Update re: Cancer Guy. I cant Leave Him Alone Guys (Page 3)

LMAO @ the cement block comment!!!

Yeah.. I don't like not having closure to things either!! Let's all just ignore them and see which one of us last the longest! j/p 🙂!

U will get closure from him, I don't mean just disappear without EVER talking to him again. I am talking about disappearing until he comes chasing after U, from his natural insecurites. U know Cancers don't like losing anything! They hold on for dear life LOL!

I really need to work on that...I am so conpulsive...I like to talk things out and know exactly what is going on.

And with these guys that really doesnt always work. Like Krobe said you have to be able to disappear for a bit and make them wonder and chase you down like a wild dog. LMAO. It's hard for me to disappear. LOL.

maianm,
Try it LOL! Keep us posted once U do it! LOL!

I will....after we see each other tonight I am just going to disappear...try my best not to call him or anything...I also want to see if I can do it...with my crazy ass! LMAO

You can, and U R going to laugh crazy too! LOL! When he comes back, say hey baby, in the sweetest voice, just like U have been WAITING 4 him. LOL!

Well Krobe... I took your advice with a grain of salt...

..and I can't thank you enough. All I can get is phone call after phone call, and 'I miss u' and etcetera. Then when I call him, he disappears. I'm letting go, but it's crazy how every time I delete his number from my phone, he calls me back and I end up in the same rhythm of things. I think I'm this way because he just GETS me, like no one else ever has.

Perhaps I'm just being a naive dumb*ss (Moon's in Cancer -- :-P ). But I'm done.

DONE! 😉

Man! My sister is a Pisces and she is very like that. She just does things she feels like, when she fels like, and doesn't give a damn what other people think or say. If you leave her alone, then good for you, and if you don't like her, then good for you too!

I must applaud you all, because I can't do that!! :-P

Yeh I am a female pisces and feel more in 'control' with a situation when 'I' do the distant thing rather then the guy...so I dissapear...and I'm just about to do another one...see if I can out do my last dissapearing act...lol

Oh how I love being a pisces...

I love it, too. For years I was ruled by my emotions, invested way more in other people than they did in me, and then one day - BOOM - some point over the last several years I woke the hell up and realized not to give more than I was getting. It was like a complete emotional turn around. I still cry and get my feelings hurt and feel horrible for other people's pain and sadness...but when it comes to relationships, I remain pretty much unscathed.

I'm Houdini'ing right now, too. Started about two weeks ago...I do the slow fade until I'm completely submerged and well out of sight.

Hey,
Pisces sisters.
Yeah, I am not a Pisces however, I have my 3rd house of communications in Pisces. OH I love the disappearing act. It always pulls the control over board. I love it. I disappear for weeks. However, it keeps them (him) coming. LOL!

Hmm... yes she just tells it like it is. LOL!

*sigh*

Is anyone still holding out? I am! :-P

caprichick

Is anyone still holding out? I am! :-P
Holding out on what?

Gotta love the Cancer mood swings...Not really.

you don't like our mood swings— i can't imagine why 😉

I think so-called cancer mood swings are overexaggerated. I've neither had anyone ever tell me that i'm moody or that I have mood swings, nor have I noticed this in any other cancers that I know of. Everyone has their ups and downs.. so I don't think cancers are any more moody than any other sign. Acting like a jerk one day and a friend the next is a character flaw that can affect just about anyone.

^^^ Kate you hit it right on!

Ups and Downs are the speciality and I removed my name from the list. I'm nutty enough.

I do find though once you try and pull out of their lives they cling terribly. But like it was said above they revert right back to not calling, and ignorning.

I don't dislike Cancers it's just the ups and downs they take you through. They are really very sweet and affectionate. Both the men and the women.