Why cancers are so complex/complicated?
This topic was created in the Cancer forum by xxixxi on Thursday, April 25, 2013 and has 5 replies.
So since my first post here I went through some astrology sites and read stuff about cancer guys (plus other things, like charts and planet positions, etc.) and whoa?!?
Why are they so complex/complicated?
Some user replied to my previous post, mentioning venus sign, so I got my chart (not the cancer guy of my interest, because I do not know his birth time) and it turned out I am cancer venus, but when it comes to matter of love and romance I am quite direct... in fact, maybe too much forward, even aggressive.
I guess it's because I am aries ascendant?
Actually I found out myself is gemini-cancer cusp and I did realize while reading astrologies that I have mood swings, but I am not really complicated when it comes to romantic feelings. I know what I feel and what I want and go for it.
I don't know, maybe the cancer guy is not interested in me at all, any more lol Maybe it has nothing to do with his sign, but simply he's not into me.
Well, if that's the case... I am discouraged, but what can I do... :O
But I am still curious why cancers are never direct? Wouldn't it be easier say what you want and get over with it even if you get a no than just bottling feelings up? Personally, I just can't do that, I would explode lol I just can't help, I always end up telling them I like them lol either I get accepted or turned down, such is life, methinks.
However, I am intrigued with the thought process of cancerians now
Maybe I will learn something valuable from them, like being patient and checking my feelings in?
Any thoughts?
Why are they so complex/complicated?
Some user replied to my previous post, mentioning venus sign, so I got my chart (not the cancer guy of my interest, because I do not know his birth time) and it turned out I am cancer venus, but when it comes to matter of love and romance I am quite direct... in fact, maybe too much forward, even aggressive.
I guess it's because I am aries ascendant?
Actually I found out myself is gemini-cancer cusp and I did realize while reading astrologies that I have mood swings, but I am not really complicated when it comes to romantic feelings. I know what I feel and what I want and go for it.
I don't know, maybe the cancer guy is not interested in me at all, any more lol Maybe it has nothing to do with his sign, but simply he's not into me.
Well, if that's the case... I am discouraged, but what can I do... :O
But I am still curious why cancers are never direct? Wouldn't it be easier say what you want and get over with it even if you get a no than just bottling feelings up? Personally, I just can't do that, I would explode lol I just can't help, I always end up telling them I like them lol either I get accepted or turned down, such is life, methinks.
However, I am intrigued with the thought process of cancerians now
Maybe I will learn something valuable from them, like being patient and checking my feelings in?
Any thoughts?
Good that you have met sweet cancerians! I am not saying that they are not sweet creatures lol but I lack data to say anything here lol for unknown reason I am surrounded by lots of air signs and some fire signs... rarely earth... then water is almost non existent.
So I had some bad shit happened to me a week ago and was crying like a baby and the cancer guy listened to me for like hours. Like 6 hours or so. Assured me with the words I secretly longed to hear for a long time... Anyway, I was very impressed with his kindness. Was not expecting it at all.
Since that day we have been speaking daily, as I wrote in the original post, I told him how I feel towards him, got no response, so I tried again and then he told me just take our time, don't pressure him etc.
I keep telling him he's cute, sweet, etc. but no response lol except sparse thank you's. I guess I should stop lol
It was, though, fascinating to read other posts on this forum, making me think that I should try to improve on observing people as much as I learn about them by asking tons of questions...
So I had some bad shit happened to me a week ago and was crying like a baby and the cancer guy listened to me for like hours. Like 6 hours or so. Assured me with the words I secretly longed to hear for a long time... Anyway, I was very impressed with his kindness. Was not expecting it at all.
Since that day we have been speaking daily, as I wrote in the original post, I told him how I feel towards him, got no response, so I tried again and then he told me just take our time, don't pressure him etc.
I keep telling him he's cute, sweet, etc. but no response lol except sparse thank you's. I guess I should stop lol
It was, though, fascinating to read other posts on this forum, making me think that I should try to improve on observing people as much as I learn about them by asking tons of questions...
Posted by xMoonMan
Cancer women can be quite complex but men in general, including Cancer men, are not.
Men are simple creatures, women always OVER analyse us.
I have to agree with you on this one. I don't know about every woman, but I tend to over analyse EVERYTHING. I have to admit that it did mess up some of my past relationships with men and including friends and family. This is something that I am working on and slowly getting better at just letting things go with the flow.
Posted by SensualCancerChikaPosted by xMoonMan
Cancer women can be quite complex but men in general, including Cancer men, are not.
Men are simple creatures, women always OVER analyse us.
I have to agree with you on this one. I don't know about every woman, but I tend to over analyse EVERYTHING. I have to admit that it did mess up some of my past relationships with men and including friends and family. This is something that I am working on and slowly getting better at just letting things go with the flow.click to expand
I have to make a huge effort daily to NOT over analyse everything...I realised a few years ago that I was a HUGE over analyser and had to made the effort to STOP IT...it was driving me and everyone around me crazy! So now I tell myself, if it's not life altering, then let it go what will be will be and somethings, no matter how much you ponder them, will NEVER get stright or give you answers.
Posted by xMoonMan
Cancer women can be quite complex but men in general, including Cancer men, are not.
Men are simple creatures, women always OVER analyse us.
What makes us so complex?
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