Posted by CapricornruleforeverThat's my mentor there... Also a capricorn.
Ok So if have a new question. Im really looking for Capricorn men to answer this question. preferably 40 and over.
My best friend met a man on a social dating site about 2 years ago. about 7 months into dating him she found out he was engaged to be married in 4 months. however they didn't stop seeing each other he called before on and after he got married. she said that they have a wonderful relation ship. he never makes her feel like a mistress. he cares for her and takes care of her in every way possible. she has tried to brake it off with him but he insist that he loves her dearly and he can't bare being with out her. he often tells her that he married too soon and the wrong person.The have taken trips spent holidays they are like the best of friends she asked him why did he get married and he side "because that is what he wanted to do". Now from what i have read about Capricorn men this is not common behavior for them. so maybe you guys can help me understand this a little bit better. They have bee
n dating longer then he has been married.and I thought that Capricorns were faithful.
Posted by lnana04I will get back to you in several years.
Sounds like the typical Cap male.
Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.
I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.
This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
Posted by Chance_11_I don't despise my dad you duck, and I said Cap MEN and meant it. Yes, Cap MEN. More than one. More than two or three that I've known to have mistresses. How about 4-5 married with a mistress on the side and more than half of the unmarried Caps I know that have cheated on their girlfriends.Posted by lnana04Cap 'men' or your dad who you despise?
Sounds like the typical Cap male.
Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.
I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.
This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
You're always saying stuff like this. I don't know a single cap man that cheats..most are fairly principled. I think it's the least likely sign to cheat as most look for real relationships. Are Cap women like this too or just the men?click to expand
Posted by Noni052...2...5Posted by GemitatiWhat's the length of each relationship? (4)
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.
And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...
So he said because he loves me.
He says back then when he was 23-35
he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.
And yes he is a Cap.click to expand
Posted by AerazoWell Aerazo they only knew each other for 7 months. He was engaged maybe 5 month prior to them meeting and I believe that he and the wife were dating for a year prior to the engagement.
Now I'm wondering why he did not marry your friend? Because in my story if I'd have accepted the cap before he got married then it would've been a different story with him.
Posted by Noni05No I am not the friend.Posted by CapricornruleforeverAre you the best friend? Just curious
Ok So if have a new question. Im really looking for Capricorn men to answer this question. preferably 40 and over.
My best friend met a man on a social dating site about 2 years ago. about 7 months into dating him she found out he was engaged to be married in 4 months. however they didn't stop seeing each other he called before on and after he got married. she said that they have a wonderful relation ship. he never makes her feel like a mistress. he cares for her and takes care of her in every way possible. she has tried to brake it off with him but he insist that he loves her dearly and he can't bare being with out her. he often tells her that he married too soon and the wrong person.The have taken trips spent holidays they are like the best of friends she asked him why did he get married and he side "because that is what he wanted to do". Now from what i have read about Capricorn men this is not common behavior for them. so maybe you guys can help me understand this a little bit better. They have been dating longer then he has been married.and I thought that Capricorns were faithful.click to expand
Posted by youngaliMy best friend is a Capricorn as well. She don't mind being a "side piece" because she isn't treated like one. He takes her out he cares for her financially he spends holidays with her he stays the night he has never treated like she is the other women. truthfully they are like the best of friends it like they have known each other for years. from what i have seen she is very happy with the current situation that she is in. I have asked her what dose she get from this relationship she "all the benefits of a relationship no commitment"
if he can have his cake and eat it too... why not? it's a win win for him.
it's up to your friend to decide whether she wants to be the side piece forever or nah.
what zodiac sign is she? and don't say sag. lmao
Posted by lnana04They are cheaters... I agree. They love to find the perfect wife and perfect mistress
Sounds like the typical Cap male.
Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.
I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.
This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
Posted by LibrajeanPosted by lnana04They are cheaters... I agree. They love to find the perfect wife and perfect mistress
Sounds like the typical Cap male.
Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.
I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.
This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.click to expand
Posted by yupvirgooIt's the other way around but I am tired and lazy to talk about it...Posted by Gemitatiwhat if he's cheating on you?
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.
And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...
So he said because he loves me.
He says back then when he was 23-35
he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.
And yes he is a Cap.click to expand
Posted by HarukkaAre you new here?Posted by yupvirgooHe is cheating on her for sure, that's why he pretend that he doesn't know about her affair.Posted by Gemitatiwhat if he's cheating on you?
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.
And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...
So he said because he loves me.
He says back then when he was 23-35
he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.
And yes he is a Cap.click to expand
Posted by youngaliPut request and your wish will be granted!Posted by Gemitatidamn, i wish dxpnet had voice notes lmao!Posted by yupvirgooPosted by Gemitatiwhat if he's cheating on you?
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.
And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...
So he said because he loves me.
He says back then when he was 23-35
he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.
And yes he is a Cap.
It's the other way around but I am tired and lazy to talk about it...
Ask Nikki. She would loooove to enlighten you on my sins! Lolclick to expand
Posted by magikarpYou really are brainless to the core!Posted by Gemitatihe din't love you, he just payback his karma and enjoy it...Posted by HarukkaAre you new here?Posted by yupvirgooHe is cheating on her for sure, that's why he pretend that he doesn't know about her affair.Posted by Gemitatiwhat if he's cheating on you?
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.
And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...
So he said because he loves me.
He says back then when he was 23-35
he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.
And yes he is a Cap.
He is not cheating. He kisses my footsteps. But I love my Scorpio and my husband knows it!
Still... Loves me!
But I can't fight it. 8 years of unconditional love means something!
A lot!click to expand
Posted by HarukkaPartially! As my Scorp asked me yesterday what is going on in my life - I said it's basically between you and you...Posted by GemitatiOkPosted by HarukkaAre you new here?Posted by yupvirgooHe is cheating on her for sure, that's why he pretend that he doesn't know about her affair.Posted by Gemitatiwhat if he's cheating on you?
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.
And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...
So he said because he loves me.
He says back then when he was 23-35
he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.
And yes he is a Cap.
He is not cheating. He kisses my footsteps. But I love my Scorpio and my husband knows it!
Still... Loves me!
But I can't fight it. 8 years of unconditional love means something!
A lot!
But Are you happy ?click to expand
Posted by magikarpI didn't know there WAS a cliche!Posted by Gemitatilol why i must upset? i don't even care but your story seems fit to the Cliché lifes of capricorn men....Posted by magikarpYou really are brainless to the core!Posted by Gemitatihe din't love you, he just payback his karma and enjoy it...Posted by HarukkaAre you new here?Posted by yupvirgooHe is cheating on her for sure, that's why he pretend that he doesn't know about her affair.Posted by Gemitatiwhat if he's cheating on you?
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.
And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...
So he said because he loves me.
He says back then when he was 23-35
he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.
And yes he is a Cap.
He is not cheating. He kisses my footsteps. But I love my Scorpio and my husband knows it!
Still... Loves me!
But I can't fight it. 8 years of unconditional love means something!
A lot!
Why are you even talking?
And most important - I don't care!!!
I wish he WAS cheating on me!
I've even suggested it.
Are you upset because you are Cap?
Otherwise I don't see why...click to expand
Posted by HarukkaI am feeling too popular for whatever reason!Posted by GemitatiPosted by HarukkaPartially! As my Scorp asked me yesterday what is going on in my life - I said it's basically between you and you...Posted by GemitatiOkPosted by HarukkaAre you new here?Posted by yupvirgooHe is cheating on her for sure, that's why he pretend that he doesn't know about her affair.Posted by Gemitatiwhat if he's cheating on you?
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.
And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...
So he said because he loves me.
He says back then when he was 23-35
he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.
And yes he is a Cap.
He is not cheating. He kisses my footsteps. But I love my Scorpio and my husband knows it!
Still... Loves me!
But I can't fight it. 8 years of unconditional love means something!
A lot!
But Are you happy ?
Because he calls me daily and we have this time when we just talking about anything happened today.
He's quizzed me and said its ok. Let's take one day at the time.
That's what we are doing. And we are closer than ever. We have a long history.
A lot happen since. Somebody you weren't even grown up since then. Lol
ButPosted by Gemitati
I am old, married, in love, depressed, want to get out of watching stupid TV with my husband...texting with unmentionables...
My life sucks .click to expand
Posted by youngaliPosted by Gemitatidamn, i wish dxpnet had voice notes lmao!Posted by yupvirgooPosted by Gemitatiwhat if he's cheating on you?
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.
And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...
So he said because he loves me.
He says back then when he was 23-35
he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.
And yes he is a Cap.
It's the other way around but I am tired and lazy to talk about it...
Ask Nikki. She would loooove to enlighten you on my sins! Lolclick to expand
Posted by beautifulsoul74I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Smh.
OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.
What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
Posted by CapricornruleforeverIn regards to something being said to the person who "initiated the affair" I agree...but my premise is they're both equally responsible at this point. Whether it's three weeks or seven months, the fact still remains that she found out about it and could've ended it. I'm sorry but for me personally, this not one of those situations where we "get to blame the man." Just my opinionPosted by beautifulsoul74I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Smh.
OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.
What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.click to expand
Posted by AerazoIt's not that deep of a thoughtPosted by LibrajeanPosted by lnana04They are cheaters... I agree. They love to find the perfect wife and perfect mistress
Sounds like the typical Cap male.
Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.
I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.
This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
???click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvCan you elaborate pleasePosted by LibrajeanIt's all an illusionPosted by lnana04They are cheaters... I agree. They love to find the perfect wife and perfect mistress
Sounds like the typical Cap male.
Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.
I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.
This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.click to expand
Posted by CapricornruleforeverBollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.Posted by beautifulsoul74I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Smh.
OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.
What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.click to expand
Posted by CapricornruleforeverOf course he treats her like she is special because he is getting his needs met. Here is a woman with no morals willing to play second to his wife. Winning.
Ok So if have a new question. Im really looking for Capricorn men to answer this question. preferably 40 and over.
My best friend met a man on a social dating site about 2 years ago. about 7 months into dating him she found out he was engaged to be married in 4 months. however they didn't stop seeing each other he called before on and after he got married. she said that they have a wonderful relation ship. he never makes her feel like a mistress. he cares for her and takes care of her in every way possible. she has tried to brake it off with him but he insist that he loves her dearly and he can't bare being with out her. he often tells her that he married too soon and the wrong person.The have taken trips spent holidays they are like the best of friends she asked him why did he get married and he side "because that is what he wanted to do". Now from what i have read about Capricorn men this is not common behavior for them. so maybe you guys can help me understand this a little bit better. They have been dating longer then he has been married.and I thought that Capricorns were faithful.
Posted by WonderWoman14Posted by CapricornruleforeverBollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.Posted by beautifulsoul74I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Smh.
OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.
What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.
Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.click to expand
Posted by Capricornruleforever
Look everyone I akesd a simple questions.... Focus people just answer the question save your sermons for church.... At the end of the day no one can judge anyone so save the be cause for all anyone know they have a open marriage... Ijs....Thanks those who can comprehend and actually answered the question.
Posted by youngaliPosted by Tailormade843
I am always straight forward and expect the same in return. Im a builder so would be more than happy with one woman. If she can keep my attention, give me my space, and be a freak in the sheets then I will never cheat.
i believe that's the blueprint for what everyone wants. except the clingy people.click to expand
Posted by Tailormade843
I am always straight forward and expect the same in return. Im a builder so would be more than happy with one woman. If she can keep my attention, give me my space, and be a freak in the sheets then I will never cheat.
Posted by CapricornruleforeverPosted by WonderWoman14Posted by CapricornruleforeverBollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.Posted by beautifulsoul74I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Smh.
OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.
What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.
Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.
???????? I didn't get defensive at all. You just lost that money cause I'm not the friend Is it was i would have said so you hold no power here your opinion matters to me NOT?????? but I will say that you and all those who didn't answer my question instead got all in their feelings about what is been done I bet money that your either alone with noooooo one because someone cheated on you and left you for who ever or you wish..... Either way I could give 2 monkey phuck balls what you think....... Get out your feelings it was just a question that's what you do on forums.????????? get out you feeling....You MAD?awww????click to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14???? again like it said if it was me I would admit it. BECAUSE DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK!!!!! mash potato brains. I don't know how far you got in school but when the teacher ask a question after giving the situation or Scenario they just require an answer.... Not your judgment so again save that for church..... I asked a question not for validation because in my opinion people do what they want always have. What is right or wrong depends on who looking? But thats just me. So it clear that your to emotional to answer the simple question soooooo......be gone before someone drops a house on you..... Go find a forum where you can vent about how you husband/boyfriend like left you for the gym teacher or something. And yall can talk about how awful men are for cheating ?Posted by CapricornruleforeverPosted by WonderWoman14Posted by CapricornruleforeverBollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.Posted by beautifulsoul74I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Smh.
OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.
What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.
Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.
???????? I didn't get defensive at all. You just lost that money cause I'm not the friend Is it was i would have said so you hold no power here your opinion matters to me NOT?????? but I will say that you and all those who didn't answer my question instead got all in their feelings about what is been done I bet money that your either alone with noooooo one because someone cheated on you and left you for who ever or you wish..... Either way I could give 2 monkey phuck balls what you think....... Get out your feelings it was just a question that's what you do on forums.????????? get out you feeling....You MAD?awww????
As if you are going ti admit if it's you anyway!!
I know my opinion won't matter to you because you have come here looking for validation for your friends actions. However I'm still going to give it.
You've just lost your money. Just because I'm a decent person with morals and integrity and get on my high horse over something like this does not mean I've been at the receiving end of It. Which I can clarify I haven't. I'm not alone either I'm dating. I was married for a long time and before you jump the gun I left him and no it wasn't because he cheated. Infact it would have made my life a lot easier and I'd have left him immediately if he had because that's one thing I would never be able to come back from. I'm just an empathetic person and I know of people that have been cheated on (doesn't everyone,) and it's soul destroying to see what it does to someone but the extent of what her husband has done, still marrying after meeting your friend. He's a selfish men as is your friend. His wife deserves so much better.click to expand
Posted by Tailormade843So what happens when your missing one of those elements and tthe person you've chosen can not provide all.Do you find it somewhere else or settle?
I am always straight forward and expect the same in return. Im a builder so would be more than happy with one woman. If she can keep my attention, give me my space, and be a freak in the sheets then I will never cheat.
Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by Capricornruleforever
Look everyone I akesd a simple questions.... Focus people just answer the question save your sermons for church.... At the end of the day no one can judge anyone so save the be cause for all anyone know they have a open marriage... Ijs....Thanks those who can comprehend and actually answered the question.
Did you answer the question about his Venus and Moon placement?
Nevertheless...
my answer would be he married for prestige, money, connections etc. So not out of love but for a certain strategy or out of duty. (like if he were from a culture with arranged marriages).
For example Onassis married Jacqueline Kennedy but still met with Maria Callas.click to expand
Posted by CapricornruleforeverPosted by WonderWoman14???? again like it said if it was me I would admit it. BECAUSE DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK!!!!! mash potato brains. I don't know how far you got in school but when the teacher ask a question after giving the situation or Scenario they just require an answer.... Not your judgment so again save that for church..... I asked a question not for validation because in my opinion people do what they want always have. What is right or wrong depends on who looking? But thats just me. So it clear that your to emotional to answer the simple question soooooo......be gone before someone drops a house on you..... Go find a forum where you can vent about how you husband/boyfriend like left you for the gym teacher or something. And yall can talk about how awful men are for cheating ?Posted by CapricornruleforeverPosted by WonderWoman14Posted by CapricornruleforeverBollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.Posted by beautifulsoul74I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Smh.
OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.
What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.
Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.
???????? I didn't get defensive at all. You just lost that money cause I'm not the friend Is it was i would have said so you hold no power here your opinion matters to me NOT?????? but I will say that you and all those who didn't answer my question instead got all in their feelings about what is been done I bet money that your either alone with noooooo one because someone cheated on you and left you for who ever or you wish..... Either way I could give 2 monkey phuck balls what you think....... Get out your feelings it was just a question that's what you do on forums.????????? get out you feeling....You MAD?awww????
As if you are going ti admit if it's you anyway!!
I know my opinion won't matter to you because you have come here looking for validation for your friends actions. However I'm still going to give it.
You've just lost your money. Just because I'm a decent person with morals and integrity and get on my high horse over something like this does not mean I've been at the receiving end of It. Which I can clarify I haven't. I'm not alone either I'm dating. I was married for a long time and before you jump the gun I left him and no it wasn't because he cheated. Infact it would have made my life a lot easier and I'd have left him immediately if he had because that's one thing I would never be able to come back from. I'm just an empathetic person and I know of people that have been cheated on (doesn't everyone,) and it's soul destroying to see what it does to someone but the extent of what her husband has done, still marrying after meeting your friend. He's a selfish men as is your friend. His wife deserves so much better.click to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14Posted by CapricornruleforeverPosted by WonderWoman14???? again like it said if it was me I would admit it. BECAUSE DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK!!!!! mash potato brains. I don't know how far you got in school but when the teacher ask a question after giving the situation or Scenario they just require an answer.... Not your judgment so again save that for church..... I asked a question not for validation because in my opinion people do what they want always have. What is right or wrong depends on who looking? But thats just me. So it clear that your to emotional to answer the simple question soooooo......be gone before someone drops a house on you..... Go find a forum where you can vent about how you husband/boyfriend like left you for the gym teacher or something. And yall can talk about how awful men are for cheating ?Posted by CapricornruleforeverPosted by WonderWoman14Posted by CapricornruleforeverBollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.Posted by beautifulsoul74I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Smh.
OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.
What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.
Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.
???????? I didn't get defensive at all. You just lost that money cause I'm not the friend Is it was i would have said so you hold no power here your opinion matters to me NOT?????? but I will say that you and all those who didn't answer my question instead got all in their feelings about what is been done I bet money that your either alone with noooooo one because someone cheated on you and left you for who ever or you wish..... Either way I could give 2 monkey phuck balls what you think....... Get out your feelings it was just a question that's what you do on forums.????????? get out you feeling....You MAD?awww????
As if you are going ti admit if it's you anyway!!
I know my opinion won't matter to you because you have come here looking for validation for your friends actions. However I'm still going to give it.
You've just lost your money. Just because I'm a decent person with morals and integrity and get on my high horse over something like this does not mean I've been at the receiving end of It. Which I can clarify I haven't. I'm not alone either I'm dating. I was married for a long time and before you jump the gun I left him and no it wasn't because he cheated. Infact it would have made my life a lot easier and I'd have left him immediately if he had because that's one thing I would never be able to come back from. I'm just an empathetic person and I know of people that have been cheated on (doesn't everyone,) and it's soul destroying to see what it does to someone but the extent of what her husband has done, still marrying after meeting your friend. He's a selfish men as is your friend. His wife deserves so much better.
I'm head of the finance department for a company so clearly I have shit for brains!!
I'm a very objective person. There's no question of who's right or wrong in this instance!
Be gone before someone drops a house on you ? what are you 12? ?
It's an open forum and I'm free to post what I like, when I like to whom I like.
Clearly literacy isn't one of your strongest points. If you read my post correctly you would have noticed that I left my husband and it wasn't because he cheated. This also has no relevance to the topic. I put responsibility for this at both the husband and your friends door. I never said all men cheat, for some reason because I don't agree with both of their actions you assume I'm a man hater?!click to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by CapricornruleforeverPeople have answered the question multiple times, you just didn't get the answer you were expecting. He cheated because he can. Why overthink it?
Look everyone I akesd a simple questions.... Focus people just answer the question save your sermons for church.... At the end of the day no one can judge anyone so save the be cause for all anyone know they have a open marriage... Ijs....Thanks those who can comprehend and actually answered the question.click to expand
Posted by Capri-sunLife is good. Doin the cap dance, working working working. yes, I poke my head in here from time to time. I have no idea who's who amongst those who have changed accounts tho. But hello anyways! Hope you've all been great.Posted by CreepyPants
We're such animals.
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How've you been? I've heard great things about you. Thanks for gracing us with your presence againclick to expand
Posted by JustJules
Cap guy friend cheated with Libra friend while his wife was going through breast cancer. Wife passed away, about 5 years later the Libra was diagnosed with breast cancer... For those of you that don't believe in karma, read this again.
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by CapricornruleforeverPeople have answered the question multiple times, you just didn't get the answer you were expecting. He cheated because he can. Why overthink it?
Look everyone I akesd a simple questions.... Focus people just answer the question save your sermons for church.... At the end of the day no one can judge anyone so save the be cause for all anyone know they have a open marriage... Ijs....Thanks those who can comprehend and actually answered the question.click to expand