i don't get it

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by victoriagemini on Sunday, April 3, 2016 and has 12 replies.
Is normal for a cancer man to be in to you saying miss you again not talk to you for while? We live 5hrs away from each other
Posted by Flo
Yeah... They say something intimate and than run off.

Why? Wtf haha
Cowardice
Posted by Keres
Cowardice

You mean he said something he didn't mean? Or spoke too soon?
Posted by Flo
Posted by victoriagemini
Posted by Flo
Yeah... They say something intimate and than run off.

Why? Wtf haha

Who knows, Could be a reasons as to why, fear? Of what? Really depends on them..

I will admit I've done this before, It's like, have you ever liked someone so much that just telling them something intimate about yourself brings these rush of feelings like a part of you wants to die..

Because you
don't know what they're reaction is going to be. I'm just sensitive like that, does anyone else do this or am I the only weird one? Lol
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He said it first too its so weird. Sometimes I think he doesn't like me like I like him if that makes sense
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I'm not quite sure about this one.
Since the cancer man I met before would constantly try to pull up questions on how am I doing, or what am I doing at the moment.

But, time to time they would leave a message to you. When you don't answer straight away, they end up thinking they're being obnoxious or they think you're busy and they'd do something else.

Sometimes, they just don't reply at all when you respond hours later.

I replied i miss I'm too
We're introverted. We need to recharge and be alone for a bit.
Yes it's very normal.

They needs lots of "me" time and processing time and space.

Just let him be and he will come to you when ready.
How long is a while? We talking hours, days... weeks?

The side approach is very common with cancer men, especially if they are feeling you out. It is definitely not out of the norm to be told you're missed, and then he vanishes amongst a fogy mist, trying to play things cool.

I guess what matters is that not too much time elapses. A man's actions speak very strongly of his intentions, and it should be fairly discernible whether a guy is true or not. If he is true, he won't let much time pass, but neither should you if you're missing him.
I went through the same thing and i realized cancer men don't mean what they say. And the guy even accepted it.