Cancers are stupid!!!!

Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

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Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

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Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

Well we aren't everyone's cop of tee and i can only imagine how annoying we can be. Don't stress so much.

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Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

Ok, your hurt right now and your entitled to your opinion ....but you know that not anymore true than Scorpios being "evil" or Tauruses being "greedy"

Dude was an immature shit head ...it was cause he wasn't because he was a cancer ...it was because he, himself was stupid

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Posted by Secret
I keep saying this over and over again... People shouldn't date Cancers. We are undatable.

Posted by Explicit
I hate Cancers!!!!!

One time I was eating a Kit Kat and enjoying it and then this too cool for school Cancer came up to me and slapped it out of my hand and it hit the dirty concrete floor! Then he pulled out a Snickers, winked at me and was like "Snickers are better.... Loser."

Then he walked off with his posse and I cried later that night!

Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by Secret
I keep saying this over and over again... People shouldn't date Cancers. We are undatable.

I see this being true. He's the second one I dated and didn't last but a minute. Smh

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Posted by Explicit
I hate Cancers!!!!!

One time I was eating a Kit Kat and enjoying it and then this too cool for school Cancer came up to me and slapped it out of my hand and it hit the dirty concrete floor! Then he pulled out a Snickers, winked at me and was like "Snickers are better.... Loser."

Then he walked off with his posse and I cried later that night!

Posted by Datariesgirl
Cancers are NOT stupid.

They do tend to cling onto past relationships especially if they really loved the person and that person broke their heart. My daughter is a young Cancer and she experienced her first heartbreak about a couple years ago. She is still clinging to that relationship, hoping and wishing she could get back with him. He is also a Cancer, btw.

This is so hard for her Aries mother to see. Nothing seems to soothe her pain.

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
OP what exactly happened? Was it something small that he should try to forgive and move on, or did you really hurt him?

Posted by yupvirgoo
I feel that but only about Cancer men.

*chuckles

#doublestandards

Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

Ok, your hurt right now and your entitled to your opinion ....but you know that not anymore true than Scorpios being "evil" or Tauruses being "greedy"

Dude was an immature shit head ...it was cause he wasn't because he was a cancer ...it was because he, himself was stupid

I am very pissed!! I mean I apologized and let go of what happened but he still wants to bring it up. I'm over it and he wants to keep talking about nothing. I don't get it!!! What else can a person do??? It's pointless!!!

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Posted by justawhatwhat

Posted by yupvirgoo
I feel that but only about Cancer men.

*chuckles

#doublestandards

Yeah, I will be the first to say that women carry their Cancer traits better than the men do. It is pretty feminine sign. Which is fine on women.

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame

Posted by justawhatwhat

Posted by yupvirgoo
I feel that but only about Cancer men.

*chuckles

#doublestandards

Yeah, I will be the first to say that women carry their Cancer traits better than the men do. It is pretty feminine sign. Which is fine on women.

Thats interesting, for me it's the other way around. I cannot mesh well with cancer ladies or women with cancer placements they show it more and I can't handle that, way too sensitive. And selfish can I say? Hmm.. their feelings matter more than yours.

I work with one, live with one, tried to befriend many of them during my life and I get the same headache.


The men don't seem to be so extreme. They have moods too but, handle them less dramatically than the women. They are pretty laid back, a little introverted, but I can dig it.

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
@LadyJuicy yeah he's an idiot though, any normal person would have the reaction you did.

Lol seems like cancer men are the most hated on Dxp.... geez, I wouldn't hold it against them all but this dude, I would drop. If he's a mature, experienced cancer maybe you'd have hope, but I can tell if you and him work things out, it'll be temporary because he sounds like a bitch baby, just imagine how he would react to something much bigger?

I do disagree with you on one thing, you shouldn't have apologized to him.

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Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

Ok, your hurt right now and your entitled to your opinion ....but you know that not anymore true than Scorpios being "evil" or Tauruses being "greedy"

Dude was an immature shit head ...it was cause he wasn't because he was a cancer ...it was because he, himself was stupid

I am very pissed!! I mean I apologized and let go of what happened but he still wants to bring it up. I'm over it and he wants to keep talking about nothing. I don't get it!!! What else can a person do??? It's pointless!!!

You say you've apologized. Did he forgive you?

Cause it doesn't seem like he does...

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
@LadyJuicy yeah he's an idiot though, any normal person would have the reaction you did.

Lol seems like cancer men are the most hated on Dxp.... geez, I wouldn't hold it against them all but this dude, I would drop. If he's a mature, experienced cancer maybe you'd have hope, but I can tell if you and him work things out, it'll be temporary because he sounds like a bitch baby, just imagine how he would react to something much bigger?

I do disagree with you on one thing, you shouldn't have apologized to him.

You would think he was mature being that he is 36 with children. He was in a 15 year relationship with a Virgo that went on and off bc he cheated and admitted to me that he did and she was dumb for taking him back as well. They have 2 kids together and I also feel like he is still not over their situation either. So I think it is best for me to move along now that I look back. Smh

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Posted by yupvirgoo
I feel that but only about Cancer men.

*chuckles

#doublestandards

Yeah, I will be the first to say that women carry their Cancer traits better than the men do. It is pretty feminine sign. Which is fine on women.

Thats interesting, for me it's the other way around. I cannot mesh well with cancer ladies or women with cancer placements they show it more and I can't handle that, way too sensitive. And selfish can I say? Hmm.. their feelings matter more than yours.

I work with one, live with one, tried to befriend many of them during my life and I get the same headache.


The men don't seem to be so extreme. They have moods too but, handle them less dramatically than the women. They are pretty laid back, a little introverted, but I can dig it.

Yeah, Cancer women don't let you in very easily for sure.

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Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
@LadyJuicy yeah he's an idiot though, any normal person would have the reaction you did.

Lol seems like cancer men are the most hated on Dxp.... geez, I wouldn't hold it against them all but this dude, I would drop. If he's a mature, experienced cancer maybe you'd have hope, but I can tell if you and him work things out, it'll be temporary because he sounds like a bitch baby, just imagine how he would react to something much bigger?

I do disagree with you on one thing, you shouldn't have apologized to him.

You would think he was mature being that he is 36 with children. He was in a 15 year relationship with a Virgo that went on and off bc he cheated and admitted to me that he did and she was dumb for taking him back as well. They have 2 kids together and I also feel like he is still not over their situation either. So I think it is best for me to move along now that I look back. Smh

I don't understand. You have a laundry list of things you don't like about him. What is it about him that you do like? It should be easy to drop him if he's as bad as you say he is. What is it about him that has you sprung?

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Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

Ok, your hurt right now and your entitled to your opinion ....but you know that not anymore true than Scorpios being "evil" or Tauruses being "greedy"

Dude was an immature shit head ...it was cause he wasn't because he was a cancer ...it was because he, himself was stupid

I am very pissed!! I mean I apologized and let go of what happened but he still wants to bring it up. I'm over it and he wants to keep talking about nothing. I don't get it!!! What else can a person do??? It's pointless!!!

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Posted by Datariesgirl
Cancers are NOT stupid.

They do tend to cling onto past relationships especially if they really loved the person and that person broke their heart. My daughter is a young Cancer and she experienced her first heartbreak about a couple years ago. She is still clinging to that relationship, hoping and wishing she could get back with him. He is also a Cancer, btw.

This is so hard for her Aries mother to see. Nothing seems to soothe her pain.

Posted by Explicit
I hate Cancers!!!!!

One time I was eating a Kit Kat and enjoying it and then this too cool for school Cancer came up to me and slapped it out of my hand and it hit the dirty concrete floor! Then he pulled out a Snickers, winked at me and was like "Snickers are better.... Loser."

Then he walked off with his posse and I cried later that night!

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

Ok, your hurt right now and your entitled to your opinion ....but you know that not anymore true than Scorpios being "evil" or Tauruses being "greedy"

Dude was an immature shit head ...it was cause he wasn't because he was a cancer ...it was because he, himself was stupid

I am very pissed!! I mean I apologized and let go of what happened but he still wants to bring it up. I'm over it and he wants to keep talking about nothing. I don't get it!!! What else can a person do??? It's pointless!!!

You say you've apologized. Did he forgive you?

Cause it doesn't seem like he does...

I don't think he did. Smh. By why be so anal about it???

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Posted by LadyJuicy
One day we were taking to each other and he mentioned something about selling his home.

he wanted me to come down (move of state at some point) and I would live with him.

I addressed it...he feels like I didn't trust his decision

I apologized and he still keep bringing it up.

Posted by pisces4scorpio
I just got entangled with my first cancer man recently. I think its been three weeks maybe? And he has dumped me (we werent going out but i dont know what else to call it) like every 24 hours we've been in communication. It seems like he has two personalities and one is nasty and toxic and then the other personality returns and apologizes profusely and wants to keep going. And hes a grown ass man with three kids!

I blocked him finally. But oh my word so much drama!

Then my exhusband has dated three cancer women in the last couple of years and they are the same way - randomly lose their shit on him, dump him then beg him to come back. One cancer woman has been stalking/harassing him, me and even my ex bf for a solid YEAR now - its crazy.

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Posted by Explicit
I hate Cancers!!!!!

One time I was eating a Kit Kat and enjoying it and then this too cool for school Cancer came up to me and slapped it out of my hand and it hit the dirty concrete floor! Then he pulled out a Snickers, winked at me and was like "Snickers are better.... Loser."

Then he walked off with his posse and I cried later that night!

uh ...well...er...I formally apologize on behalf of all the cancers...



forgive us!

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by LadyJuicy

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Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by Cancan26

Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

Ok, your hurt right now and your entitled to your opinion ....but you know that not anymore true than Scorpios being "evil" or Tauruses being "greedy"

Dude was an immature shit head ...it was cause he wasn't because he was a cancer ...it was because he, himself was stupid

I am very pissed!! I mean I apologized and let go of what happened but he still wants to bring it up. I'm over it and he wants to keep talking about nothing. I don't get it!!! What else can a person do??? It's pointless!!!

You say you've apologized. Did he forgive you?

Cause it doesn't seem like he does...

I don't think he did. Smh. By why be so anal about it???

It really bothered him and he keeps bringing it up because of this reason. You just want to sweep it under the rug, forgiveness or not.

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Posted by LadyJuicy
One day we were taking to each other and he mentioned something about selling his home.

he wanted me to come down (move of state at some point) and I would live with him.

I addressed it...he feels like I didn't trust his decision

I apologized and he still keep bringing it up.

What may be something small to you is obviously not so small for him. He feels like you don't trust his decisions. That's no small thing.

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Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by LadyJuicy
One day we were taking to each other and he mentioned something about selling his home.

he wanted me to come down (move of state at some point) and I would live with him.

I addressed it...he feels like I didn't trust his decision

I apologized and he still keep bringing it up.

What may be something small to you is obviously not so small for him. He feels like you don't trust his decisions. That's no small thing.

I did and that's why apologized but he is being a b*tch about it!!!

DXP future Thread. Wah wah he wont pick up my calls....wah wah

i miss him so much

wah wah

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Posted by LadyJuicy
One day we were taking to each other and he mentioned something about selling his home.

he wanted me to come down (move of state at some point) and I would live with him.

I addressed it...he feels like I didn't trust his decision

I apologized and he still keep bringing it up.

What may be something small to you is obviously not so small for him. He feels like you don't trust his decisions. That's no small thing.

I did and that's why apologized but he is being a b*tch about it!!!

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Posted by LadyJuicy
I don't understand how people can hold onto past relationships and past negativity and never move on when you have someone who gives a damn about you. You would rather scold them then let go and move on. Cancer man is still holding onto something so small and stupid and keeps bringing it up then wonders why I am getting irritated about it. I have moved on and let the sh*t go why can't he??? Why do cancers do this???

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Posted by Harukka

They are the cute version of scorpios.

lol

Posted by LadyJuicy
I don't understand how people can hold onto past relationships and past negativity and never move on

1. when you have someone who gives a damn about you. You would rather scold them then let go and move on.

2. Cancer man is still holding onto something so small and stupid and keeps bringing it up then wonders why I am getting irritated about it. I have moved on and let the sh*t go why can't he??? Why do cancers do this???

Kinda confused and didn't figure out your issue with the cancer man:

1. this someone is you? 2. this something is?

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Posted by TheCanBull
Immature Cancer does this.

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
OP what exactly happened? Was it something small that he should try to forgive and move on, or did you really hurt him?

One day we were taking to each other and he mentioned something about selling his home. So take into consideration he wanted me to come down (move of state at some point) and I would live with him. So I got confused and paused and said nothing. So he's like what's wrong? So I addressed it and that was that. I didn't get a attitude or talk rudely, said my peace and that was it. So after that he tried to change it up and say anything i do is for me and my family but I felt like it was a selfish response when it came out. I have been talking about "we and us" and then he said that. I got over it and he feels like I didn't trust his decision and got mad and that want the case I got over it and was like ok. So apparently he's still going to hold that over my head and it's wrong. I apologized and he still keep bringing it up. I'm over it why keep picking at it? I told him I'd go with his decision but he still not seeing it. So today I talked to him and he's like I wanna be friends and don't wanna be with anyone all bc of that so I said ok I'll move on bc I'm not waiting for any man to be with me when they want to. I have enough going on with my mom and finances and he's knows this is a stress factor for me. He is not being understanding at all and trying to make amends so f*ck it!!!!

This isn't a Cancer man thing. He's looking for any excuse to fight with you and push you away which tells me he isn't serious about you. This isn't how the Cancer men who are into you act. They don't bring shit up that you've worked through, if you ask them something straight up they'll answer it the same way, address shit and move past it. He may run what you said over in his head a few times but he wouldn't bring it up like that. He wouldn't want you thinking that he's thinking about it, comes off as insecure.. He's looking for an excuse to cut you off and then bouncing back. He's not sure about you. He's an immature man and those exist in all signs. Don't give up on Cancers, just give up on this fuckwit.

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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
OP what exactly happened? Was it something small that he should try to forgive and move on, or did you really hurt him?

One day we were taking to each other and he mentioned something about selling his home. So take into consideration he wanted me to come down (move of state at some point) and I would live with him. So I got confused and paused and said nothing. So he's like what's wrong? So I addressed it and that was that. I didn't get a attitude or talk rudely, said my peace and that was it. So after that he tried to change it up and say anything i do is for me and my family but I felt like it was a selfish response when it came out. I have been talking about "we and us" and then he said that. I got over it and he feels like I didn't trust his decision and got mad and that want the case I got over it and was like ok. So apparently he's still going to hold that over my head and it's wrong. I apologized and he still keep bringing it up. I'm over it why keep picking at it? I told him I'd go with his decision but he still not seeing it. So today I talked to him and he's like I wanna be friends and don't wanna be with anyone all bc of that so I said ok I'll move on bc I'm not waiting for any man to be with me when they want to. I have enough going on with my mom and finances and he's knows this is a stress factor for me. He is not being understanding at all and trying to make amends so f*ck it!!!!

This isn't a Cancer man thing. He's looking for any excuse to fight with you and push you away which tells me he isn't serious about you. This isn't how the Cancer men who are into you act. They don't bring shit up that you've worked through, if you ask them something straight up they'll answer it the same way, address shit and move past it. He may run what you said over in his head a few times but he wouldn't bring it up like that. He wouldn't want you thinking that he's thinking about it, comes off as insecure.. He's looking for an excuse to cut you off and then bouncing back. He's not sure about you. He's an immature man and those exist in all signs. Don't give up on Cancers, just give up on this fuckwit.

How do we go from me moving in with him to him turning the tables on me after something like this??? We go from him bringing me flowers, having a romantic dinner and being intimate to him doing this. What is the bouncing back about????

I can't tell you sorry, because I don't think a serious Cancer would play with your heart like he's doing. Do you know his mars and venus? moon?

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OP what exactly happened? Was it something small that he should try to forgive and move on, or did you really hurt him?

One day we were taking to each other and he mentioned something about selling his home. So take into consideration he wanted me to come down (move of state at some point) and I would live with him. So I got confused and paused and said nothing. So he's like what's wrong? So I addressed it and that was that. I didn't get a attitude or talk rudely, said my peace and that was it. So after that he tried to change it up and say anything i do is for me and my family but I felt like it was a selfish response when it came out. I have been talking about "we and us" and then he said that. I got over it and he feels like I didn't trust his decision and got mad and that want the case I got over it and was like ok. So apparently he's still going to hold that over my head and it's wrong. I apologized and he still keep bringing it up. I'm over it why keep picking at it? I told him I'd go with his decision but he still not seeing it. So today I talked to him and he's like I wanna be friends and don't wanna be with anyone all bc of that so I said ok I'll move on bc I'm not waiting for any man to be with me when they want to. I have enough going on with my mom and finances and he's knows this is a stress factor for me. He is not being understanding at all and trying to make amends so f*ck it!!!!

This isn't a Cancer man thing. He's looking for any excuse to fight with you and push you away which tells me he isn't serious about you. This isn't how the Cancer men who are into you act. They don't bring shit up that you've worked through, if you ask them something straight up they'll answer it the same way, address shit and move past it. He may run what you said over in his head a few times but he wouldn't bring it up like that. He wouldn't want you thinking that he's thinking about it, comes off as insecure.. He's looking for an excuse to cut you off and then bouncing back. He's not sure about you. He's an immature man and those exist in all signs. Don't give up on Cancers, just give up on this fuckwit.

Basically in a much more to the point fashion.

Good post.

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Posted by Secret
People should stay away from Cancers as much as possible.

I personally wouldn't date another one again.. ?

He pretty much traumatized me.

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Posted by Arielle83

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Posted by LadyJuicy

Posted by TheCanBull
Immature Cancer does this.

But why??? Funny thing is I have a feeling he going to contact me and still try to bring this bull up!!

It's what they do.

I bring things up but not stuff that's to do with my loved one or something that breaks the harmony.

Like perhaps i want to talk about something dumb i did in my past, and even later i may reflect upon it again.

What you are dealing with is manipulation, this is a side of Cancer that they are masterful at like Scorpio, we can dig buried bodies up from nowhere and instantly use it.

My manipulative side is very in control and i rarely if ever use it because my biggest power with it is the ability to read people through self reflection and tearing them apart with cold hard facts.

Another point, if you love someone and bringing up the past is breaking things, then it's definitely something you should not do. Careless and messing with your feelings.

Or maybe he's just hurt and thinks her apology holds no weight so he keeps bringing it up because he isn't over the hurt. It's in his mind and her trying to shove it under the rug just proves insincerity.

She's the one apologizing.

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Posted by LadyJuicy
I don't understand how people can hold onto past relationships and past negativity and never move on when you have someone who gives a damn about you. You would rather scold them then let go and move on. Cancer man is still holding onto something so small and stupid and keeps bringing it up then wonders why I am getting irritated about it. I have moved on and let the sh*t go why can't he??? Why do cancers do this???

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Posted by LadyJuicy
I don't understand how people can hold onto past relationships and past negativity and never move on when you have someone who gives a damn about you. You would rather scold them then let go and move on. Cancer man is still holding onto something so small and stupid and keeps bringing it up then wonders why I am getting irritated about it. I have moved on and let the sh*t go why can't he??? Why do cancers do this???

Because it affectect him, not you.

You are just a whinny bitch

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