So since my first post here I went through some astrology sites and read stuff about cancer guys (plus other things, like charts and planet positions, etc.) and whoa?!? Why are they so complex/complicated? Some user replied to my previous post, mentioning venus sign, so I got my chart (not the cancer guy of my interest, because I do not know his birth time) and it turned out I am cancer venus, but when it comes to matter of love and romance I am quite direct... in fact, maybe too much forward, even aggressive. I guess it's because I am aries ascendant? Actually I found out myself is gemini-cancer cusp and I did realize while reading astrologies that I have mood swings, but I am not really complicated when it comes to romantic feelings. I know what I feel and what I want and go for it. I don't know, maybe the cancer guy is not interested in me at all, any more lol Maybe it has nothing to do with his sign, but simply he's not into me. Well, if that's the case... I am discouraged, but what can I do... :O But I am still curious why cancers are never direct? Wouldn't it be easier say what you want and get over with it even if you get a no than just bottling feelings up? Personally, I just can't do that, I would explode lol I just can't help, I always end up telling them I like them lol either I get accepted or turned down, such is life, methinks. However, I am intrigued with the thought process of cancerians now Maybe I will learn something valuable from them, like being patient and checking my feelings in? Any thoughts?