Aries Venus - help a girl out!

Posted by ArilovesAqu

Just because someone is not for you, doesn’t mean they are bad for everyone.


Reminds me Love is Blind. I swear I wasn’t going to watch this show but I kept seeing the memes.


Anyway, the Scorpio is trying to make a decision between a Cancer, an Aries, and some other pretty but kinda boring sign. Scorpio comes on strong to all of them and then he is overwhelmed when he has to make a decision and goes a bit cold.


He really likes the Cancer woman the most but he shares his confusion with her and she flips her shit and calls him a douche bag and walks out of the room and goes and tells all of the other woman he’s a player and just bad mouthing him.


The Aries is like whatevs, I’m not concerned. She’s confident.


The other chick is oblivious.


He picks the Aries and they get engaged. That’s as far as I got but I checked social media and they seem happy enough.


The Scorpio was being honest and letting the Cancer know he was confused. She could have given him some reassurance. I mean damn!!! she was leading a Pisces man on the whole time! Complete hypocrite and tried to make him out like he was a villain.


Aries chick was like all my eggs are in this basket, I’m standing by my man.


Moral of the story is-sometimes it’s not about how the other person acts, it’s how YOU REACT to them.

Posted by alexscaries

The truth is blatantly obvious, you don't hold up to our idealised image. Too weak, too needy, boring, bad sex, no ambition, untrustworthy, indiscreet.


What you wrote I'm sure could apply to young Aries. Despite popular opinion we are not all man whores and players. I'm not inundated with offers.


If you look at venus as being the idealised partner for a man much like mars in a woman. It tells you what we want.


Personally speaking I walk away from something when its dead, but I'm not Taurus sun.

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Posted by DonnaLibra

My brother is a Taurus sun with Aries venus and he was a player. His first marriage was to a Libra but she treated him coldly so he cheated with a Scorpio and they are married now. He loves beautiful women and they come on to him all the time. He used to be a cheater on the Libra but he said he's never cheated on Scorpio. I once dated a Taurus sun/Aries Venus and it was very lovely at first and then went sour within 5 months. It was my fault. These men are very generous financially with their women.

what was his moon?

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Posted by DonnaLibra

My brother is a Taurus sun with Aries venus and he was a player. His first marriage was to a Libra but she treated him coldly so he cheated with a Scorpio and they are married now. He loves beautiful women and they come on to him all the time. He used to be a cheater on the Libra but he said he's never cheated on Scorpio. I once dated a Taurus sun/Aries Venus and it was very lovely at first and then went sour within 5 months. It was my fault. These men are very generous financially with their women.

what was his moon?

My brother is Taurus/Capricorn and the guy I dated is Taurus/Sag. At first I thought you were asking about a Scorpio from another thread I was on.

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Posted by SassyKiwi

AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE. I dealt with a Taurus sun, Aries venus before. He was exactly the same. Except he did make it clear he was not looking to get serious anytime soon until like his late 30s (if even that) and we were only in college then. My refined cap venus ain’t got time for shit like that. If you want someone serious, avoid Gemini and Aries placements.


Edit - avoid mutable placements in general. Fixed and cardinals are better (except Aries and Cancers).

i almost liked until you said aries and cancers


man just stfu

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Posted by DonnaLibra

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Posted by DonnaLibra

My brother is a Taurus sun with Aries venus and he was a player. His first marriage was to a Libra but she treated him coldly so he cheated with a Scorpio and they are married now. He loves beautiful women and they come on to him all the time. He used to be a cheater on the Libra but he said he's never cheated on Scorpio. I once dated a Taurus sun/Aries Venus and it was very lovely at first and then went sour within 5 months. It was my fault. These men are very generous financially with their women.

what was his moon?

My brother is Taurus/Capricorn and the guy I dated is Taurus/Sag. At first I thought you were asking about a Scorpio from another thread I was on.

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Posted by DonnaLibra

My brother is a Taurus sun with Aries venus and he was a player. His first marriage was to a Libra but she treated him coldly so he cheated with a Scorpio and they are married now. He loves beautiful women and they come on to him all the time. He used to be a cheater on the Libra but he said he's never cheated on Scorpio. I once dated a Taurus sun/Aries Venus and it was very lovely at first and then went sour within 5 months. It was my fault. These men are very generous financially with their women.

what was his moon?

My brother is Taurus/Capricorn and the guy I dated is Taurus/Sag. At first I thought you were asking about a Scorpio from another thread I was on.

My ex is Taurus/Capicorn ... he never gave me 'player' vibes nor did he sleep with other women while he was with me. But he didn't have much stability in his life which is why we broke up ....at least that's what he told me ...it still doesn't make sense but w/e

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Posted by alexscaries

The truth is blatantly obvious, you don't hold up to our idealised image. Too weak, too needy, boring, bad sex, no ambition, untrustworthy, indiscreet.


What you wrote I'm sure could apply to young Aries. Despite popular opinion we are not all man whores and players. I'm not inundated with offers.


If you look at venus as being the idealised partner for a man much like mars in a woman. It tells you what we want.


Personally speaking I walk away from something when its dead, but I'm not Taurus sun.

I get what you're saying and I was thinking the exact same thing...maybe I'm too boring for him.


But try to come back to that? Hell, maybe he's bored now lol

I doubt it. It's probably a culmination of things. What people forget is Aries men and women are sort of outsiders like Aqua. And with Aries venus they love in weird ways as well.


People don't get they can be detached or unexpressive.

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Posted by alexscaries

The truth is blatantly obvious, you don't hold up to our idealised image. Too weak, too needy, boring, bad sex, no ambition, untrustworthy, indiscreet.


What you wrote I'm sure could apply to young Aries. Despite popular opinion we are not all man whores and players. I'm not inundated with offers.


If you look at venus as being the idealised partner for a man much like mars in a woman. It tells you what we want.


Personally speaking I walk away from something when its dead, but I'm not Taurus sun.

what does an Aries venus man want?

Dude , they are ten minute men I hear so who cares. Biggest Hypocrites

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Posted by alexscaries

The truth is blatantly obvious, you don't hold up to our idealised image. Too weak, too needy, boring, bad sex, no ambition, untrustworthy, indiscreet.


What you wrote I'm sure could apply to young Aries. Despite popular opinion we are not all man whores and players. I'm not inundated with offers.


If you look at venus as being the idealised partner for a man much like mars in a woman. It tells you what we want.


Personally speaking I walk away from something when its dead, but I'm not Taurus sun.

what does an Aries venus man want?

Dude , they are ten minute men I hear so who cares. Biggest Hypocrites

10 minutes ?..


What makes you think that I can't make you cum in less then 1 ?..


And I can even bet that you aren't one of those that gets to sensitive after the first one, right ? It's all in the mind after all.

Haha that’s the point lol it’s been the inside joke here that Venus Aries men are all quickies

Like you said in one minute over lol

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Posted by DonnaLibra

My brother is a Taurus sun with Aries venus and he was a player. His first marriage was to a Libra but she treated him coldly so he cheated with a Scorpio and they are married now. He loves beautiful women and they come on to him all the time. He used to be a cheater on the Libra but he said he's never cheated on Scorpio. I once dated a Taurus sun/Aries Venus and it was very lovely at first and then went sour within 5 months. It was my fault. These men are very generous financially with their women.

Did he say why not on the Scorpio

He just not open about gotten smarter you think ?

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Posted by CreativeCap

I’m dating a Taurus sun Aries Venus. It’s been a little over 6 months. It’s long distance so it’s been very slow. Honestly not sure why he’s still around. We have not seen much of each other of course bc of the distance and when he did try to initiate plans to travel to my city I already had plans. We’ve been in contact more over the last two months though. From what I gather, is they like a slight chase and a challenge.


Him leaving previously should be a concern cause that indicates his level of interest in you. At least he gave you an explanation. How long were you dating before he left?