Aries Venus - help a girl out!
Posted by Black-MambaVirgo moonPosted by DonnaLibra
My brother is a Taurus sun with Aries venus and he was a player. His first marriage was to a Libra but she treated him coldly so he cheated with a Scorpio and they are married now. He loves beautiful women and they come on to him all the time. He used to be a cheater on the Libra but he said he's never cheated on Scorpio. I once dated a Taurus sun/Aries Venus and it was very lovely at first and then went sour within 5 months. It was my fault. These men are very generous financially with their women.
what was his moon?click to expand
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Posted by nicole1988Reread what I wrote. Yes--I'd involve the parents. I'd tell them to stay quiet and just to listen.Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by nicole1988Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by nicole1988Posted by MikeNYNYC
It might be real easy going now, because he's so secretive, who knows what else he's not saying that eventually he might blow the cover off as an issue later on.
Do I confront him again or just keep quiet and let him approach me?
I feel when my parents talk to him it has an impact, as he is respectful towards them. Should I add my parents and him on a whatsapp group and share how I feel - pretty much what I initially wrote on this thread. He knows my parents know. Ours was an arranged marriage. I just want to get the point across - that stop lying and fooling. Do you think this will anger the scorpio? Exposing him and his lies in the open?
Here's the thing. Fist off, you in a culture that does arranged marriages. Do they drown upon divorce? Will you be thrown into obscurity? By asking this I'm just examining all possibilities..
Secondly, here's the thing. You have to think about what qualities you absolutely need in a relationship as opposed to luxury qualities. If transparency regarding joint finances is a necessity, then express it family meeting style , over the internet or in person. Let your parents see how you tell him, so he can't turn it around and shame you should a divorce happen. Have witnesses to the conversation.
Divorce is not really a taboo in my culture anymore. It also depends on the family to belong to. I come from a very modern family where Divorce is no longer a taboo, as there have been divorces in my family (my parents aren't divorced). He belongs to a traditional family where Divorce is a very big deal and a taboo. I know he wouldn't want a divorce unless I am just evil or disrespecting his parents.
Honestly, I don't even want him to feel that I am suggesting or threatening divorce because thats not what I want. I do love him and I think we have a beautiful marriage, but its just this component that's messed up.
I want to know by initiating a family style conversation - will he feel I am trying to intimidate, expose or threaten him? If so, I would never do it.
Money matters are not an emotional issue, it's more of a joint responsibility so he shouldn't feel threatened. You'll be fine. Scorpios feel threatened when they love you and you play with their emotions. This is not emotional in any sense of the word. The only way he's going to respect you, and know that lying to you is not an acceptable solution e v e r, is by you saying it. Don't use the word "lie," say "going forward, everything money-related needs to be transparent between us. I want all money matters to be a joint responsibility between us both." Don't ask him if he's clear on that (he'll feel like you're talking down to him trust me). If he doesn't say anything after delivering that statement, say, "is there anything you feel you need to say?" and then just wrap it up.
Thank you, so no involving my parents? I just talk to him directly...click to expand
Posted by MikeNYNYCThank you very much. Appreciate all your advise.Posted by nicole1988Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by nicole1988Posted by MikeNYNYCPosted by nicole1988Posted by MikeNYNYC
It might be real easy going now, because he's so secretive, who knows what else he's not saying that eventually he might blow the cover off as an issue later on.
Do I confront him again or just keep quiet and let him approach me?
I feel when my parents talk to him it has an impact, as he is respectful towards them. Should I add my parents and him on a whatsapp group and share how I feel - pretty much what I initially wrote on this thread. He knows my parents know. Ours was an arranged marriage. I just want to get the point across - that stop lying and fooling. Do you think this will anger the scorpio? Exposing him and his lies in the open?
Here's the thing. Fist off, you in a culture that does arranged marriages. Do they drown upon divorce? Will you be thrown into obscurity? By asking this I'm just examining all possibilities..
Secondly, here's the thing. You have to think about what qualities you absolutely need in a relationship as opposed to luxury qualities. If transparency regarding joint finances is a necessity, then express it family meeting style , over the internet or in person. Let your parents see how you tell him, so he can't turn it around and shame you should a divorce happen. Have witnesses to the conversation.
Divorce is not really a taboo in my culture anymore. It also depends on the family to belong to. I come from a very modern family where Divorce is no longer a taboo, as there have been divorces in my family (my parents aren't divorced). He belongs to a traditional family where Divorce is a very big deal and a taboo. I know he wouldn't want a divorce unless I am just evil or disrespecting his parents.
Honestly, I don't even want him to feel that I am suggesting or threatening divorce because thats not what I want. I do love him and I think we have a beautiful marriage, but its just this component that's messed up.
I want to know by initiating a family style conversation - will he feel I am trying to intimidate, expose or threaten him? If so, I would never do it.
Money matters are not an emotional issue, it's more of a joint responsibility so he shouldn't feel threatened. You'll be fine. Scorpios feel threatened when they love you and you play with their emotions. This is not emotional in any sense of the word. The only way he's going to respect you, and know that lying to you is not an acceptable solution e v e r, is by you saying it. Don't use the word "lie," say "going forward, everything money-related needs to be transparent between us. I want all money matters to be a joint responsibility between us both." Don't ask him if he's clear on that (he'll feel like you're talking down to him trust me). If he doesn't say anything after delivering that statement, say, "is there anything you feel you need to say?" and then just wrap it up.
Thank you, so no involving my parents? I just talk to him directly...
Reread what I wrote. Yes--I'd involve the parents. I'd tell them to stay quiet and just to listen.click to expand
Posted by LittleStarThe rotates your entire chart then making everything different degreesPosted by TheApparition
They would have to have been born in the exact same country, in the exact same city, in the exact same hospital, on the exact same day, and the exact same time to have identical charts.
Even Twins can have different chart aspects/placements depending on how far apart they were born.
You're looking for a unicorn.
It’s the same rising sign but different degree so I guessssss technically you are correct. But close enoughclick to expand
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Posted by LittleStarAnd she willingly associates with him outside of DXP, so what do you think it makes her?
He’s such a creeper.
Like two peas in a pod.....
Posted by LittleStarPosted by TheApparition
They would have to have been born in the exact same country, in the exact same city, in the exact same hospital, on the exact same day, and the exact same time to have identical charts.
Even Twins can have different chart aspects/placements depending on how far apart they were born.
You're looking for a unicorn.
It’s the same rising sign but different degree so I guessssss technically you are correct. But close enoughclick to expand
I know a couple both born on dec. 5 1984. A couple that grew up together and eventually married. I think a lot depends on the quality of the signs; i.e. two cancers might be fine. But these two had a love hate thing going on. Personally I think they hated eachother more than love based on the biting undertones of their statements and how viciously she berates his character and how silent he is back just staring at her. Even facebook comments left on valentines day are made snarky. In person, them saying I love you to the other is emphasized with a glare of such disdain. Walking with them could be very, very tense more often than not. She's hardly ever kind to him. But they can laugh together out of seemingly nowhere. Definitely more rough moments though. I've worked with her for four years and went out with them several times. When they conduct hobbies they both enjoy they both have fun like two kids together. it's boredom that makes them go at eachother which are sagittarius hallmarks.
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Posted by LittleStarPosted by TheApparitionPosted by LittleStarPosted by TheApparition
They would have to have been born in the exact same country, in the exact same city, in the exact same hospital, on the exact same day, and the exact same time to have identical charts.
Even Twins can have different chart aspects/placements depending on how far apart they were born.
You're looking for a unicorn.
It’s the same rising sign but different degree so I guessssss technically you are correct. But close enough
The rotates your entire chart then making everything different degrees
Stop poking holes in my theory....click to expand
Posted by LittleStar
Would you rather end up alone or with a Gemini?
I'm great with gemini's.
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