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Hi,

I found this guy on a dating website. Pls don't judge me - my work is pretty hectic, So I don't get too much time to socialize.

This guy is an Aries and I am a Scorpio. We both talk well to each other. But I see our likes and interests are totally different.

I don't believe that 2 people have to be totally same, it's too boring. But I am worried with this much difference would we be able to gel well with each other.

Are Aries supposed to gel well with Scorpios specially with the fact that Aries get angry a lot and so do Scorpios.

I had a bf who was an Aries, the time I spent with him was pretty good and we were quite serious about each other, but then I could never take his anger !! It was maddening and just too much for me to handle. I would land up crying more than 50 % of the times and he wouldn't so much care about it. I have grown a lot with time so obviously given the same situation I would deal with things differently. But I see myself a bit conservative here and he is pretty liberal. So would he be a good match ? & how do you deal with the anger of an Aries ??

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You guys shouldn't have a problem communicating.Your mercury,mars,and venus are all compatible.He communicates & loves like a Pisces and you more so Scorpio.His Aries will definitely be a good match,as far as personality goes.I'm a Aries moon and Scorpio brings out my wild side so I love that.I'm dealing with someone who has almost the same chart as you,so from my perceptive if you don't want to make an Aries angry,don't be manipulative or controlling.It's the most annoying thing & drives us away,quickly.He has a Pisces venus,so once you have him I think he will stick around and try to work things thorough.Sometimes I second guess Scorp & Aries relationship because of the control issues with who's the boss.Aries are pretty bossy and I know Scorpio likes to be in control,so it really depends on both people making comprises for there to be harmony.
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Hey,

Thanks for this reading, i however have 3 questions:


1. Anger issues: I had an X who was an aries and I couldnt deal with it, he would really hurt me when he was angry, although he cheated on me, but he would blame me for my x's. Even if stayed quite and went to disucss the issues after he was calm, he would still get angry again, so the only way i could see was to accept all he said else there would be fights. I think in a relationship it should be mutual and not one way. However I saw him doing things for his wife specially the ones he never did for me... when he was angry he would lease his anger on her and then he would feel sorry about it, but i never saw that sorry for me ?? --> is he a simillar kind ? I know I am controlling and like to have things in control but I dont mind someone controlling the situation as long he is reasonable and not too dominating !!. How would his nature be, as of now he is not revealing anything too much about himself. So how is he like ?

2. He is pretty heavy weight and not too worried about it, I am not a health freak but i prefer people staying fit and not obese. Do you think this would create issues.

3. Its quite early now and I am just talking to him, do you think we could meet up and get into a long term relationship or better be friends ? both of us are looking for a serious relationship
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1.He probably had a different connection with his wife,Aries treats people based off of the respect level they have for them.That's the bottom line,you have learn to stand of for yourself,because Aries will feed you BS as long as you put up with it.Let him get way with some things,because he needs his space & freedom.If that is threatend then he feel caged,and he'll be angry sometimes and not even know why.We release anger as a sign of frustration,so when you feel an argument coming on let him say what he needs to say and if doesn't make sense,don't take it heart.lol We are VERY dominating,especially if you allow it I think Scorpio knows when & when not to let us have too much control,so that's shouldn't be an issue.Based off his chart,I would say he pretty sincere.But he might come off as contradictory sometimes,because who he is on the inside might not always match what he does.He's an Aries thou,his personality wont be hiding from you so you'll have him figured on no time.Just watch what you do,because it will always come back with Aries.

2.You won't care eventually,if you like his personality enough.Make fun his weight,but let him know that you still like him for him,if you guys get serious.It will make him WANT to loose weight,trust me.Don't flat out see it as a problem,he already knows.

3.It's hard to say with Aries & Scorp because both have strong personalities & usually aren't willing to change them,so you guys have to like eachother..but you guys have similar style s of love I don't think a friendship would be easy.If you want to keep his interest thou,be laid back & make em chase you.Act like you're not sure about a relationship,it gets us motivated.Just don't act like you don't like us,too & just don't play hard too get.We like games,in love.Love supposed to be fun,before it's serious.
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Posted by Rituv13
I did tell him about my past X aries, do you think it was a wise thing to do ?



Depends on how you said it,Aries treats relationships like a game in the beginning so everything you say is being takin' in under strict observation and processed the way we want to see it so that we come out on top.So he's playing it safe,that's why he's not showing all of his personality.We want to know what's your deal,before we start showing you more of us.You don't have to worry about how his dominating nature is,we will openly do it.
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Thanks that was helpful.

How will it be when we meet and interact in person ?

I don't know too much about horoscopes but our moon signs (from what I know) mine is Libra and his is Taurus, how do they match with each other ?

i am not so sure if they match.. the repercussions are that we are v good when we are far, but the closer we are to each other we tend to fight more and behave like enemies. Do you think that could be a possibility ?



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Thanks that was helpful.

How will it be when we meet and interact in person ?

I don't know too much about horoscopes but our moon signs (from what I know) mine is Libra and his is Taurus, how do they match with each other ?

i am not so sure if they match.. the repercussions are that we are v good when we are far, but the closer we are to each other we tend to fight more and behave like enemies. Do you think that could be a possibility ?





Based off the charts you posted,your moon sign is Scorpio and his moon sign is Gemini.Emotionally,you to will feel differently about things.You two shouldn't have a problem communicating talking about yourselves,to better understand eachother since you both have a watery mercury.So I don't see that getting in the way.When Aries & Scorpio meets it can be quiet,if neither of you takes the lead.He's going to want to get a good feel of you,so he knows what direction to take.If you're shy that's ok,you're like the damsel in distress,so it puts an Aries at ease.Gives him a chance to be creative.🙂
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You IDIOT.I never said I was an Aries!I said Aries moon,you f*&^% $ #*^ cun*.Aries moon is MORE Aries than an Aries sun,dragon breath.Who the f&*% are you to tell me who I am dealing with?Are you in my life?I didn't think so.Mind yours,f*&% ^ face.She gave a crystal clear description of his personality & I have his chart,so I know wtf I am talking about.I'm also a man,you're not.So I know how we work,more than anything.You're just mad,I beat you in here.

Stop being bitter,b* $ #@!

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You IDIOT.I never said I was an Aries!I said Aries moon,you f*&^% $ #*^ cun*.Aries moon is MORE Aries than an Aries sun,dragon breath.Who the f&*% are you to tell me who I am dealing with?Are you in my life?I didn't think so.Mind yours,f*&% ^ face.She gave a crystal clear description of his personality & I have his chart,so I know wtf I am talking about.I'm also a man,you're not.So I know how we work,more than anything.You're just mad,I beat you in here.

Stop being bitter,b* $ #@!



You're very disrespectful and rude. Stfu.
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IDGAF!

I don't like you.So yeah,I will disrespect you.You aint s*&^# to me.🙂
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You IDIOT.I never said I was an Aries!I said Aries moon,you f*&^% $ #*^ cun*.Aries moon is MORE Aries than an Aries sun,dragon breath.Who the f&*% are you to tell me who I am dealing with?Are you in my life?I didn't think so.Mind yours,f*&% ^ face.She gave a crystal clear description of his personality & I have his chart,so I know wtf I am talking about.I'm also a man,you're not.So I know how we work,more than anything.You're just mad,I beat you in here.

Stop being bitter,b* $ #@!



You're very disrespectful and rude. Stfu.



IDGAF!

I don't like you.So yeah,I will disrespect you.You aint s*&^# to me.🙂

The last time I checked, I don't care. Anyone can read articles on Aries and then pretend to know everything about them, and even talk as if they are one. lmfao. You're a joke, if nothing more.

Also, you seem to be just an attention seeker who is a wanna-be Aries.
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What?You are so stupid it isn't even funny.YOUR a f*&^^* c&&^^ a $ $ b&&^% .

Heres the difference:

http://cafeastrology.com/zodiacaries.html<BR>
Aries moon are real thing,Aries sun are trying to be what we already internally are.Of coarse I can speak from that side of me,it's who I AM.Not what I am trying to be,that the difference between the sun and the moon signs.Get your facts straight,first please.🙂
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What?You are so stupid it isn't even funny.YOUR a f*&^^* c&&^^ a $ $ b&&^% .

Heres the difference:

http://cafeastrology.com/zodiacaries.html<BR>
Aries moon are real thing,Aries sun are trying to be what we already internally are.Of coarse I can speak from that side of me,it's who I AM.Not what I am trying to be,that the difference between the sun and the moon signs.Get your facts straight,first please.🙂



Is there something I can help you with?
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Yes,go kill yourself for me please.🙂
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Posted by bluemoon9043834
I am glad I got your true colors to show. Hopefully that Scorpio girl doesn't waste anymore time with you except to make you cry because you deserve it.

Until you can learn to be more respectful and courteous, instead of playing the victim, self-pity, and inferiority complex cards, I'll talk to you then. Until then, this conversation is over.



My true colors?B*^% % you don't know shit about me!lol I can & will disrespect anyone if I feel disrespected.Whether you like or not,I told you this before.I don't have to play victim,self pity,or any of those.I came in here to help HER,not you.Respect that & you want have to worry about being disrespected.POINT BLANK.
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What?You are so stupid it isn't even funny.YOUR a f*&^^* c&&^^ a $ $ b&&^% .

Heres the difference:

http://cafeastrology.com/zodiacaries.html<BR>
Aries moon are real thing,Aries sun are trying to be what we already internally are.Of coarse I can speak from that side of me,it's who I AM.Not what I am trying to be,that the difference between the sun and the moon signs.Get your facts straight,first please.🙂



Is there something I can help you with?



Yes,go kill yourself for me please.🙂



Now, can you tell me why I should do that? I love life entirely too much. 🙂
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You asked how could you help me,that's my answer.🙂
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I am glad I got your true colors to show. Hopefully that Scorpio girl doesn't waste anymore time with you except to make you cry because you deserve it.

Until you can learn to be more respectful and courteous, instead of playing the victim, self-pity, and inferiority complex cards, I'll talk to you then. Until then, this conversation is over.



My true colors?B*^% % you don't know shit about me!lol I can & will disrespect anyone if I feel disrespected.Whether you like or not,I told you this before.I don't have to play victim,self pity,or any of those.I came in here to help HER,not you.Respect that & you want have to worry about being disrespected.POINT BLANK.



lmfao! I do not need to know nothing more about you... you're showing who and what you are about. You do have "prison bait" written on your forehead though.

Now, shoo. This conversation is over.
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That's your problem,you only get to see this side.I like don't you & I don't respect you.So as far as you're concerned,it IS what I am about,when dealing with you.Think what you wont about me,you still don't know me & frankly IDGAF because I don't live for you.So right,this discussion IS over.
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Posted by bluemoon9043834
I can tell you the real skinny.

Moon in Aries: Men with this Moon are conflicted about closeness. Dependency is threatening, so he keeps on the move to avoid sticky involvements. He looks for a take-charge female who won't expect to be babied and who might accidentally nurture him a bit while running the show. Unfortunately, Mom also wore the pants, and he's got a chip on his shoulder toward women because of it. He takes a fighting stance toward any threat to his security.

Action is his remedy for any problem, even those with no immediate solution. Emotions threaten him, too, so look for a good fight if you provoke any. It's not easy to get next to him with the soft, sharing aspects of relating because it's so hard for him to own up to those parts of himself. For him, sex may be a sublimation of the finer facets of intimacy.



She's not an idiot,like yourself.She's know how use Google,if she wanted to find more about Aries moon.Clever of you to go find an article with negative Arian moon traits,go f& $ % # yourself.
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Hey DUNCE & BLUEMOON,

Thank you to both of you for the details.

We need both of you in this place.

--> DUNCE: I don't mean to tell anyone what they need to do, but You need to be respectful. We are mature adults. I am not sure if you believe in KARMA, but whatever you give to the world or any1 comes back to you at some point or the other. I have seen this happen. Its really nice of you help out, but I feel you lose you value when u start cursing (#@#!@#) BLUEMOON: You opinion is also very valuable, I know this since I have read your other posts as well as you have written in some of my other topics that have indeed helped me a lot.

You both know a lot and there are people who do need you 2. So Pls stop fighting and patch up as well as be on this forum.

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Rituv13 I see what you're saying and I agree completely.I don't know about Blue Moon,she seems to have something personal against me.My first impression of her,was not a good one.She judged before she even knew me,so I felt the need to say what I felt.I don't care to argue and ruin other people threads,just sometimes things have to be dealt with.Maybe next time,i'll handle it better.I'm still happy I could help,which was the point.I hope it works out for you.🙂
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"I never once insulted or was disrespectful to you. I simply stated my opinions in a frank and direct manner, in which you personalized them. "

That's a lie,i'll tell you that right now.We have different run-ins but my first notable one with you,was in the thread in which I had a question about Scorpio women.I didn't mind that you came in there to give your input,even thou you are not a Scorpio female.What was annoying and obnoxious was that when I answered your questions,and apparently they weren't satisfactory so you called them "lame" saying you don't take me seriously and even accused me of trying to be manipulative.

Don't disrespect me point blank,you don't know me.You took my honesty and turned it into what you wanted believe.If you think you can get away with doing that to people continuously,you need re-evaluate you're life.

Again,you come in here,starting up again.This isn't about me or you,yet here you are turning it into something else,you're so selfish.

Heres the thread: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/how-to-let-a-scorpio-know-you-re-not-mad-2936148/?p=14<BR>
Take my advice and grow up or learn to take what you dish out.

End of discussion.
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@sexifulscorpio That combination looks GREAT.Aries venus,are a little more carefree in love so he will come off as being insensitive sometimes to your virgo venus when you guys become close if aren't already.He has Pisces sun,so this should balance things out.You both have an airy merc so communication about these things shouldn't be a problem,communication period between you two,should be is great.He also has a Taurus moon,that goes great with a Pisces sun so him controlling g his own emotions shouldn't be an issue.You have a Libra moon,which from what I understand likes to keep the peace & like balance.This seems like it would be a lasting long relationship,besides your venus in virgo & his in Aries everything else just seems to complement eachother.Depending on what type of Scorp you are,I think an Aries venus would add a little excitement in the relationship.Hmmm

Good luck!🙂
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"So this hurt your feelings then?"

I said annoying,learn to read madam.

"Can you explain how this warranted your behavior? Can you clarify why you feel justified on how you acted or behaved? The way you behaved does not match the crime."

In your opinion.

You're an Aries,Aries look at things from their own perceptive rather than the others.I have an Aries moon,so get I that.People are different and feel differently than you do,as I told you before.You can't tell somebody how to react to something,people do what feel.It's natural.

Now please,let's not ruin the thread anymore,just let it be.
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Exactly the concern I have, once Aries get angry, they say it out in an angry way.

I am a bit sensitive and at times find it difficult to let go of things, then years back with my x i used to fight it out,

But I feel now i wouldn't be able to fight it out, but as you say, I would wait for the right time to say out things, which in the end would make me lose my peace of mind.

I wouldnt like to get into an arrangement which makes me lose my peace of mind and keep thinking how to work out things all the time. Its too much of an effort.

Do the star anything along the lines. Morever he is a regular drinker and I do not drink at all, so would it work out, since I cant deal with people going lite and blabbering after they are drunk ?
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"thank you Dunce... you seem to hit it right on.. lol... wow so true... so far it has been the best.. but like you said sometimes i feel like he is insensitive, but ususally always apologizes and trys to understand me... hes a little possissive and jealous.. what part makes him that way.. i thought me being the scorpio woman was supposed to be the jealous and possessive one.. lol..."

No problem,Pisces are very protective of their nature,just as Scorpio's are.If he's being jealous & possessive maybe it's his way of making sure he doesn't get hurt.Just reassure him when he gets like that & that will calm that Pisces storm of paranoia.Hope that helps.😉
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You just don't get it,Aries sun has a LONG way to go.I wont be keeping anything in mind BUT that.🙂



And how far do Aries need to go? I am an Aries sun and I would like to know how far I need to go to get where you??re trying to convey. Shittt where we going to club, movies, china, get our drink on.??_where the fuck we going? I want to come.


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If you didn't understand what I meant when I said that then you just proved my point.Lack of understanding,is Aries weak point.I'm not going to break it down,either you get it or you don't.
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@Impresswho

He lacks any cohesive thought process and shoots from the hip or more from his ass. Notice his lack of thoroughness or diligence to thought? He makes no sense and is just talking from his ass. Go read the thread he wrote in an attempts of a smear campaign in the Miscellaneous forum... it will give you a lot of insight into who he is because he completely self-projected who he was there. Things like.. "speaking out of her ass", etc. It's very comical to say the least. 🙂

Should you prove to be completely "unreasonable" (anyone who disagrees with Aquarius is misguided, in their eyes), Aquarians will campaign against you very democratically. They are essentially political animals.



I understand that you don't understand & that's ok.😉 All your doing really is showing how ignorant you are,of whats really going on.That thread was meant to be comical,only a person with a big ego would make it more than what it was.Links back to what I said in that one thread,we had remember?

If you want to disagree,it's your opinion of coarse.Just don't question what I say anymore,because I give you my own.Me seeing you on here,the pattern is you will disagree,without a valid opinion on why.I think it's best for you not say anything at all with the attitude you have,just to save a pointless argument.We all know your ego is bruised.That's why you ultimately keep coming back to this thread,you're still MAD.Get over it & go heal yourself back up while it's not too late.😉
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It's not,but you mentioned me so I have the right to respond.Take responsibility for what you say about others & maybe you wont be so confused.😉



You give yourself entirely too much credit where it is not due. And you think higher of yourself than you actually merit. Your rising sign must be Leo. Leo risings have a superiority/inferiority complex going on. You're obviously an abuser as well. Looking at your chart, you are very strong in Capricorn and a Saturnian figure, but I'll save the surprises for later.

I get the feeling that you don't have much success for women because you do not know how to talk to one in a respectful or gentleman sort of way, severely lacking etiquette. You also think that posts about "aquarius" are about you and personalize them... because they obviously cut through all your smoke screens. At the slightest bit of rejection, where there may not be, you lash out. This is very unclassy.

Can you please leave me alone? You're a creep.
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There you go again thinking you know me.If you knew anything about Aqua's you would know that we believe all's is EQUAL.Either you don't REALLY know anything about astrology or you're just pulling things out of your you know what.The poster of this thread is a nice classy lady and as you can see,we get along fine.You're not even into men,so I don't think you would understand how female and male relationships really work.It's not your strong point,so don't "feel" to much.I'm an Aqua sun,so of coarse I will run to the defense on behalf of the fact that I can speak about them.You only see smoke screens,becuase your vision is cloudy.You seem to be filled with so much,doubt,that you miss out on what someone is really saying.Try being a little less like that and I promise you will see things in a better light.I don't care what YOU consider class because I have my own brand of integrity that I stand by.

You aren't class,in fact quite the opposite.Just don't mention me & I wont have anything to say to you.POINT BLANK!



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"You give yourself entirely too much credit where it is not due. And you think higher of yourself than you actually merit. Your rising sign must be Leo. Leo risings have a superiority/inferiority complex going on. You're obviously an abuser as well. Looking at your chart, you are very strong in Capricorn and a Saturnian figure, but I'll save the surprises for later."

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I give myself as much credit as I feel!Only a person with low self-esteem would try to tell me to do the opposite.Abuser?You really know my life huh?You are such a joke.

You remind of a clown lol bring on the SURPRISES!

🙂
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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Oh, I'm just myself. And some people just are too insecure, miserable, etc that they cannot tolerate it and decide to take their frustrations? Not sure. Some people are very strange. A total lack of regard of boundaries and respect. Not only is this guy an abuser and got a rapist mentality, but he has no remorse for doing that. Sociopathic behavior.



Who said I was intolerant?I think it's more strange,how you are making up my who I am as we go.You still haven't learned to read,don't talk about respect because you already proved you don't have any.The poster of the thread asked if you would stop & stay on topic,yet you haven't shut up,yet.Rapist mentality?No remorse?Sociopath?

The mirror is looking right back at you.lol 🙂
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