He told me he loves me

Posted by Leostrong
I knew he felt it, but wasnt sure how long it would take to hear it. Tonight, post trick or treating, he told me how he feels. It's nice to have the verbal affirmation of what I've been assuming

Posted by truecap
I'm happy for you!

Posted by Leostrong
Four or five months. No official "start" date though I'm not sure if he tests me. All people have their ways of figuring out if someone meets their needs. So, I'm sure he did.
I can honestly say I've never felt him back off or disappear. I've talked to him everyday since I've met him. He initiated 99% of the communication.
I posted it in here because I've had other posts about him on here. Not complaining, just trying to decipher certain words and actions.
Hope that helps, but there is no secret.

Posted by MintSprinkles

Posted by Leostrong
Four or five months. No official "start" date though I'm not sure if he tests me. All people have their ways of figuring out if someone meets their needs. So, I'm sure he did.
I can honestly say I've never felt him back off or disappear. I've talked to him everyday since I've met him. He initiated 99% of the communication.
I posted it in here because I've had other posts about him on here. Not complaining, just trying to decipher certain words and actions.
Hope that helps, but there is no secret.

Well that's awesome, I'm happy for you!
One more question and you don't have to answer of course, but were you guys intimate right way or did you wait awhile?
I read so many conflicting things about when to sleep with a Cappy man...I've seen stories where they slept with them right way and it worked out and the guy wanted to be with them and everything was peachy. But then I read (more often than not) when you sleep with them too fast they tend to then put you in the category of good for sex..but nothing else and it never goes on beyond a sexual relationship.
I've come to the conclusion (and I could be wrong) that it's never a good idea to do it BEFORE you know how they feel about you..or at least has shown you how they feel about you. You think there is some truth to that?

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Posted by MintSprinkles

Posted by Leostrong
Four or five months. No official "start" date though I'm not sure if he tests me. All people have their ways of figuring out if someone meets their needs. So, I'm sure he did.
I can honestly say I've never felt him back off or disappear. I've talked to him everyday since I've met him. He initiated 99% of the communication.
I posted it in here because I've had other posts about him on here. Not complaining, just trying to decipher certain words and actions.
Hope that helps, but there is no secret.

Well that's awesome, I'm happy for you!
One more question and you don't have to answer of course, but were you guys intimate right way or did you wait awhile?
I read so many conflicting things about when to sleep with a Cappy man...I've seen stories where they slept with them right way and it worked out and the guy wanted to be with them and everything was peachy. But then I read (more often than not) when you sleep with them too fast they tend to then put you in the category of good for sex..but nothing else and it never goes on beyond a sexual relationship.
I've come to the conclusion (and I could be wrong) that it's never a good idea to do it BEFORE you know how they feel about you..or at least has shown you how they feel about you. You think there is some truth to that?

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Posted by xxoommmxxoo
that's so cool! i feel like caps have got to stop being so guarded and let more love in their lives. But when he said it i am sure it melted your heart finally, to hear it. Us girls like to hear it

Posted by capinc
Just words for the insecure.

Posted by capinc
Just words for the insecure.