oh ok the delete my info don't rrespond text

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by rudescorpscorp01 on Sunday, January 26, 2014 and has 46 replies.
:-/ :-/ :-/ just got mine lol.... so when a girl is not dumb enough to fall for that game and u get the dragging u had coming to u as a result where are u cancer men at mentally emotionally....
English please
Posted by Damnata
English please


What about the post isn't English? Point it out...Decent avi pics please...
Decent avi pics? wtf?
Posted by Damnata
Decent avi pics? wtf?


Funny how the one whos bothered by my "lack of English" is ignorant and confused about the language her damn self. Are u done attempting to take your anger due to your tragic appearance out of me yet? This is rather boring...
Your user name suits you, no need to get rude like that. Your post does not make any sense. So yes English please.
You might actually get an answer to your asked question.
Oh so you're trolling. Ok, have fun.
Posted by justagirl
Your user name suits you, no need to get rude like that. Your post does not make any sense. So yes English please.
You might actually get an answer to your asked question.


Well duh, why wouldn't I make a username that suits me? :-/
huh? what? huh? Umm are you the girl of the guy in this scenario? Did you read what you typed? It makes no sense...that's just the facts. And why are you already so defensive?
By the way @Damnata is quite beautiful and her skin is flawless... calm down
Posted by seraph
Posted by rudescorpscorp01
:-/ :-/ :-/ just got mine lol.... so when a girl is not dumb enough to fall for that game and u get the dragging u had coming to u as a result where are u cancer men at mentally emotionally....


I can barely decipher your grammar, and what "game"?
While you might not be pleased about her criticism of the atrocity you think passes for clear writing, it's low-class to insult someone based on physical appearance. At any rate, you might want to consider an eye-exam.
Please clarify your post so people can make sense of your hasty puddings.
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My grammar is fine maybe its your atrocity of comprehension skills that's the problem. If the elementary concept of context clues is difficult for u and u can't figure out what "games" I believe are being played from it than u can ask politely and not in a condescending arrogant tone and I would have no problem simplifying and schooling for u
Posted by seraph
Posted by rudescorpscorp01
:-/ :-/ :-/ just got mine lol.... so when a girl is not dumb enough to fall for that game and u get the dragging u had coming to u as a result where are u cancer men at mentally emotionally....


I can barely decipher your grammar, and what "game"?.
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I honestly didn't understand the OP, which is why I asked.
You write like a retarded box turtle.
Posted by fembot
huh? what? huh? Umm are you the girl of the guy in this scenario? Did you read what you typed? It makes no sense...that's just the facts. And why are you already so defensive?
By the way @Damnata is quite beautiful and her skin is flawless... calm down


Well they do say beauty is in the eye of the beholder lol....I'm the girl in the scenario
Posted by rockyroadicecream
You write like a retarded box turtle.


What's a box turtle? First time I heard of it lol.
Posted by scorchedearth
everyone that's posted in the thread so far, including me, thinks the OP didn't make a god damn bit of sense.
it's not all of us that are willfully trying to misinterpret you. the shit you typed just doesn't make sense.
you could try to explain yourself more clearly. then people could understand what you're trying to say and will be able to respond in a way you would find more satisfactory.


I appreciate your response.... Well I'm not rewriting but as I stated earlier do welcome questions about the confusion and will answer if approached properly like u just did
So you got that text from a Cancer man right? Someone you were involved with?
I understood everything before "dragged.." the final part of the OP didn't make sense to me.
rudescorp...let me translate---do you mean the question is this:
Do Cancers sarcastically send a text, telling you to delete his personal info. because you didn't respond in time?..and/or totally blew them off entirely?
I know Scorps who feel rejected pull that shyt. Cancers do that too? lol
Posted by Damnata
So you got that text from a Cancer man right? Someone you were involved with?
I understood everything before "dragged.." the final part of the OP didn't make sense to me.


Then u should've said that the 1st time instead of insinuating NONE of it made sense with your condescending initial response... Only thing more problematic than the "flawed grammar" in my initial post is your tact. Come correct or don't come at all , miserable low class troll
U mad?
If the guy told you to delete his details, he probably means it. Or you have some weird power play going on between you two, only you know that.
I understood the OP...
most likely his emotional and mental state is..
"Fuck off psycho, obsessed bitch. You're transparent, bitter and annoying and the drama was interesting for a minute but unfortunately, I'm over it. I know you want me to talk to you a certain way, do things and certain way and demand respect when I respect is the last thing I have for you.. so I'll do the opposite just to piss you off. and while you're sitting around plotting my demise... I'll be busy with my back up chick"
.... but I'm too nice to say that directly to you so I'll just wrap it up with a few words. "delete my info"
ps. if I still talk to you or give you a second chance it's only because you feed my ego
Posted by shellshocker
I understood the OP...
most likely his emotional and mental state is..
"Fuck off psycho, obsessed bitch. You're transparent, bitter and annoying and the drama was interesting for a minute but unfortunately, I'm over it. I know you want me to talk to you a certain way, do things and certain way and demand respect when I respect is the last thing I have for you.. so I'll do the opposite just to piss you off. and while you're sitting around plotting my demise... I'll be busy with my back up chick"
.... but I'm too nice to say that directly to you so I'll just wrap it up with a few words. "delete my info"
ps. if I still talk to you or give you a second chance it's only because you feed my ego


Really, why waste your time and physical energy (via keystroking the message) to send someone that info.?
Now, it would make sense if you're harassing, bugging the shyiet out of the person, ultimately forcing her/him to tell you to make like a tree and leave.
I dunno--personally, I really see no point in sending that message.
that message wasn't sent.
The OP asked what the Cancers mental/emotional state might be....
I answered that in my opinion as the only Cancer who has responded. Other Cancers may weigh in. Wait and see *shrugs*
If a Cancer man, in no uncertain terms, tells you to delete his contact info and don't try to do any further communication with him, he means it. Because if you don't go beyond it, he's going to go to court to get a restraining order.
Correction: if you do go beyond it
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
If a Cancer man, in no uncertain terms, tells you to delete his contact info and don't try to do any further communication with him, he means it. Because if you don't go beyond it, he's going to go to court to get a restraining order.



Yes, I've had to do this...
Posted by shellshocker
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
If a Cancer man, in no uncertain terms, tells you to delete his contact info and don't try to do any further communication with him, he means it. Because if you don't go beyond it, he's going to go to court to get a restraining order.



Yes, I've had to do this...
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Okay, I see.
Also, I like to hear it from rudescorp.
rudescorp, what do you suppose caused, prompted the Cancer guy to send you that text?
Were you blowing him off OR harassing the poor guy to such extent he couldn't adequately take his dumps in the mornings?
At least your cancer guy told you not to text... Mine just disappeared without a word. :/
My Cancer ex told me to not contact him, I didn't. Three weeks later....he was right back to texting like nothing was ever said. I fell for it, responded back. He picked fight after fight, caused drama, lied, confused, until I told him to not contact me. No contact for two weeks, then he started texting and calling again. Ended up telling him to totally delete me, do not text/call. Said he was done...two days later he attempted contact, I didn't respond. A week later he attempted again.....
Does it end?
They only want you if they can't have you! It's messed up. Not all are like that though.
Posted by Amsole11
At least your cancer guy told you not to text... Mine just disappeared without a word. :/


Mine also just disappeared after promising me he wouldn't.
I'm not sure which is better. To get a "delete me" text or to get the disappearance. Both hurts like hell.
Posted by geminibunny
Posted by Amsole11
At least your cancer guy told you not to text... Mine just disappeared without a word. :/


Mine also just disappeared after promising me he wouldn't.
I'm not sure which is better. To get a "delete me" text or to get the disappearance. Both hurts like hell.
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I give the delete me.
I've been on the receiving end of disappearing acts and its not respectful--leaves too many open doors.
I don't necessarily attribute it as a sign related thing.
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by geminibunny
Posted by Amsole11
At least your cancer guy told you not to text... Mine just disappeared without a word. :/


Mine also just disappeared after promising me he wouldn't.
I'm not sure which is better. To get a "delete me" text or to get the disappearance. Both hurts like hell.


I give the delete me.
I've been on the receiving end of disappearing acts and its not respectful--leaves too many open doors.
I don't necessarily attribute it as a sign related thing.
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+1
It's definitely an immature person kind of thing... definitely NOT a sign thing.
Posted by rudescorpscorp01
Posted by fembot
huh? what? huh? Umm are you the girl of the guy in this scenario? Did you read what you typed? It makes no sense...that's just the facts. And why are you already so defensive?
By the way @Damnata is quite beautiful and her skin is flawless... calm down


Well they do say beauty is in the eye of the beer holder lol....I'm the girl in the scenario
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there I fixed it.
Posted by cancerkid
I've dealt with some messed up scorpios. It's hard not to fall for a scorpio girl, they are amazing, but equally psychotic and have a tendency to be self-destructive and out of control. Many times I've let it go because it seems like the connection I have with scorpio girls triggers something deep inside them and they get extremely insecure and start playing games. I have sent that text of "GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME YOU CRAZY BITCH" many times to scorpios that were being extremely manipulative and devious. I really liked them, sometimes even loved, but a cancer guy is smart enough to dump a toxic person


It's possible that you're attracting a certain type of women. The ones who are not as evolved, and have boundary issues. Anyone who is experienced can figure who got boundary issues within the first get-go.
It takes time to get to know people.
My experience with Cancers is they tend to want immediate results, expect you to feel the same level of intensity in a short amount of time. Whereas Scorps need a little more time, to get the feel if it's real or not. While a Scorp is trying to sort out her/his feeling, it seems as though a Cancer would say, "time's up, guess you don't feel the same way about me"---then moves on. And probably already thinking of, scheming to make a move on some chick at Whole Foods who shops every Thursday night at 7:15 PM.
A Scorp, when he/she wants to get involved in a relationship, it's for a long haul. It seems as though a Cancer can easily start liking someone, then flutter from one relationship to another---while a Scorp is abandoned, left on a lurch.


Posted by MissLibra
My Cancer ex told me to not contact him, I didn't. Three weeks later....he was right back to texting like nothing was ever said. I fell for it, responded back. He picked fight after fight, caused drama, lied, confused, until I told him to not contact me. No contact for two weeks, then he started texting and calling again. Ended up telling him to totally delete me, do not text/call. Said he was done...two days later he attempted contact, I didn't respond. A week later he attempted again.....
Does it end?


That's because you're not supposed to respond or entertain this bs, tardo. You're basically getting what you deserve by responding. Stop, and it won't be an issue. Problem solved.
Same advice to the OP. It sucks and hurts to get such bs thrown at you like that. However, if you stop and think, why the hell would he treat someone like this- someone he supposedly cares about? It takes THAT much to turn on someone?
Eff that noise. Why would you want to be involved with someone like that?? Let them be emotionally abusive to someone else cause nobody has time for that bs.
Posted by Damnata
Posted by rockyroadicecream
You write like a retarded box turtle.


What's a box turtle? First time I heard of it lol.
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Posted by rudescorpscorp01
:-/ :-/ :-/ just got mine lol.... so when a girl is not dumb enough to fall for that game and u get the dragging u had coming to u as a result where are u cancer men at mentally emotionally....


Fuck off you annoying cuntrag....
Posted by geminibunny
Posted by Amsole11
At least your cancer guy told you not to text... Mine just disappeared without a word. :/


Mine also just disappeared after promising me he wouldn't.
I'm not sure which is better. To get a "delete me" text or to get the disappearance. Both hurts like hell.
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Yes both hurts but with a "delete me" at least I don't have to drive myself insane for the next few weeks trying to figure out what happened...I'd know he has no more interest. With a disappearance it's weirder...maybe he was abducted by aliens...idk I just over analyze things when I'm left in the dark.
Posted by Gettothepoint
Posted by cancerkid
I've dealt with some messed up scorpios. It's hard not to fall for a scorpio girl, they are amazing, but equally psychotic and have a tendency to be self-destructive and out of control. Many times I've let it go because it seems like the connection I have with scorpio girls triggers something deep inside them and they get extremely insecure and start playing games. I have sent that text of "GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME YOU CRAZY BITCH" many times to scorpios that were being extremely manipulative and devious. I really liked them, sometimes even loved, but a cancer guy is smart enough to dump a toxic person


It's possible that you're attracting a certain type of women.


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The common denominator between all those crazy women is YOU Tongue
Hmm, interesting stories about push-pull from Cancer men AFTER they tell you to leave them alone.
Do Cancer girls do this as well to their men?
Posted by cancerkid
@gettothepoint
You think cancers jump from relationship to relationship? Lol. Trust me, if a cancer is in love at any point it will take a looooong time to get over. If ever. We can move on in the head but not in the heart.
Attracting a certain woman?? All scorpio girls I've been involved with have been very intelligent, cultured, and beautiful but have had this fucking psycho streak in them. Which is not limited to just outbursts and volatile behavior but months of silent manipulation and mind games. You can call it cat lady astrology but pretty much all the generalizations in astrology have been spot on with me, and it seems to be the same with everyone else I've heard from...except the dxp scorpio board of course


cancerkid, how long have you known these Scorpios? Were you friends with them first?
Personally, I have never been immediate friends with a Scorp from the first get-go. It takes a while to trust, then open up. Scorps I am friends with--I have known them for at least a year before we finally agreed to get coffee, lunch with. And this is for me to go out with a female, to become her friend (I am a female and straight). There has to be some level of familiarity and consistency.
My husband, a Scorp and I were platonic friends close to two years before we got together, engaged within five months, got married four months later. I dated another Scorp, same story---friends first, then aggressive courting afterwards.
I can believe that the Scorps you dated were beautiful, intelligent and cultured--and the attraction was immediate and intense. I think the issue is, a lot of times, a Scorp and Cancer want to get it on as soon as possible, or whatever--but meanwhile, they do not truly know one another.
I am sorry you had a bad experience with Scorps. Key is this: get to know them first, then possibly consider dating. Or just remain as friends.
Or is it possible that an attraction is way too strong, that a friendship at first is virtually impossible? And of course, NO FWB bullshiet.
And BTW, why did you even put up a week, a month of silent treatment or whatever? Right there, that's a problem. Especially with a Scorp. If a Scorp does that, he/she is either not interested and/or is involved with someone else. As a Scorp, I believe Scorps, who you truly believe are playing games, are not that interested.
Posted by cancerkid
There are 2 common denominators. Me... AND scorpio women


That makes you crazy too boo Tongue
And I'll add a wink for good measure Winking
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by MissLibra
My Cancer ex told me to not contact him, I didn't. Three weeks later....he was right back to texting like nothing was ever said. I fell for it, responded back. He picked fight after fight, caused drama, lied, confused, until I told him to not contact me. No contact for two weeks, then he started texting and calling again. Ended up telling him to totally delete me, do not text/call. Said he was done...two days later he attempted contact, I didn't respond. A week later he attempted again.....
Does it end?


That's because you're not supposed to respond or entertain this bs, tardo. You're basically getting what you deserve by responding. Stop, and it won't be an issue. Problem solved.
Same advice to the OP. It sucks and hurts to get such bs thrown at you like that. However, if you stop and think, why the hell would he treat someone like this- someone he supposedly cares about? It takes THAT much to turn on someone?
Eff that noise. Why would you want to be involved with someone like that?? Let them be emotionally abusive to someone else cause nobody has time for that bs.
Posted by Damnata
Posted by rockyroadicecream
You write like a retarded box turtle.


What's a box turtle? First time I heard of it lol.



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I totally agree with every word. I had to learn the hard way :/ Yep, it hurt, still stings a little from time to time, but I do not EVER want to experience that again. I've not responded to his recent attempts and won't, though I doubt he will stop any time soon.
Why do people like to blow up threads with incoherent OP's?
Do you mean, someone was told to delete said information for lack of contact/mind games? Cancer man told you to get lost?

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