What Is Your Role In A Relationship?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by fieryearth on Sunday, March 11, 2007 and has 29 replies.
Take this quiz and see. My results said that I was The "Controller"(LOL), but then I altered one of my answers I was so-so about, so my results changed and I got The "Dreamer".
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You are the Dreamer
Dreamers are emotional, passionate, creative, surprising, selfish, moody, childish, stubborn and many more things on top of that! You have the capacity to be anything and everything, you throw yourself in to everything you do and you're not afraid to fall in love. In fact you've dreamed of doing so forever.
As a Dreamer you have a sensitive, creative soul. You have an artistic side, maybe you paint, play and instrument or write (or all three!) but whereas you can control words and colours, you can't control your emotions, and you often let them rule you. You can go from being happy to sad in mere seconds and often try to hurt the ones you love because you are hurting.
Despite these slightly manic-depressive tendencies, you have a lot of love to give. You are looking for someone to be your anchor, as your feet rarely touch the ground. When you find someone who can be that anchor for you, with your passion, you can make both your dreams come true!
Most compatible with: The Grounded
If ever there was a person who could hold all your emotions, support you when you need it but know when to let you have your freedom, it is the Grounded. They delight in being a shoulder to cry on, and will steadfastly support no matter how angry and childish you can be. Everything with you is about highs and lows, which the Grounded desire to detract from their tendency to be mundane. You can inject a bit of interest while they inject some stability - a match made in heaven!
Least compatible with: The Insecure
The last thing you need is to be with someone who is as unstable as you. That is why the Insecure would never be a good choice of partner for you. They need as much love and support as you do, so the foundations of any relationship you tried to build would be rocky at best.
Your song is: Come Away With Me, Norah Jones
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What Power is Compatible With You? [beautiful anime pictures + 12 detailed results]



~*~Result nr 1~*~

Your power is: Clairvoyance
Explanation: Your power is that you can look into the future and see what is coming. How far and long you can look is all depending on your skill level. This can, as all powers, be used in both evil and good. Even if it may seem like a boring ability it is a huge responsibility for the carrier, becase they are constantly tempted with doing the wrongs deeds (e.g. cheat on a test). It takes high morals to not be brought down with it.
Therefor you fit with this power quite well. You take responsibility and do what is the right thing to do. This does not make you a saint, since you're only human after all. But it makes a trustworthy person and you are loyal to camrades and/or team mates. In school you were probably a good student. If you were social varies from person to person, but most clairvoyant people tend to prefer their own company or that of close friends and family. That is because you are wise and knows how to treasure the reliable in your life, since you know popularity can be a false element. You are also not that big on taking risks and prefer what is already explored. That is because you don't like suprises, they can turn out bad and then you won't be in control.
Negative aspects: Since you're always doing the right thing and being trustworthy all the time you can become frustrated. Also, all that you carry on your shoulders may stress you out. You need to relax to be in good mental shape.
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+.:Your Role in the Relationship:.+


UkeYou seem to be able to control your partner pretty well. You enjoy teasing him and playing tricks. You are a good partner though, always faithful. Just try not to hurt your partner when playing with him.
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What Is Your Role In A Relationship?


You are the Hopeless Romantic
You are into the good old fashioned wining and dining, flowers and chocolates approach to relationships. An ideal date for you would start with a meal in a fancy restaurant and end wandering down the beach hand in hand as the sun sets.

You want to be someone's white knight one day, and dream of spending the rest of your life with someone, loving and caring for them. You are committed, generous and not afraid of love and showing it.

You always handle your relationships carefully, as the last thing you would want to do is break someone's heart. You always take things slowly, taking the time to make everything magical. Some people won't appreciate your efforts, and those with a more business approach to relationships will become easily bored with the attention you lavish on them, but there are plenty of people out there dying to meet someone like you to spend the rest of their life with, so go out there and find the one for you!

Most compatible with: The Insecure
The Insecure will never want to hear the end of all you have to tell them of love. They would listen to a thousand of the poems you write for them and still want to hear the rest you have stashed away in your drawer! You love making people feel special, and the Insecure wants you to do just that for them. You could have something really beautiful together.

Least compatible with: The Cynic
You are all about love and displaying it, privately, publicly, wherever. The Cynic doesn't believe in love, particularly not in the traditional sense of the word, so you would bang heads every step of the way in a relationship. Not very destructive as bad relationships go, but not exactly productive either.

Your song is: She Will Be Loved, Maroon 5

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+.:Your Role in the Relationship:.+


SemeYou're a true gentleman who enjoys taking your partner out for a good time and actually calling the next day. You tend to surf the bars or social places looking for someone special to pick up. You are picky, but you are in no way rude whatsoever. You'll find that special someone if you haven't already.
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Awww, I sound so nice!
No, No, this is all wrong - I am the insecure one.






What Power is Compatible With You? [beautiful anime pictures + 12 detailed results]



~*~Result nr 2~*~

Your power is: Telekinesis
Explanation: This power of yours means that you can make material things move, like for e.g. making the remote control fly over you just by thinking it. As all powers, this is a great gift to have. It is also helping you out since it allows you to be lazy and have things brought to you without moving a finger. But if you move over to the immoral side this power can be used as destroying peoples property or similar things.
As a person you are easy going and just like to have a good time. There is nothing wrong with that, but people may see you as incredibly lazy and irresponsible. You prefer being out watching a movie or something than staying home and doing the math assignment. Your outlook is fairly positive but you are aware everything isn't as nice as you'd like it to be. But this doesn't stop you and even if you can be sensitive, you get over things pretty quickly. In school you could be considered as the fun one among your friends and could get along with different categories of people fairly easy. You mean no intentional harm on those around you, but some people may think you're too happy and/or stupid.
Negative aspects: Because you don't like to have things depending on you, this power may be seen as just something cool you have, and not as a helping gift. Also you can get too egotistical at times without bothering to care for others. That is why it's good to do some self-reflecting every once in a while to see that you're not going overboard.
I'd say I'm a little bit of this:
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You are Controlling
Your idea of a good relationship is being in total control of your partner, whether physically, mentally or both. You have one of those dominating personalities and like to get things done when and how you want them done. This means you often expect your partner to do things at the click of your fingers!
Being controlling isn't necessarily a bad thing, after all some people need to be told what to do, or they wouldn't get anywhere. Others, however, will find your almost obsessive personality traits intolerable and quickly get wound up when you try and boss them around. Although you may not show it, it hurts you badly when you drive someone away, because when you find someone you like you don't want to let them go.
Controlling people are often larger than life. You are probably quite popular, outgoing and confident. Some find that intimidating, but the people who fall for you fall hard and fast, worshipping the very ground you walk on, and they will be more than happy to attend to your every whim.
Most compatible with: The Submissive
The Submissive will take the worst you throw at them and, more importantly, enjoy it. Some people need telling what to do and the Submissive is one of them. They are quite content to sit in your shadow while you go on to do whatever takes your fancy, and will always be there to carry out your orders, never arguing back.
Least compatible with: The Grounded
The Grounded are among those who won't take your attitude for long. They are all about equality and being told what to do just doesn't sit with them. On the one hand they are quite prepared to be a platform for you to jump from, but they aren't about to sit back and just take your treatment if they aren't receiving anything in exchange. They want to see a bit of weakness, to feel they are needed for more than just the washing up, which is something you can't give them.
But mostly this:
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You are the Free Spirit
Free Spirits are mysterious beings, often nature loving, rarely in one place for long, always moving on. Your mystery is your greatest appeal, and your completely unreserved nature can be very attractive. You're not afraid to dance around in the rain or dive in a giant pile of leaves like a five year old. Embarrassment is not something you are well acquainted with.
Some people might consider you to be snobby, and it's true that you can
I'd say I'm a little bit of this:
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You are Controlling
Your idea of a good relationship is being in total control of your partner, whether physically, mentally or both. You have one of those dominating personalities and like to get things done when and how you want them done. This means you often expect your partner to do things at the click of your fingers!
Being controlling isn't necessarily a bad thing, after all some people need to be told what to do, or they wouldn't get anywhere. Others, however, will find your almost obsessive personality traits intolerable and quickly get wound up when you try and boss them around. Although you may not show it, it hurts you badly when you drive someone away, because when you find someone you like you don't want to let them go.
Controlling people are often larger than life. You are probably quite popular, outgoing and confident. Some find that intimidating, but the people who fall for you fall hard and fast, worshipping the very ground you walk on, and they will be more than happy to attend to your every whim.
Most compatible with: The Submissive
The Submissive will take the worst you throw at them and, more importantly, enjoy it. Some people need telling what to do and the Submissive is one of them. They are quite content to sit in your shadow while you go on to do whatever takes your fancy, and will always be there to carry out your orders, never arguing back.
Least compatible with: The Grounded
The Grounded are among those who won't take your attitude for long. They are all about equality and being told what to do just doesn't sit with them. On the one hand they are quite prepared to be a platform for you to jump from, but they aren't about to sit back and just take your treatment if they aren't receiving anything in exchange. They want to see a bit of weakness, to feel they are needed for more than just the washing up, which is something you can't give them.
But mostly this:
http://tinypic.com/

You are the Free Spirit
Free Spirits are mysterious beings, often nature loving, rarely in one place for long, always moving on. Your mystery is your greatest appeal, and your completely unreserved nature can be very attractive. You're not afraid to dance around in the rain or dive in a giant pile of leaves like a five year old. Embarrassment is not something you are well acquainted with.
Some people might consider you to be snobby, and it's true that you can
Crap, I forgot IMG . Oh well, y'all get the point.

Your power is: Clairvoyance

Explanation: Your power is that you can look into the future and see what is coming. How far and long you can look is all depending on your skill level. This can, as all powers, be used in both evil and good. Even if it may seem like a boring ability it is a huge responsibility for the carrier, becase they are constantly tempted with doing the wrongs deeds (e.g. cheat on a test). It takes high morals to not be brought down with it.
Therefor you fit with this power quite well. You take responsibility and do what is the right thing to do. This does not make you a saint, since you're only human after all. But it makes a trustworthy person and you are loyal to camrades and/or team mates. In school you were probably a good student. If you were social varies from person to person, but most clairvoyant people tend to prefer their own company or that of close friends and family. That is because you are wise and knows how to treasure the reliable in your life, since you know popularity can be a false element. You are also not that big on taking risks and prefer what is already explored. That is because you don't like suprises, they can turn out bad and then you won't be in control.
Negative aspects: Since you're always doing the right thing and being trustworthy all the time you can become frustrated. Also, all that you carry on your shoulders may stress you out. You need to relax to be in good mental shape.
Your power is: Being a controller of an element
Explanation: Wether it is earth, fire, air or water or even all of them, you can control that element. That means you can manipulate their pysichal form and with just thoughts and make an inferno for example. In good purposes it can be used to protect but in evil purposes it is used to hurt.
As a person you are slightly 'odd'. People see you as different and probably has prejudices against you. They see you as 'weird' or the 'freak', and either that hurts really much or you chose to ignore it. You keep your hatred for people inside and probably daydream about killing them, which gives you satisfaction. Truth is you are not evil, only missunderstood and mistreated.
Negative aspects: Since you have deep problems inside you could get into some sort of mental illness or simply get depressed (if you aren't already).