@ixion120 i try to work through my insecurities myself but if your in a relationship with someone shouldn't they also be aware and try not to trigger those very things you tell them sparks something in you? He's supposed to be on my team and helping me as we'll not making it worse for me. I can't do it on my own, I need some type of reassurance. Do you think I'm asking too much of him? He shuts down on me. It's like he's not trying to do anything. He's a dead log and Idk what to do to make things better. Because I feel like if I give in to him I'm losing myself. If I just don't discuss things that bothers me he wins. And I'm the woman with no voice and I absolutely hate that when woman settle and let the man run all over her. That's why I try to talk things out so he can see how I feel and want to do better. I'm so used to men being more involved emotionally and he's def. not like that. So I kinda feel like a deer in headlights I don't know what to do, how to approach this, how to make him talk
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I dont like tupperware I actually use Pyrex those awesome glass containers with the amazing tops!
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imo??_ cap ladies admire and fall for intelligence and achievement??_ and humor. we're generally slow and difficult to get in the sac. you gotta appeal to our minds first, heart second, body last.
when things get physical though??_ i've read and heard that we are indeed turned on by oral. very good at giving it too.
our natural skill in dominating a man's world comes out in more ways than one.
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I have to work in my jealousy. He went to dinner with a female friend the other night (I've met her, not some random) but I was terribly jealous because they had a 3 week thing 2 YEARS ago. He said they weren't compatible romantically and work better as friends. This is the first time he's hung with a female friend solo since November yet I had a male roommate and am hanging at my friend dans house until he's ready for me to come over. (My married to another good friend platonic male best friend, me as a guy) I have no reason to not trust him or be so hypocritical, he trusts me...he's not at all jealous. He's got 13.5 years on me and has never cheated, but I have. I'm assuming, paranoid, and jealous at times. But he's none of those.
Really want to learn to be more secure in myself