I have been waiting on this cancer woman for the longest. She was with a sag and their relationship has been long gone and dead. Then she fell for an Aquarius, like myself. They had a major falling out awhile ago and now I guess they're back at it. Every time I think they're done and I can finally have her to myself, they make up and I guess fall more deeper in love. I try not to ask her too many questions about him but it's killing me at this point. From what it sounds like he is really trying to pull the moves on her and is stepping up his game by spending more time with her, planning special treetrunking moments together and butter. I can't take this butter anymore. Every time I think she's done with him he comes back harder and she goes hard too. Dude has gotten his ass kicked by her baby daddy, has gone through piles of stress and has jumped through hoops to please her. And she jumps through hoops too! It treetrunking irks the hell out of me. Just to hear her stories of some of the things they do make my skin crawl. They do drugs together, treetrunk for hours, he can make her squirt, and apparently are overly passionate with each other with kissing, cuddling and even holding each other's hands and butter. Plus his MOTHER mother said she would make something to wear. Wtf! I didn't even think she was that close with his family. And he has a son that is familiar with her and his son is familiar with her daughter. And they're around the same age. I know they both see that as a plus. I don't have any kids so that's a strike against me. Plus he's of my same cultural background and I feel some type of way because of it. What I want to know is: are they in love? Is she in love? Is he in love with her? You think they will be together soon and be happily together or should I keep trying? She has told me there is no other space in her life for anyone new but I've been her friend for years and I just KNOW we would have such an amazing connection. I think I'll just kiss her surprisingly and see what happens next.
Cancers, do I stand a chance?

"They do drugs together"

Drugs are stronger than that amazing connection, StarChild63. You still have a chance of success, but it's between 0% and 5% .
I wasn't being funny. Yes they do drugs together, smoke weed. And if you don't have any valuable information to help with my situation then just don't say anything at all. Funny how you can pick out stupid details in my story but you can't contribute to the thread in a productive way. Typical Americans. A bunch of worthless judgmental opinionated bs. This is why I don't come in this forum too often anymore. Thanks for nothing you worthless pieces of shit, I'll just go talk to her about this when I see her and stop using this site.

why would you kiss a woman who is with someone else? that alone is reason enough to not take you seriously.
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