Cancers are stupid!!!! (Page 2)

Sadly, some (note I did not say all) cancer girls think they are the hottest thing since sliced bread and act like little shits to quality men.

....Then one day, they turn 28 and realize that they are going to die alone.

.....Because no man in his right mind is going to marry a shriveled up nearly-30-something woman with dead ovaries.

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Posted by AnOdeToNoOne
Sadly, some (note I did not say all) cancer girls think they are the hottest thing since sliced bread and act like little shits to quality men.

....Then one day, they turn 28 and realize that they are going to die alone.

.....Because no man in his right mind is going to marry a shriveled up nearly-30-something woman with dead ovaries.

You sound pathetically hurt.

You also sound like a pedophile.

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Nope, I have a totally renewed outlook on life when it comes to love and romance.

.....And there is no way some bitter, lying and useless POS like you can ever change that.

Posted by BubbleButtBarbie
Whoever created this thread is a whiny bitch.

Fuck you.

I don't think this is a Cancer trait. I move on from arguments. So he's still not sure about you when you hesitated about moving in together? I don't feel like everything is being said here. If that is it then he's a derp.

Posted by kissmygrits
I don't think this is a Cancer trait. I move on from arguments. So he's still not sure about you when you hesitated about moving in together? I don't feel like everything is being said here. If that is it then he's a derp.

Too much to retype as I explained everything in my post and threads. I have moved on bc he is mad over nothing and got scared. He should of just said something instead of doing what he did to me. I miss him but I am moving on.

Honestly, I came on here because I was curious if Cancer guys are somewhat all the same, and I ran across this thread. From all of the OP's statements and responses, I was kind of awestruck with how simple the solution to the issue is. Your initial response to his inquiry was probably harsh, and your subsequent apology was probably very insincere. Probably along the lines of "I am sorry you feel that way", which in effect is a non-apology. As you stated you apologized not because you really meant it, but you thought he needed to hear it. Something YOU found trivial and a non-issue, was a bigger issue for him. And it probably wasn't even the topic that started it, but how you reacted after the topic that is the real issue and why he continued to bring it up. But because YOU felt it wasn't an issue, he should just "totally get over it because I am". You are basically dictating to a person how they should and shouldn't feel, and how they should be acting because that's what YOU would do. He is not you, and you shouldn't demand someone to act in according to your plans, or how you would react. People are entitled to feel the way they feel. In any relationship, people should respect how each other feels, even if you don't agree with it. If you can't do that, then every relationship (whether he is a Cancer or not) is doomed to implode because there is a lack of insight. You basically failed his tests, and Cancers love testing to see how you react, and now he's scurrying in his shell as far and fast as he can get.

Posted by nikkistar
Honestly, I came on here because I was curious if Cancer guys are somewhat all the same, and I ran across this thread. From all of the OP's statements and responses, I was kind of awestruck with how simple the solution to the issue is. Your initial response to his inquiry was probably harsh, and your subsequent apology was probably very insincere. Probably along the lines of "I am sorry you feel that way", which in effect is a non-apology. As you stated you apologized not because you really meant it, but you thought he needed to hear it. Something YOU found trivial and a non-issue, was a bigger issue for him. And it probably wasn't even the topic that started it, but how you reacted after the topic that is the real issue and why he continued to bring it up. But because YOU felt it wasn't an issue, he should just "totally get over it because I am". You are basically dictating to a person how they should and shouldn't feel, and how they should be acting because that's what YOU would do. He is not you, and you shouldn't demand someone to act in according to your plans, or how you would react. People are entitled to feel the way they feel. In any relationship, people should respect how each other feels, even if you don't agree with it. If you can't do that, then every relationship (whether he is a Cancer or not) is doomed to implode because there is a lack of insight. You basically failed his tests, and Cancers love testing to see how you react, and now he's scurrying in his shell as far and fast as he can get.

He can stay in his shell as long as he wants bc I sincerely apologized to that man from my heart bc I liked him I didn't just tell him bc I wanted to!! He hurt me first by getting mad at something that wasn't a big deal bc he felt like I didn't trust his decision. But it's not about just trusting him it's him coming to me as the woman who's supposed to be in his life and discussing things first not just making a decision he wanna do that not only affects him but me and his children. It was a selfish comment he made and I called him out on it and addressed right then and there. He didn't like my reaction and that's what he told. It's not anything more to the story this is what happened as I stated and it went farther then it had too. I really liked this man and saw a future for us but bc he felt the need to hold it over my head and bring it back up was petty and childish. Then to say he doesn't want to be with anyone and we can be friends was f*cked up to me after all this time I'm talking about us building and he wanting us to live together. I know he feels stupid that things got like this but I'm good and have moved onto another man who is the total opposite and not a Cancer man. I wish him the best and hopes he doesn't hurt anyone else or make them feel how I felt. Thanks for you post. ?

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Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

Well we aren't everyone's cop of tee and i can only imagine how annoying we can be. Don't stress so much.

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Cop of tee? You mean cup of tea? 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by juliette

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Posted by Cancan26
Come on your better than this... It's gonna end up in the cancer man left me thread ...

I'm keeping it real.... Cancer's are crazy!!!

Well we aren't everyone's cop of tee and i can only imagine how annoying we can be. Don't stress so much.

Cop of tee? You mean cup of tea? 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

what can i say. i have a thing for cops. just kidding. ACAB

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LOL, that's what I was thinking too!! 😎 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by yupvirgoo
I feel that but only about Cancer men.

*chuckles

#doublestandards

Yeah, I will be the first to say that women carry their Cancer traits better than the men do. It is pretty feminine sign. Which is fine on women.

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but Cancer men are hot . . . aaahhh I just love Cancer men

just lovely ... those acting rude are people who's trying to play with your reactions or just plain immature but Crab men are just... lovely if they matured

For some reason I tend to do this even though fully in my head I know its not logical and its going to make me feel worse in some way each and every day. I get caught up on the "historical" side of a person, the part I spent with them and the part that I didn't and also the different person they are today. I mourn for a side of them that is now dead and I don't know why. I am all for growth including within myself but I get sad when there are certain aspects of a person I know they have outgrown or outgrown a situation. I will spend any kind of resource and go through a person's life like a case file like I am writing a book on the person. I get really hung up on certain people that to anyone else probably were like average or just a normal person living their life. I feel like they were souls I could have taken in at one time before they were corrupted and made them have a different outlook on life. I think my Pisces Moon gets caught up in what certain people represented at one time that they don't anymore and it drives my Cancer side mad at times. Sometimes I feel my soul should have connected with them like 10 years before it did and I want to know what they were like in the days before me. In a way I know we aren't compatible but I hold on hope to the future that were crossed for as reason and that certain connections with people never die.

He's not over it clearly. He needs more time :/

Sorry, can't deal with stupid cancer shit - they whine too much about absolutely nothing - and my world has more substance than that! Just move on down the road ...

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Posted by AneemA
Omg this thread still keep coming back.

Never got interested to read this thread but yeah this thread refuse to die out.

Geez.

right, exactly my thoughts, why isn't this thread DEAD

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Exactly!!!! I'm over it. Lol

Posted by AneemA
Omg this thread still keep coming back.

Never got interested to read this thread but yeah this thread refuse to die out.

Geez.

You should die!!! ?? People comment on old stuff all the time. Grow up fetus face!!!