he didn't keep his promise.. I guess it's over?

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His birthday is coming up very soon. Instead of replying to his text I called him to acknowledge his birthday and I would like to do something with him depending on what he already has planned.

He didn't answer so I text him to let him know why I called and told him to call me to discuss more.

He text the next day to apologize and explained why couldn't he call last night and said he will call me later in the afternoon. I replied to let him know ok chat soon

He didn't call like he said he would.... so I sent him a text at night to ask if he is ok and I've been worrying about him.

it's the first time he broke his promise...
Typical cancer male behavior. He sent you a text earlier to buy him time to NOT call you.

It's sweet of you to want to celebrate his birthday. It shows that you are putting him as priority which is normal as you've been dating for awhile exclusively. However from what I'm seeing he is only treating you as option.

Perhaps you should give him the birthday present he deserves - break up call.. If he answers
Posted by Koniuchaa
What was his reason for not calling you? And why didn't he just call you back later?
@libraqueen

He was at a work event and didn't finish until late. He text me in the day saying he will call later in afternoon before going into a meeting.

Then I haven;t heard from him, so I text him at night. .as he never broke his promise before...

He text back to apologize saying he forgot he invited his parents over for dinner .when he finish work they called him to say they are coming over. He ran to buy food to cook, he apologized again to have worried me. He said if they are leaving soon he will call if not tomorrow morning ...
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What was his reason for not calling you? And why didn't he just call you back later?
He was at a work event and didn't finish until late. He text me in the day saying he will call later in afternoon before going into a meeting.

Then I haven;t heard from him, so I text him at night. .as he never broke his promise before...

He text back to apologize saying he forgot he invited his parents over for dinner .when he finish work they called him to say they are coming over. He ran to buy food to cook, he apologized again to have worried me. He said if they are leaving soon he will call if not tomorrow morning ...
Have you ever spoken on the phone? Sounds like a lot of 'forgetting' really.
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Yes we have spoke on the phone and video calls before. but calling is introduced recently. yea I agree there's lots of "forgetting" he is very unoragnized in general... but i idn't know it's to this extend..
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Posted by Koniuchaa
What was his reason for not calling you? And why didn't he just call you back later?
@libraqueen

He was at a work event and didn't finish until late. He text me in the day saying he will call later in afternoon before going into a meeting.

Then I haven;t heard from him, so I text him at night. .as he never broke his promise before...

He text back to apologize saying he forgot he invited his parents over for dinner .when he finish work they called him to say they are coming over. He ran to buy food to cook, he apologized again to have worried me. He said if they are leaving soon he will call if not tomorrow morning ...
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He couldn't grab the damn phone to call while waiting in line at the supermarket? He is playing you hard
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What was his reason for not calling you? And why didn't he just call you back later?
He was at a work event and didn't finish until late. He text me in the day saying he will call later in afternoon before going into a meeting.

Then I haven;t heard from him, so I text him at night. .as he never broke his promise before...

He text back to apologize saying he forgot he invited his parents over for dinner .when he finish work they called him to say they are coming over. He ran to buy food to cook, he apologized again to have worried me. He said if they are leaving soon he will call if not tomorrow morning ...
Have you ever spoken on the phone? Sounds like a lot of 'forgetting' really.
Yes we have spoke on the phone and video calls before. but calling is introduced recently. yea I agree there's lots of "forgetting" he is very unoragnized in general... but i idn't know it's to this extend..
Well, I would give him a chance, could have been an honest mistake. Just be weary of someone that is always forgetting. Forgetting that you invited your parents for dinner seems odd.
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It's the frist time it happens. He just came back from a work trip over the weekend. I get what you are saying... those who are always "forgetting" needs to be wary of...

I know he got work stuff that are 1 month overdue... I'm not sure what to say about him apart from super unorganized.
If this is the first time he has done something like this then why the panic? Sounds to me like you may be jumping the gun and assuming the worst but he is your bf and so long as there has been a history of clear communication, I think you should not find what sound like reasonable excuses...i.e. caught up at work (not many people have time to call their gfs at work) and having family come over. Sometimes people forget. Give him the benefit of the doubt and if it becomes a habit then worry.

Good luck :*
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If this is the first time he has done something like this then why the panic? Sounds to me like you may be jumping the gun and assuming the worst but he is your bf and so long as there has been a history of clear communication, I think you should not find what sound like reasonable excuses...i.e. caught up at work (not many people have time to call their gfs at work) and having family come over. Sometimes people forget. Give him the benefit of the doubt and if it becomes a habit then worry.

Good luck :*
Yea I admit I jumped the gun, i've never feels so comfortable with a guy. it's not what I'm used to... so I guess when things happen my logical sides is trying to look at it without using my feelings...
Posted by libraqueen
Based on what you said I think it was an honest mistake. You do have the right to be sad though, so be sad, wait for him to make it up to you somehow.
I was sad and i was really worrying... he is the man of his word.. so i was worrying he would have an accident.. then I jumped the gun and thought may be he changed his mind.. I guess first birthday does add pressure...

will let him call me tomorrow about what to do for his birthday..
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Posted by Koniuchaa
What was his reason for not calling you? And why didn't he just call you back later?
@libraqueen

He was at a work event and didn't finish until late. He text me in the day saying he will call later in afternoon before going into a meeting.

Then I haven;t heard from him, so I text him at night. .as he never broke his promise before...

He text back to apologize saying he forgot he invited his parents over for dinner .when he finish work they called him to say they are coming over. He ran to buy food to cook, he apologized again to have worried me. He said if they are leaving soon he will call if not tomorrow morning ...
He couldn't grab the damn phone to call while waiting in line at the supermarket? He is playing you hard
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Ok what If your standing in line with groceries, are you going to pick up? If you are putting all your groceries on the conveyor belt and phone ringing away, are you going to stop and pick the phone up?
I assumed he has two hands
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Posted by Koniuchaa
What was his reason for not calling you? And why didn't he just call you back later?
@libraqueen

He was at a work event and didn't finish until late. He text me in the day saying he will call later in afternoon before going into a meeting.

Then I haven;t heard from him, so I text him at night. .as he never broke his promise before...

He text back to apologize saying he forgot he invited his parents over for dinner .when he finish work they called him to say they are coming over. He ran to buy food to cook, he apologized again to have worried me. He said if they are leaving soon he will call if not tomorrow morning ...
He couldn't grab the damn phone to call while waiting in line at the supermarket? He is playing you hard
Ok what If your standing in line with groceries, are you going to pick up? If you are putting all your groceries on the conveyor belt and phone ringing away, are you going to stop and pick the phone up?
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I would not pick up if I am standing in line with groceries

just let him call you, dont text him and be calm, you always get a panick attack if he is not quick....

dont listen to SensitiveBlues (block her)
Posted by SensitiveBlues
This is going to blow up in your face I'm just enjoying it throughly


I don't see why that's a problem


I have yet to see such insecurity, that must be debilitating


I'm enjoying this slow collapse
you should know
Shit I forget to call my Momma after being sucked into Office Space world. Here's what you do. Call him! Acknowledge he's busy but throw in birthday plans.
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If this is the first time he has done something like this then why the panic? Sounds to me like you may be jumping the gun and assuming the worst but he is your bf and so long as there has been a history of clear communication, I think you should not find what sound like reasonable excuses...i.e. caught up at work (not many people have time to call their gfs at work) and having family come over. Sometimes people forget. Give him the benefit of the doubt and if it becomes a habit then worry.

Good luck :*
He's not her boyfriend


They're just dating
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Ooh got it, I thought I read exclusive somewhere. Aside from the bf remark OP I would still say relax. That is easier said than done so I understand but if you say he is consistent usually, then isnt he allowed this time to be busy or preoccupied with family?
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If this is the first time he has done something like this then why the panic? Sounds to me like you may be jumping the gun and assuming the worst but he is your bf and so long as there has been a history of clear communication, I think you should not find what sound like reasonable excuses...i.e. caught up at work (not many people have time to call their gfs at work) and having family come over. Sometimes people forget. Give him the benefit of the doubt and if it becomes a habit then worry.

Good luck :*
He's not her boyfriend


They're just dating
Ooh got it, I thought I read exclusive somewhere. Aside from the bf remark OP I would still say relax. That is easier said than done so I understand but if you say he is consistent usually, then isnt he allowed this time to be busy or preoccupied with family?
exclusive doesn't entail boyfriend, it just means we're both fuking one another right now and im not dating someone else


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Lol chill out love, I know what exclusive means I just jumped the gun for the sake of convenience to writing. Anyways can you please try to be hell bent on the subject of the post and not their title, who fucking cares.
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If this is the first time he has done something like this then why the panic? Sounds to me like you may be jumping the gun and assuming the worst but he is your bf and so long as there has been a history of clear communication, I think you should not find what sound like reasonable excuses...i.e. caught up at work (not many people have time to call their gfs at work) and having family come over. Sometimes people forget. Give him the benefit of the doubt and if it becomes a habit then worry.

Good luck :*
He's not her boyfriend


They're just dating
Ooh got it, I thought I read exclusive somewhere. Aside from the bf remark OP I would still say relax. That is easier said than done so I understand but if you say he is consistent usually, then isnt he allowed this time to be busy or preoccupied with family?
exclusive doesn't entail boyfriend, it just means we're both fuking one another right now and im not dating someone else


Lol chill out love, I know what exclusive means I just jumped the gun for the sake of convenience to writing. Anyways can you please try to be hell bent on the subject of the post and not their title, who fucking cares.
I just hate Virgos

dont' mind me
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I am not a fan either lol
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If this is the first time he has done something like this then why the panic? Sounds to me like you may be jumping the gun and assuming the worst but he is your bf and so long as there has been a history of clear communication, I think you should not find what sound like reasonable excuses...i.e. caught up at work (not many people have time to call their gfs at work) and having family come over. Sometimes people forget. Give him the benefit of the doubt and if it becomes a habit then worry.

Good luck :*
He's not her boyfriend


They're just dating
Ooh got it, I thought I read exclusive somewhere. Aside from the bf remark OP I would still say relax. That is easier said than done so I understand but if you say he is consistent usually, then isnt he allowed this time to be busy or preoccupied with family?
exclusive doesn't entail boyfriend, it just means we're both fuking one another right now and im not dating someone else


Lol chill out love, I know what exclusive means I just jumped the gun for the sake of convenience to writing. Anyways can you please try to be hell bent on the subject of the post and not their title, who fucking cares.
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Sensitive blue is known for attacking poppy, well any Virgos. They have been exclusive way before they had sex. From what I read he is very respectful. However I'm still not a fan of him as I think he is really all over the place or not ready for anything.
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Anyways he probably is dating another woman.

You're not his gf so he's probably looking at all his options

I would


You're a headache
They are exclusive, meaning neither of them are exploring other options. Are you trying to tell us cancers are liars because this is coming from you - a cancer?


Posted by kissmygrits
Shit I forget to call my Momma after being sucked into Office Space world. Here's what you do. Call him! Acknowledge he's busy but throw in birthday plans.
Hey girl! that's what I tried to do. I called once the other night so he said he will call me back and you know the story..

I will wait for his call as he said (again) he will call me.. he better call soon as I need to know before I get the birthday present ready.

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Posted by Koniuchaa
What was his reason for not calling you? And why didn't he just call you back later?
@libraqueen

He was at a work event and didn't finish until late. He text me in the day saying he will call later in afternoon before going into a meeting.

Then I haven;t heard from him, so I text him at night. .as he never broke his promise before...

He text back to apologize saying he forgot he invited his parents over for dinner .when he finish work they called him to say they are coming over. He ran to buy food to cook, he apologized again to have worried me. He said if they are leaving soon he will call if not tomorrow morning ...
He couldn't grab the damn phone to call while waiting in line at the supermarket? He is playing you hard
Ok what If your standing in line with groceries, are you going to pick up? If you are putting all your groceries on the conveyor belt and phone ringing away, are you going to stop and pick the phone up?
I would not pick up if I am standing in line with groceries

just let him call you, dont text him and be calm, you always get a panick attack if he is not quick....

dont listen to SensitiveBlues (block her)
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Sensitiveblues never really contribute to my thread, all she ever does it telling me everything is my fault because I'm a Virgo and how she is waiting for this to end. I sympathize that she had a bad experience with her Virgo ex, and she probably hasn't let go of him or the relationship. What I don't sympathize is her taking it out on strangers (it;s not just me, pretty much any virgos) who doesn't deserve it. That's why I blocked her and only reply to people who are genuinely contributing.

I sensed his apologies are real, it's good to let him call me, so it gives him a chance to own up to his words.
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Posted by malloryor
If this is the first time he has done something like this then why the panic? Sounds to me like you may be jumping the gun and assuming the worst but he is your bf and so long as there has been a history of clear communication, I think you should not find what sound like reasonable excuses...i.e. caught up at work (not many people have time to call their gfs at work) and having family come over. Sometimes people forget. Give him the benefit of the doubt and if it becomes a habit then worry.

Good luck :*
He's not her boyfriend


They're just dating
Ooh got it, I thought I read exclusive somewhere. Aside from the bf remark OP I would still say relax. That is easier said than done so I understand but if you say he is consistent usually, then isnt he allowed this time to be busy or preoccupied with family?
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Regardless of titles, I trust that we both are exclusive. I have no issue with people being busy, it's only when they don't deliver what they said they will, i simply see less credibility in their words.

Anyway when he calls I will talk to him to understand him better regarding communications.
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If this is the first time he has done something like this then why the panic? Sounds to me like you may be jumping the gun and assuming the worst but he is your bf and so long as there has been a history of clear communication, I think you should not find what sound like reasonable excuses...i.e. caught up at work (not many people have time to call their gfs at work) and having family come over. Sometimes people forget. Give him the benefit of the doubt and if it becomes a habit then worry.

Good luck :*
He's not her boyfriend


They're just dating
Ooh got it, I thought I read exclusive somewhere. Aside from the bf remark OP I would still say relax. That is easier said than done so I understand but if you say he is consistent usually, then isnt he allowed this time to be busy or preoccupied with family?
Regardless of titles, I trust that we both are exclusive. I have no issue with people being busy, it's only when they don't deliver what they said they will, i simply see less credibility in their words.

Anyway when he calls I will talk to him to understand him better regarding communications.
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Yeah but it has only been a day right? You expected him to drop everything while at work and call you, that's unreasonable. I am pretty sure he did indeed loae track of time or became busy after his meeting let out and could not call you. It isnt like he was off on vacation somewhere and then with it being his bday, it makes sense that his parents would of popped over.

Idk maybe it is your intuition warning you if you feel this much concern but I stand by what I wrote, if he has up until this point, always stood by his word, why begin to doubt him now, especially when his excuses are pretty damn reasonable?

@Poppyseeds Girl, I think you need to hide your phone from yourself. Leave it at home for a day or two and just decompress.
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What was his reason for not calling you? And why didn't he just call you back later?
@libraqueen

He was at a work event and didn't finish until late. He text me in the day saying he will call later in afternoon before going into a meeting.

Then I haven;t heard from him, so I text him at night. .as he never broke his promise before...

He text back to apologize saying he forgot he invited his parents over for dinner .when he finish work they called him to say they are coming over. He ran to buy food to cook, he apologized again to have worried me. He said if they are leaving soon he will call if not tomorrow morning ...
He couldn't grab the damn phone to call while waiting in line at the supermarket? He is playing you hard
Ok what If your standing in line with groceries, are you going to pick up? If you are putting all your groceries on the conveyor belt and phone ringing away, are you going to stop and pick the phone up?
I would not pick up if I am standing in line with groceries

just let him call you, dont text him and be calm, you always get a panick attack if he is not quick....

dont listen to SensitiveBlues (block her)
Sensitiveblues never really contribute to my thread, all she ever does it telling me everything is my fault because I'm a Virgo and how she is waiting for this to end. I sympathize that she had a bad experience with her Virgo ex, and she probably hasn't let go of him or the relationship. What I don't sympathize is her taking it out on strangers (it;s not just me, pretty much any virgos) who doesn't deserve it. That's why I blocked her and only reply to people who are genuinely contributing.

I sensed his apologies are real, it's good to let him call me, so it gives him a chance to own up to his words.
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Sorry OP, I forgot about SB's feelings about Virgos and really didnt know you were one, so I wasnt trying to come for you by saying I didnt like virgos. I thought we were also talking about male virgos only lol

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Yeah but it has only been a day right? You expected him to drop everything while at work and call you, that's unreasonable. I am pretty sure he did indeed loae track of time or became busy after his meeting let out and could not call you. It isnt like he was off on vacation somewhere and then with it being his bday, it makes sense that his parents would of popped over.

Idk maybe it is your intuition warning you if you feel this much concern but I stand by what I wrote, if he has up until this point, always stood by his word, why begin to doubt him now, especially when his excuses are pretty damn reasonable?

I agree with you're saying. my message might have came out the way, i don't expect him to call drop everything to call me. I only had expectation because he said he would. He is a man of his word, so my first assumption was might have an accident, then that annoying little voice said he changed his mind. That's why I send him a text to ask if he is ok.

Then he replied to apologize twice and told me he is ok and sorry to have me worried. he is sweet, but very unorganized is all I can say. No one is perfect, if I must find any flaw this is the only flaw he has. I'm not perfect either. We just have to focus on understanding each other better.
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@Poppyseeds Girl, I think you need to hide your phone from yourself. Leave it at home for a day or two and just decompress.
haha girl I would if I could but now his birthday is coming up soon, gotta make plans with him

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Yeah but it has only been a day right? You expected him to drop everything while at work and call you, that's unreasonable. I am pretty sure he did indeed loae track of time or became busy after his meeting let out and could not call you. It isnt like he was off on vacation somewhere and then with it being his bday, it makes sense that his parents would of popped over.

Idk maybe it is your intuition warning you if you feel this much concern but I stand by what I wrote, if he has up until this point, always stood by his word, why begin to doubt him now, especially when his excuses are pretty damn reasonable?

I agree with you're saying. my message might have came out the way, i don't expect him to call drop everything to call me. I only had expectation because he said he would. He is a man of his word, so my first assumption was might have an accident, then that annoying little voice said he changed his mind. That's why I send him a text to ask if he is ok.

Then he replied to apologize twice and told me he is ok and sorry to have me worried. he is sweet, but very unorganized is all I can say. No one is perfect, if I must find any flaw this is the only flaw he has. I'm not perfect either. We just have to focus on understanding each other better.
Ahh okay I understand. Well I can see how it would be frustrating to want to do something sweet for someone and they "seem" to be blowing you off. Hopefully that is not what he is doing here, how long has it been since this all began?
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Take every sorry you ever recieve and tape a grain of salt to it. Not everyone puts weight behind their apologies. Lol
tape is significantly more heavy than a grain of sand tho...
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Sorry OP, I forgot about SB's feelings about Virgos and really didnt know you were one, so I wasnt trying to come for you by saying I didnt like virgos. I thought we were also talking about male virgos only lol

its ok don't worry about it smile
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Ahh okay I understand. Well I can see how it would be frustrating to want to do something sweet for someone and they "seem" to be blowing you off. Hopefully that is not what he is doing here, how long has it been since this all began?
2 days ago. Will see if he owns up to his word. So just let him call
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@Poppyseeds Girl, I think you need to hide your phone from yourself. Leave it at home for a day or two and just decompress.
haha girl I would if I could but now his birthday is coming up soon, gotta make plans with him

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No. You've reached out. He knows it's on your mind and that you would like to do something. Ball is in his court as to what and when. It's about him and his birthday, not you and your needs.

I get it, I do. I've been there before. But blowing his phone up under the pretense of making plans is just going to backfire. He will see right thru it; or at least sense your motivations are off. Your best bet (imo) is to either leave the phone at home for awhile or to be completely honest about why you keep stressing scheduling bday plans and what scheduling said plans interpretes for you.

Bless you, I love Virgo energy, so giving and thoughtful, ...well forget him, hes missed out, what an idiot..hey? Forgetting?? We don't forget people we adore and like, jeez!

Move on, show him what a wonderful woman you are and what hes missed out on ! X
Or maybe he is just avoiding the issue because he wants you to plan a surprise for him.
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@Poppyseeds Girl, I think you need to hide your phone from yourself. Leave it at home for a day or two and just decompress.
haha girl I would if I could but now his birthday is coming up soon, gotta make plans with him

No. You've reached out. He knows it's on your mind and that you would like to do something. Ball is in his court as to what and when. It's about him and his birthday, not you and your needs.

I get it, I do. I've been there before. But blowing his phone up under the pretense of making plans is just going to backfire. He will see right thru it; or at least sense your motivations are off. Your best bet (imo) is to either leave the phone at home for awhile or to be completely honest about why you keep stressing scheduling bday plans and what scheduling said plans interpretes for you.

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There must be some misunderstanding? I didn't blow up his phone, I only reply to his reply. Also only one text to ask if he is ok.....

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Bless you, I love Virgo energy, so giving and thoughtful, ...well forget him, hes missed out, what an idiot..hey? Forgetting?? We don't forget people we adore and like, jeez!

Move on, show him what a wonderful woman you are and what hes missed out on ! X
he siad he forgot about he invited his parents. when he forgot his parents that was showing me how unorganized he is.. anyway he said he will call... if he calls great we will do something together. if he doesn't you are right I'm moving on.

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Or maybe he is just avoiding the issue because he wants you to plan a surprise for him.
Or he is avoiding the issue because he as a fuck fest planned with his homeboys
Just give it 2 more weeks sweet, either that or sit him down and have a chat about how you feel, then you will feel the answer to your worries when he he starts 'avoiding the subject' in front of your face, pls just move on, been with my cancer hubby 16 years he has never forgot anything, just saying. How can you forget you invited your parents to something??
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Just give it 2 more weeks sweet, either that or sit him down and have a chat about how you feel, then you will feel the answer to your worries when he he starts 'avoiding the subject' in front of your face, pls just move on, been with my cancer hubby 16 years he has never forgot anything, just saying. How can you forget you invited your parents to something??
I get the impression his birthday is in this couple of days. She probably wants to know before this 2 weeks.

It's really odd for people to forget about their parents. Poppy you know if he do drugs?
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Shit I forget to call my Momma after being sucked into Office Space world. Here's what you do. Call him! Acknowledge he's busy but throw in birthday plans.
Hey girl! that's what I tried to do. I called once the other night so he said he will call me back and you know the story..

I will wait for his call as he said (again) he will call me.. he better call soon as I need to know before I get the birthday present ready.

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Just give it 2 more weeks sweet, either that or sit him down and have a chat about how you feel, then you will feel the answer to your worries when he he starts 'avoiding the subject' in front of your face, pls just move on, been with my cancer hubby 16 years he has never forgot anything, just saying. How can you forget you invited your parents to something??
I get the impression his birthday is in this couple of days. She probably wants to know before this 2 weeks.

It's really odd for people to forget about their parents. Poppy you know if he do drugs?
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Well it depends on the situation, if you talked to your parents and they casually say they want to come over a week beforehand, you can forget, especially if things are chaotic in your work week.

Idk it happens but Illuminati you seem like you know kore about Poppy's relationship history than me...
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Just give it 2 more weeks sweet, either that or sit him down and have a chat about how you feel, then you will feel the answer to your worries when he he starts 'avoiding the subject' in front of your face, pls just move on, been with my cancer hubby 16 years he has never forgot anything, just saying. How can you forget you invited your parents to something??
I get the impression his birthday is in this couple of days. She probably wants to know before this 2 weeks.

It's really odd for people to forget about their parents. Poppy you know if he do drugs?
Well it depends on the situation, if you talked to your parents and they casually say they want to come over a week beforehand, you can forget, especially if things are chaotic in your work week.

Idk it happens but Illuminati you seem like you know kore about Poppy's relationship history than me...
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I only know as much as I read from the posts. I'm not certain that he is abusing drugs. Just what I'm guessing.
@kissmygrits @illuminati @malloryor @piscespoppy @Pandora101

He rang me and told me one of his best friend is coming from other state to celebrate with him, his friend is getting other boys together to do something. He didn't tell me what it is. He said this guy friend is staying with him until Sunday.

Saturday he is going to a family wedding, so he wants to see me on Sunday.

i told him it works out well as now I can go to drinks on his birtheday, and I'm also busy on Saturday. I can see him late Sunday afternoon.

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@kissmygrits @illuminati @malloryor @piscespoppy @Pandora101

He rang me and told me one of his best friend is coming from other state to celebrate with him, his friend is getting other boys together to do something. He didn't tell me what it is. He said this guy friend is staying with him until Sunday.

Saturday he is going to a family wedding, so he wants to see me on Sunday.

i told him it works out well as now I can go to drinks on his birtheday, and I'm also busy on Saturday. I can see him late Sunday afternoon.

Bros before hoes? LOL just kidding.

Fair enough if it's a boys night. I'm sure he knew all of these plans ages ago - at least the wedding is. Just have fun with him on Sunday. Seems like he wants to see you as soon as he is free from his friend.

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Or maybe he is just avoiding the issue because he wants you to plan a surprise for him.
Or he is avoiding the issue because he as a fuck fest planned with his homeboys
Illminati whats your sign?

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Your fellow Virgo

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@kissmygrits @illuminati @malloryor @piscespoppy @Pandora101

He rang me and told me one of his best friend is coming from other state to celebrate with him, his friend is getting other boys together to do something. He didn't tell me what it is. He said this guy friend is staying with him until Sunday.

Saturday he is going to a family wedding, so he wants to see me on Sunday.

i told him it works out well as now I can go to drinks on his birtheday, and I'm also busy on Saturday. I can see him late Sunday afternoon.

Id remind him right before, I know I seem unreliable when trying to plan around friends bc I just really enjoy being in that moment (im getting better at it) but I noticed that same behavior in my cancer friend (more than friend but in a weird space)

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Good idea if this guy can forget he invited his parents for dinner, he probably can forget anyone hahahahaha

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@kissmygrits @illuminati @malloryor @piscespoppy @Pandora101

He rang me and told me one of his best friend is coming from other state to celebrate with him, his friend is getting other boys together to do something. He didn't tell me what it is. He said this guy friend is staying with him until Sunday.

Saturday he is going to a family wedding, so he wants to see me on Sunday.

i told him it works out well as now I can go to drinks on his birtheday, and I'm also busy on Saturday. I can see him late Sunday afternoon.

Bros before hoes? LOL just kidding.

Fair enough if it's a boys night. I'm sure he knew all of these plans ages ago - at least the wedding is. Just have fun with him on Sunday. Seems like he wants to see you as soon as he is free from his friend.

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Haha sounds like it.

@Op give him one day for his friends. You get all the time later including nookie. Haha they don't and comes to you after. Let him be..

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Posted by Naturally
Posted by Illuminati
Posted by Andalusia
Or maybe he is just avoiding the issue because he wants you to plan a surprise for him.
Or he is avoiding the issue because he as a fuck fest planned with his homeboys
Illminati whats your sign?

Your fellow Virgo

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Damn you are I thought you were a Cancer. Haha

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Posted by Naturally
Posted by Illuminati
Posted by Andalusia
Or maybe he is just avoiding the issue because he wants you to plan a surprise for him.
Or he is avoiding the issue because he as a fuck fest planned with his homeboys
Illminati whats your sign?

Your fellow Virgo



Damn you are I thought you were a Cancer. Haha

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Lol why?
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@kissmygrits @illuminati @malloryor @piscespoppy @Pandora101

He rang me and told me one of his best friend is coming from other state to celebrate with him, his friend is getting other boys together to do something. He didn't tell me what it is. He said this guy friend is staying with him until Sunday.

Saturday he is going to a family wedding, so he wants to see me on Sunday.

i told him it works out well as now I can go to drinks on his birtheday, and I'm also busy on Saturday. I can see him late Sunday afternoon.

Bros before hoes? LOL just kidding.

Fair enough if it's a boys night. I'm sure he knew all of these plans ages ago - at least the wedding is. Just have fun with him on Sunday. Seems like he wants to see you as soon as he is free from his friend.



Haha sounds like it.

@Op give him one day for his friends. You get all the time later including nookie. Haha they don't and comes to you after. Let him be..

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All good, it's one of his best friend and most of his friends are someone he's known for a decade. I expect him to spend time with them smile It's a boy's night it would be weird if he invites me. Hopefully sometime down the line he will invite me to me meet them.

Will see what happens on Sunday.... hopefully he won't forget me like he forgot his parents!
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