he didn't keep his promise.. I guess it's over? (Page 3)

Posted by untitled28

Truth be told he is probably seeing other people I would guess he doesn't like you as much as the other girls he's seeing thus you don't get acknowledged right away or priority in his life. And the more clingy you act the more you reinforce the lack of effort he should put in. Your being clingy needy and over dramatizing everything and he has picked up on it and is slowly curving you but probably will keep you around for sex as long as he can tolerate you when you get to be too much for him then he'll probably cut ties. I say all this based on the conversations I've had with my guy friends on how they deal with women and dating and they all do the same thing. Men do not like clingy neediness and it seems you are completely unaware how needy you are based on your posts...you might do well to either date many people at once or be single til you're secure with yourself bc majority of men would be turned off by your behavior and you can only hide it for so long. I say this only to be completely honest anytime I've done what you did it worked out exactly as I said it will and my guy friends would tell me exactly what I told you.





scroll up and see the latest update. I trust his word over a stranger like yourself 🙂

Posted by untitled28


That's what I wrote? I know everything? Either I spelled it wrong or you cannot handle any opinion but your own...either way not my problem...I would suggest to you that I'm only doing what you have done which is share my option but I think I would be wasting my time to point that out with you. You don't like it then tune it out we will not all agree the choice is yours how you handle that

I appreciate you sharing your experience, but it's not right for you to accuse him of dating other women. We just had a talk and he said OF COURSE WE ARE EXCLUSIVE to me.

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That's what I wrote? I know everything? Either I spelled it wrong or you cannot handle any opinion but your own...either way not my problem...I would suggest to you that I'm only doing what you have done which is share my option but I think I would be wasting my time to point that out with you. You don't like it then tune it out we will not all agree the choice is yours how you handle that

I appreciate you sharing your experience, but it's not right for you to accuse him of dating other women. We just had a talk and he said OF COURSE WE ARE EXCLUSIVE to me.

This isn't a court of law dear I'm giving my opinion...my words don't make things true or not they are an OPINION he may or may not be. He said he isn't so maybe he is isn't. You seem extremely insecure and my experience with men when a woman is insecure it turns them off they will eventually be turned off and leave. Fact is only he knows for certain so what I say actually doesn't matter...

He may be exclusive 100% only time will tell if that rings true

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I get you now, anyway no point in worrying if he was telling the true, if I can't trust him now no point in being exclusive with him. I trust him and will just be honest and open with him and let things develop

Posted by untitled28
I actually hope that he is being honest and is exclusive btw I would never hope a guy is lying to a woman I've been on the receiving end and it isn't fun at all...I was actually sharing that from my own experiences where I in fact was needy and clingy and my guy friends would always point it out to me...but I hope your guy does turn out to be telling the truth and just busy. It's just I read several warning signs that wasn't the case and that's why I suggested what I did because it's rare a man will flat out say those things to a woman he is no longer interested in more often then not they avoid the issue and evade you or lie or dodge the issue...but again I hope he is just busy and forgetful

Look don't blame yourself for them cheating on you. You might have acted insecure in the past, but it's a 2 way street. Have they done anything to give you some sort of reassurance after you express your feelings?

Leave the past in the past. They cheated on you is just that they cheated on you. Don't take it as a reflection on who you are or what you did. You will meet a faithful man.

Posted by Poppyseeds
@kissmygrits @Illuminati @malloryor @piscespoppy

Hi ladies,

We talked a lot and when I asked are we exclusive? He looked shock and said OF COURSE WE ARE! I said ok thought I would check as you never asked, all we talked about is we are not dating / sleeping with others. He said it's you just know, I never ask in my life.

He refers our pre sex days as "old days" he asked oh you feeling nostalgic? that's very cute. We don't get to see each other as often like others do. I let him know I miss being so close to him face to face. He looked surprised and happy and said really you miss this?

I met his roommate and we all sat down and chatted for about an hour or so.

Thank you for your support all along!

Sounds good poppy. I mean it in a nice way, get off dxpnet and enjoy your time with him. Dxpnet is way too toxic. You will do better without dxpnet and you have made it this far on your own!

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Posted by Koniuchaa
What was his reason for not calling you? And why didn't he just call you back later?

@libraqueen

He was at a work event and didn't finish until late. He text me in the day saying he will call later in afternoon before going into a meeting.

Then I haven;t heard from him, so I text him at night. .as he never broke his promise before...

He text back to apologize saying he forgot he invited his parents over for dinner .when he finish work they called him to say they are coming over. He ran to buy food to cook, he apologized again to have worried me. He said if they are leaving soon he will call if not tomorrow morning ...

He couldn't grab the damn phone to call while waiting in line at the supermarket? He is playing you hard

Unless vibrator wasn't on and the music was to low (or shut off) while in the very busy time at the supermarket. It happen to me sometimes and I realized it when I need to call it and I call it back.

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It's always a good time to use vibrator.

Why bother hiding every nasty post when the OP quoted them all? It's still open to public lol