He told me he loves me
Posted by Leostrong
Four or five months. No official "start" date thoughI'm not sure if he tests me. All people have their ways of figuring out if someone meets their needs. So, I'm sure he did.
I can honestly say I've never felt him back off or disappear. I've talked to him everyday since I've met him. He initiated 99% of the communication.
I posted it in here because I've had other posts about him on here. Not complaining, just trying to decipher certain words and actions.
Hope that helps, but there is no secret.
Well that's awesome, I'm happy for you!
One more question and you don't have to answer of course, but were you guys intimate right way or did you wait awhile?
I read so many conflicting things about when to sleep with a Cappy man...I've seen stories where they slept with them right way and it worked out and the guy wanted to be with them and everything was peachy. But then I read (more often than not) when you sleep with them too fast they tend to then put you in the category of good for sex..but nothing else and it never goes on beyond a sexual relationship.
I've come to the conclusion (and I could be wrong) that it's never a good idea to do it BEFORE you know how they feel about you..or at least has shown you how they feel about you. You think there is some truth to that?
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Posted by psugirl
Ehh should of known everyone will missinterpret it, no I did not have any affair with hin, and after I found he got back with his gf, I didnt let him kiss me, I told hin we can only be friends and he might have thought differently...he tried to kiss me that night we met, but I said no. And yes we slept in two separate beds where he's staying bc his roommate is away. (Anyway why would I ask people for an honest opinion and lie the details?) lol. Second thing is he wasn't telling this stuff that he doesn't wanna be w his gf to me but to our mutual friend and it was before i even met the guy. He broke up with her, but still lived w her and now they're back in relationship. There was nothing intimate between us, so why do I get bashed by everyone for doing something wrong? Me and him kissing when he wasnt in relationship is not cheating. I do not intend to steal him, we're just friends. It's up to him...not me.
i don't think you're lying, but you're really arguing semantics here. Everyone understood that you didn't "technically" have an affair, and that he told all of that to another person. But you did stay in his hotel room with him, and he is in a relationship, right? He's in a relationship with his girlfriend, no matter what he told you or his friends. He tried to kiss you while in said relationship, and not letting him doesn't mean carrying on with the emotional intimacy like you two have is okay.
i'm sure everyone has come off harsh here but that's because this story is no different than any other "i like him but he has a girlfriend/wife" story, including the question of whether or not you should be friends with him. I think you already have a good idea of what will happen if you try to "stay friends." I'd say be cordial if you're out in a group setting together and cut him out beyond that.
Thx, MissPirate, appreciate it.
it is possible that he already sees you as the woman he's dating and just hasn't come out and said it...if you go out to lunch and dinner, you're intimate and he comes over to fix things/help out around the house, it sounds like you're already dating to me!
What kind of change or action are you looking for exactly? Do you know if he behaves differently with women he is dating than he does with you now?
What kind of change or action are you looking for exactly? Do you know if he behaves differently with women he is dating than he does with you now?
Yes... I agree with what you are saying... I talk about changing the karmatic path during the time it is going on not what I am facing as much. I am not saying you don't face the same influences but that you face them in a better way by influencing the people around you... in a positive way... to make something easier... we all normally make it worse though... to make something easier for another could be an example of gaining good karma.
Thank you though because you are right... about these things...
The worst one is the
Retrograde Pluto in Scorpio and 8th House
This is just a major influences... As Pluto... is in home house and sign... as well as retrograde...
I have here many things about this point... regarding relationships and heart brakes... as well as it being a curse breaker...
I can say it is a major point for scorpio and is my dark nature and interest in occult... as well as more...
Right now everything just seems hard because of my saturn return...
Thank you ands though
Thank you though because you are right... about these things...
The worst one is the
Retrograde Pluto in Scorpio and 8th House
This is just a major influences... As Pluto... is in home house and sign... as well as retrograde...
I have here many things about this point... regarding relationships and heart brakes... as well as it being a curse breaker...
I can say it is a major point for scorpio and is my dark nature and interest in occult... as well as more...
Right now everything just seems hard because of my saturn return...
Thank you ands though
Asc (8 major aspects) - Neptune (10 major aspects) - (this one includes the asc power in its planetary calculations..)
Uranus (23.4% ) - Neptune (15.4% ) ~ colorscope
Uranus (23.4% ) - Neptune (15.4% ) ~ colorscope
I am going to add mercury has been having a major effect on my communication...
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Posted by juke
ok, let's stay on topic
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your a hopeless romantic and doubt you would care what someone said because you would end up doing what you want anyways...
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Powerful!
I have Mars in Aries, so I'm one of you too!
I used to drink a lot before, and there were moments in which I walked into a bar or in the disco just to pick up a fight! LOL
I used to drink a lot before, and there were moments in which I walked into a bar or in the disco just to pick up a fight! LOL