Cancer took my virginity and dipped

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by marie123 on Monday, December 2, 2013 and has 6 replies.
Ive been in love with my cancer man for over 2 years, he will never take the chance and date me.. but he will kiss me in front of anyone he knows and invite me to dinner with his family. through out the 2 years he has been dating another girl on and off ( guess this makes me the rebound) but every time we get together alone he tells me how much he wishes he was with me and how he made the biggest mistake of letting me go, and will hold me all night kissing me and saying sweet things but never once trying to have sex or disrespect me. Also, I never told him I was a virgin since he never tried anything. 2 nights ago, we went out with friends and he told me everything i wanted to hear again and we went back to his house and I told him i was a virgin and i wanted to have sex with him, he was so loving and caring through out the whole thing and we cuddled until the morning talking about are feelings for each other, I left that day... he has not called or texted me since... It's not that i'm devasted he dosent want to date me, it's that after all we have been through he couldnt even shoot me text? Am i wrong for expecting some kind of contact after that? and he was saying how he felt bad he took my viriginity after sex.. you think hes just scared? or he just wanted to fuck and now hes out... I honestly don't think he is going to call me.. and the next time i run into him i'm going to be so angry and hurt because I feel like complete trash.
what do i do now everyone?
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It blows, but try to take it in stride. If he felt bad for taking your virginity, then his intentions weren't in your best interest. Guys are really very telling by what they say and their actions. Women just don't listen. Example- if a guy says he's a jerk, he's a jerk. Believe him.
Actions- he's not dating you, he's dating someone else. He's not into you.
Scared? No. Indecisive and using you as a back up between the break up periods with the other chick? Yes. He's being cakey eaty. There's no "scared" about it. You're his go to when he's got nothing else going on.
I've been there, and it sucks. Do your best to get through the process but you're keeping yourself unavailable to better men, all for another emotionally unavailable dick. Why are you wasting 2 years of your life on this fool? You're narrowing your vision to this dude and keeping yourself blind from guys who would actually be more worth your time.
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marie123 next time you run into him, before you get angry, could you give him a high 5 from me?
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Marie,
Pour a really large drink on his head, bash his car with a ball-bat or some spray paint, spray him with some pepper spray in the face or do both.
Regardless, you will be able to pull it off because people seldom arrest or bother with an angry girl who does such things to a man because in most cases people know that she is justified in what she is doing.
Don't get mad.
Get even.
Let us know how it goes.
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Sugarfoot ^ YES!! Exactly!
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But sometimes even if your parents tell you all this stuff & are open with you and warn you about the dangers of the world and the cruelty of people, you still won't get it until you live and experience all the things they warned you about.
Experience is the best teacher, no matter how many advices people can give you, the ultimate decision is always yours and unfortunately most of the times, especially when young, we choose not to listen.
The best lessons we can learn come from our mistakes. Only by making mistakes is that we learn, there is no other way. So, yes, If I were marie I'd be devastated, because loosing your virginity should be something special with a nice guy, at least for me it was. But, I agree with CC Marie is not a victim, she took her own decisions & she have to own them, accept them, learn from them & then move on. Hopefully next time around she'll pick a better guy and she will have a better judgement.
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