What Is Your Role In A Relationship?
What Is Your Role In A Relationship?
You are the Hopeless Romantic
You are into the good old fashioned wining and dining, flowers and chocolates approach to relationships. An ideal date for you would start with a meal in a fancy restaurant and end wandering down the beach hand in hand as the sun sets.
You want to be someone's white knight one day, and dream of spending the rest of your life with someone, loving and caring for them. You are committed, generous and not afraid of love and showing it.
You always handle your relationships carefully, as the last thing you would want to do is break someone's heart. You always take things slowly, taking the time to make everything magical. Some people won't appreciate your efforts, and those with a more business approach to relationships will become easily bored with the attention you lavish on them, but there are plenty of people out there dying to meet someone like you to spend the rest of their life with, so go out there and find the one for you!
Most compatible with: The Insecure
The Insecure will never want to hear the end of all you have to tell them of love. They would listen to a thousand of the poems you write for them and still want to hear the rest you have stashed away in your drawer! You love making people feel special, and the Insecure wants you to do just that for them. You could have something really beautiful together.
Least compatible with: The Cynic
You are all about love and displaying it, privately, publicly, wherever. The Cynic doesn't believe in love, particularly not in the traditional sense of the word, so you would bang heads every step of the way in a relationship. Not very destructive as bad relationships go, but not exactly productive either.
Your song is: She Will Be Loved, Maroon 5
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QS,
I've been reading your story. It sounds like this Libra guy is just confused. Sometimes men run scared when emotions get in the way. Some men don't like to lose control of themselves. By all means, talk to him, but don't you call or e-mail him. If he wants to talk to you, make his fingers do the walking. At least he did get in touch with you. I also totally agree with walking away when the time is right. I had to do that myself a while ago regarding a guy. I told him goodbye in December. I told him that he had to work with me to at least continue the friendship. Unfortunately, when I said it, I was so damn mad at him at the time. A few days later I sent him a text saying I felt bad for being so mad at him and if he could get in touch with me. He hasn't, so I closed the door. No more mindgames. It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do in my life. I still think about him to this day and hope he's alright. However, I will never chase a guy and that is what I think he wanted me to do. Therefore when I've read your story, I could relate to some of it. Hope it goes well for you.
LS,
Yes, you are right that men somehow know when we have moved on. The hard part is just keep moving on if they get in touch with you again. That is when you finally know if you've really moved on or not.
I've been reading your story. It sounds like this Libra guy is just confused. Sometimes men run scared when emotions get in the way. Some men don't like to lose control of themselves. By all means, talk to him, but don't you call or e-mail him. If he wants to talk to you, make his fingers do the walking. At least he did get in touch with you. I also totally agree with walking away when the time is right. I had to do that myself a while ago regarding a guy. I told him goodbye in December. I told him that he had to work with me to at least continue the friendship. Unfortunately, when I said it, I was so damn mad at him at the time. A few days later I sent him a text saying I felt bad for being so mad at him and if he could get in touch with me. He hasn't, so I closed the door. No more mindgames. It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do in my life. I still think about him to this day and hope he's alright. However, I will never chase a guy and that is what I think he wanted me to do. Therefore when I've read your story, I could relate to some of it. Hope it goes well for you.
LS,
Yes, you are right that men somehow know when we have moved on. The hard part is just keep moving on if they get in touch with you again. That is when you finally know if you've really moved on or not.
OMG well guess who I am seeing on Thursday night?? yup you guessed it 
LOL QS - I do like the 30 day cut off period....bit like he has 30 days to pay up....*giggles*
Aries are charming as well, etc? yes, I've not met a bad one yet but never dated one....now that could be fun finding out - nah, I'll give Mr Libra some time yet...he's coming around slowly
Oh I love coming on here every morning - it makes my day!!!
LOL QS - I do like the 30 day cut off period....bit like he has 30 days to pay up....*giggles*
Aries are charming as well, etc? yes, I've not met a bad one yet but never dated one....now that could be fun finding out - nah, I'll give Mr Libra some time yet...he's coming around slowly
Oh I love coming on here every morning - it makes my day!!!
ABSOLUTELY NOT. Never chase a guy ever. I did that once in my life, and, well, it didn't turn out good at all. Virgo guy or not, a guy will come to you if he likes you. So what he's shy. A real man will come to you. Anybody can be shy, but that shouldn't stop them from going after what they want. You deserve a man, not someone who isn't willing to take a risk.
leokitten...yes, he was hanging out at the bar she worked at for a while. and, she probably did seem like a cool person to him and very inviting, since things were going bad between us. and, so he did the logical thing at the time. and, that was the second time he broke up with me...and actually, the first time was just a short "break"...
and, i didn't worry about the same girl during the holiday...that may have been his ex-girlfriend that i was talking about. the girl that he started dating when he left me is now dating one of his good friends...
and, i didn't worry about the same girl during the holiday...that may have been his ex-girlfriend that i was talking about. the girl that he started dating when he left me is now dating one of his good friends...
Chatz said "if he one day realises that maybe I was worth holding onto"
What? Girl wake up. You must turn this around. It should be him one day realizing that maybe he's worth holding onto. Not you. Of course, you are worth holding onto. This is why he keeps staying in contact with you. However, I remember reading one time you writing that he said he wasn't ready for a relationship but wanted to continue with things the way they were. You know something, that really bothered me when I read that. Yes, he was being honest, but he wants his cake and eat it too. He must earn that privilege, don't you think? It looks like he's coming around, but in a way, he still knows you are waiting for him. He shouldn't be so certain of this, which he is. He should have to prove himself to you, not that you have to prove of your loyality to him. Sometimes in life the very thing we're looking for has been standing right in front of us all along.
What? Girl wake up. You must turn this around. It should be him one day realizing that maybe he's worth holding onto. Not you. Of course, you are worth holding onto. This is why he keeps staying in contact with you. However, I remember reading one time you writing that he said he wasn't ready for a relationship but wanted to continue with things the way they were. You know something, that really bothered me when I read that. Yes, he was being honest, but he wants his cake and eat it too. He must earn that privilege, don't you think? It looks like he's coming around, but in a way, he still knows you are waiting for him. He shouldn't be so certain of this, which he is. He should have to prove himself to you, not that you have to prove of your loyality to him. Sometimes in life the very thing we're looking for has been standing right in front of us all along.
so, am i just supposed to cut things off with him before he leaves?
i am so lost and confused right now...i don't know what to do.
i am so lost and confused right now...i don't know what to do.
I had to do it.
oh nevermind it does not post...
well here's the link-
http://zimixz.imeem.com/music/r66YUyf8/i_love_new_york/
well here's the link-
http://zimixz.imeem.com/music/r66YUyf8/i_love_new_york/
yes, but how is it logical to stay with someone that you constantly fight with???