I think I'm a nympho.

This topic was created in the Aries forum by AriesandProud on Sunday, February 2, 2014 and has 65 replies.
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I can't stop wanting to have sex with my boyfriend like multiple times a day. I think about sex with him soooo much.
My sex drive is much higher than his! I feel accomplished when we have amazing sex (we pretty much always do).
Any other aries feel this way?
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...I thought this was normal for Aries?
Not gonna lie, I was disappointed when I was with a guy who couldn't keep up. Sex wasn't bad, it was just kinda sucky he was "traditional" in the sense of not being able to go more than once or twice a night. Sad
I've been spoiled by some guys from my past, haha.
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Posted by AriesandProud
I can't stop wanting to have sex with my boyfriend like multiple times a day. I think about sex with him soooo much.
My sex drive is much higher than his! I feel accomplished when we have amazing sex (we pretty much always do).
Any other aries feel this way?


Yep
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i have to repress those desires
im still single and have been for a very long time
makes no sense to me either
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
...I thought this was normal for Aries?
Not gonna lie, I was disappointed when I was with a guy who couldn't keep up. Sex wasn't bad, it was just kinda sucky he was "traditional" in the sense of not being able to go more than once or twice a night. Sad
I've been spoiled by some guys from my past, haha.


I suppose this is the normal thing for aries! It just gets frustrating when I want sex SO often, but he only wants it half of that time. Not only that, but he doesn't like when I try to turn him on spontaneously, or if I get a little frisky he will tell me "not yet, baby. We'll have sex tonight before bed. It's as if he always uses his last bit of energy for our sexy time....and when he's too tired I get so disappointed! . He's a Cappie. I'm in love with him.
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Posted by AriesandProud
Posted by rockyroadicecream
...I thought this was normal for Aries?
Not gonna lie, I was disappointed when I was with a guy who couldn't keep up. Sex wasn't bad, it was just kinda sucky he was "traditional" in the sense of not being able to go more than once or twice a night. Sad
I've been spoiled by some guys from my past, haha.


I suppose this is the normal thing for aries! It just gets frustrating when I want sex SO often, but he only wants it half of that time. Not only that, but he doesn't like when I try to turn him on spontaneously, or if I get a little frisky he will tell me "not yet, baby. We'll have sex tonight before bed. It's as if he always uses his last bit of energy for our sexy time....and when he's too tired I get so disappointed! . He's a Cappie. I'm in love with him.
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Another thing I'll add, other guys have spoiled me as well but it was because they wanted to jump by bones all the time. My current bf spoils me in every other way.
He's older than any of my past mates have been. Sooo...perhaps after maturing he became less of a horn dog.
He initiates sex most of the time, but I do get things going every now and then. I feel like it would be pointless for me to initiate it.
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^^^ That's how I was in my early 20's (yeesssh I'm getting old)... I was a HORNdog... but now it's getting a little more manageable smile
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Posted by AriesandProud
I can't stop wanting to have sex with my boyfriend like multiple times a day. I think about sex with him soooo much.
My sex drive is much higher than his! I feel accomplished when we have amazing sex (we pretty much always do).
Any other aries feel this way?


your not the only one
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
...I thought this was normal for Aries?
Not gonna lie, I was disappointed when I was with a guy who couldn't keep up. Sex wasn't bad, it was just kinda sucky he was "traditional" in the sense of not being able to go more than once or twice a night. Sad
I've been spoiled by some guys from my past, haha.


trust me when the bars been set its harder to be satisfied
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Posted by AriesandProud
Posted by rockyroadicecream
...I thought this was normal for Aries?
Not gonna lie, I was disappointed when I was with a guy who couldn't keep up. Sex wasn't bad, it was just kinda sucky he was "traditional" in the sense of not being able to go more than once or twice a night. Sad
I've been spoiled by some guys from my past, haha.


I suppose this is the normal thing for aries! It just gets frustrating when I want sex SO often, but he only wants it half of that time. Not only that, but he doesn't like when I try to turn him on spontaneously, or if I get a little frisky he will tell me "not yet, baby. We'll have sex tonight before bed. It's as if he always uses his last bit of energy for our sexy time....and when he's too tired I get so disappointed! . He's a Cappie. I'm in love with him.
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time to trade him in for a newer model lol
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Caps are old men, I swear.
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Does he keep his socks on I wonder?
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Eh, I dunno about that.
I was with a Cap who had crazy stamina and didn't seem to have an issue as to when, where, or specific "stimulation." He was just down.
What she said above made me lol because it just sounds so much like what the Cap stereotype is, haha. Scheduling sex? Yeeeah, a little too orderly for me.
But that could be a Virgo placement thing, too?
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Caps are old men, I swear.


They really are! It makes me laugh sometimes.
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Posted by AriesGirl74
Does he keep his socks on I wonder?


Lol, strangely, no. My Scorpio ex did, thoughLaughing
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Now I'm riding the crimson wave, aka it's lady time of the month. So it's not happening at all for me now Sad sadly.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Eh, I dunno about that.
I was with a Cap who had crazy stamina and didn't seem to have an issue as to when, where, or specific "stimulation." He was just down.
What she said above made me lol because it just sounds so much like what the Cap stereotype is, haha. Scheduling sex? Yeeeah, a little too orderly for me.
But that could be a Virgo placement thing, too?


Yes his moon is in Virgo
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Posted by AriesGirl74
Posted by AriesandProud
Posted by rockyroadicecream
...I thought this was normal for Aries?
Not gonna lie, I was disappointed when I was with a guy who couldn't keep up. Sex wasn't bad, it was just kinda sucky he was "traditional" in the sense of not being able to go more than once or twice a night. Sad
I've been spoiled by some guys from my past, haha.


I suppose this is the normal thing for aries! It just gets frustrating when I want sex SO often, but he only wants it half of that time. Not only that, but he doesn't like when I try to turn him on spontaneously, or if I get a little frisky he will tell me "not yet, baby. We'll have sex tonight before bed. It's as if he always uses his last bit of energy for our sexy time....and when he's too tired I get so disappointed! . He's a Cappie. I'm in love with him.


time to trade him in for a newer model lol
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Sounds like a good trading plan! Lol
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Posted by AriesandProud
I can't stop wanting to have sex with my boyfriend like multiple times a day. I think about sex with him soooo much.
My sex drive is much higher than his! I feel accomplished when we have amazing sex (we pretty much always do).
Any other aries feel this way?



Yes it's normal for an Aries to have a strong sex drive! I had an Aries boyfriend and we were going at it like 2 rabbits Winking I miss it
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This is exactly how I feel in my relationship right now as well. I'm insatiable and he would mind if we didn't have sex in a week or so.
It's weird dynamics because it's usually the other way around lol I'm just wondering whether they silently judge us as some type of freaks, while silently enjoying our passion and the ego kick by feeling wanted.
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wouldn't mind*
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get a libra boyfriend smile !
crazy together
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Posted by dejahthoris
Posted by muwik
get a libra boyfriend smile !
crazy together


I second that notion

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Right? Even when the sex is mediocre, it's still not too shabby.
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Posted by dejahthoris
Posted by rockyroadicecream
sex is mediocre


Glad it wasn't. His Venus in Leo/Mars in Aries and both of us having Pluto in Scorpio took care of it lol. Was no shy butter, ain't nobody got time fo' dat
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Well I mean I've had both sides of the spectrum with Libra guys. But the one who it was amazing with was also a cusper like I am, and supposedly attraction between cusps is whoa, so it'd make sense, I guess.
Another would fall under "mediocre," but at the same time, it was still pretty decent regardless, you know?
...but then again I'm an Aries. I'm happy to have sex regardless, haha.
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Really? That seems a bit far to be a cusper.
Usually cuspers fall within the 19th-23rd or so in each month. The 27th is too far into the sign to be considered a cusp.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
...I thought this was normal for Aries?
Not gonna lie, I was disappointed when I was with a guy who couldn't keep up. Sex wasn't bad, it was just kinda sucky he was "traditional" in the sense of not being able to go more than once or twice a night. Sad
I've been spoiled by some guys from my past, haha.


trust me when the bars been set its harder to be satisfied


Find yourself an Aries man if that's the case >_>
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..a Libra actually set that bar for me.
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ZODIAC DON!!!! ARIES GOD OF PASSION obviously wasn't into you deja. You need to to be sexy enough to bring the beast out of the ram.
We get bored fast even with sex. Plenty of times I would be stroking and the girl would be into but I wasn't I'd stop in the middle of it all, pull out, say I'm done, walk away and never look back
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It happened to me once
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When it happened to me it wasn't a girlfriend but we were very excited about each other. I made a impressive first impression in her life. I think she probably was a really goody good girl and of course I had her having sex on our first date.
I think she felt embarrassed and nervous so she jumped up and ran out my house while she was riding. We were still cool. She really wasn't as sexy as I remembered so I really wasn't into it maybe she sensed that as well.
A super sexy girl had just moved in next door and wanted to be with me that night. I should of been with her she had tons of personality and was super sexy and freaky. She got mad because she seen I ditched her for the other girl which had nothing on her. smh! I gotta make better decisions.
I wouldn't treat my girlfriend like that. I wouldn't even treat my friend like that.(well one time I did but I didn't mean it like that. I stopped without telling her why to go get something that I thought would be sexy but by time I came back she was pissed)
I only treated women who I didn't know or appreciate like that. Thats when I was younger. I call them throw aways.
I get more pleasure and satisfaction from giving then receiving. I like stimulate deeply into my woman's mind and worship every inch of my lady from head to toe. I don't like quickies. I have to really be into somebody to spend that kind of focus and energy with them.
I stopped having sex with throw aways because Im looking for a spiritual connection. I am trying to raise our consciousness thru sexual healing. Thats why I haven't been in a relationship or even been dating in a long long time. I'm need the right one or ones. I don't care about myself ejaculating. My goal is to regenerate as many times as possible.
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Or maybe it was too BIG!
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Posted by JustBlaze
Thats when I was younger. I call them throw aways.
I get more pleasure and satisfaction from giving then receiving. I like stimulate deeply into my woman's mind and worship every inch of my lady from head to toe. I don't like quickies. I have to really be into somebody to spend that kind of focus and energy with them.
I stopped having sex with throw aways because Im looking for a spiritual connection



I'm not disgusting if you noticed I respect women enough not to lead on or get intimately involved with them if I don't take them seriously. You should lighten up and realize that I am being open here. Maybe you could appreciate my contribution instead of focusing on making me out to be a demon. Just saying smile
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Star I've been thrown away. You need to be for real. Your missing the point.
Thats real shit I said. I said I was younger then and I don't deal with women like that. Your crazy if you think your son should respect every female and take them seriously. He's going to be used and thrown away at some point like everybody else.
You don't take every man seriously and you shouldn't. You can call them what ever you want. I won't settle for less because I have a purpose.
You refer to women that way as well I'm sure of it even if not now in all of your vast wisdom you have in the past.
Loosen up sis it aint all about you
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I was telling a story from decades ago. Thats how I felt years ago when I was 15 years old up to maybe 20. I still will call it how I see it yet I was referring to back then not now.
I'm not about myself if I was I would sugarcoat shit and manipulate everybody but I don't. Not even in sales and thats my profession. Thats why emotions are difficult for me because I am an honest man. Last of a dying breed.
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I understand but understand that some people have no respect for themselves. We call those type of women bust downs in Chicago. They get busted down by random dudes crews or whatever. I don't know why but they allow it to happen. Most guys out there are wolves and will talk a nun into a gang bang if she lets her guard down for one second.
I am fearless and like to go against the grain. Thats who I am. So I come across some type of way most of the time.
Women don't trust me and think it's to good to be true when they have my full attention so they push me away. If I show my emotions which I just recently started doing it's too much and they can't handle it and make me out to be something I'm not such as a stalker although I realize I am responsible for this in that case even though I didn't stalk her. I get offended by this then my ego comes out.
I get turned of fast if someone puts me down because I had to deal with hate jealousy and envy all my life since I was a toddler. I don't have those type of qualities so I don't understand that and don't wan't too.
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Posted by starlover
Okay, it just made me flinch to equate people and being thrown away like a piece of garbage Sad ~ surely you can understand that?
Emotions come easy to me and i am honest too...why are the two separate to you? It is only brave people who dare to feel and show them


And it takes a courageous one to understand that of which you don't agree with. I agree that the term throw away is harsh but I believe JustBlaze was being sincere when he said that was how he felt and does it make it necessarily wrong for him? No. I don't believe so.
You have to understand star that men are raised to believe that showing emotions is weak... while for women it is perfectly normal. Yes, there needs to be a change to the way women are treated but I feel that goes a long with the men as well. And for both to begin we need understand from both angles not just one or you have two groups of people bashing each other not really getting anywhere or coming to an understanding at all when it is really was simple as empathy and compassion... both ways.
You may not agree with him, but it doesn't stop it from being true to him.
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I concur!
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Plus, it's no wonder men use the word throw away (NOT saying its ok) what with us women bashing each other and making each other feel like shit for being scandalous and then turning around and getting butt hurt when men use words like that. I believe if we want men to stop using these words we shouldn't be quick to get defensive and more quick to defend our fellow women. Men take their cues from us and if we're sitting here judging each other sluts and putting each other down is it no wonder men think its okay to do the same???
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As far as I know Im the only person who uses that term in this context. We use the term in the streets for guns. Throw away guns basically use it and get rid of it. I just used it today because I knew it sounded f'd up. Winking
Women have throw away men just as much if not more. Ever heard of a gold digger or prostitute. Now a days many women are heartless well they always have been but now a days it's more accepted.
Don't mean to change the OP subject so I'll just say this. Women have the power. It's all on you what you do with it. The most valuable thing other then a man( the man carries the seed) is a woman. We are nothing without each other
If we all raise our standards by taking the time to understand ourselves b4 chasing lust and take time to get to know each other and understand each other and most importantly build each other before giving whats most valuable of ourselves to each other we could change the course of humanity for the best.
Unfortanatly many just won't get it and don't have the discipline or information to make a difference. It only takes a few good men and women.
I know I want to love.
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Nope it does suck that people see others as throw away... whether that person be a man or a woman. And it maybe something we all need to work on, I feel.
I'm sure there is some body in your day to day that might feel you treat them as an expendable. And that includes you may not even know personally.
I have worked in the service industry for many, many years and though it is our job and we are paid to do what we do it doesn't make it any easier when people treat us like common machinery. As a server I will take an order and the people will completely ignore me and my polite questions about their day. It's of course not because I really care but its my way of acknowledging them as humans and their replies are in a way acknowledging me.
I think that is why whenever I go to a place like starbucks I make sure I'm off my phone and try to look them in the eyes when I make my orders... unless it's an important call in which case I'd apologize.
I'm sure we all do something or other that we're unaware of.
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That make others feel less than human... *sigh* sad reality.
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Posted by JustBlaze
As far as I know Im the only person who uses that term in this context. We use the term in the streets for guns. Throw away guns basically use it and get rid of it. I just used it today because I knew it sounded f'd up. Winking
Women have throw away men just as much if not more. Ever heard of a gold digger or prostitute. Now a days many women are heartless well they always have been but now a days it's more accepted.
Don't mean to change the OP subject so I'll just say this. Women have the power. It's all on you what you do with it. The most valuable thing other then a man( the man carries the seed) is a woman. We are nothing without each other
If we all raise our standards by taking the time to understand ourselves b4 chasing lust and take time to get to know each other and understand each other and most importantly build each other before giving whats most valuable of ourselves to each other we could change the course of humanity for the best.
Unfortanatly many just won't get it and don't have the discipline or information to make a difference. It only takes a few good men and women.
I know I want to love.


****applause*****
Reminds me of Lennon. Love that man and may he rest in peace. We all need a little love
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Posted by AriesandProud
I can't stop wanting to have sex with my boyfriend like multiple times a day. I think about sex with him soooo much.
My sex drive is much higher than his! I feel accomplished when we have amazing sex (we pretty much always do).
Any other aries feel this way?


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Yep

comes with the territory. Grin and baaa it.
Grin and bare it?
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Posted by JustBlaze
Star I've been thrown away. You need to be for real. Your missing the point.
Thats real shit I said. I said I was younger then and I don't deal with women like that. Your crazy if you think your son should respect every female and take them seriously. He's going to be used and thrown away at some point like everybody else.
You don't take every man seriously and you shouldn't. You can call them what ever you want. I won't settle for less because I have a purpose.
You refer to women that way as well I'm sure of it even if not now in all of your vast wisdom you have in the past.
Loosen up sis it aint all about you


Well, I'm sure if a man like yourself came along and treated your mother,sister or daughter (that's if you have a sister or daughter)in that way, you would be singing a different tune. I know men are built differently and think totally different from women most of the time, but even a freakin damn dog deserves respect, so if you do not want any emotional dealings with a woman, be man enough to walk away without dragging her feelings into the dirt. Just because someone "threw you away" doesn't make it cool for you to go through life with the same attitude. Remember KARMA IS A BIATCH and what goes around can very well COME BACK around. Plus, if you knew how it made you feel "throwing someone away", why in the hell would you want to make someone else feel that way.
Like I said...Think about the females that you love and how you would want to kill a mutherfu $ #% ^ for treating them that way.
And YES, my son doesn't have to take every woman seriously, but he's been raised to not just treat women with respect, but everyone should be treated with respect and because you respect people doesn't mean you allow someone to walk all over you. TREAT FOLKS LIKE YOU WANT TO BE TREATED, and if they don't..step the F^&% away!..It's just that simple...to me anyway.
You said you don't think like that anymore, but I dunno...SMH
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LOL Deja I just responded because I noticed you mentioned my Mantra Zodiak Don Aries.
Your right, for me it's all about how she treats me. Be sexy and make me feel appreciated because I will treat you better than you ever could imagine. I don't hold back I give my all with everything I do which isn't always perfect. With me you get all or nothing. If Im not into you like that I will tell you respectfully then we can go from there.
Lib4Life I really don't care to respond to your post because you got me all wrong and I've been through this on here already but since I appreciate that you took the time to respectfully comment I will address this.
My mother and sister(I have no kids) are grown. If they told me someone disrespect them I will handle that but they make decisions and get hurt like everyone else.
I already said I don't deal with women sexually anymore who I don't respect or can't take seriously because of their mentality, looks, reputation or whatever because I'm looking for more then sex in a lady.
I just got thrown away by my tenderoni but guess what it was because of my own bad decisions and I accept that and won't make those mistakes again.
Folks don't treat you how you want to be treated they treat you how you allow them to treat you. If you have a reputation for being easy, nasty or whorish then thats how you are going to be treated and the vice versa.
I still think like that I wouldn't wife up just any woman or even be involved with most woman. I just avoid women who don't meet my standard these days unless they show me that they wan't to learn or are seriously changing their life. I'm their friend but if I was the type of dude who likes to sleep with everybody then Im sure I'd be throwing many chicks away just like many would be throwing me away.
To make this simple so possibly you will see where I'm coming from. Basically a throw away is a booty call or a Friend with benefits. Now how many of those have you had or do you have?
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Posted by JustBlaze

Folks don't treat you how you want to be treated they treat you how you allow them to treat you.


Omg YES! I've been trying to put those thoughts into words but could never mentally do it. LOL.

Posted by JustBlaze

If you have a reputation for being easy, nasty or whorish then thats how you are going to be treated and the vice versa.
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Eh... not so much that. Just like you get judged for your past mistakes and indiscretions you judge others for their current mistakes when the fact of the matter is EVERYBODY makes mistakes. I'm not saying it's not okay to judge people, it's a natural part of being human, but if we had one less judgmental person and one more understanding I think this world be better off... don't you think? smile
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I have worked in the service industry for many, many years and though it is our job and we are paid to do what we do it doesn't make it any easier when people treat us like common machinery. As a server I will take an order and the people will completely ignore me and my polite questions about their day. It's of course not because I really care but its my way of acknowledging them as humans and their replies are in a way acknowledging me.
I think that is why whenever I go to a place like starbucks I make sure I'm off my phone and try to look them in the eyes when I make my orders... unless it's an important call in which case I'd apologize.


Saaame here. I dislike it when people interrupt you, bark their drink order as a greeting, and treat you as you're the "help," ignoring any questions or acting like you aren't there. It's really sad to see people treat others like that. It makes me wonder how sad their life is that they feel the need to go out and treat others like that in order to make them feel better about themselves. :/ I have never seen the need to behave like that toward any customer service individual.
As for friends/relationships and those treating you as a "throw away" story of my life, haha. It's why I put out minimal effort when I see the signs from others like that. I just feel like they're wasting my time with their facades.
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Were not talking about mistakes were talking about life style choices.
If it's common knowledge that all I need to do is give you a 40 ounce and a blunt and you will do whatever I want that is not being judgmental it is realizing a realistic opportunity to get cheap and easy sex with no feelings attached.
If I don't have any feelings attached to you and we are having sex especially when I know I'm not the only one you are having no strings attached sex with why would I treat you any other way then I would a prostitute or whore.
Sure you may not mean to be that way maybe you have mental issues or maybe you just like random rods in you. Maybe thats all you know. Anyway why would I respect you more than you respect yourself even if I see the potential in you.
Some women are okay with being throw aways thats their life style choice.
Judgement is a result of understanding. The wiser the understanding the better the judgement. I avoid men and women who I see are unproductive or who consistently show bad judgement. Just look at society today. The culture here promotes and rewards ignorance and the men and women are embracing it. Then you wan't me to feel sorry for them when their feeling the consequences.
I know I been reckless as all hell. It's taken me almost a decade to change my thinking and my family still treats me like shit and are waiting for me to slip up so they can point their fingers and say I told you so.
We are accountable for our decisions. Once we start taking full responsibility for our actions this world will be a better place.
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where it says just like me I wrote wh*re but dxp changed it
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Yes there is. You don't hear all these women today talking about all these men their sleeping with, their friends with benefits and their jumpoffs.
Prostitutes are the same thing their just getting a little more than some of these bust downs.
When they look in the mirror I don't know what the feel but we all know we all like fucking. Some people are a little more loose desperate and undisciplined with it then others
You ever watch Maury or Jerry or any other reality show?
I rest my case
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Posted by JustBlaze

We are accountable for our decisions. Once we start taking full responsibility for our actions this world will be a better place.



In a perfect world maybe. Not that I don't believe we are. We are.
Personally, I feel that we have more chances getting people to understand than to take responsibility and they are both a long shot.
I think every individual is different, can they be generalized and lumped into categories? Yes, but it doesn't make them less human or unique in their own right. No. It's good to be open to the the truth but it doesn't mean that what is truthful is right.
Judgement is to come to a conclusion based on certain factors and those factors could be peripheral based, therefore, not really on understanding the true nature of something--especially as complex and complicated as a human being-- but is based on something superficial. How can one really understand if they only graze the surface? It's because they choose not to understand or care and then they turn around and wonder why people don't understand or care about them in return.
People make jugements everyday it doesn't mean they understand. Like the women on here judging you for your "disrespect"... does that mean they understand you? I think not. I might have tried to understand you... does that mean I understand you? I think not.
It's good to have standards and know yourself well enough to know where you stand is a good thing.
But I think you do yourself a huge diservice when you don't allow your mind to be open to certain things just because society says it's "bad" or "no good" or even because based on your own standards. Nothing wrong with this but then you tread the fine line of having a closed mind and an open one and that line is almost invisible.
It's good to open yourself up to the good and the bad.
"Real fearlessness is the product of our tenderness. It comes from letting the world tickle your raw and beautiful heart."
-Chogyam Trungpa


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