
JustBlaze
@JustBlaze
11 Years
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Posted by feby16aqua
Yes, open mind and let the positivity flow through you. There is more than just one reason / possible outcome and focusing on the worst that can happen keeps you stuck and in a negative place.





Posted by xtina
@rocky
Well... ALL advice on here is going to be an assumption one way or another unless it's something said from the very man himself. I don't think any of the advice on here is actually anything that can be said with 100% certainty that it is what the man is thinking only the MAN knows that for sure.
So in essence the majority of the opinions and advice on here is useless garbage in that sense anyway. But women continue to flock here and people continue to give advice. Why? because I think the need is reciprocal.
If the women that come on here for advice are indeed women then they are not complete victims. The were not forced to go on here and they were not forced to take the advice. If they are not smart enough to understand a good advice from a bad one then that is on THEM. THEY MADE the choices to listen and follow.
So either they made these choices of following the advice or they were complete stupid sheeps and just "innocently" blindly followed an advice believing it was there "salvation" to the relationship... which one is it?
WAKE UP either way it's complete idiocy.
I believe women are smart they made the mistake of listening to said advice, and advice they ASKED for mind you. So sit on that one for a while.

Posted by xtina
People need to take responsibility for their own shit and when their relationship is fucked up. You MADE the choice to come on here and ask for advice. NOBODY put a gun to your head and forced you.
People are naturally going to give you the advice. Take responsibility for the fact that you took the advice and you followed it which led you to the situations when you could have very well decided NOT to take the advice and NOT to go looking for help from other people then blaming them for your mistakes.
Damn grow up people. I'm tired of people not having the simple cognitive ability of looking in wards... "Hmmm oh shit I took the advice and I was the one that did all those things it's my fault... not taking advice from that person again"
Instead people are like "OMG, that stupid fucking bitch it's all her fault that my life sucks and that he doesn't love me and that I don't love myself, it can't be my fault because I'm perfect and I could NEVER do anything wrong."
Grow up fucktards. You people are really pissing me off.


Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by xtina
You missed the point.
There are WOMEN who give advice that inserts how WOMEN think in place of what a man is thinking.
In short, they shouldn't be giving advice. This isn't about accountability of who's what and who's who. It's pointing out that this dude's thought process is a good example of what's REALLY going on with men in dating and relating. All too often here, you see "OH HE'S TESTING YOU, OH HE'S SCUURRRED, OH HE HAS SOME DEEP SEATED ISSUES THE POOR BABY!!"
Guys? "lol what a tool. He's just in it for some ass." Kinda like what this guy was saying in his posts. It all sounds utterly disgusting, but the reality is that a LOT of guys think and act like this and women choose to ignore it because it's so shitty. But it's the truth.
Overall, I was just pointing out the vast difference between the two and how maybe some of these ladies need to quit inserting their mindset as if it were the actual male mindset.
Simmer down.click to expand



Posted by AriesGirl74
As you say only a guy can answer regarding why a guy does or acts a certain way.
I've asked for a guys perspective recently and I have been truly shocked by their thought processes coz we really don't think the same - But it soooo valuable if you want to understand what goes on in most guys' heads - get a GUYS opinion lol

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