he will. He searches for the ultimate love, the connection with his soulmate, once he sees how he can be a team with a Libra, he will want to be a team.
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100% fact a Libra changes an Aries on this. Yes of course the Aries is selfish by Libra standards, but it’s not like he thinks it’s fair, it’s just a bit automatic, he doesn’t know what he’s doing exactly. Aries want to be better, he sees something he wants to be, he will adapt, the Libra shows him the way. The Libra stands by his side, and he will appreciate it, he will do the same in return, he will love the Libra for this. It’s not because the Aries wants to be selfish, it’s because he doesn’t want to let his guard down, for the right women he will, for a Libra he will. He searches for the ultimate love, the connection with his soulmate, once he sees how he can be a team with a Libra, he will want to be a team.
This.


I dunno about the Libra part, as i have no experience with it.


As for the Aries...spot on.

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Posted by IamTheRam
Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
So it's actually something I read and was looking for verification on. My Aries so far is pretty damn considerate i'd say. He does little things for me here and there and pays attention if I mention there is something I need or can't find, next day it'll be on the table waiting for me.


He sometimes forgets that not everyone has energy and restless mind as him though, so I have to remind him I need a breather before we get into action or onto the next thing. He would literally be non stop and think he can drag me along also otherwise. I like to take time to savour and reflect whereas he would just bash right through everything haha! The guy is non stop sometimes!


Enjoy it while it lasts- the natural state for Aries and Libra is opposition. Opposition is the natural flow of things for the Libra and Aries relationship so lust makes the powerful Universal force of keeping us opposed helpful. But Libra all the understanding compassion rationalization intellectual analysis ain't gonna do shit in the final analysis you'll see but until then enjoy it while it lasts because it will be brief.

This is why you keep person relationship/ life details separate from dxp
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It appears people have been posting threads about their person relationship/life details for about 11 years now on Dxpnet


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100% fact a Libra changes an Aries on this. Yes of course the Aries is selfish by Libra standards, but it’s not like he thinks it’s fair, it’s just a bit automatic, he doesn’t know what he’s doing exactly. Aries want to be better, he sees something he wants to be, he will adapt, the Libra shows him the way. The Libra stands by his side, and he will appreciate it, he will do the same in return, he will love the Libra for this. It’s not because the Aries wants to be selfish, it’s because he doesn’t want to let his guard down, for the right women he will, for a Libra he will. He searches for the ultimate love, the connection with his soulmate, once he sees how he can be a team with a Libra, he will want to be a team.
This might work better for Aries female/Libra male...I dunno, just basing it off my parents' relationship, still married after 42 years.
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by IamTheRam
Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
So it's actually something I read and was looking for verification on. My Aries so far is pretty damn considerate i'd say. He does little things for me here and there and pays attention if I mention there is something I need or can't find, next day it'll be on the table waiting for me.


He sometimes forgets that not everyone has energy and restless mind as him though, so I have to remind him I need a breather before we get into action or onto the next thing. He would literally be non stop and think he can drag me along also otherwise. I like to take time to savour and reflect whereas he would just bash right through everything haha! The guy is non stop sometimes!


Enjoy it while it lasts- the natural state for Aries and Libra is opposition. Opposition is the natural flow of things for the Libra and Aries relationship so lust makes the powerful Universal force of keeping us opposed helpful. But Libra all the understanding compassion rationalization intellectual analysis ain't gonna do shit in the final analysis you'll see but until then enjoy it while it lasts because it will be brief.

This is why you keep person relationship/ life details separate from dxp
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Lol I ain't worried. She has her own opinion/motives smile
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Posted by AriesJo
100% fact a Libra changes an Aries on this. Yes of course the Aries is selfish by Libra standards, but it’s not like he thinks it’s fair, it’s just a bit automatic, he doesn’t know what he’s doing exactly. Aries want to be better, he sees something he wants to be, he will adapt, the Libra shows him the way. The Libra stands by his side, and he will appreciate it, he will do the same in return, he will love the Libra for this. It’s not because the Aries wants to be selfish, it’s because he doesn’t want to let his guard down, for the right women he will, for a Libra he will. He searches for the ultimate love, the connection with his soulmate, once he sees how he can be a team with a Libra, he will want to be a team.
I'd say after 6 months his guard is definately down and will continue with more life experiences together. I held him when he was moved to tears at the death of his dog last week. He is an only child raised by MUCH older wonderful parents, and they called us with the news (we live abroad)


This was the first time I have seen him vulnerable/sad/defeated. I think it was all the more difficult because he was not there.


He is vocal about his gratitude in me supporting him, continously thanks me for what I do for him (even though I think he does way more) vocal about what he wants for us, and he is working his butt off to achieve it but always check in with me because he is scared that I will leave due to the amount of hours he is putting in to achieve this.


I will continue to love and support him for the good man that he is and everything he does for me/us will always be repayed. I will always make it work, as longs as he's trying i'm trying too. And as longs as there is no betrayal.
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Posted by IamTheRam
Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
So it's actually something I read and was looking for verification on. My Aries so far is pretty damn considerate i'd say. He does little things for me here and there and pays attention if I mention there is something I need or can't find, next day it'll be on the table waiting for me.


He sometimes forgets that not everyone has energy and restless mind as him though, so I have to remind him I need a breather before we get into action or onto the next thing. He would literally be non stop and think he can drag me along also otherwise. I like to take time to savour and reflect whereas he would just bash right through everything haha! The guy is non stop sometimes!


Enjoy it while it lasts- the natural state for Aries and Libra is opposition. Opposition is the natural flow of things for the Libra and Aries relationship so lust makes the powerful Universal force of keeping us opposed helpful. But Libra all the understanding compassion rationalization intellectual analysis ain't gonna do shit in the final analysis you'll see but until then enjoy it while it lasts because it will be brief.

So you are saying upbringing/morals etc is not a factor whatsoever in a male/female who chooses to cheat and that he WILL cheat on me? Seems a little know it all...are you still hurting?
And PS no I'm not hurting at all in fact I'm quite in love these days but you will be hurting dealing with an Aries for any more than a romp in the hay.


And despite the greatest efforts on both parties behalf and my personal experience as a psychic reader both parties eventually naturally fall back into the position that the stars have aligned - opposition.


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Well I guess we can both be relieved that what we have is alot more than a romp in the hay then! smile We are both very happy, he regularly checks in on this fact. He supports me, is kind to me, avoids bad situations that could cause us headache, has been raised by wonderful parents, is a hard worker-I couldn't ask for much more. But thank you for your predictions Meg-I shall file them away for now.
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Posted by IamTheRam
Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
I disagree. I hide who i am to protect the ones i love. the real me comes out and they get overwhelmed and cant handle it. plus when i do something i have others in mind when i do it. they just dont see that way because are not looking from my point of veiw. its not ego or selfishness, it abou tknowing ones true self. why you think people get mad when we point out their true selves.Laughing they really hate that most of the time. they only love it when they are ready to look at themselves. we know where to look for the true self in a person, why we forgive easiers to i think. i know where my family and friends are coming from even if i disagree with it. that is not selfess or ego.
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
...when their actual soul purpose is to develop an ego.


How true?
I don't think Aries is Selfish. Aries is very selfless. My mom is Aries.
Aries women are a lot nicer and less selfish than aries men. Plus it's different with kids. They are not selfish when it comes to their children. Aries men usually put themselves first unless they really really like you. Then they can treat you like a princess. Winking



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i have an aries guy friend, i have seen him do nice things for others in games. and its real funny to list to him when he does. when players thank him he does the 'yea yea sure lets go. move it' cracks me up.

he so very helpful to others in a grumpy way. lol then i laugh at him and then he laughs
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Posted by IamTheRam
Aries needs ego, Aries needs to be selfish...and he\she needs it in order to hide...who they really are.


Nothing more, nothing less.
I disagree. I hide who i am to protect the ones i love. the real me comes out and they get overwhelmed and cant handle it. plus when i do something i have others in mind when i do it. they just dont see that way because are not looking from my point of veiw. its not ego or selfishness, it abou tknowing ones true self. why you think people get mad when we point out their true selves.Laughing they really hate that most of the time. they only love it when they are ready to look at themselves. we know where to look for the true self in a person, why we forgive easiers to i think. i know where my family and friends are coming from even if i disagree with it. that is not selfess or ego.
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I didn't say that we were...what i tried to say is that...we need to pass that image to others in order to hides ourselfs hehe


Why wold we hide something..if we didn't had it, right ? Winking


Most of the other signs (if we are talking about astrology) or people, do the oposite...they usualy try to hide their *dark* side (hence why they don't like it when we call them out hehe)...well...us Aires tend to do the other way arround :p why ?


Well its like you said...we can clearly see others for who they really are...right of the bat...this allow us to see the other person *dark* side...to read them while they think that we are just that.


It's easier to bring someones *darker* side if you are..well...*dark*...lool Winking


As for me..mehh..i don't care when people tell me my *flaws*...i will most likely be the one that tells them straight away and boost them up when they say it ! "Yes, yes ! " eheh xD


But my other side...ohhh...no fucking way...that is reserved only for those that i care (and even so....humm...lool) xD


I don't like to feel *vunerable*...that's really it.


After all..and if you read the topic's title...why wold an Aries be upset with that?...well..because those they Care..maybe can't see him for who they really are...and that's..well..that really is one of the worst things you can do to an Aries ^^


As for the *good* actions...i totally get it...i do it..and alot..but..lool...i do it in a way that they can't see it ? (lool)..i might even say "oh..i just did that because you were boring me with your troubles" (lool)..but then again i am an Aries M...Women are more sweet by nature.


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i have to say lol 'sweet nature' got to see me on my dark days. hehehe. i so agree. I hate feeling vunerable too. your right big time about the ' can't see an aries for who they really are' that is soo the worst and something i have been dealing with for years with family and friends. Sad that good action thing i have done that, even let others take the credit, unless it was something really cool. then i am like 'look what i did' because i wowed myself that i did it. lol

so i take back my 'i disagree' for now. lol
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i have to say lol 'sweet nature' got to see me on my dark days. hehehe. i so agree. I hate feeling vunerable too. your right big time about the ' can't see an aries for who they really are' that is soo the worst and something i have been dealing with for years with family and friends. Sad that good action thing i have done that, even let others take the credit, unless it was something really cool. then i am like 'look what i did' because i wowed myself that i did it. lol

so i take back my 'i disagree' for now. lol
Indeed...family and freinds are really the worst situation....thing is...well..lool it's also my fault because i end up behaving the way i do xD


I do the good thing...and then i say..."now..can you pleaseeeee leave me alone ?" ahah xD


But it's way way way better now...they are starting to see me for who i really am...and realising...that this is really who i am Winking (well...it's not like i didn't told them that all the time...lool)


As for the credit things..totally...even at work..i just tell them..."just put your name on it and send it..."


But....but...if it's something that they can't pull off ?...ohh....i will *get up* and rub that all over their face ahah xD


*Yea....Bask in All of my Greatness*


Their Faces ?


*Priceless* xD


Yea...i guess that we Aries are not that easy to deal with tbh eheheLaughing
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
...when their actual soul purpose is to develop an ego.


How true?
I don't think Aries is Selfish. Aries is very selfless. My mom is Aries.
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This is the same problem we have with other signs too. Not one word describes everything. In Linda Goodman's book it is mentioned that Aries is very allergic of their family. They will always choose family if they have to choose between somebody and their family. They offer the biggest support to their family. Despite all the talk of freedom loving. My father is supportive/caring, freedom-loving and big ego all at the same time.
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i have to say lol 'sweet nature' got to see me on my dark days. hehehe. i so agree. I hate feeling vunerable too. your right big time about the ' can't see an aries for who they really are' that is soo the worst and something i have been dealing with for years with family and friends. Sad that good action thing i have done that, even let others take the credit, unless it was something really cool. then i am like 'look what i did' because i wowed myself that i did it. lol

so i take back my 'i disagree' for now. lol
Indeed...family and freinds are really the worst situation....thing is...well..lool it's also my fault because i end up behaving the way i do xD


I do the good thing...and then i say..."now..can you pleaseeeee leave me alone ?" ahah xD


But it's way way way better now...they are starting to see me for who i really am...and realising...that this is really who i am Winking (well...it's not like i didn't told them that all the time...lool)


As for the credit things..totally...even at work..i just tell them..."just put your name on it and send it..."


But....but...if it's something that they can't pull off ?...ohh....i will *get up* and rub that all over their face ahah xD


*Yea....Bask in All of my Greatness*


Their Faces ?


*Priceless* xD


Yea...i guess that we Aries are not that easy to deal with tbh eheheLaughing
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Laughingthe telling them cracks me up. I dont know how many times i have told them what i want or how i feel about something or just how i am. i mean, how clear and plain can i say it all?! lol My mother would tell me ' no thats not what you want?' then why are you asking me what i want? lol I am an open book, what do they not understand. Sad lol
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i have to say lol 'sweet nature' got to see me on my dark days. hehehe. i so agree. I hate feeling vunerable too. your right big time about the ' can't see an aries for who they really are' that is soo the worst and something i have been dealing with for years with family and friends. Sad that good action thing i have done that, even let others take the credit, unless it was something really cool. then i am like 'look what i did' because i wowed myself that i did it. lol

so i take back my 'i disagree' for now. lol
Just curious, do you have any 11th house placements?
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I don't think Aries is more or less selfish than any other sign. I think the terms by which Aries 'is,' and these terms change on behalf of every sign, makes their selfishness/selflessness inherently unique. I've met many selfish Libras, but their selfishness is different. Libras desire is to be a part of the people, to flourish in their human relationships. This is where they become selfish. They want to be the scales of fairness, but unfortunately they just don't know what each person truly needs. When they try to sympathize with people they don't understand, they come off as extremely fake. When they try to guide loved ones - even with good intentions - they often do no help, because of their unwillingness to look deeper than face value. So why do they do it? Because its what fulfills them. I think that doing what hurts others to fulfill yourself could easily be seen as selfishness, even when its not.


I do not think Aries is inherently selfish, but I do think that Aries is inherently self-centered and with good reason - we are on a journey to find who we are. Yes, this can be inclined to selfishness in a selfish person's heart, but Aries' basic primal nature is to simply learn about oneself and make sure the gears keep functioning so he can move along. It is of utmost importance for the growth of the Aries person to -keep moving-, and this mean self-servicing, because no one else can fulfill this role for the Aries without slowing him down.


I think the best thing an Aries can do is to develop a strong set of moral principles to abide by from the onset and follow unconsciously, because an Aries that stops - even to consider others - is an Aries that falls apart. For Aries, any consideration of others and any type of selflessness will need to be automatic; a love that continues and flows outward. The good Aries acts and the fruit of his actions will be what he has to offer to the world. He ought to be a fountain that generates profit for all in his life, leaving a trail of goodness behind him as he continues on. If Aries motto is, "I am," this ought to indicate how the Aries must always be in the moment. If Aries is the sign of action, then it cannot stop or it will fail to fulfill its purpose. This is what Aries does better than any other sign - action.


The beautiful thing about a good natured Aries is that, while focused entirely on achieving treasure and reward, he leaves it all behind for someone else to enjoy so that he can find more. That's why you don't want a sitting Aries - he will sit on treasure and keep it to himself, and there's a possibility that the treasure he could have found won't be found by anyone else.


Trailblazers. We make paths for you to follow. We might not be there when you want us, but at least we left paths in the wilderness for your good and the good of others.


My view is that any person that things that any sign is inherently selfish is just plain wrong and misinterpreting the nature of that sign. We all have roles to play.
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My Aries ex used to get pissed off because I said he was selfish


Do you know what his answer was?


"I'm not selfish, I'm self involved"


Smh


Edit to add: I always wondered what the difference was?
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Posted by Ram416
Posted by WitchmitchAries
i have to say lol 'sweet nature' got to see me on my dark days. hehehe. i so agree. I hate feeling vunerable too. your right big time about the ' can't see an aries for who they really are' that is soo the worst and something i have been dealing with for years with family and friends. Sad that good action thing i have done that, even let others take the credit, unless it was something really cool. then i am like 'look what i did' because i wowed myself that i did it. lol

so i take back my 'i disagree' for now. lol
Just curious, do you have any 11th house placements?
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i dont know how to read my chart, so many lines. what would i look for?
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I don't think Aries is more or less selfish than any other sign. I think the terms by which Aries 'is,' and these terms change on behalf of every sign, makes their selfishness/selflessness inherently unique. I've met many selfish Libras, but their selfishness is different. Libras desire is to be a part of the people, to flourish in their human relationships. This is where they become selfish. They want to be the scales of fairness, but unfortunately they just don't know what each person truly needs. When they try to sympathize with people they don't understand, they come off as extremely fake. When they try to guide loved ones - even with good intentions - they often do no help, because of their unwillingness to look deeper than face value. So why do they do it? Because its what fulfills them. I think that doing what hurts others to fulfill yourself could easily be seen as selfishness, even when its not.


I do not think Aries is inherently selfish, but I do think that Aries is inherently self-centered and with good reason - we are on a journey to find who we are. Yes, this can be inclined to selfishness in a selfish person's heart, but Aries' basic primal nature is to simply learn about oneself and make sure the gears keep functioning so he can move along. It is of utmost importance for the growth of the Aries person to -keep moving-, and this mean self-servicing, because no one else can fulfill this role for the Aries without slowing him down.


I think the best thing an Aries can do is to develop a strong set of moral principles to abide by from the onset and follow unconsciously, because an Aries that stops - even to consider others - is an Aries that falls apart. For Aries, any consideration of others and any type of selflessness will need to be automatic; a love that continues and flows outward. The good Aries acts and the fruit of his actions will be what he has to offer to the world. He ought to be a fountain that generates profit for all in his life, leaving a trail of goodness behind him as he continues on. If Aries motto is, "I am," this ought to indicate how the Aries must always be in the moment. If Aries is the sign of action, then it cannot stop or it will fail to fulfill its purpose. This is what Aries does better than any other sign - action.


The beautiful thing about a good natured Aries is that, while focused entirely on achieving treasure and reward, he leaves it all behind for someone else to enjoy so that he can find more. That's why you don't want a sitting Aries - he will sit on treasure and keep it to himself, and there's a possibility that the treasure he could have found won't be found by anyone else.


Trailblazers. We make paths for you to follow. We might not be there when you want us, but at least we left paths in the wilderness for your good and the good of others.


My view is that any person that things that any sign is inherently selfish is just plain wrong and misinterpreting the nature of that sign. We all have roles to play.
I love it. and it hit a nerver in me too. great job
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Posted by Ram416
Posted by WitchmitchAries
i have to say lol 'sweet nature' got to see me on my dark days. hehehe. i so agree. I hate feeling vunerable too. your right big time about the ' can't see an aries for who they really are' that is soo the worst and something i have been dealing with for years with family and friends. Sad that good action thing i have done that, even let others take the credit, unless it was something really cool. then i am like 'look what i did' because i wowed myself that i did it. lol

so i take back my 'i disagree' for now. lol
Just curious, do you have any 11th house placements?
i dont know how to read my chart, so many lines. what would i look for?
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I did post my chart on the discord thingy i invite you to. lol so did Zags.
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Posted by WitchmitchAries
Posted by Ram416
Posted by WitchmitchAries
i have to say lol 'sweet nature' got to see me on my dark days. hehehe. i so agree. I hate feeling vunerable too. your right big time about the ' can't see an aries for who they really are' that is soo the worst and something i have been dealing with for years with family and friends. Sad that good action thing i have done that, even let others take the credit, unless it was something really cool. then i am like 'look what i did' because i wowed myself that i did it. lol

so i take back my 'i disagree' for now. lol
Just curious, do you have any 11th house placements?
i dont know how to read my chart, so many lines. what would i look for?
I did post my chart on the discord thingy i invite you to. lol so did Zags.
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LMAO! Smart way of getting me to join Discord.


I SEE YOU, SCORPIO MOON.


LMAO


Note : I'm still recovering from no sleep Saturday/Sunday, to finish my project work for submission. Give me some time and you'll see my sorry arse in Discord soon.
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lol this thread was nothing but a sneaky way for the OP to gush about her new relationship again.


Again, do not understand her obsession of validating this thing on the internet. Insecure air signs ftw.
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Posted by dopeicide
Posted by 2Moon
Google images: aries woman celebrities


What's wrong with Aries women face?

Its like they have been punched in the face.

Something is super weird
Woah, chill dude.


You're like the opposite, male version of rockyroad.
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Careful there honey, you'll make him shit himself.



...and who the fuck are you?
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Posted by mission
I don't think Aries is more or less selfish than any other sign. I think the terms by which Aries 'is,' and these terms change on behalf of every sign, makes their selfishness/selflessness inherently unique. I've met many selfish Libras, but their selfishness is different. Libras desire is to be a part of the people, to flourish in their human relationships. This is where they become selfish. They want to be the scales of fairness, but unfortunately they just don't know what each person truly needs. When they try to sympathize with people they don't understand, they come off as extremely fake. When they try to guide loved ones - even with good intentions - they often do no help, because of their unwillingness to look deeper than face value. So why do they do it? Because its what fulfills them. I think that doing what hurts others to fulfill yourself could easily be seen as selfishness, even when its not.


I do not think Aries is inherently selfish, but I do think that Aries is inherently self-centered and with good reason - we are on a journey to find who we are. Yes, this can be inclined to selfishness in a selfish person's heart, but Aries' basic primal nature is to simply learn about oneself and make sure the gears keep functioning so he can move along. It is of utmost importance for the growth of the Aries person to -keep moving-, and this mean self-servicing, because no one else can fulfill this role for the Aries without slowing him down.


I think the best thing an Aries can do is to develop a strong set of moral principles to abide by from the onset and follow unconsciously, because an Aries that stops - even to consider others - is an Aries that falls apart. For Aries, any consideration of others and any type of selflessness will need to be automatic; a love that continues and flows outward. The good Aries acts and the fruit of his actions will be what he has to offer to the world. He ought to be a fountain that generates profit for all in his life, leaving a trail of goodness behind him as he continues on. If Aries motto is, "I am," this ought to indicate how the Aries must always be in the moment. If Aries is the sign of action, then it cannot stop or it will fail to fulfill its purpose. This is what Aries does better than any other sign - action.


The beautiful thing about a good natured Aries is that, while focused entirely on achieving treasure and reward, he leaves it all behind for someone else to enjoy so that he can find more. That's why you don't want a sitting Aries - he will sit on treasure and keep it to himself, and there's a possibility that the treasure he could have found won't be found by anyone else.


Trailblazers. We make paths for you to follow. We might not be there when you want us, but at least we left paths in the wilderness for your good and the good of others.


My view is that any person that things that any sign is inherently selfish is just plain wrong and misinterpreting the nature of that sign. We all have roles to play.
I love it. and it hit a nerver in me too. great job
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Thanks Witchmitch. This has been on the back of my mind since I saw this post a few days ago. Was thinking too much about it to not post.

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Posted by Ram416
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Posted by Ram416
Posted by WitchmitchAries
i have to say lol 'sweet nature' got to see me on my dark days. hehehe. i so agree. I hate feeling vunerable too. your right big time about the ' can't see an aries for who they really are' that is soo the worst and something i have been dealing with for years with family and friends. Sad that good action thing i have done that, even let others take the credit, unless it was something really cool. then i am like 'look what i did' because i wowed myself that i did it. lol

so i take back my 'i disagree' for now. lol
Just curious, do you have any 11th house placements?
i dont know how to read my chart, so many lines. what would i look for?
I did post my chart on the discord thingy i invite you to. lol so did Zags.
LMAO! Smart way of getting me to join Discord.


I SEE YOU, SCORPIO MOON.


LMAO


Note : I'm still recovering from no sleep Saturday/Sunday, to finish my project work for submission. Give me some time and you'll see my sorry arse in Discord soon.
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what? dont know what your talking about. plus you said you were going to join. lol no rush. really no rush. really. lol i mean it smile
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Posted by WitchmitchAries
Posted by mission
I don't think Aries is more or less selfish than any other sign. I think the terms by which Aries 'is,' and these terms change on behalf of every sign, makes their selfishness/selflessness inherently unique. I've met many selfish Libras, but their selfishness is different. Libras desire is to be a part of the people, to flourish in their human relationships. This is where they become selfish. They want to be the scales of fairness, but unfortunately they just don't know what each person truly needs. When they try to sympathize with people they don't understand, they come off as extremely fake. When they try to guide loved ones - even with good intentions - they often do no help, because of their unwillingness to look deeper than face value. So why do they do it? Because its what fulfills them. I think that doing what hurts others to fulfill yourself could easily be seen as selfishness, even when its not.


I do not think Aries is inherently selfish, but I do think that Aries is inherently self-centered and with good reason - we are on a journey to find who we are. Yes, this can be inclined to selfishness in a selfish person's heart, but Aries' basic primal nature is to simply learn about oneself and make sure the gears keep functioning so he can move along. It is of utmost importance for the growth of the Aries person to -keep moving-, and this mean self-servicing, because no one else can fulfill this role for the Aries without slowing him down.


I think the best thing an Aries can do is to develop a strong set of moral principles to abide by from the onset and follow unconsciously, because an Aries that stops - even to consider others - is an Aries that falls apart. For Aries, any consideration of others and any type of selflessness will need to be automatic; a love that continues and flows outward. The good Aries acts and the fruit of his actions will be what he has to offer to the world. He ought to be a fountain that generates profit for all in his life, leaving a trail of goodness behind him as he continues on. If Aries motto is, "I am," this ought to indicate how the Aries must always be in the moment. If Aries is the sign of action, then it cannot stop or it will fail to fulfill its purpose. This is what Aries does better than any other sign - action.


The beautiful thing about a good natured Aries is that, while focused entirely on achieving treasure and reward, he leaves it all behind for someone else to enjoy so that he can find more. That's why you don't want a sitting Aries - he will sit on treasure and keep it to himself, and there's a possibility that the treasure he could have found won't be found by anyone else.


Trailblazers. We make paths for you to follow. We might not be there when you want us, but at least we left paths in the wilderness for your good and the good of others.


My view is that any person that things that any sign is inherently selfish is just plain wrong and misinterpreting the nature of that sign. We all have roles to play.
I love it. and it hit a nerver in me too. great job
Thanks Witchmitch. This has been on the back of my mind since I saw this post a few days ago. Was thinking too much about it to not post.

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lol i get that way withsome post too. you really put it all together. hug

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Posted by dopeicide
Posted by 2Moon
Google images: aries woman celebrities


What's wrong with Aries women face?

Its like they have been punched in the face.

Something is super weird
Woah, chill dude.


You're like the opposite, male version of rockyroad.
Careful there honey, you'll make him shit himself.



...and who the fuck are you?
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i think an aries woman broke his heart or aries guys stole his girl. or his girl was an aries woman who an aries guys stole her way from him. those bitter hearts. so sad.
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Posted by WitchmitchAries
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by dopeicide
Posted by 2Moon
Google images: aries woman celebrities


What's wrong with Aries women face?

Its like they have been punched in the face.

Something is super weird
Woah, chill dude.


You're like the opposite, male version of rockyroad.
Careful there honey, you'll make him shit himself.



...and who the fuck are you?
i think an aries woman broke his heart or aries guys stole his girl. or his girl was an aries woman who an aries guys stole her way from him. those bitter hearts. so sad.
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just saying
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Posted by WitchmitchAries
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by dopeicide
Posted by 2Moon
Google images: aries woman celebrities


What's wrong with Aries women face?

Its like they have been punched in the face.

Something is super weird
Woah, chill dude.


You're like the opposite, male version of rockyroad.
Careful there honey, you'll make him shit himself.



...and who the fuck are you?
i think an aries woman broke his heart or aries guys stole his girl. or his girl was an aries woman who an aries guys stole her way from him. those bitter hearts. so sad.
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HeheLaughing

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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by Noni05
lol I was just reading this Aries libra article



http://astrologyclub.org/aries-libra-opposite-signs/



Good news ! Libra and Aries compatibility, whatever its quirks and foibles, will mean a relationship that is always evolving, always moving forwards and never caught up in the past. Neither sign holds grudges and each will be quick to forgive and forget – even if Libra misses an important deadline or Aries burns dinner three nights out of five. Don’t underestimate how vital this “move on” energy can be for saving a relationship with as many ups and downs as Aries and Libra. Compatibility can be rescued well enough if the will is there.
I must admit I am totally smitten for this guy as he is me. Sure he has a quick temper but I find it's totally harmless and over as quick as it came-if he sees i'm upset or hurt he can't seem to handle it. (as oppossed to Virgo who would stonewall me for days on end and not give a crap)


It's still early days but i'm in love with everything about us and the relationship dynamic so far.

It absolutely will not work if you are sane! Their selfishness for whatever reason is barbaric to a loving Libra. For instance I knew this Aries woman who after she got married in Tennessee, flew to Los Angeles to continue to f*** her boyfriend on the side for eight months because that's what she WANTED to do. She didn't care about her kids she didn't care about her husband or her responsibilities. SELF_ish


I mean these people selfishness is Savage! For a little while things are going to be cool and yes generally speaking Libras are Smitten by Aries; they're easy to talk to they're really good friends they have a soft side when you're hurting but when it comes down to a relationship and understanding what it means to give and to take these people are morons.


Aries men can be madly in love with you and still keep a dating site profile up and f*** other b****** they are going to screw who they want to screw Libra and there's no understanding manipulation or love that's going to turn that around.


In addition Aries and libras are both masculine signs; libra is a cardinal sign - leader- you are not going to lead the Aries to do s*** and most of them are real stupid and incompetent when it comes to love it's like literally being 50 years old dating an infant.


After you tell them what hurts and they see your tears and they love you and you communicated in 50 different ways they still get up and do what the f*** they want to do cuz they are some of the most selfish ass mother f****** m****** in the zodiac.


So I left my Aries alone and told him to go back with the cancer who was willing to tolerate all of his infidelity, his irresponsibility with money his in consistency and his selfishness and in addition to that they have really bad tempers they go off and they just blow up for no reason so when he proposed to me I told him to go kiss my ass.


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Hi..I love what you wrote here. Sounds like my Aries husband! I know you're talking about Libra/Aries and I am Capricorn but just wanted to add as I feel the same.


Especially .


'when it comes down to a relationship and understanding what it means to give and to take these people are morons.'


I have spent years wasting my breath trying to teach him this just for him to carry on being so deeply badly selfish and not give a shit about what I want, even though I have given a Massive shit (not literally lol!), how he feels/wants/needs etc/. So when I then explain there are other people besides him (ie ME), he then justfies his behaviour making himself even more selfish! And Yes! Its possible. There is no end to his selfishness!



' real stupid and incompetent when it comes to love it's like literally being 50 years old dating an infant.'


This says it all. Childish, Immature, Spoilt, wants it all his way! Irresponsible too!


And THIS...


'After you tell them what hurts and they see your tears and they love you and you communicated in 50 different ways they still get up and do what the f*** they want'


OMG have you met my husband? Winking


To any Aries here, I am Not judging you though. I am JUST judging my husband and his behaviour.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
My Aries ex used to get pissed off because I said he was selfish


Do you know what his answer was?


"I'm not selfish, I'm self involved"


Smh


Edit to add: I always wondered what the difference was?
Self involved Lol. Typical aries reply.Laughing

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Haha, if you want self involved, watch Aries Elton John in Tantrums and Tiaras.....hilarious! Big Grin

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by dopeicide
Posted by 2Moon
Google images: aries woman celebrities


What's wrong with Aries women face?

Its like they have been punched in the face.

Something is super weird
Woah, chill dude.


You're like the opposite, male version of rockyroad.
Careful there honey, you'll make him shit himself.



...and who the fuck are you?
i think an aries woman broke his heart or aries guys stole his girl. or his girl was an aries woman who an aries guys stole her way from him. those bitter hearts. so sad.
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He's just your usual fuckboy white knighting whiner that you see anymore. One perceived slight and they go postal.
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If some want to be astrologically accurate, please research the characteristics associated with the ruling planets. So far, most of what I've read here is conjecture and projection. For example, Mars = Aries, Venus = Libra. Mars is selfish? Not Venus the planet of pleasure, vanity? Really?

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Posted by bmoon8
Posted by 2Moon
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by dopeicide
Posted by 2Moon
Google images: aries woman celebrities


What's wrong with Aries women face?

Its like they have been punched in the face.

Something is super weird
Woah, chill dude.


You're like the opposite, male version of rockyroad.
Careful there honey, you'll make him shit himself.



...and who the fuck are you?
i think an aries woman broke his heart or aries guys stole his girl. or his girl was an aries woman who an aries guys stole her way from him. those bitter hearts. so sad.
Crazy Aries, always ugly


It's official. He loves Aries. Hate walks a thin line with love.

You wish...

i have forgot about this sign to be honest.

Didn't know Aries was a thing... Lmao.

Almost forgot! Lol


and I'm not hating right now, just saying the truth.

Google it, Aries have weird faces

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Riiiiiight...

I remember your other posts and/or threads.


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...when their actual soul purpose is to develop an ego.


How true?
Doesn't make sense. So, Cancer's soul purpose is develop feelings, an id? Libra's is to develop what now?

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Posted by VenusAquarius
If some want to be astrologically accurate. Please research the characteristics associated with the ruling planets. So far, most of what I've read here is conjecture and projection. For example, Mars = Aries, Venus = Libra. Mars is selfish? Not Venus the planet of pleasure, vanity? Really?


haha I have not seen once on dxpnet that Libras say something about the astro suggestion that Libra Sun up to 20° is narcissist. They simply overlook that and keep updating their peofile photos.
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Thanks. I'm so sick of it. I was trying to be nice and not put them out there.

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Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by VenusAquarius
If some want to be astrologically accurate. Please research the characteristics associated with the ruling planets. So far, most of what I've read here is conjecture and projection. For example, Mars = Aries, Venus = Libra. Mars is selfish? Not Venus the planet of pleasure, vanity? Really?


haha I have not seen once on dxpnet that Libras say something about the astro suggestion that Libra Sun up to 20° is narcissist. They simply overlook that and keep updating their profile photos.
Actually I just did a few minutes earlier. Tongue


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funny coincident. well done, girl.

edit: but is your sign at least under 20? not that your sacrifice isn't necessary.
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Libracookie , Sun goes through the sign of Libra from the Sep23 to Oct22. Begins with 0, each day one degree, until it gets to 30. then it is at 0 of Scorp. I wrote it so you can tell about the degree.


but I've seen this formula can give an error up to two degree. Taurus Sun is for example at 4 degree on the 24th and 25th of April this year. amazing.
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
Libracookie , Sun goes through the sign of Libra from the Sep23 to Oct22. Begins with 0, each day one degree, until it gets to 30. then it is at 0 of Scorp.
Ah thanks. Then it does count lol.
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lol. thank you anyway/btw.
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