Decisions ... Decisions ... Decisions ... (Page 3)

But he's never been forthright...he's covering his ass.

Yeah, that's why I'm annoyed 🙂 I'm like, if you like me so much, why haven't you dialed my number, and why when I talk to other guys in front of you, he feels the need to step in and steal the conversation.

I know that he's being careful, but I'm stuck in the middle -- I'm not sure to jump or stay on the soild ground with this guy.

Lets chill and see what happens and you alls next meeting.

Now that he's aware that the feeling is the same (I think, I don't want to hear anymore about playground stuff lol), I will wait and see. Whatever happens, you can't say I wasn't being truthful LOL.

Personally, I think he has someone else and that the REASON why he hasn't called me. That's so funny, the reason I didn't respond to him months ago is because I was kind of with another guy lol, karma is a bitch 😉

My brain is tired,

MEN SUCK 😢

Okay, SB ... hopefully if gets cold feet, we can still be friends, he's a funny guy 🙂

Never act on heresy.

If he didn't keep bring that one thing up so damn much, I wouldn't have told him that I thought he was cool too 🙂 Nope, never in a million years. But like I said, someone had to he direct, since he was acting stupid lol

That's what I thought about the Sag/cap cusp guy. But he turned cold on me. That ass.

Really—? Ugh, that would make me so mad too *steam* Why not be friends, I mean it's not like there was sex involved LOL, you know what I mean?

Okay, I have to go home now LOL,

So it's settled that I made a mistake in telling him that I liked him too—

Oh goodness, I'm only human and I believe in directness. Don't start cooking unless you want to finish the meal 😉

It might not be. Keep an open mind I guess.

That's for the best I think, I do have a trick or too 😉 That's providing that he doesn't run away.

There's nothing wrong with telling someone you like them. It doesn't commit you to anything. I think the important thing here is that this has revealed how much this guy means to you. He has made you feel vulnerable. He does sound like the type to take people on emotional rollercoaster rides. Are you getting cold feet?

lol, yes CW ... my feet are not as warm as they use to be. lol, it was interesting, I left this part out yesterday because I felt that it was strange.

When the libra was saying (what the Leo/virgo) couldn't say. He kept walking round inbetween the libra and I around us with this super honest look -- he had the "who me —" look on his face and kept looking at the ceiling. But he didn't leave or run which is odd because stuff like that makes guys blot(!). Then when I asked him whether or not the libra was telling the truth,, he took his headset off and said, "what? what was that? Talk louder please". I think I hit him at that moment LOL!!!!

He put his headset back on, and then the libra then slightly whispered (turned away from Leo/Virgo), "He loves you, I don't know why he's acting this way, he just can't tell you". Or something like that, I got really nervous after hearing that, the libra wanted me to stay and talk with the Leo/Virgo but I couldn't because I was really confused after hearing that. Sure, I've been nice to him through the years (put of the job description), if he needed ice for his jolts, I got it for him ... you know, things like that.

Hearing it from his friend though is kind of like grade school, you know?

I'm dealing with a 30 year old man with the mindset of a boy ..... lol!!! Literally speaking. Maybe I should play along with the whole playground thing 😉

Can't you find out more about his love life from this libra?

That's an idea! I know the leo/virgo cusp works out Monday, Wednesday and sometimes Thursdays -- rarely Tuesday or a Friday. The libras schedule is a little different, if the libra is here, I will use my wit to try and learn more about this guy through ...

You are smart CW 😉

I think these leo/virg cuspers hide a deep intensity that can be overpowering to a cappy. Takes them time to grow up and deal with their emotions.

Yeah, I kind of see where you are coming from -- he has that "I'll eat you alive" glare when we speak. Seriously, when he looks at me, there's this intensity there that I wish he could bring out in the open. It's like I can't look away from it because he has you locked! LOL, I guess this is why he has two children.

When I look at him, I feel the need to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Do you also feel that he would be someone you could rely on with your life? I find that despite the annoying side, both virgo and leo guys radiate a sort of strength that would be great if you have a crisis or problem. Virgos in particular can be a rock of stability and good advice.

Yes ... OMG! I hate this. saying this means that I can't take care of myself. My energy has been unstable for about a year and a half now. Besides the fact that he's an emotional rollercoaster, if I needed that rock, then that's where comes in. In return, I can teach him how to be MORE direct and how to appreicate his emotions.

I'd tell the libra about how you are slightly turned off by his inability to voice his feelings from has own mouth and has to use a friend to do it for him and then pretend to be aloof about the whole thing.

You know the libra will tell him. He should shape up after that...or I guess run away. Be sure to use the word "Turn off', no one wants to be a 'turn off'.

Nope, I'd do the same.

I'd only tell the libra what I wanted the leo/virgo to know...b/c you know he'd share it.

I'd tell the libra about how you are slightly turned off by his inability to voice his feelings from has own mouth and has to use a friend to do it for him and then pretend to be aloof about the whole thing.

lol, you pretty much summed 95% of the exchange yesterday. Gee weezz, things were just fine for three mother-freaking months (HAHA) and now things are array. I swear, if he even starts acting weird over something HE started, I will kick him in his freaking arse and never EVER speak to him again.

I will question the libra but then again, I really feel like getting directly in front of the Leo/Virgo and I want to shake him like mad!!!

Goodness, whats wrong with him. Sorry, still freaked out about the boy-girl theme he uses. Father or not, the line needs to be drawn somewhere. Maybe he hasn't gotten laid in a while and he's thinking too much like a "daddy" ... oh no, correction, he's a leo/virgo, he's getting fair share, so never mind 🙂