Getting back together with my Female Aries (Page 2)

Posted by lcrc
Donny! How did the weekend night out go? Did you guys have fun? 🙂

Yup, we ended up going out last night, and had a blast!
We needed to just go out dancing and unwind. :-)

As far as her letting guys treat her like a piece of meat, boy my story got lost in translation and not gonna try explaining it further.

Posted by lcrc
Donny! How did the weekend night out go? Did you guys have fun? 🙂

Yup, we ended up going out last night, and had a blast!
We needed to just go out dancing and unwind. :-)

As far as her letting guys treat her like a piece of meat, boy my story got lost in translation and not gonna try explaining it further.

I think anyhow you should represent to her those best (emotional+happy+lovable+pleasing) moments of you both.
this can start effecting her, just after that suddenly(don't let go even 2 mins) look at her eyes deeply(deep love connecting) with a little tear, then say "how can I live without you ? you're my 1&only"
at that time don't let her realize that you both aren't together now by saying plz come back I need you etc. just let her forget in your eyes at that moment, then you may hug her or may get romantic, but be careful to not let her realize that you're both not together currently, you have to control her thinking abilities through your eyes expressions at this much level & how will you represent those old moments, should be very strong to effect her strongly. Hope you can guess which type of situation I'm talking about.

This is just a mind's psychological trick for you to make her mind remember again.
This whole will effect her mentally a lot *depends on if she loved you for Once Truly & how well you do what I said.
Just give it a try.

& if you're gonna try it, then don't forget to tell me here, after everything happen.

Wish You Best Of Luck 🙂

Posted by donny78

Posted by lcrc
Donny! How did the weekend night out go? Did you guys have fun? 🙂

Yup, we ended up going out last night, and had a blast!
We needed to just go out dancing and unwind. :-)

As far as her letting guys treat her like a piece of meat, boy my story got lost in translation and not gonna try explaining it further.

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Oh good! See? Keep up the good momentum! Best of luck! x

Posted by sixshadesofhell

Posted by SannaGemini
I think anyhow you should represent to her those best (emotional+happy+lovable+pleasing) moments of you both.

Wish You Best Of Luck 🙂

LOL! He is dealing with an Aries woman here. I doubt that strategy is gonna help him in his situation. But as you said: best of luck.

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IKR, if it were only that easy, I wouldn't have had to make this thread. Sanna is a Gemini, so I get where she's coming from. The thing is, wifey knows what I'm thinking and feeling without me having to say anything, she's highly intuitive. Plus to an Aries woman, actions always speak louder than words. She'll see right through anything that isn't genuinely coming from the heart.

Right now, things are not in a good place. I'm just working on myself, doing what I have to do, I have to let her go, and have faith that things will work out in the end. If they don't, then at least I'll be in a much better place than I have been, and I have faith that everything will work out well for her.

Lessons learned: Never take the love of your life for granted. Deal with any issues that arise right away, because if you don't, a pile of issues will eventually have to be dealt with, and by that time it may be too late. Living in Guilt and Regret is the absolute worst way to live, it only makes things worse in the long run.

Punishing yourself for mistakes that you've made, does not lead to growth and evolution, it leads to stagnation and a life of misery. It's best to be responsible for your actions as they happen, grow and learn from the mistakes that you've made, and ensure they are never repeated. Making mistakes can lead you to being a wiser person, IF you deal and learn from them right away.

I'm on a journey of self discovery now, which is exactly what I should've done years ago. I bet my marriage would have been saved, had I dealt with and learned from my mistakes sooner.

glad to hear you are more balanced now.

step 2 [in my opinion, of course]...lesson learnt well, move on now...you are the centre of your universe...otherwise nothing will orbit you 🙂

good luck