Aries Man & Scorpio Female
Posted by bluemoon9043834
In the mean time, I have much better things and people to invest my energy and time into...
so goodbye.
Ok,well you go do those things.Bye.
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OP,
my apologies. Will no longer hijack your thread. Just had to get that out, lol.
The Crabs and Virgins usually go together like PB&J but iono wassup lately. They're on the rag again!
*Waves to the coolest*
Whaaaddduuuup Hissy! Long time no speak sistuh!
my apologies. Will no longer hijack your thread. Just had to get that out, lol.
The Crabs and Virgins usually go together like PB&J but iono wassup lately. They're on the rag again!
*Waves to the coolest*
Whaaaddduuuup Hissy! Long time no speak sistuh!
Posted by tiki33
+1
Virgovixxen and virgodreamz
One of his friends has told me to quit because he wants to TRY with the other girl. But another one told me to just be patient cuz he really cares for me.
My Virgo has been on a business trip for the past 2 weeks. The last time we saw each other, I took him to a concert that he didn??t like. And he did nothing to pretend otherwise. He was so distant and almost disrespectful. I was not feeling good for personal reasons (including him) and he noticed it but just left me there while I asked if we could go for a drink afterwards cuz I needed to change my mind. He said it wasn??t a good idea cuz now he has a girlfriend ??_ WTF? So it??s been a month since we last talked. I might see him on Thursday cuz I'm going for a drink with one of his bestfriends.
What do you think? Do I stand a chance to win him back? What should I do?
From what I read, he has the typical Virgo reaction : not knowing what he wants and testing people. Is that it?
Part of me feels like I have to go and tell him he hurt me and that he has to make a choice cuz I can??t go on like that. That he has to man up and take responsibilites for his choices and actions. But it might be too radical and ???violent?? for a Virgo.
The other part feels like I should play it smart and stay around and subtly win him back. But how?
Or maybe I should just pretend nothing never happened ? Or ignore him once in a while and then pretend I never ignored him?
Should I be really understanding and just let him know that he hurt me but I forgive him? Or should I be more radical and tell him I really think he lacked respect for me and that he should man up?
Of course I won??t insult him or yell at him. That??s so not me. But I wanna be firm and let him know that I am hurt. I still don??t know if I wanna tell him I want him out of my life for now. Or don??t tell him but stay away from him for awhile?
Please. Help me.
This whole story is keeping me up at night especially since I might see him on Thursday.
I'm ready to hear anything you have to tell me. Even that I don't stand a chance. But please, give me your honest opinion and advice.
Thanks a lot.
My Virgo has been on a business trip for the past 2 weeks. The last time we saw each other, I took him to a concert that he didn??t like. And he did nothing to pretend otherwise. He was so distant and almost disrespectful. I was not feeling good for personal reasons (including him) and he noticed it but just left me there while I asked if we could go for a drink afterwards cuz I needed to change my mind. He said it wasn??t a good idea cuz now he has a girlfriend ??_ WTF? So it??s been a month since we last talked. I might see him on Thursday cuz I'm going for a drink with one of his bestfriends.
What do you think? Do I stand a chance to win him back? What should I do?
From what I read, he has the typical Virgo reaction : not knowing what he wants and testing people. Is that it?
Part of me feels like I have to go and tell him he hurt me and that he has to make a choice cuz I can??t go on like that. That he has to man up and take responsibilites for his choices and actions. But it might be too radical and ???violent?? for a Virgo.
The other part feels like I should play it smart and stay around and subtly win him back. But how?
Or maybe I should just pretend nothing never happened ? Or ignore him once in a while and then pretend I never ignored him?
Should I be really understanding and just let him know that he hurt me but I forgive him? Or should I be more radical and tell him I really think he lacked respect for me and that he should man up?
Of course I won??t insult him or yell at him. That??s so not me. But I wanna be firm and let him know that I am hurt. I still don??t know if I wanna tell him I want him out of my life for now. Or don??t tell him but stay away from him for awhile?
Please. Help me.
This whole story is keeping me up at night especially since I might see him on Thursday.
I'm ready to hear anything you have to tell me. Even that I don't stand a chance. But please, give me your honest opinion and advice.
Thanks a lot.
Posted by WaterCup
Enjoy then, ur brave, i give u that
Uh Oh! Why do I need to be brave? Just because I had a bad experience with a Libra, and I am freaked by them, doesn't mean it will be bad. He has taken me on 3 lovely dinners, flowers twice, and chocolate covered strawberry "roses" deliverd to my house.
Seeet yes, overhwhelming, maybe. Hehehe
Lmao!!!! I didn't mean plural...
Who said you are unattractive? Honestly I think that's bullshit, every woman has something about her that's beautiful inside and out, maybe you are just around a lot of shallow ignorant silly thinking men/people or chose to believe an untruth that someone fed you about your looks, maybe you don't look cookie cutter beautiful but that doesn't mean you are unattractive. Boy does it bother me that you think this way, LOL I'm being triggered inside argh.
Your self esteem needs a boost for sure, you are beautiful, stop saying that your not dammit. Write it down, say it until you believe it, love yourself and a man will love you too but if you can't even like/love yourself how in the hell is anyone else going to like and love you? It's impossible to have what you want if you think so poorly about yourself, you might as well stay with the cancer dude if all your going to do is kick yourself and allow him to kick you too emotionally, that's all your gonna get if you truly feel you are unattractive b/c if you feel you're unattractive then you don't feel your deserving of real love and compassion, empathy, kindness and all the douchebags will show up on your doorstep and mistreat you b/c you allow it b/c you feel you deserve less all b/c you are unattractive which is utter BULLSHIT.
Your self esteem needs a boost for sure, you are beautiful, stop saying that your not dammit. Write it down, say it until you believe it, love yourself and a man will love you too but if you can't even like/love yourself how in the hell is anyone else going to like and love you? It's impossible to have what you want if you think so poorly about yourself, you might as well stay with the cancer dude if all your going to do is kick yourself and allow him to kick you too emotionally, that's all your gonna get if you truly feel you are unattractive b/c if you feel you're unattractive then you don't feel your deserving of real love and compassion, empathy, kindness and all the douchebags will show up on your doorstep and mistreat you b/c you allow it b/c you feel you deserve less all b/c you are unattractive which is utter BULLSHIT.
^^^^This Leo Sun/ Scorpio moon approves the above +1000000^^^^
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dude you know I would if I could
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"But another one told me to just be patient cuz he really cares for me."
NO he does not, otherwise he would not be doing any of the other stuff. Don't even try to analyse his actions - they are not worth analysing. If he cared for you you would know it and he wouldn't be having anything going on with anyone else.
"What should I do?"
Nothing, except get some self love going on.
"From what I read, he has the typical Virgo reaction : not knowing what he wants and testing people. Is that it?"
No, this is not a "typical virgo reaction".
"Please. Help me."
Ok - forget him. That's all the help you need.
NO he does not, otherwise he would not be doing any of the other stuff. Don't even try to analyse his actions - they are not worth analysing. If he cared for you you would know it and he wouldn't be having anything going on with anyone else.
"What should I do?"
Nothing, except get some self love going on.
"From what I read, he has the typical Virgo reaction : not knowing what he wants and testing people. Is that it?"
No, this is not a "typical virgo reaction".
"Please. Help me."
Ok - forget him. That's all the help you need.