Odd behavior

Posted by Dread_Pirate_Phanta

I think by the third time I would have been like "um, yeah, remember how you said that and didn't?" lmao

Posted by _Dazed

Do you ask her about it?

Like walk in and say..

"I'm starving. What'd you make/pick up?"

Posted by brianafay

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Posted by _Dazed

Do you ask her about it?

Like walk in and say..

"I'm starving. What'd you make/pick up?"

Finally last night was the first time I acknowledged that she didn’t make anything - and I mean I was super delicate about like the huge poon that I am - and she goes “oh yeah, so I didn’t make it by the store, but tomorrow ...”

I just smiled and nodded but I was like NAW

This is tew fucking much

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Posted by Arinoaqua

Posted by brianafay

She’s been working remotely so this is the second time this year she’s come for 2 weeks at a time...maybe I’m just noticing things about her because this is the most time we’ve spent together. But I’m starting to feel it’s intentional at this point.

Another thing.

My husband gives her a car to drive so she doesn’t have to rent one and has the freedom to go where she wants... and she stays with their dad so she doesn’t have hotel costs.

She comes to my house every afternoon/evening to see the girls and I cook or order dinner every effing night. Offers to do dinner, but doesn’t. Offers to pick up stuff, but doesn’t. Comes for my daughter’s (her only niece) birthday empty-handed. (She’s spoiled enough, but STILL! I would never)

Then she asks my husband to drop her off at the airport so she doesn’t have to Uber and she leaves his car for him with an empty tank. Like can’t even fill the tank back up where she got it!

I’m like dis bish wild 😂

Okay that is weird af. Is she a spoiled daddy’s girl by chance? The youngest?

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Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

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Posted by _Dazed

Do you ask her about it?

Like walk in and say..

"I'm starving. What'd you make/pick up?"

Finally last night was the first time I acknowledged that she didn’t make anything - and I mean I was super delicate about like the huge poon that I am - and she goes “oh yeah, so I didn’t make it by the store, but tomorrow ...”

I just smiled and nodded but I was like NAW

This is tew fucking much

Why are you such a wuss irl?

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Posted by brianafay

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

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Posted by _Dazed

Do you ask her about it?

Like walk in and say..

"I'm starving. What'd you make/pick up?"

Finally last night was the first time I acknowledged that she didn’t make anything - and I mean I was super delicate about like the huge poon that I am - and she goes “oh yeah, so I didn’t make it by the store, but tomorrow ...”

I just smiled and nodded but I was like NAW

This is tew fucking much

Why are you such a wuss irl?

Right?! Pathetic

It’s a learned behavior for me because I used to be pretty combative and I had to learn to shut my mouth a lot and choose my battles

Certain situations I’ll still pop off- I’m not above it. But for me I have a problem expressing myself in a constructive way so I usually just blow up and burn bridges or I don’t say anything at all. Either really reactive or really controlled/composed. No in between

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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

Posted by brianafay

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

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Posted by _Dazed

Do you ask her about it?

Like walk in and say..

"I'm starving. What'd you make/pick up?"

Finally last night was the first time I acknowledged that she didn’t make anything - and I mean I was super delicate about like the huge poon that I am - and she goes “oh yeah, so I didn’t make it by the store, but tomorrow ...”

I just smiled and nodded but I was like NAW

This is tew fucking much

Why are you such a wuss irl?

Right?! Pathetic

It’s a learned behavior for me because I used to be pretty combative and I had to learn to shut my mouth a lot and choose my battles

Certain situations I’ll still pop off- I’m not above it. But for me I have a problem expressing myself in a constructive way so I usually just blow up and burn bridges or I don’t say anything at all. Either really reactive or really controlled/composed. No in between

#ScorpioMarsLyfe

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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

Posted by LadyNeptune

Next time she offers send her a group text with your hubby and say "thanks so much for offering to cook tonight. I got x, y, and z in the fridge you can make. Or we would love to have ___________ tonight as well".

This is a great idea. Just adding him to the text with...."Hey honey, your weirdo sister is going to cook tonight......do you have any suggestions for her?"

Then let him handle it when he walks in and sees nothing.

😅🤣😂

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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

Posted by LadyNeptune

Next time she offers send her a group text with your hubby and say "thanks so much for offering to cook tonight. I got x, y, and z in the fridge you can make. Or we would love to have ___________ tonight as well".

This is a great idea. Just adding him to the text with...."Hey honey, your weirdo sister is going to cook tonight......do you have any suggestions for her?"

Then let him handle it when he walks in and sees nothing.

😅🤣😂

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Posted by Moon_River

Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

Posted by LadyNeptune

Next time she offers send her a group text with your hubby and say "thanks so much for offering to cook tonight. I got x, y, and z in the fridge you can make. Or we would love to have ___________ tonight as well".

This is a great idea. Just adding him to the text with...."Hey honey, your weirdo sister is going to cook tonight......do you have any suggestions for her?"

Then let him handle it when he walks in and sees nothing.

😅🤣😂

This is best. Letting the family member handle their own family is much easier than getting involved.

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Posted by brianafay

The more I talk about it and say it out loud I think she’s really rude

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

The more I talk about it and say it out loud I think she’s really rude

I'd make you dinner.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Its the equivalent of running into someone you know and exchanging the whole "lets hang out" "yes we absolutely must, soon!" even though you both have no intention of doing that.

Posted by Moon_River

Posted by brianafay

Posted by LadyNeptune

Its the equivalent of running into someone you know and exchanging the whole "lets hang out" "yes we absolutely must, soon!" even though you both have no intention of doing that.

I’m getting annoyed

Now I’m like I don’t want to cook dinner for this bish again, but she’s there so I kind of have to. I wasn’t raised like that

I mean is it a hill you want to die on? Can you ask him never to let her stay over again until that behavior is fixed?

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Posted by brianafay

Posted by Moon_River

Posted by brianafay

Posted by LadyNeptune

Its the equivalent of running into someone you know and exchanging the whole "lets hang out" "yes we absolutely must, soon!" even though you both have no intention of doing that.

I’m getting annoyed

Now I’m like I don’t want to cook dinner for this bish again, but she’s there so I kind of have to. I wasn’t raised like that

I mean is it a hill you want to die on? Can you ask him never to let her stay over again until that behavior is fixed?

No, she is only here a few more days...I’ll be over it in a week or so. I’m just amping myself up by acknowledging it at the moment 😅

She did this shit last time! Well, she only offered to pick up dinner once last time actually, but all the other behaviors were the same. I never said anything, but when he complained to me that she left his car with the gas light on we agreed we weren’t going to do this again. He did call her out on that, to which she said “sorry, I ran out of time” and this time around he initially told her he wouldn’t have a car for her but he caved and she promised she’d put gas in it this time.

Obviously we’re not that hard up that we need her to fill up our tanks, but for fucks sake, it’s just common courtesy if you’re driving someone’s car around for 2 weeks you’d think you’d put gas back in it before returning it. Bet her cheap ass would if it were a rental to avoid their surcharges

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Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

Posted by Moon_River

Posted by brianafay

Posted by LadyNeptune

Its the equivalent of running into someone you know and exchanging the whole "lets hang out" "yes we absolutely must, soon!" even though you both have no intention of doing that.

I’m getting annoyed

Now I’m like I don’t want to cook dinner for this bish again, but she’s there so I kind of have to. I wasn’t raised like that

I mean is it a hill you want to die on? Can you ask him never to let her stay over again until that behavior is fixed?

No, she is only here a few more days...I’ll be over it in a week or so. I’m just amping myself up by acknowledging it at the moment 😅

She did this shit last time! Well, she only offered to pick up dinner once last time actually, but all the other behaviors were the same. I never said anything, but when he complained to me that she left his car with the gas light on we agreed we weren’t going to do this again. He did call her out on that, to which she said “sorry, I ran out of time” and this time around he initially told her he wouldn’t have a car for her but he caved and she promised she’d put gas in it this time.

Obviously we’re not that hard up that we need her to fill up our tanks, but for fucks sake, it’s just common courtesy if you’re driving someone’s car around for 2 weeks you’d think you’d put gas back in it before returning it. Bet her cheap ass would if it were a rental to avoid their surcharges

Early onset dementia maybe?

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Posted by brianafay

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

Posted by Moon_River

Posted by brianafay

Posted by LadyNeptune

Its the equivalent of running into someone you know and exchanging the whole "lets hang out" "yes we absolutely must, soon!" even though you both have no intention of doing that.

I’m getting annoyed

Now I’m like I don’t want to cook dinner for this bish again, but she’s there so I kind of have to. I wasn’t raised like that

I mean is it a hill you want to die on? Can you ask him never to let her stay over again until that behavior is fixed?

No, she is only here a few more days...I’ll be over it in a week or so. I’m just amping myself up by acknowledging it at the moment 😅

She did this shit last time! Well, she only offered to pick up dinner once last time actually, but all the other behaviors were the same. I never said anything, but when he complained to me that she left his car with the gas light on we agreed we weren’t going to do this again. He did call her out on that, to which she said “sorry, I ran out of time” and this time around he initially told her he wouldn’t have a car for her but he caved and she promised she’d put gas in it this time.

Obviously we’re not that hard up that we need her to fill up our tanks, but for fucks sake, it’s just common courtesy if you’re driving someone’s car around for 2 weeks you’d think you’d put gas back in it before returning it. Bet her cheap ass would if it were a rental to avoid their surcharges

Early onset dementia maybe?

She’s just rude I’ve decided.

Wasn’t raised right 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

Posted by Moon_River

Posted by brianafay

Posted by LadyNeptune

Its the equivalent of running into someone you know and exchanging the whole "lets hang out" "yes we absolutely must, soon!" even though you both have no intention of doing that.

I’m getting annoyed

Now I’m like I don’t want to cook dinner for this bish again, but she’s there so I kind of have to. I wasn’t raised like that

I mean is it a hill you want to die on? Can you ask him never to let her stay over again until that behavior is fixed?

No, she is only here a few more days...I’ll be over it in a week or so. I’m just amping myself up by acknowledging it at the moment 😅

She did this shit last time! Well, she only offered to pick up dinner once last time actually, but all the other behaviors were the same. I never said anything, but when he complained to me that she left his car with the gas light on we agreed we weren’t going to do this again. He did call her out on that, to which she said “sorry, I ran out of time” and this time around he initially told her he wouldn’t have a car for her but he caved and she promised she’d put gas in it this time.

Obviously we’re not that hard up that we need her to fill up our tanks, but for fucks sake, it’s just common courtesy if you’re driving someone’s car around for 2 weeks you’d think you’d put gas back in it before returning it. Bet her cheap ass would if it were a rental to avoid their surcharges

Early onset dementia maybe?

She’s just rude I’ve decided.

Wasn’t raised right 🤷🏼‍♀️

Does she drink?

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Posted by brianafay

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

Posted by Moon_River

Posted by brianafay

Posted by LadyNeptune

Its the equivalent of running into someone you know and exchanging the whole "lets hang out" "yes we absolutely must, soon!" even though you both have no intention of doing that.

I’m getting annoyed

Now I’m like I don’t want to cook dinner for this bish again, but she’s there so I kind of have to. I wasn’t raised like that

I mean is it a hill you want to die on? Can you ask him never to let her stay over again until that behavior is fixed?

No, she is only here a few more days...I’ll be over it in a week or so. I’m just amping myself up by acknowledging it at the moment 😅

She did this shit last time! Well, she only offered to pick up dinner once last time actually, but all the other behaviors were the same. I never said anything, but when he complained to me that she left his car with the gas light on we agreed we weren’t going to do this again. He did call her out on that, to which she said “sorry, I ran out of time” and this time around he initially told her he wouldn’t have a car for her but he caved and she promised she’d put gas in it this time.

Obviously we’re not that hard up that we need her to fill up our tanks, but for fucks sake, it’s just common courtesy if you’re driving someone’s car around for 2 weeks you’d think you’d put gas back in it before returning it. Bet her cheap ass would if it were a rental to avoid their surcharges

Early onset dementia maybe?

She’s just rude I’ve decided.

Wasn’t raised right 🤷🏼‍♀️

Does she drink?

Yes Beringer red moscato and fruit punch apparently

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Posted by brianafay

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by brianafay

Posted by Moon_River

Posted by brianafay

Posted by LadyNeptune

Its the equivalent of running into someone you know and exchanging the whole "lets hang out" "yes we absolutely must, soon!" even though you both have no intention of doing that.

I’m getting annoyed

Now I’m like I don’t want to cook dinner for this bish again, but she’s there so I kind of have to. I wasn’t raised like that

I mean is it a hill you want to die on? Can you ask him never to let her stay over again until that behavior is fixed?

No, she is only here a few more days...I’ll be over it in a week or so. I’m just amping myself up by acknowledging it at the moment 😅

She did this shit last time! Well, she only offered to pick up dinner once last time actually, but all the other behaviors were the same. I never said anything, but when he complained to me that she left his car with the gas light on we agreed we weren’t going to do this again. He did call her out on that, to which she said “sorry, I ran out of time” and this time around he initially told her he wouldn’t have a car for her but he caved and she promised she’d put gas in it this time.

Obviously we’re not that hard up that we need her to fill up our tanks, but for fucks sake, it’s just common courtesy if you’re driving someone’s car around for 2 weeks you’d think you’d put gas back in it before returning it. Bet her cheap ass would if it were a rental to avoid their surcharges

Early onset dementia maybe?

She’s just rude I’ve decided.

Wasn’t raised right 🤷🏼‍♀️

Does she drink?

Yes Beringer red moscato and fruit punch apparently

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Posted by Pulsy

Posted by brianafay

She’s been working remotely so this is the second time this year she’s come for 2 weeks at a time...maybe I’m just noticing things about her because this is the most time we’ve spent together. But I’m starting to feel it’s intentional at this point.

Another thing.

My husband gives her a car to drive so she doesn’t have to rent one and has the freedom to go where she wants... and she stays with their dad so she doesn’t have hotel costs.

She comes to my house every afternoon/evening to see the girls and I cook or order dinner every effing night. Offers to do dinner, but doesn’t. Offers to pick up stuff, but doesn’t. Comes for my daughter’s (her only niece) birthday empty-handed. (She’s spoiled enough, but STILL! I would never)

Then she asks my husband to drop her off at the airport so she doesn’t have to Uber and she leaves his car for him with an empty tank. Like can’t even fill the tank back up where she got it!

I’m like dis bish wild 😂

Just be thankful it’s two weeks out of the year

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Posted by brianafay

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Posted by brianafay

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Posted by Moon_River

Posted by brianafay

Posted by LadyNeptune

Its the equivalent of running into someone you know and exchanging the whole "lets hang out" "yes we absolutely must, soon!" even though you both have no intention of doing that.

I’m getting annoyed

Now I’m like I don’t want to cook dinner for this bish again, but she’s there so I kind of have to. I wasn’t raised like that

I mean is it a hill you want to die on? Can you ask him never to let her stay over again until that behavior is fixed?

No, she is only here a few more days...I’ll be over it in a week or so. I’m just amping myself up by acknowledging it at the moment 😅

She did this shit last time! Well, she only offered to pick up dinner once last time actually, but all the other behaviors were the same. I never said anything, but when he complained to me that she left his car with the gas light on we agreed we weren’t going to do this again. He did call her out on that, to which she said “sorry, I ran out of time” and this time around he initially told her he wouldn’t have a car for her but he caved and she promised she’d put gas in it this time.

Obviously we’re not that hard up that we need her to fill up our tanks, but for fucks sake, it’s just common courtesy if you’re driving someone’s car around for 2 weeks you’d think you’d put gas back in it before returning it. Bet her cheap ass would if it were a rental to avoid their surcharges

Early onset dementia maybe?

She’s just rude I’ve decided.

Wasn’t raised right 🤷🏼‍♀️

Does she drink?

Yes Beringer red moscato and fruit punch apparently

A lot?

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Posted by dillweed

yo bribri hit us with her chart so we can read this ho to filth

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yo bribri hit us with her chart so we can read this ho to filth

Lmao k hold on

I gotchu

Don’t know her birth time

im half tempted to say this sounds like a realllllly badly aspected libra placement 😬

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Posted by brianafay

My Aries sister in law is here visiting.

...

You re a Sag, you're nothing compared to an Aries.

Just be thankful you breathe the same air she does

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Posted by brianafay

She’s been working remotely so this is the second time this year she’s come for 2 weeks at a time...maybe I’m just noticing things about her because this is the most time we’ve spent together. But I’m starting to feel it’s intentional at this point.

Another thing.

My husband gives her a car to drive so she doesn’t have to rent one and has the freedom to go where she wants... and she stays with their dad so she doesn’t have hotel costs.

She comes to my house every afternoon/evening to see the girls and I cook or order dinner every effing night. Offers to do dinner, but doesn’t. Offers to pick up stuff, but doesn’t. Comes for my daughter’s (her only niece) birthday empty-handed. (She’s spoiled enough, but STILL! I would never)

Then she asks my husband to drop her off at the airport so she doesn’t have to Uber and she leaves his car for him with an empty tank. Like can’t even fill the tank back up where she got it!

I’m like dis bish wild 😂

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“Mmmm Air, my favorite “

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Posted by brianafay

She’s been working remotely so this is the second time this year she’s come for 2 weeks at a time...maybe I’m just noticing things about her because this is the most time we’ve spent together. But I’m starting to feel it’s intentional at this point.

Another thing.

My husband gives her a car to drive so she doesn’t have to rent one and has the freedom to go where she wants... and she stays with their dad so she doesn’t have hotel costs.

She comes to my house every afternoon/evening to see the girls and I cook or order dinner every effing night. Offers to do dinner, but doesn’t. Offers to pick up stuff, but doesn’t. Comes for my daughter’s (her only niece) birthday empty-handed. (She’s spoiled enough, but STILL! I would never)

Then she asks my husband to drop her off at the airport so she doesn’t have to Uber and she leaves his car for him with an empty tank. Like can’t even fill the tank back up where she got it!

I’m like dis bish wild 😂

Sounds like she’s comfortable being spoiled by her family and doesn’t see anything wrong with what she’s doing because it’s just accepted amongst family.

I don’t know if it’s intentional, you’d be able to sense that yourself so you may be right.

I think she doesn’t get called out on what she does tho, so maybe do it openly and without seeming harsh so it’s not turned around on you. Instead come home and don’t start dinner and when someone asks....just let them know that she said at 1:00 pm that she was making that nights dinner and direct them to her. Once she drops the ball and hasn’t prepared or anything and it’s known.....then you step in and figure it out and make sure you openly say to her “this hasn’t been the first time...if it’s too much pressure for you, I’d rather you not offer to make dinner so I can plan our night better”.

This way you’re making an example and setting a boundary.

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