Are Caps hard to love?
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Why people make it feels we are so hard to love? They're caught up in our natural self-composed traits and associate it control or constraints. And forgetting our soft, loving nature.
I have....well going through this makeup or breakup for good phase with my Leo girlfriend. And she believes she can't be herself around me; she believes she has to match my aura or energy. When I'm on the other end not caring. Just be you that's who I fell for why is this so difficult?
So fellow Caps give me your insights do you believe we are hard to love?
I have....well going through this makeup or breakup for good phase with my Leo girlfriend. And she believes she can't be herself around me; she believes she has to match my aura or energy. When I'm on the other end not caring. Just be you that's who I fell for why is this so difficult?
So fellow Caps give me your insights do you believe we are hard to love?
Im dating a cap and im a leo so maybe i can help you.
My cap pursued me for months, used to text me all the time, ask to go out for drinks all the time, then when i gave in and we had sex things changed. IM the one that has to keep us in constant contact and honestly its draining. I get so tired of trying to read his mind, i get so tired of being the one that HAS to seem happy all the time so that we have a good conversation.. Some days im having bad days too or some days im more quiet and i feel like when im down like that i cant count on my cap to pick me up but im always there to pick him up. :/ sometimes i feel like im in this all by myself.
You say you're on the other end not caring and thats the problem between leos and caps. We dont need you to take care of us but atleast act like we matter to you. If i didnt reach out or if i didnt text my bf or if i did it wouldn't make a difference. I feel like my cap plays mind games with me too, like if he knows something bothers me he will do it just so that i give him attention, as if i dont give him enough! what gives?! what makes you happy cap? how can someone please you?
Right now me and my cap are not talking because i caught him in a lie. He told me he was at work but he was at the lake...obviously lied to me because he didnt want to see me that day, when he could of just said that, why lie? i had work that day too i was just asking about his plans that day, he would know that if he got out of his own head because there was no reason to lie.
again, what gives? what makes you happy?
My cap pursued me for months, used to text me all the time, ask to go out for drinks all the time, then when i gave in and we had sex things changed. IM the one that has to keep us in constant contact and honestly its draining. I get so tired of trying to read his mind, i get so tired of being the one that HAS to seem happy all the time so that we have a good conversation.. Some days im having bad days too or some days im more quiet and i feel like when im down like that i cant count on my cap to pick me up but im always there to pick him up. :/ sometimes i feel like im in this all by myself.
You say you're on the other end not caring and thats the problem between leos and caps. We dont need you to take care of us but atleast act like we matter to you. If i didnt reach out or if i didnt text my bf or if i did it wouldn't make a difference. I feel like my cap plays mind games with me too, like if he knows something bothers me he will do it just so that i give him attention, as if i dont give him enough! what gives?! what makes you happy cap? how can someone please you?
Right now me and my cap are not talking because i caught him in a lie. He told me he was at work but he was at the lake...obviously lied to me because he didnt want to see me that day, when he could of just said that, why lie? i had work that day too i was just asking about his plans that day, he would know that if he got out of his own head because there was no reason to lie.
again, what gives? what makes you happy?
Posted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Posted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it troughclick to expand
Posted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me goclick to expand
Posted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
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lol
Posted by Godzillayeah im just tiredPosted by MoonshineLeoIn your case, was it his behavior that made you want some time for yourself? or that part is not the same?Posted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go)
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Posted by Godzillayuppp i know, i know. And not one cap has responded lol they're in the back reading this first ;PPosted by MoonshineLeoMy head has already started hurting and i'm not really patient, eventually i run out of patience and become childish in a bad wayPosted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
lolclick to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Im dating a cap and im a leo so maybe i can help you.
My cap pursued me for months, used to text me all the time, ask to go out for drinks all the time, then when i gave in and we had sex things changed. IM the one that has to keep us in constant contact and honestly its draining. I get so tired of trying to read his mind, i get so tired of being the one that HAS to seem happy all the time so that we have a good conversation.. Some days im having bad days too or some days im more quiet and i feel like when im down like that i cant count on my cap to pick me up but im always there to pick him up. :/ sometimes i feel like im in this all by myself.
You say you're on the other end not caring and thats the problem between leos and caps. We dont need you to take care of us but atleast act like we matter to you. If i didnt reach out or if i didnt text my bf or if i did it wouldn't make a difference. I feel like my cap plays mind games with me too, like if he knows something bothers me he will do it just so that i give him attention, as if i dont give him enough! what gives?! what makes you happy cap? how can someone please you?
Right now me and my cap are not talking because i caught him in a lie. He told me he was at work but he was at the lake...obviously lied to me because he didnt want to see me that day, when he could of just said that, why lie? i had work that day too i was just asking about his plans that day, he would know that if he got out of his own head because there was no reason to lie.
again, what gives? what makes you happy?
When I said not caring. I mean it doesnt affect me how you want to act as long as your being you. I dont want you uncomfortable and i will do anything to make u feel otherwise. your frustration you expressed in the beginning its exactly what im feeling. Im not allowed to have off days, im always the one talking and making up even when im not the one messing up.
Im very direct with my feelings and i dont leave my partner guessin. Anything i haven't said it something im processing.
Posted by Gob_Shitethis has been a recurring thing i have been told. but i cant understand why
She's insecure and feels intimidated by you...
Posted by Gob_Shitethis has been a recurring thing i have been told. but i cant understand why
She's insecure and feels intimidated by you...
Anything i haven't said it something im processing.i like that
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it troughclick to expand
So why im experiencing the opposite. My word is golden, if im going to do something im going to do. And when bad things happen im the one pushing to talk about it. she tends to run from her problems and say shes not running.
Posted by GodzillaMaybe, i do like him alot though and my fixed sign doesn't want to give up, sigh.Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillayuppp i know, i know. And not one cap has responded lol they're in the back reading this first ;PPosted by MoonshineLeoMy head has already started hurting and i'm not really patient, eventually i run out of patience and become childish in a bad wayPosted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
lol
Maybe our problems are more related to caps who are immature..click to expand
Posted by JheneThe only time i run is right after an argument because i know how ugly i can be and i need time to cool off but when im ready to talk and calmed down the cap is nowhere to be found.Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
So why im experiencing the opposite. My word is golden, if im going to do something im going to do. And when bad things happen im the one pushing to talk about it. she tends to run from her problems and say shes not running.click to expand
Posted by Godzillathe opis a capPosted by Jhenewhat is your sign?Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
So why im experiencing the opposite. My word is golden, if im going to do something im going to do. And when bad things happen im the one pushing to talk about it. she tends to run from her problems and say shes not running.click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillayuppp i know, i know. And not one cap has responded lol they're in the back reading this first ;PPosted by MoonshineLeoMy head has already started hurting and i'm not really patient, eventually i run out of patience and become childish in a bad wayPosted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
lolclick to expand
lol. Well for me i have allowed myself to be treated poorly and taken alot of crap.
But i think this time bites it. Shes was/is cheating with this sag. Well nothing happen yet but they are drawn to each other and always speaking. i was deceived and embarrassed as they are in my face and i was oblivious.
Posted by GodzillaIm a Capi Sun Moon CancerPosted by Jhenewhat is your sign?Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
So why im experiencing the opposite. My word is golden, if im going to do something im going to do. And when bad things happen im the one pushing to talk about it. she tends to run from her problems and say shes not running.click to expand
Yes, can be
They are cautious and slow to let people in so can be difficult to get close to
They are cautious and slow to let people in so can be difficult to get close to
Posted by GodzillaShe told me she has feelings for her and cant help it. But yet she wants me here...Posted by JheneI'm starting to doubt mine.., i saw her on whatsap but it's a platform that none of us use and neither our friends..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillayuppp i know, i know. And not one cap has responded lol they're in the back reading this first ;PPosted by MoonshineLeoMy head has already started hurting and i'm not really patient, eventually i run out of patience and become childish in a bad wayPosted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
lol
lol. Well for me i have allowed myself to be treated poorly and taken alot of crap.
But i think this time bites it. Shes was/is cheating with this sag. Well nothing happen yet but they are drawn to each other and always speaking. i was deceived and embarrassed as they are in my face and i was oblivious.click to expand
Posted by JheneWoah, what makes you say that?! do u have facts? leos are friendly by naturePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillayuppp i know, i know. And not one cap has responded lol they're in the back reading this first ;PPosted by MoonshineLeoMy head has already started hurting and i'm not really patient, eventually i run out of patience and become childish in a bad wayPosted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
lol
lol. Well for me i have allowed myself to be treated poorly and taken alot of crap.
But i think this time bites it. Shes was/is cheating with this sag. Well nothing happen yet but they are drawn to each other and always speaking. i was deceived and embarrassed as they are in my face and i was oblivious.click to expand
Posted by GodzillaMaybe she uses it for family? i know thats why i doPosted by JheneI'm starting to doubt mine.., i saw her on whatsap but it's a platform that none of us use and neither our friends..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillayuppp i know, i know. And not one cap has responded lol they're in the back reading this first ;PPosted by MoonshineLeoMy head has already started hurting and i'm not really patient, eventually i run out of patience and become childish in a bad wayPosted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
lol
lol. Well for me i have allowed myself to be treated poorly and taken alot of crap.
But i think this time bites it. Shes was/is cheating with this sag. Well nothing happen yet but they are drawn to each other and always speaking. i was deceived and embarrassed as they are in my face and i was oblivious.click to expand
Posted by Jhenewhat you explained was her problem as far as I can tell - not yours - she sounds like she was intimated with you which is kind of natural since we are awesome lol but hey, I've never come off that way - I just do what I do and love to just hang
Why people make it feels we are so hard to love? They're caught up in our natural self-composed traits and associate it control or constraints. And forgetting our soft, loving nature.
I have....well going through this makeup or breakup for good phase with my Leo girlfriend. And she believes she can't be herself around me; she believes she has to match my aura or energy. When I'm on the other end not caring. Just be you that's who I fell for why is this so difficult?
So fellow Caps give me your insights do you believe we are hard to love?
Posted by Jheneit doesn't matter why - it is what it is - you didn't cause it - it was there within her from way before you came alongPosted by Gob_Shitethis has been a recurring thing i have been told. but i cant understand why
She's insecure and feels intimidated by you...click to expand
Posted by GodzillaPosted by JheneThen to your question i can only say that it really depends on that person..Posted by GodzillaIm a Capi Sun Moon CancerPosted by Jhenewhat is your sign?Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
So why im experiencing the opposite. My word is golden, if im going to do something im going to do. And when bad things happen im the one pushing to talk about it. she tends to run from her problems and say shes not running.click to expand
What do you mean?
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by JheneWoah, what makes you say that?! do u have facts? leos are friendly by naturePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillayuppp i know, i know. And not one cap has responded lol they're in the back reading this first ;PPosted by MoonshineLeoMy head has already started hurting and i'm not really patient, eventually i run out of patience and become childish in a bad wayPosted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
lol
lol. Well for me i have allowed myself to be treated poorly and taken alot of crap.
But i think this time bites it. Shes was/is cheating with this sag. Well nothing happen yet but they are drawn to each other and always speaking. i was deceived and embarrassed as they are in my face and i was oblivious.click to expand
Because she told me.
I'm glad you are still trying. When you are a mother it is difficult to spread yourself all around and he should be able to recognize. It's worth it if you can stay together and build something of yours and his. Its about working together - but not being glued together - understanding how each other is and being able to sometimes laugh about it - everyone is a different person.
Yeah I do really love him and I know he loves me too. But since our son has been born we drifted apart quite a bit.. the dynamics of our relationship certainly changed. Our son became my priority and I suppose I neglected him to a degree. Not blaming myself but accepting that i haven't been perfect either. And he was selfish.
But yeah we are trying to work it out. I left him for a while I took our son and moved out back in November. Hes been working really hard to win my trust back. Still a process.. but we are trying.
Posted by tctaits a her problem but she keeps blaming me for it. saying its my aura or somethingPosted by Jhenewhat you explained was her problem as far as I can tell - not yours - she sounds like she was intimated with you which is kind of natural since we are awesome lol but hey, I've never come off that way - I just do what I do and love to just hang
Why people make it feels we are so hard to love? They're caught up in our natural self-composed traits and associate it control or constraints. And forgetting our soft, loving nature.
I have....well going through this makeup or breakup for good phase with my Leo girlfriend. And she believes she can't be herself around me; she believes she has to match my aura or energy. When I'm on the other end not caring. Just be you that's who I fell for why is this so difficult?
So fellow Caps give me your insights do you believe we are hard to love?click to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruthyea people do get comfortable.
My cap isn't hard to love, he's easy to love but hard to like at times because he is extremely selfish and I don't think he even realizes it. He's a good provider and even a good caretaker.. if I have a migraine he will stop what he's doing to rub my temples. ❤️
But when it comes to dreams, goals, plans.. his always have taken priority over mine. I have dreams of my own that we can't pursue together until he has accomplished his own.
And he will come home and talk about his day in detail and will ask how my day went.. I tell him about my day in short and I get one-word replies like "awesome" or "damn" and that's the end of the conversation. He doesn't ask any more questions which shows he's not really engaged or interested in hearing about it. But that may have nothing to do with his sign and just be because we are in a long term relationship and maybe that's just what happens when you've been with someone for nearly a decade.
too funny - she's just full of crap and looking for some way to get back at you because she don't know jack sheet
its a her problem but she keeps blaming me for it. saying its my aura or something
tell her to leave and take her smell with her
Posted by halalbaeok. i can be reserved at times but not all the time sometimes im very extroverted. But like anyone i have my off days where i just want to vibe.Posted by Jheneshe means youre nonchalant, leos need an expressive and passionate partnerPosted by tctaits a her problem but she keeps blaming me for it. saying its my aura or somethingPosted by Jhenewhat you explained was her problem as far as I can tell - not yours - she sounds like she was intimated with you which is kind of natural since we are awesome lol but hey, I've never come off that way - I just do what I do and love to just hang
Why people make it feels we are so hard to love? They're caught up in our natural self-composed traits and associate it control or constraints. And forgetting our soft, loving nature.
I have....well going through this makeup or breakup for good phase with my Leo girlfriend. And she believes she can't be herself around me; she believes she has to match my aura or energy. When I'm on the other end not caring. Just be you that's who I fell for why is this so difficult?
So fellow Caps give me your insights do you believe we are hard to love?click to expand
Posted by Godzillamaybe shes punishing you?Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by GodzillaMaybe she uses it for family? i know thats why i doPosted by JheneI'm starting to doubt mine.., i saw her on whatsap but it's a platform that none of us use and neither our friends..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillayuppp i know, i know. And not one cap has responded lol they're in the back reading this first ;PPosted by MoonshineLeoMy head has already started hurting and i'm not really patient, eventually i run out of patience and become childish in a bad wayPosted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
lol
lol. Well for me i have allowed myself to be treated poorly and taken alot of crap.
But i think this time bites it. Shes was/is cheating with this sag. Well nothing happen yet but they are drawn to each other and always speaking. i was deceived and embarrassed as they are in my face and i was oblivious.
She is with her family on a trip, which lead to the fight because she didn't even bother inviting me while i turned down opportunities because she didn't want to come or couldn't come
I went alone as well but those were rare exceptions where i couldn't have taken her even if i wanted too.click to expand
Posted by JheneYikes, has your relationship been having problems alot lately? honestly thats the only reason that a leo would leave a cap. The up and down, the uncertainty everyday is not what we want :/Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by JheneWoah, what makes you say that?! do u have facts? leos are friendly by naturePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillayuppp i know, i know. And not one cap has responded lol they're in the back reading this first ;PPosted by MoonshineLeoMy head has already started hurting and i'm not really patient, eventually i run out of patience and become childish in a bad wayPosted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
lol
lol. Well for me i have allowed myself to be treated poorly and taken alot of crap.
But i think this time bites it. Shes was/is cheating with this sag. Well nothing happen yet but they are drawn to each other and always speaking. i was deceived and embarrassed as they are in my face and i was oblivious.
Because she told me.click to expand
Posted by GodzillaFak
We are in fucked up situations..
ugh why do they suck so much Posted by ScorpioTruthIm scared of THIS!!!
And I guess the most selfish act of all was when he cheated on me. My Scorpio pride hates confessing that in public but that was undoubtedly the most selfish thing he's ever done.
I find them very very difficult and yet that is my best match. We hit it off well then they start to detach when we're just getting comfortable and stop communication but then once I've given up they spring back but by then I've already lost interest cause I feel abandoned and rejected. So I just move on.
Posted by GodzillaIt's my Aries Venus quickly losing interest when not attended to... if you have more patience, hang in there. They always come back aroundPosted by SPUNKYTAURUSI wish i knew where I am now, so i could let go that easily
I find them very very difficult and yet that is my best match. We hit it off well then they start to detach when we're just getting comfortable and stop communication but then once I've given up they spring back but by then I've already lost interest cause I feel abandoned and rejected. So I just move on.click to expand
Posted by Godzilla??? were doomed.Posted by SPUNKYTAURUSi have the same..Posted by GodzillaIt's my Aries Venus quickly losing interest when not attended to... if you have more patience, hang in there. They always come back aroundPosted by SPUNKYTAURUSI wish i knew where I am now, so i could let go that easily
I find them very very difficult and yet that is my best match. We hit it off well then they start to detach when we're just getting comfortable and stop communication but then once I've given up they spring back but by then I've already lost interest cause I feel abandoned and rejected. So I just move on.click to expand
Posted by GodzillaHappy about what? That she was on her trip or in the relationship ?Posted by MoonshineLeoWell i managed to talk to her, she said she can't be with some one who can't be happy for her, i was happy for her that she was there and a bit upset that she left me outPosted by Godzillamaybe shes punishing you?Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by GodzillaMaybe she uses it for family? i know thats why i doPosted by JheneI'm starting to doubt mine.., i saw her on whatsap but it's a platform that none of us use and neither our friends..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillayuppp i know, i know. And not one cap has responded lol they're in the back reading this first ;PPosted by MoonshineLeoMy head has already started hurting and i'm not really patient, eventually i run out of patience and become childish in a bad wayPosted by Godzillawonder whats gonna happen to us..Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillawow im in the exact.same.place....Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Godzillalmao me tooooo!!!! currently ignoring me, but hey whats new right?Posted by MoonshineLeoThe last line is what is happening right now, and it's driving me insane because i need to talk to her but she fucking disappearedPosted by Godzillabingo, even a male leo moon feels the same...
I'm just a leo moon but i have been in relationship with a cap, well i don't know to write it down, when it's amazing it's fucking awesome, when it's bad it's fucking bad
When i give my word i make sure that it will happen, not the same case with her
When we are talking about serious things about us, she runs away and annoys the hell out of me because i expect to talk it trough
Sadly right, i needed to talk to her about where we stand, i suggested some time for ourselves and she ignores me even though we always talked even then
I told her i can't be with her if she is acting like this what does she do? runs away leaving me nowhere
At least fucking tell me, it's a yes we are staying together or a no we are not, and let me go
Hmm strange
lol
lol. Well for me i have allowed myself to be treated poorly and taken alot of crap.
But i think this time bites it. Shes was/is cheating with this sag. Well nothing happen yet but they are drawn to each other and always speaking. i was deceived and embarrassed as they are in my face and i was oblivious.
She is with her family on a trip, which lead to the fight because she didn't even bother inviting me while i turned down opportunities because she didn't want to come or couldn't come
I went alone as well but those were rare exceptions where i couldn't have taken her even if i wanted too.click to expand
Posted by RindarooI'm sorry that this happened to you
This has been an interesting read. My Cap ex disappeared on me about a month ago. I'm calling him my ex, but he never did actually break up with me, just disappeared. ? Very similar things were going as with @Godzilla & @MoonshineLeo My take was he ran & hid instead of dealing with a major issue and having major feelings.
In the end, if that is how he's going to handle a long-term relationship, I'm better off. It's so hard and sad though. Ah well, Live and learn!
I would be sooooo sad if I lost my cap. Even after all the bs. I know you really cared for him and hopefully he comes around once he figures things out in his head for atleast SOME kind of explanation. But you don't deserve this treatment Posted by bittercupcakeYea I totally understand this! Sometimes I do feel clingy. But the past two weeks I've been moving and getting my stuff all settled in and I didn't have time to talk to my cap. I do have my own life so idk I kinda don't agree with it. Even when I'm not clingy they're still like that. Plus anyone is considered clingy when compared to a cap lol
@Godzilla @MoonshineLeo
To answer part of your questions as to why Capricorns might drift off and run away.... My niece attracts and has dated a number amount of Leos (she has a Cancer moon), and one thing that always stands out to me is how she's initially interested - she reciprocates to the point of looking like the chaser... then she gets put off when the Leo chases and then pushes them away.
Her words to me after we had a discussion - after my breakup with my ex Leo - is "No more Leos! They're just so damn clingy.... they always want attention - they're so emotional - and they're weird - always coming back and forth - it's so annoying. I'm tired of it"
As an outsider looking in it seems as though Capricorns are initially drawn to Leos vivaciousness and sunny personality - Leos can come off as arrogant and demure which is very appealing to Capricorns... but that fades when the Capricorn realizes Leos are alot more needy than they intended. Almost as if they need to catch a break from all that attention they get.... which only makes a Leo on the other side seem desperate to get their attention and try to fix things....at least that's my take on it...
Also remember that Capricorns are ruled by Saturn... a very depressing placement along with Scorpios - to which I think that's why they get a long fabulously. All the Capricorns I know of have depressing tendencies - even I do at times and I'm Capricorn dominant.
Posted by Chance_12Does that bother you? That guys go after us? I don't care about other guys.Posted by bittercupcakeSounds similar to a Leo experience I had. She seemed to think that I should be proud of the fact that she had guys lusting after her and following her around. I stopped going out with her after we went out and she had 3 guys following her around. She said something to the effect of 'But I'm here with you and leaving with you.' Me: ' What's up with all the remoras then?' lol. She was young so I'll chalk it up to that.
@Godzilla @MoonshineLeo
To answer part of your questions as to why Capricorns might drift off and run away.... My niece attracts and has dated a number amount of Leos (she has a Cancer moon), and one thing that always stands out to me is how she's initially interested - she reciprocates to the point of looking like the chaser... then she gets put off when the Leo chases and then pushes them away.
Her words to me after we had a discussion - after my breakup with my ex Leo - is "No more Leos! They're just so damn clingy.... they always want attention - they're so emotional - and they're weird - always coming back and forth - it's so annoying. I'm tired of it"
As an outsider looking in it seems as though Capricorns are initially drawn to Leos vivaciousness and sunny personality - Leos can come off as arrogant and demure which is very appealing to Capricorns... but that fades when the Capricorn realizes Leos are alot more needy than they intended. Almost as if they need to catch a break from all that attention they get.... which only makes a Leo on the other side seem desperate to get their attention and try to fix things....at least that's my take on it...
Also remember that Capricorns are ruled by Saturn... a very depressing placement along with Scorpios - to which I think that's why they get a long fabulously. All the Capricorns I know of have depressing tendencies - even I do at times and I'm Capricorn dominant.click to expand
Posted by Chance_12Ohhh okay! Yes I get that! You're right sometimes I don't put a stop to it when I know I should.Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by Chance_12Does that bother you? That guys go after us? I don't care about other guys.Posted by bittercupcakeSounds similar to a Leo experience I had. She seemed to think that I should be proud of the fact that she had guys lusting after her and following her around. I stopped going out with her after we went out and she had 3 guys following her around. She said something to the effect of 'But I'm here with you and leaving with you.' Me: ' What's up with all the remoras then?' lol. She was young so I'll chalk it up to that.
@Godzilla @MoonshineLeo
To answer part of your questions as to why Capricorns might drift off and run away.... My niece attracts and has dated a number amount of Leos (she has a Cancer moon), and one thing that always stands out to me is how she's initially interested - she reciprocates to the point of looking like the chaser... then she gets put off when the Leo chases and then pushes them away.
Her words to me after we had a discussion - after my breakup with my ex Leo - is "No more Leos! They're just so damn clingy.... they always want attention - they're so emotional - and they're weird - always coming back and forth - it's so annoying. I'm tired of it"
As an outsider looking in it seems as though Capricorns are initially drawn to Leos vivaciousness and sunny personality - Leos can come off as arrogant and demure which is very appealing to Capricorns... but that fades when the Capricorn realizes Leos are alot more needy than they intended. Almost as if they need to catch a break from all that attention they get.... which only makes a Leo on the other side seem desperate to get their attention and try to fix things....at least that's my take on it...
Also remember that Capricorns are ruled by Saturn... a very depressing placement along with Scorpios - to which I think that's why they get a long fabulously. All the Capricorns I know of have depressing tendencies - even I do at times and I'm Capricorn dominant.
No, not that guys go after leo girls. They're sexy for sure. It's the lack of a brush off and letting the game go on too long so that these guys think they have a chance..which gets in the way of us having a good time.click to expand
Posted by bittercupcakeBut we are SO incredibly loyal! I do not care about other guysPosted by MoonshineLeoWhile most men might thrive and revel in the fact of winning the girl - like Aries men - others like Capricorn are put off by it.... I think the later signs are, because Aquarius are the samePosted by Chance_12Does that bother you? That guys go after us? I don't care about other guys.Posted by bittercupcakeSounds similar to a Leo experience I had. She seemed to think that I should be proud of the fact that she had guys lusting after her and following her around. I stopped going out with her after we went out and she had 3 guys following her around. She said something to the effect of 'But I'm here with you and leaving with you.' Me: ' What's up with all the remoras then?' lol. She was young so I'll chalk it up to that.
@Godzilla @MoonshineLeo
To answer part of your questions as to why Capricorns might drift off and run away.... My niece attracts and has dated a number amount of Leos (she has a Cancer moon), and one thing that always stands out to me is how she's initially interested - she reciprocates to the point of looking like the chaser... then she gets put off when the Leo chases and then pushes them away.
Her words to me after we had a discussion - after my breakup with my ex Leo - is "No more Leos! They're just so damn clingy.... they always want attention - they're so emotional - and they're weird - always coming back and forth - it's so annoying. I'm tired of it"
As an outsider looking in it seems as though Capricorns are initially drawn to Leos vivaciousness and sunny personality - Leos can come off as arrogant and demure which is very appealing to Capricorns... but that fades when the Capricorn realizes Leos are alot more needy than they intended. Almost as if they need to catch a break from all that attention they get.... which only makes a Leo on the other side seem desperate to get their attention and try to fix things....at least that's my take on it...
Also remember that Capricorns are ruled by Saturn... a very depressing placement along with Scorpios - to which I think that's why they get a long fabulously. All the Capricorns I know of have depressing tendencies - even I do at times and I'm Capricorn dominant.click to expand
Yes because they are overly cautious and suspicious when shown love.
Posted by Rindaroosorry, I know what you mean by better off yet still have feelings - it's only been a month for you so I would try to ignore - at least until you gain some strength in the "no feels" department
Ugh. Today I want to say yes. After one month of disappearing ( having been in a serious relationship of 8 months, declaring your love & promising to not leave but deal with himself - has major anxiety issues that are untreated) he leaves a comment on a FB status of mine. Like what? Is this testing the waters to see if I'll talk to him? Or what in the world is he doing.... he is beyond frustrating. I'm happier since he's gone, since I'm off the emotional rollercoaster. Calmer ya know? If I didn't love him, it obviously wouldn't tweak me. Grrrrr. I'm not even sure it's about being cautious like you all say, but about the anxiety. Anxiety is not logical.
I get like that too and almost picked up the phone last night but I make my brain go over the list of the reasons that I let him go in the first place
it was 8 months for me as well and just a few weeks over
I've been dating this Cap for 6 months.
He always tells me he cares for me, he's super nice, and gentle, he tells me he wants to take seriously. I truly trust him more than anyone I have ever dated before, when we are together it is amazing. But sometimes he's as cold as fucking ice. I confronted him once, that sometimes I feel he's so apart from me, like he's avoiding contact. He told me that he likes soltitude and that he needs his space and that he wants a woman that can respect that. I freaked out a little and I told him that it felt as if he wanted me out of his life...so he told me it was the opposite, so I was like ok... it's a weird mindset like wanting someone means to be away? we almost break up, but we worked things out. So I always wait for him to reach me, and I give him a lot of space, but sometimes I miss him a lot, but I can't reach him cause... Caps have the craziest mindset and a very cold heart when it comes to romance.
But basically I think they are hard to love because we always look for instant gratification. Maybe that's why not many people (myself included) find difficult to create bonds with them, because the waiting is damn hard! But I think it is worth the waiting though. Saturn always shows its true and beautiful heart only through time covered in pure gold)
He always tells me he cares for me, he's super nice, and gentle, he tells me he wants to take seriously. I truly trust him more than anyone I have ever dated before, when we are together it is amazing. But sometimes he's as cold as fucking ice. I confronted him once, that sometimes I feel he's so apart from me, like he's avoiding contact. He told me that he likes soltitude and that he needs his space and that he wants a woman that can respect that. I freaked out a little and I told him that it felt as if he wanted me out of his life...so he told me it was the opposite, so I was like ok... it's a weird mindset like wanting someone means to be away? we almost break up, but we worked things out. So I always wait for him to reach me, and I give him a lot of space, but sometimes I miss him a lot, but I can't reach him cause... Caps have the craziest mindset and a very cold heart when it comes to romance.
But basically I think they are hard to love because we always look for instant gratification. Maybe that's why not many people (myself included) find difficult to create bonds with them, because the waiting is damn hard! But I think it is worth the waiting though. Saturn always shows its true and beautiful heart only through time covered in pure gold
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3 years....my cap was so open, soft and gentle, after a year and some constant pushing at my end he's now reserved. Ugh if only I knew now what I didn't then!!!!!
I really like this cap!! I have to stop myself from falling for him!
I think they are easy to love, but they don't love others easily. Can't get this guy to share feelings even though he shows them. I want words. Any suggestions???
I think they are easy to love, but they don't love others easily. Can't get this guy to share feelings even though he shows them. I want words. Any suggestions???
Posted by pinkbird03He's showing his feelings, that's huge. Don't look for words, words are cheap and can be said by anyone to get anywhere. From my personal experience if you do hear affectionate words from a Capricorn as rare as it can be they will be the most genuine and heartfelt. Actions truely out rule any word that can or cannot have depth!
I really like this cap!! I have to stop myself from falling for him!
I think they are easy to love, but they don't love others easily. Can't get this guy to share feelings even though he shows them. I want words. Any suggestions???
My Cap shows through his thoughtful gestures or the way he holds me close, kisses me or looks deep in my eyes....in fact no word or words can actually come even close to how I feel in his presence.
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