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Posted by djbuck1
As always, it's not that simple.
Of course personality and good character are essential, but it has to be the total package. It's the personality and character that we write and talk and puzzle over. Beauty draws us. Character keeps us, or does not.
But men are drawn to beauty. For me, it's the eyes first. Always. Then the rest.
It's all in how she presents herself.
I'm going to see her first thing in the a.m., and when she is sick (though there's a certain amount of pathetic appeal, even in that), and when she is not made up. I know that. But what does she do with what she has?
I was in a realtionship with a woman 13 years older, and she showed her age, but she had great genes and she kept herself fit, and my God did that woman know how to present. Libra, btw.
I broke up with two women (Taurus and Virgo) who simply would not take care of themselves and present well. I am talking hygenically AND appearance wise. There were some other reasons, but I admit that was a big factor. God knows I'm no Adonis, but I always try to look my best. My partner has to do the same.
Being perfectly honest, I would not date an ugly woman. But the vast majority of women are not ugly. In fact, you are far more attractive than you think, and if you take some pains we are going to come seeking.