Biggest Insecurity?

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Hey everyone,

Was just curious to know what some other signs thought their personal biggest insecurity was.

Just wanted to say that this should be a NO JUDGING ZONE.

Aqua sun- mine is feeling like I'm not good enough
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Interesting. What's your sign?

Posted by bumboklatt
my biggest insecurity is not being able to connect with people

I always feel like people take me the wrong way (good or bad)



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Oh yea I can see what you mean about that. Like whenever you are your true self, you feel rejected

Posted by xoxoRain
Taurus sun, aqua moon, Libra rising.

And one of my biggest insecurity is that I'm not accepted by the ones I love most. I don't belong, I don't fit in. Friends are pretending to love me but actually hate me.

They're giving me fake love etc etc etc.
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Being stared at by people or when people are nosing in my business.
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Being proven wrong on something I was sure of.
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Aqua rising Aries sun Piscesmoon

Being miss understood... For my quorky nature...

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I don't allow myself to be vulnerable in a relationship. It's like I have this fear that if I allow myself to be vulnerable to another they'll take advantage of me somehow. Even if they say they love me, I have a hard time believing they're not really after something.
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Im always insecure about my body, dont get me wrong I love my body, I have a very good body but it doesnt reflect who I am on the inside.

Clearly I was meant to have a tail and fins so I can live under the sea.
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Posted by Season
I don't allow myself to be vulnerable in a relationship. It's like I have this fear that if I allow myself to be vulnerable to another they'll take advantage of me somehow. Even if they say they love me, I have a hard time believing they're not really after something.
Yea I am normally attracted to Aqua every this drove me nut about a few Aquas I dated... Actually one currently... I hope she can open up. The last thing I want is to hurt her... It is hard though my intuitive side knows she is not opening up so I just feel like there is a wall... So to speak it drives me nuts in a good way to get to know but then can drive me away...

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It's very interesting that in general a lot of us females are afraid of emotional things- not being enough, not opening up, being judged etc.

Just an observation!
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Being judged, slowly learning to not give a shit though.
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My insecurity is myself now (hair, body, face...) I never really had one until these last few years. I had something tramatic happen to me and it caused me hate myself and never trust any guy ever. I'm slowly coming around now and starting to love myself more but my trust for men is very low still.
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Oh, and feeling abandoned.
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Posted by LadyJuicy
My insecurity is myself now (hair, body, face...) I never really had one until these last few years. I had something tramatic happen to me and it caused me hate myself and never trust any guy ever. I'm slowly coming around now and starting to love myself more but my trust for men is very low still.
Sorry to hear, sure sounds like it puts my insecurities into perspective. Hope you find the way to overcome or manage these insecurities.
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Being judged, slowly learning to not give a shit though.
Back when I was younger I used to cry-I couldnt understand how people could be so hateful/bitter/bullies. Now I just grind on and use it as fuel to achieve more.
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My biggest insecurity is having BO. Dayum. What did I eat last night. God damn do I stink.
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i guess mine would be a fear. Fear of never having children.
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Posted by Solesan
My biggest insecurity is having BO. Dayum. What did I eat last night. God damn do I stink.
Lolol

Ikr? Or being alone with someone in an elevator and you have some nasty case of gas.
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My biggest insecurity stems from a fear of loss combined with fear of vulnerability.

I have a fear of being exposed to the ones I love, but not wanting to lose the people I love because of this phobia.

I attach, and disconnect....attach and disconnect.


I also have a serious issue with accepting compliments, my paranoid thoughts are in overdrive, and I sense they have disingenuous agenda....but that is usually not the case, it's just my own insecurities.
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Posted by LadyJuicy
My insecurity is myself now (hair, body, face...) I never really had one until these last few years. I had something tramatic happen to me and it caused me hate myself and never trust any guy ever. I'm slowly coming around now and starting to love myself more but my trust for men is very low still.
Sorry to hear, sure sounds like it puts my insecurities into perspective. Hope you find the way to overcome or manage these insecurities.
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Thank you. I am praying and taking it day by day. I will get through it!!!

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My biggest insecurity is that I'll joke too much when I need to be serious.
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Being betrayed and get abondoned because I'm not good enough.

Aqua sun with a nasty fearful cap venus rx!
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Thanks to everyone for responding! It takes courage, even on this online forum to be this honest. I really appreciate you sharing your biggest insecurities. Quite a few of us have the same fears, so it's always good to know you're not alone. *Hugs* to everyone who shared!
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Hahaha! Ooohhh! INTJ-I see ya! I'm an ENTP lol.

Yes, you get *hug* *hug*


I appreciate you sharing! smile
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Posted by Aquagirl2015
Hey everyone,

Was just curious to know what some other signs thought their personal biggest insecurity was.

Just wanted to say that this should be a NO JUDGING ZONE.

Aqua sun- mine is feeling like I'm not good enough
As an aqua moon always trying to save aho.
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Infj here. This should be good smashing personalities here.
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Aqua moon yeah being betrayed to an earth sign forgive and forget. Hardly unless they did something really bad to other people.
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abandonment

Scorpio Sun, Aries Moon

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Well I had a fire mutable dad so my esteem was shot. Never was good enough in his eyes. I have cancer rising it doesn't do anything but hurt and detach moreso.
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I think my biggest insecurity would be to be rejected and left by the persons i really care about, not like a smiple way, but in more complex, that's why i do everything on my own, i have friends and things like that, but i can never ask for help or something, it's not like they wouldn't help me, they would, but i think it's pride talking that i need and want to accomplish everything on my own, even a simplest tasks and the hardest one's, and that's deep psychological root, you do and try to do everything on your own because you're to afraid to let others help you, to afraid because if the person left you couldn't stand on your own 2 feet, i just don't want to rely on the person 2 much because i think i'm strong and others might not be as strong as me and couldn't handle it, some people wouldn't call that bad, but the truth is if you're unable to ask for help, you're just a person who's afraid of being hurt or rejected to much in my option, it's good to have a strong ground under your feet and know where you're going, to have a goal, a dream, a vision, but this road gets really lonely, you have friends, good one's that you could count on and rely on, but you just can't. It's a fight i feel i have to fight alone, i'm only 22 now and i don't know, i just look at people and i'm not judgemental or anything, i just don't want to be around most of the people, unhealthy, with no morals, no values, the more i grow the more i realise i need positive, strong people around me, with morals, values and knowledge, things like that, just simply being with these people you become more stronger, wiser, you expand your world more and more, you start to realise more things, you start to gain more confidence, you become a rival, motivator for others and they become motivation for you without you even realising it, damn an amazing feeling, an the amazing thing is, they are strong, have values, and morals, you know deep inside people like them would never leave y, they are part of you as much as you are part of them, but the wrong people in your life can take a part of you away , that's what scares me the most i think..... as strong as you are, it's the closest people that can hurt you the most, because they are inside and know your heart, they either protect it making you a better person overall, or they stab it with a poison dagger.. smile sorr for grammar tho . Big Grin
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fear i'll never make my dream of being signed to a major label happen
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Posted by rakac
I think my biggest insecurity would be to be rejected and left by the persons i really care about, not like a smiple way, but in more complex, that's why i do everything on my own, i have friends and things like that, but i can never ask for help or something, it's not like they wouldn't help me, they would, but i think it's pride talking that i need and want to accomplish everything on my own, even a simplest tasks and the hardest one's, and that's deep psychological root, you do and try to do everything on your own because you're to afraid to let others help you, to afraid because if the person left you couldn't stand on your own 2 feet, i just don't want to rely on the person 2 much because i think i'm strong and others might not be as strong as me and couldn't handle it, some people wouldn't call that bad, but the truth is if you're unable to ask for help, you're just a person who's afraid of being hurt or rejected to much in my option, it's good to have a strong ground under your feet and know where you're going, to have a goal, a dream, a vision, but this road gets really lonely, you have friends, good one's that you could count on and rely on, but you just can't. It's a fight i feel i have to fight alone, i'm only 22 now and i don't know, i just look at people and i'm not judgemental or anything, i just don't want to be around most of the people, unhealthy, with no morals, no values, the more i grow the more i realise i need positive, strong people around me, with morals, values and knowledge, things like that, just simply being with these people you become more stronger, wiser, you expand your world more and more, you start to realise more things, you start to gain more confidence, you become a rival, motivator for others and they become motivation for you without you even realising it, damn an amazing feeling, an the amazing thing is, they are strong, have values, and morals, you know deep inside people like them would never leave y, they are part of you as much as you are part of them, but the wrong people in your life can take a part of you away , that's what scares me the most i think..... as strong as you are, it's the closest people that can hurt you the most, because they are inside and know your heart, they either protect it making you a better person overall, or they stab it with a poison dagger.. smile sorr for grammar tho . Big Grin
amen crab bro

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Posted by pakmai
My biggest insecurity is being misunderstood. I don't think I think like most people (at least the people I have to interact with) and it makes me not want to pursue a relationship because I don't want to explain myself 24/7. I literally am only friends with people who do not question my character.. They get me % 100.

I was depressed for a while and withdrew when I was friends with people who are somewhat.. "Clingy" or "Attached". Like, I couldn't be myself.. I don't HAVE to be around people and they didn't like that.. I got questioned for being aloof, I guess. I don't know.
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Ugh! Totally get this. Anytime I've tried to be vulnerable it's come back to hurt my feelings. Do you feel the not good enough feeling carries over from relationships to other aspects of life


Posted by AquaNextDoor
Being betrayed and get abondoned because I'm not good enough.

Aqua sun with a nasty fearful cap venus rx!
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I would agree with you to a certain extent but I wanted to see what/if any general commonalities certain signs had with their insecurities.

Posted by Deadpoop
I believe our insecurities are a culmination of our experiences, and upbringing along with any ideology we may have been exposed to growing up. If you ask most people their appearance at one time or another has played a role in their insecurities, and being that each one is a different sign, we cant pin this on the stars i believe...
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scorpio > that im not loved truly and for who i really am. i have a hard time trusting other people's motives
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Posted by Aquagirl2015
Ugh! Totally get this. Anytime I've tried to be vulnerable it's come back to hurt my feelings. Do you feel the not good enough feeling carries over from relationships to other aspects of life


Posted by AquaNextDoor
Being betrayed and get abondoned because I'm not good enough.

Aqua sun with a nasty fearful cap venus rx!

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Hm not really, I'm pretty confident in others aspects of my life. My cap hubby gives me lots of reassurance and that makes it easier for me to work on my insecurities smile

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My biggest insecurity..

Insecurity is my insecurity in general. I wish my insecurity and anxiety could subside and that I could relax, and not give a crap about things. I think people can sense it and that makes it all even worse.
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Mine is being emasculated and my gf is aries. The ultimate horror scenario is a woman who protects me in a dangerous situation and not the other way around. I will never date female fighters, soldiers or cops.

Being bossed around in front of everybody or being a stay at home dad, her earning more than me all that stuff. Before that happens, the law of physics will change therefore never.

I always thought I am progressive and openminded for new things after all - wrong.
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Posted by Aquagirl2015
Hey everyone,

Was just curious to know what some other signs thought their personal biggest insecurity was.

Just wanted to say that this should be a NO JUDGING ZONE.

Aqua sun- mine is feeling like I'm not good enough


I don't feel that way, but I used to feel sad and insecure all the time.

but I guess because I am merged with someone who gives me strength and love and comfort. it really makes me happy.

maybe that's what you need, is someone who will love you lots and you can love them a lot back too.

Posted by DMV
i guess mine would be a fear. Fear of never having children.
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my sister has a Pisces sun best friend who had a great fear of not having children. So she tried all kinds of methods. Thankfully she had her first baby this year.

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Posted by AquaNextDoor
Posted by Aquagirl2015
Ugh! Totally get this. Anytime I've tried to be vulnerable it's come back to hurt my feelings. Do you feel the not good enough feeling carries over from relationships to other aspects of life


Posted by AquaNextDoor
Being betrayed and get abondoned because I'm not good enough.

Aqua sun with a nasty fearful cap venus rx!

Hm not really, I'm pretty confident in others aspects of my life. My cap hubby gives me lots of reassurance and that makes it easier for me to work on my insecurities smile

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there. see? Merging with another beautiful soul gives you happiness. but it has to be the right one, of course.

the reassurance thing is true.


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Posted by AneemA
My biggest insecurity would be the need to get approval from ppl I care much about.

If I don't care about a person, I won't give any single fuck if they like me or not.

But it's a different story for a person I care about, or I admire, I want them to like me, I want them to let me into their inner circle and so on.

I am still learning that I don't need people's approvals to feel loved or complete as a person.
i notice a lot of people are like that, no matter the sun sign, placements,

they want and NEED approval from strangers.

edit so youre NOT alone.
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Posted by rakac
I think my biggest insecurity would be to be rejected and left by the persons i really care about, not like a smiple way, but in more complex, that's why i do everything on my own, i have friends and things like that, but i can never ask for help or something, it's not like they wouldn't help me, they would, but i think it's pride talking that i need and want to accomplish everything on my own, even a simplest tasks and the hardest one's, and that's deep psychological root, you do and try to do everything on your own because you're to afraid to let others help you, to afraid because if the person left you couldn't stand on your own 2 feet, i just don't want to rely on the person 2 much because i think i'm strong and others might not be as strong as me and couldn't handle it, some people wouldn't call that bad, but the truth is if you're unable to ask for help, you're just a person who's afraid of being hurt or rejected to much in my option, it's good to have a strong ground under your feet and know where you're going, to have a goal, a dream, a vision, but this road gets really lonely, you have friends, good one's that you could count on and rely on, but you just can't. It's a fight i feel i have to fight alone, i'm only 22 now and i don't know, i just look at people and i'm not judgemental or anything, i just don't want to be around most of the people, unhealthy, with no morals, no values, the more i grow the more i realise i need positive, strong people around me, with morals, values and knowledge, things like that, just simply being with these people you become more stronger, wiser, you expand your world more and more, you start to realise more things, you start to gain more confidence, you become a rival, motivator for others and they become motivation for you without you even realising it, damn an amazing feeling, an the amazing thing is, they are strong, have values, and morals, you know deep inside people like them would never leave y, they are part of you as much as you are part of them, but the wrong people in your life can take a part of you away , that's what scares me the most i think..... as strong as you are, it's the closest people that can hurt you the most, because they are inside and know your heart, they either protect it making you a better person overall, or they stab it with a poison dagger.. smile sorr for grammar tho . Big Grin


good one.

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Posted by Parkourler

Mine is being emasculated and my gf is aries. The ultimate horror scenario is a woman who protects me in a dangerous situation and not the other way around. I will never date female fighters, soldiers or cops.

Being bossed around in front of everybody or being a stay at home dad, her earning more than me all that stuff. Before that happens, the law of physics will change therefore never.

I always thought I am progressive and openminded for new things after all - wrong.
wow that's really great honesty.

most men would be fearful saying that around feminist women.

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Come on this is online i am completely anonymous. In Reality I am Putin thats why I act so tough. My security unit from the kgb will kill me for posting here. Or maybe I am Obama, tired of Michelles bossys tendencies.

Please note that I dont have a problem fighting together WITH a woman but not for her me and I am the one who will be protected.
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Yeah Aries is masculine positive , Taurus is feminine negative and those well come in handy at times. It's a cute when a Taurus allows Masculine types to do things for the Feminine types allowing free flowing connection.
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Posted by Parkourler
Come on this is online i am completely anonymous. In Reality I am Putin thats why I act so tough. My security unit from the kgb will kill me for posting here. Or maybe I am Obama, tired of Michelles bossys tendencies.

Please note that I dont have a problem fighting together WITH a woman but not for her me and I am the one who will be protected.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Yeah Aries is masculine positive , Taurus is feminine negative and those well come in handy at times. It's a cute when a Taurus allows Masculine types to do things for the Feminine types allowing free flowing connection.
Its true, I just dont allow her to lead and to dominate me. She is not happy about it but for some reason, she stays.

There is also comfort in knowing she can stand up for herself. When she walks alone in a dark alley two o clock in the morning after a nightout, I worry more about the health of the attacker and less hers smile
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Losing my creativity.

Losing my joie du vivre.

Undermining my relationships.

Being lied to...each time I sense it, I get extremely angry, even if I didn't prove it.
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ou paint me in highly flattering light! I only wish I was that logical ALL the time. Damn Aries moon!

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Posted by Aquagirl2015
I would agree with you to a certain extent but I wanted to see what/if any general commonalities certain signs had with their insecurities.

Posted by Deadpoop
I believe our insecurities are a culmination of our experiences, and upbringing along with any ideology we may have been exposed to growing up. If you ask most people their appearance at one time or another has played a role in their insecurities, and being that each one is a different sign, we cant pin this on the stars i believe...

Understandable. Never hurts to do some due diligence
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