Why are Aries so hard to communicate with?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Tubabye89 on Sunday, April 17, 2016 and has 13 replies.
Me and this Aries was talking before in the past but I left him hanging. Few month later I decided to send him a text, so surprisingly he still has my number because he didn't reply " who this?"
I was shock but now trying to have a conversation with him is like pulling a teeth. It's so difficult. I know he use to like me but now all I get is dry text message from him.
Like two word text. Sad what to do? I want him to speak to me again.
Posted by Tubabye89
Me and this Aries was talking before in the past but I left him hanging. Few month later I decided to send him a text, so surprisingly he still has my number because he didn't reply " who this?"
I was shock but now trying to have a conversation with him is like pulling a teeth. It's so difficult. I know he use to like me but now all I get is dry text message from him.
Like two word text. Sad what to do? I want him to speak to me again.


You're boring him most likely
I personally dont have the patience to text dry people.
Posted by champranger
Posted by Tubabye89
Me and this Aries was talking before in the past but I left him hanging. Few month later I decided to send him a text, so surprisingly he still has my number because he didn't reply " who this?"
I was shock but now trying to have a conversation with him is like pulling a teeth. It's so difficult. I know he use to like me but now all I get is dry text message from him.
Like two word text. Sad what to do? I want him to speak to me again.

"Why are Aries so hard to communicate with?"
---> Why did you wait a few months to communicate with him?
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Because I was talking to someone.

I feel like he will losen up when I tell him what's going on in my life, I know he still cares about me and has hidden feelings.
If someone left me hanging, my opinion of you would drop. I would be polite, but my interest in you is -shot- after that.
Posted by CantGetEnough
He's bored with you and moved on quickly.

Aries men are players.



You think his a player?
Posted by mission
If someone left me hanging, my opinion of you would drop. I would be polite, but my interest in you is -shot- after that.

I think he is still interesting in me because he did say you have a lot of making up to do
They're not players, but they are pursuers.
I hate texting or talking on the phone like HATE! I don't like to be disturbed from my peace. If we meet in person and talk I like that better. I am also horrible at small talk and text convos tend to be just that. A bunch of small talk that really isn't important. My Aries brother hates to talk too unless in person.

When I was younger I loved to communicate via telephone, now it's a burden.
Posted by Tubabye89
Me and this Aries was talking before in the past but I left him hanging. Few month later I decided to send him a text, so surprisingly he still has my number because he didn't reply " who this?"
I was shock but now trying to have a conversation with him is like pulling a teeth. It's so difficult. I know he use to like me but now all I get is dry text message from him.
Like two word text. Sad what to do? I want him to speak to me again.

LoL... If you left me hanging for few month and expect me to reply to you when you want to (1st thing I might think of is who you think you are and I might not reply at all) (sorry abit rude). But he did reply which is a good sign. (he don't want it to end like this). Good Luck. 😊
Posted by Tubabye89
Me and this Aries was talking before in the past but I left him hanging. Few month later I decided to send him a text, so surprisingly he still has my number because he didn't reply " who this?"
I was shock but now trying to have a conversation with him is like pulling a teeth. It's so difficult. I know he use to like me but now all I get is dry text message from him.
Like two word text. Sad what to do? I want him to speak to me again.


Because you're an idiot, and created the "difficulty of communication" yourself. I highlighted above why.

It's not even relevant to astrology, but to fake ass people who flake out on you and then decide to "test the waters" a few months later. Why the fuck bother?

- Aries Mercury direct communication here, you're welcome
Posted by Tubabye89
Posted by champranger
Posted by Tubabye89
Me and this Aries was talking before in the past but I left him hanging. Few month later I decided to send him a text, so surprisingly he still has my number because he didn't reply " who this?"
I was shock but now trying to have a conversation with him is like pulling a teeth. It's so difficult. I know he use to like me but now all I get is dry text message from him.
Like two word text. Sad what to do? I want him to speak to me again.

"Why are Aries so hard to communicate with?"
---> Why did you wait a few months to communicate with him?

Because I was talking to someone.

I feel like he will losen up when I tell him what's going on in my life, I know he still cares about me and has hidden feelings.
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Aries wants to be #1. Tell him that "you were talking to someone" and he'll most likely impale you in his mind and move on with a hurt ego.

I was going to say most star signs don't motivate an Aries intellectually, but then I realised you're a Libra? So you will.
But I think Aries men talk about anything and everything, it just cant be bored routine stuff, I have a friend and she texts me everytime she goes to the gym, and I can't be bothered with it, and everytime she cooks food.. I seriously cant be bothered and wish she'd leave me alone. But if you talk about your goals and your dreams, and anything strategic, or anything like maybe a business and you've thought of way to improve things, or maybe things fitness related, anything that involves perfecting something or anything where you are trying to work out what's "the best".

Don't worry about the past, just concentrate on the future, what's done is done, wrong or not.

You think a guy will open up if you talk about what's going on in your life? Err... this is boring already. it needs to be more random, unusual, something that shows you have courage and aren't afraid to say things. But it also depends on his age and what he's in to obviously so I can't really tell you what to talk about specifically.