Why Would a Capricon Get Married and Then have an affair

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Ok So if have a new question. Im really looking for Capricorn men to answer this question. preferably 40 and over.

My best friend met a man on a social dating site about 2 years ago. about 7 months into dating him she found out he was engaged to be married in 4 months. however they didn't stop seeing each other he called before on and after he got married. she said that they have a wonderful relation ship. he never makes her feel like a mistress. he cares for her and takes care of her in every way possible. she has tried to brake it off with him but he insist that he loves her dearly and he can't bare being with out her. he often tells her that he married too soon and the wrong person.The have taken trips spent holidays they are like the best of friends she asked him why did he get married and he side "because that is what he wanted to do". Now from what i have read about Capricorn men this is not common behavior for them. so maybe you guys can help me understand this a little bit better. They have been dating longer then he has been married.and I thought that Capricorns were faithful.
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.

And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...

So he said because he loves me.

He says back then when he was 23-35

he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.

And yes he is a Cap.

Sounds like the typical Cap male.

Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.

I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.


This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
Posted by Capricornruleforever
Ok So if have a new question. Im really looking for Capricorn men to answer this question. preferably 40 and over.

My best friend met a man on a social dating site about 2 years ago. about 7 months into dating him she found out he was engaged to be married in 4 months. however they didn't stop seeing each other he called before on and after he got married. she said that they have a wonderful relation ship. he never makes her feel like a mistress. he cares for her and takes care of her in every way possible. she has tried to brake it off with him but he insist that he loves her dearly and he can't bare being with out her. he often tells her that he married too soon and the wrong person.The have taken trips spent holidays they are like the best of friends she asked him why did he get married and he side "because that is what he wanted to do". Now from what i have read about Capricorn men this is not common behavior for them. so maybe you guys can help me understand this a little bit better. They have bee

n dating longer then he has been married.and I thought that Capricorns were faithful.
That's my mentor there... Also a capricorn.

When I met him he wasn't in a relationship or he was but not a long relationship , I was with my boyfriend (Also cap) I liked him when I met him but I never proposed anything or accepted but he would still care for me.

I got pregnant and moved in with my boyfriend so I slowly pushed him away telling him he can't keep taking care of me like that because I have someone who does. All he did was let me use his car when I needed or bring me lunch to work, or give me gifts.

He married and brought his wife (from another country) who he had kids with and perfect family picture.

even though I never had anything with him sometimes he would ask me to meet for lunch and We would talk. then I'd ghost him for a long time.

he then stopped texting me. once I got divorced we met again for business matters and started working together (I have always cared about him because he cares about me too but never affect his marriage) He told me that he has always loved me. and that he knows that by helping me grow my business and work together with him he will be happy because he knows I won't take money from him without working.

Is complicated when you marry someone for the family image and bc she will be a good mother, sometimes women take the role also knowing they have stability and kids. So this is sometimes a 2 way thing. not just the fact that he is cheating.

I understand that he loves your friend because he wants to make sure she's taken care of and if he has the money to do so he will.

Now if at some point he wants to marry her I'm sure he will step up as long as she accepts that he will continue taking care of his ex wife. without the extra relationship.

Is a hard thing to understand but if you try to put the feelings with stability is hard to find both.

Besides this, my mentor also wants to do something good for the community and people in need so is not just an affair. Also I have never had physical contact with him other than work and besides that we are best friends.

Posted by lnana04
Sounds like the typical Cap male.

Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.

I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.


This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
I will get back to you in several years. Big Grin
I'd question his judgement on picking the women.

Not only that.. I'd be concerned that he wasnt honest with her to tell her the truth. Why find out 7 months later? That;s really messed up imo.

I wouldnt trust this guy with a flower. tsk tsk tsk
Posted by Chance_11_
Posted by lnana04
Sounds like the typical Cap male.

Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.

I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.


This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
Cap 'men' or your dad who you despise?

You're always saying stuff like this. I don't know a single cap man that cheats..most are fairly principled. I think it's the least likely sign to cheat as most look for real relationships. Are Cap women like this too or just the men?

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I don't despise my dad you duck, and I said Cap MEN and meant it. Yes, Cap MEN. More than one. More than two or three that I've known to have mistresses. How about 4-5 married with a mistress on the side and more than half of the unmarried Caps I know that have cheated on their girlfriends.

By the way, my Dad has never been married so my post wouldn't apply to him even if I did despise him. She asked about a married Cap male.

Now I'm wondering why he did not marry your friend? Because in my story if I'd have accepted the cap before he got married then it would've been a different story with him.
Posted by Noni05
Posted by Gemitati
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.

And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...

So he said because he loves me.

He says back then when he was 23-35

he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.

And yes he is a Cap.

What's the length of each relationship? (4)
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2...2...5
You're looking for a male Capricorn to give you some form of reasons why he would cheat on his wife. A male giving you his answer is validation for how he can feel about someone else other than his wife. I'm not a male but I've experience being the other women. Capricorn men have a good intuition about good women. One of the reason is once a Capricorn man get attached to you he won't just stop seeing you. If he really care about you he will make himself irresistible. He will do whatever he have to do to keep you in the picture. Normally they have a strong sexually bond with someone that cause them to cheat. As long as the woman can

abide by his rules…. That mean making sure nothing get back to his wife in no way shape or form. That mean handling the relationship for what it worth. He can be irresistible. He will do his best to please you especially sexually hoping you will be there for him regardless.
You're looking for a male Capricorn to give you some form of reasons why he would cheat on his wife. A male giving you his answer is validation for how he can feel about someone else other than his wife. I'm not a male but I've experience being the other women. Capricorn men have a good intuition about good women. One of the reason is once a Capricorn man get attached to you he won't just stop seeing you. If he really care about you he will make himself irresistible. He will do whatever he have to do to keep you in the picture. Normally they have a strong sexually bond with someone that cause them to cheat. As long as the woman can

abide by his rules…. That mean making sure nothing get back to his wife in no way shape or form. That mean handling the relationship for what it worth. He can be irresistible. He will do his best to please you especially sexually hoping you will be there for him regardless.
We're such animals.


Hi everyone Big Grin
Posted by Aerazo
Now I'm wondering why he did not marry your friend? Because in my story if I'd have accepted the cap before he got married then it would've been a different story with him.
Well Aerazo they only knew each other for 7 months. He was engaged maybe 5 month prior to them meeting and I believe that he and the wife were dating for a year prior to the engagement.

Posted by Noni05
Posted by Capricornruleforever
Ok So if have a new question. Im really looking for Capricorn men to answer this question. preferably 40 and over.

My best friend met a man on a social dating site about 2 years ago. about 7 months into dating him she found out he was engaged to be married in 4 months. however they didn't stop seeing each other he called before on and after he got married. she said that they have a wonderful relation ship. he never makes her feel like a mistress. he cares for her and takes care of her in every way possible. she has tried to brake it off with him but he insist that he loves her dearly and he can't bare being with out her. he often tells her that he married too soon and the wrong person.The have taken trips spent holidays they are like the best of friends she asked him why did he get married and he side "because that is what he wanted to do". Now from what i have read about Capricorn men this is not common behavior for them. so maybe you guys can help me understand this a little bit better. They have been dating longer then he has been married.and I thought that Capricorns were faithful.
Are you the best friend? Just curious
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No I am not the friend.

Posted by youngali
if he can have his cake and eat it too... why not? it's a win win for him.

it's up to your friend to decide whether she wants to be the side piece forever or nah.

what zodiac sign is she? and don't say sag. lmao
My best friend is a Capricorn as well. She don't mind being a "side piece" because she isn't treated like one. He takes her out he cares for her financially he spends holidays with her he stays the night he has never treated like she is the other women. truthfully they are like the best of friends it like they have known each other for years. from what i have seen she is very happy with the current situation that she is in. I have asked her what dose she get from this relationship she "all the benefits of a relationship no commitment"

Posted by lnana04
Sounds like the typical Cap male.

Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.

I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.


This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
They are cheaters... I agree. They love to find the perfect wife and perfect mistress

Posted by Librajean
Posted by lnana04
Sounds like the typical Cap male.

Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.

I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.


This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
They are cheaters... I agree. They love to find the perfect wife and perfect mistress

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???

I don't think cheating goes with a certain zodiac sign...

Any person can cheat
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Gemitati
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.

And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...

So he said because he loves me.

He says back then when he was 23-35

he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.

And yes he is a Cap.

what if he's cheating on you?

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It's the other way around but I am tired and lazy to talk about it...

Ask Nikki. She would loooove to enlighten you on my sins! Lol
Posted by Harukka
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Gemitati
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.

And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...

So he said because he loves me.

He says back then when he was 23-35

he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.

And yes he is a Cap.

what if he's cheating on you?

He is cheating on her for sure, that's why he pretend that he doesn't know about her affair.

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Are you new here?

He is not cheating. He kisses my footsteps. But I love my Scorpio and my husband knows it!

Still... Loves me!

But I can't fight it. 8 years of unconditional love means something!

A lot!
Posted by youngali
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Gemitati
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.

And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...

So he said because he loves me.

He says back then when he was 23-35

he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.

And yes he is a Cap.

what if he's cheating on you?



It's the other way around but I am tired and lazy to talk about it...

Ask Nikki. She would loooove to enlighten you on my sins! Lol
damn, i wish dxpnet had voice notes lmao!

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Put request and your wish will be granted!

But why? Too lazy to read?
Posted by magikarp
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Harukka
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Gemitati
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.

And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...

So he said because he loves me.

He says back then when he was 23-35

he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.

And yes he is a Cap.

what if he's cheating on you?

He is cheating on her for sure, that's why he pretend that he doesn't know about her affair.

Are you new here?

He is not cheating. He kisses my footsteps. But I love my Scorpio and my husband knows it!

Still... Loves me!

But I can't fight it. 8 years of unconditional love means something!

A lot!
he din't love you, he just payback his karma and enjoy it...
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You really are brainless to the core!

Why are you even talking?

And most important - I don't care!!!

I wish he WAS cheating on me!

I've even suggested it.

Are you upset because you are Cap?

Otherwise I don't see why...
Smh.

OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.

What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
Posted by Harukka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Harukka
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Gemitati
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.

And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...

So he said because he loves me.

He says back then when he was 23-35

he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.

And yes he is a Cap.

what if he's cheating on you?

He is cheating on her for sure, that's why he pretend that he doesn't know about her affair.

Are you new here?

He is not cheating. He kisses my footsteps. But I love my Scorpio and my husband knows it!

Still... Loves me!

But I can't fight it. 8 years of unconditional love means something!

A lot!
Ok


But Are you happy ?

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Partially! As my Scorp asked me yesterday what is going on in my life - I said it's basically between you and you...

Because he calls me daily and we have this time when we just talking about anything happened today.

He's quizzed me and said its ok. Let's take one day at the time.

That's what we are doing. And we are closer than ever. We have a long history.

A lot happen since. Somebody you weren't even grown up since then. Lol
Posted by magikarp
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by magikarp
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Harukka
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Gemitati
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.

And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...

So he said because he loves me.

He says back then when he was 23-35

he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.

And yes he is a Cap.

what if he's cheating on you?

He is cheating on her for sure, that's why he pretend that he doesn't know about her affair.

Are you new here?

He is not cheating. He kisses my footsteps. But I love my Scorpio and my husband knows it!

Still... Loves me!

But I can't fight it. 8 years of unconditional love means something!

A lot!
he din't love you, he just payback his karma and enjoy it...
You really are brainless to the core!

Why are you even talking?

And most important - I don't care!!!

I wish he WAS cheating on me!

I've even suggested it.

Are you upset because you are Cap?

Otherwise I don't see why...
lol why i must upset? i don't even care but your story seems fit to the Cliché lifes of capricorn men....
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I didn't know there WAS a cliche!

Is there? I am curious...
Posted by Harukka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Harukka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Harukka
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Gemitati
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.

And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...

So he said because he loves me.

He says back then when he was 23-35

he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.

And yes he is a Cap.

what if he's cheating on you?

He is cheating on her for sure, that's why he pretend that he doesn't know about her affair.

Are you new here?

He is not cheating. He kisses my footsteps. But I love my Scorpio and my husband knows it!

Still... Loves me!

But I can't fight it. 8 years of unconditional love means something!

A lot!
Ok


But Are you happy ?

Partially! As my Scorp asked me yesterday what is going on in my life - I said it's basically between you and you...

Because he calls me daily and we have this time when we just talking about anything happened today.

He's quizzed me and said its ok. Let's take one day at the time.

That's what we are doing. And we are closer than ever. We have a long history.

A lot happen since. Somebody you weren't even grown up since then. Lol


But

Posted by Gemitati

I am old, married, in love, depressed, want to get out of watching stupid TV with my husband...texting with unmentionables...

My life sucks .



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I am feeling too popular for whatever reason!

I would never take time to fetch or find anyone of your posts. So mine must be golden! Lol

And yes. I wrote it and it's still valid.

What's your point Sherlock?
Posted by youngali
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by yupvirgoo
Posted by Gemitati
My husband was married 3 times before me and cheated on every wife.

And I know for a fact he had never cheated on me because IF I found out...

So he said because he loves me.

He says back then when he was 23-35

he didn't have such feelings like to stay faithful. Because he didn't care of losing them. No kids in any of 3.

And yes he is a Cap.

what if he's cheating on you?



It's the other way around but I am tired and lazy to talk about it...

Ask Nikki. She would loooove to enlighten you on my sins! Lol
damn, i wish dxpnet had voice notes lmao!

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Hell yeah! Lol but I already have a mental voice for most user names on here ?

Posted by beautifulsoul74
Smh.

OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.

What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Posted by Capricornruleforever
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Smh.

OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.

What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
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In regards to something being said to the person who "initiated the affair" I agree...but my premise is they're both equally responsible at this point. Whether it's three weeks or seven months, the fact still remains that she found out about it and could've ended it. I'm sorry but for me personally, this not one of those situations where we "get to blame the man." Just my opinion smile

What's ironic, is by saying your friend isn't responsible for his fiancé's feelings is exactly what allows cheating and affairs to take place. It gives them permission to do it because of lack of consideration. She's not responsible for the now wife's feelings, but she is responsible for helping this man violate the integrity of his marriage in which the wife's feelings are tied to through trust. It's called being an accessory after the fact. It's no different than a friend taking a friend to a bank and that friend they're giving a ride to robs it and they drive them away and split the money. The original friend may not have even been aware that the robbery was going to take place, but once they consciously take part in the spoils, they're equally held responsible as if they planned it from the beginning. That's what realistically takes place. Good luck



Posted by Aerazo
Posted by Librajean
Posted by lnana04
Sounds like the typical Cap male.

Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.

I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.


This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
They are cheaters... I agree. They love to find the perfect wife and perfect mistress



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It's not that deep of a thoughtWinking

Posted by Impulsv
Posted by Librajean
Posted by lnana04
Sounds like the typical Cap male.

Imo, it's like marriage for them is a weapon to attract even more women, and they know it. Women LOVE married Cap men, and Cap men LOVE a good mistress.

I've seen it happen more than I can count. This is honestly typical behavior. Post about a Cap man that doesn't cheat on his wife and I'll be shocked.


This is why I think I want a guy that has a lot of hobbies and activities to keep him busy. Imo, if a Cap male isn't working, his hobby will most likely be entertaining another woman.
They are cheaters... I agree. They love to find the perfect wife and perfect mistress

It's all an illusion
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Can you elaborate please

Posted by Capricornruleforever
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Smh.

OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.

What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
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Bollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.

I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.

Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.

Posted by Capricornruleforever
Ok So if have a new question. Im really looking for Capricorn men to answer this question. preferably 40 and over.

My best friend met a man on a social dating site about 2 years ago. about 7 months into dating him she found out he was engaged to be married in 4 months. however they didn't stop seeing each other he called before on and after he got married. she said that they have a wonderful relation ship. he never makes her feel like a mistress. he cares for her and takes care of her in every way possible. she has tried to brake it off with him but he insist that he loves her dearly and he can't bare being with out her. he often tells her that he married too soon and the wrong person.The have taken trips spent holidays they are like the best of friends she asked him why did he get married and he side "because that is what he wanted to do". Now from what i have read about Capricorn men this is not common behavior for them. so maybe you guys can help me understand this a little bit better. They have been dating longer then he has been married.and I thought that Capricorns were faithful.
Of course he treats her like she is special because he is getting his needs met. Here is a woman with no morals willing to play second to his wife. Winning.

Posted by WonderWoman14
Posted by Capricornruleforever
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Smh.

OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.

What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Bollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.

I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.

Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.

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???????? I didn't get defensive at all. You just lost that money cause I'm not the friend Is it was i would have said so you hold no power here your opinion matters to me NOT?????? but I will say that you and all those who didn't answer my question instead got all in their feelings about what is been done I bet money that your either alone with noooooo one because someone cheated on you and left you for who ever or you wish..... Either way I could give 2 monkey phuck balls what you think....... Get out your feelings it was just a question that's what you do on forums.????????? get out you feeling....You MAD?awww????


Look everyone I akesd a simple questions.... Focus people just answer the question save your sermons for church.... At the end of the day no one can judge anyone so save the be cause for all anyone know they have a open marriage... Ijs....Thanks those who can comprehend and actually answered the question.
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Look everyone I akesd a simple questions.... Focus people just answer the question save your sermons for church.... At the end of the day no one can judge anyone so save the be cause for all anyone know they have a open marriage... Ijs....Thanks those who can comprehend and actually answered the question.

Did you answer the question about his Venus and Moon placement?

Nevertheless...

my answer would be he married for prestige, money, connections etc. So not out of love but for a certain strategy or out of duty. (like if he were from a culture with arranged marriages).

For example Onassis married Jacqueline Kennedy but still met with Maria Callas.
I am always straight forward and expect the same in return. Im a builder so would be more than happy with one woman. If she can keep my attention, give me my space, and be a freak in the sheets then I will never cheat.
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Posted by Tailormade843
I am always straight forward and expect the same in return. Im a builder so would be more than happy with one woman. If she can keep my attention, give me my space, and be a freak in the sheets then I will never cheat.


i believe that's the blueprint for what everyone wants. except the clingy people.

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I am always straight forward and expect the same in return. Im a builder so would be more than happy with one woman. If she can keep my attention, give me my space, and be a freak in the sheets then I will never cheat.



I'm the same way.

It's funny, if you were a Cancer Ascendant, we would have the exact same placements.

Your wife is a Gemini, correct?

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Smh.

OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.

What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Bollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.

I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.

Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.



???????? I didn't get defensive at all. You just lost that money cause I'm not the friend Is it was i would have said so you hold no power here your opinion matters to me NOT?????? but I will say that you and all those who didn't answer my question instead got all in their feelings about what is been done I bet money that your either alone with noooooo one because someone cheated on you and left you for who ever or you wish..... Either way I could give 2 monkey phuck balls what you think....... Get out your feelings it was just a question that's what you do on forums.????????? get out you feeling....You MAD?awww????


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As if you are going ti admit if it's you anyway!!

I know my opinion won't matter to you because you have come here looking for validation for your friends actions. However I'm still going to give it.

You've just lost your money. Just because I'm a decent person with morals and integrity and get on my high horse over something like this does not mean I've been at the receiving end of It. Which I can clarify I haven't. I'm not alone either I'm dating. I was married for a long time and before you jump the gun I left him and no it wasn't because he cheated. Infact it would have made my life a lot easier and I'd have left him immediately if he had because that's one thing I would never be able to come back from. I'm just an empathetic person and I know of people that have been cheated on (doesn't everyone,) and it's soul destroying to see what it does to someone but the extent of what her husband has done, still marrying after meeting your friend. He's a selfish men as is your friend. His wife deserves so much better.

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Posted by Capricornruleforever
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Smh.

OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.

What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Bollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.

I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.

Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.



???????? I didn't get defensive at all. You just lost that money cause I'm not the friend Is it was i would have said so you hold no power here your opinion matters to me NOT?????? but I will say that you and all those who didn't answer my question instead got all in their feelings about what is been done I bet money that your either alone with noooooo one because someone cheated on you and left you for who ever or you wish..... Either way I could give 2 monkey phuck balls what you think....... Get out your feelings it was just a question that's what you do on forums.????????? get out you feeling....You MAD?awww????




As if you are going ti admit if it's you anyway!!

I know my opinion won't matter to you because you have come here looking for validation for your friends actions. However I'm still going to give it.

You've just lost your money. Just because I'm a decent person with morals and integrity and get on my high horse over something like this does not mean I've been at the receiving end of It. Which I can clarify I haven't. I'm not alone either I'm dating. I was married for a long time and before you jump the gun I left him and no it wasn't because he cheated. Infact it would have made my life a lot easier and I'd have left him immediately if he had because that's one thing I would never be able to come back from. I'm just an empathetic person and I know of people that have been cheated on (doesn't everyone,) and it's soul destroying to see what it does to someone but the extent of what her husband has done, still marrying after meeting your friend. He's a selfish men as is your friend. His wife deserves so much better.

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???? again like it said if it was me I would admit it. BECAUSE DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK!!!!! mash potato brains. I don't know how far you got in school but when the teacher ask a question after giving the situation or Scenario they just require an answer.... Not your judgment so again save that for church..... I asked a question not for validation because in my opinion people do what they want always have. What is right or wrong depends on who looking? But thats just me. So it clear that your to emotional to answer the simple question soooooo......be gone before someone drops a house on you..... Go find a forum where you can vent about how you husband/boyfriend like left you for the gym teacher or something. And yall can talk about how awful men are for cheating ?

Posted by Tailormade843
I am always straight forward and expect the same in return. Im a builder so would be more than happy with one woman. If she can keep my attention, give me my space, and be a freak in the sheets then I will never cheat.
So what happens when your missing one of those elements and tthe person you've chosen can not provide all.Do you find it somewhere else or settle?
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Posted by Capricornruleforever
Look everyone I akesd a simple questions.... Focus people just answer the question save your sermons for church.... At the end of the day no one can judge anyone so save the be cause for all anyone know they have a open marriage... Ijs....Thanks those who can comprehend and actually answered the question.

Did you answer the question about his Venus and Moon placement?

Nevertheless...

my answer would be he married for prestige, money, connections etc. So not out of love but for a certain strategy or out of duty. (like if he were from a culture with arranged marriages).

For example Onassis married Jacqueline Kennedy but still met with Maria Callas.
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I did not because I was unknown.

Posted by Capricornruleforever
Posted by WonderWoman14
Posted by Capricornruleforever
Posted by WonderWoman14
Posted by Capricornruleforever
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Smh.

OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.

What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Bollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.

I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.

Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.



???????? I didn't get defensive at all. You just lost that money cause I'm not the friend Is it was i would have said so you hold no power here your opinion matters to me NOT?????? but I will say that you and all those who didn't answer my question instead got all in their feelings about what is been done I bet money that your either alone with noooooo one because someone cheated on you and left you for who ever or you wish..... Either way I could give 2 monkey phuck balls what you think....... Get out your feelings it was just a question that's what you do on forums.????????? get out you feeling....You MAD?awww????




As if you are going ti admit if it's you anyway!!

I know my opinion won't matter to you because you have come here looking for validation for your friends actions. However I'm still going to give it.

You've just lost your money. Just because I'm a decent person with morals and integrity and get on my high horse over something like this does not mean I've been at the receiving end of It. Which I can clarify I haven't. I'm not alone either I'm dating. I was married for a long time and before you jump the gun I left him and no it wasn't because he cheated. Infact it would have made my life a lot easier and I'd have left him immediately if he had because that's one thing I would never be able to come back from. I'm just an empathetic person and I know of people that have been cheated on (doesn't everyone,) and it's soul destroying to see what it does to someone but the extent of what her husband has done, still marrying after meeting your friend. He's a selfish men as is your friend. His wife deserves so much better.

???? again like it said if it was me I would admit it. BECAUSE DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK!!!!! mash potato brains. I don't know how far you got in school but when the teacher ask a question after giving the situation or Scenario they just require an answer.... Not your judgment so again save that for church..... I asked a question not for validation because in my opinion people do what they want always have. What is right or wrong depends on who looking? But thats just me. So it clear that your to emotional to answer the simple question soooooo......be gone before someone drops a house on you..... Go find a forum where you can vent about how you husband/boyfriend like left you for the gym teacher or something. And yall can talk about how awful men are for cheating ?

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I'm head of the finance department for a company so clearly I have shit for brains!!

I'm a very objective person. There's no question of who's right or wrong in this instance!

Be gone before someone drops a house on you ? what are you 12? ?

It's an open forum and I'm free to post what I like, when I like to whom I like.

Clearly literacy isn't one of your strongest points. If you read my post correctly you would have noticed that I left my husband and it wasn't because he cheated. This also has no relevance to the topic. I put responsibility for this at both the husband and your friends door. I never said all men cheat, for some reason because I don't agree with both of their actions you assume I'm a man hater?!



I've been reading the end of this forum like..#SoMuchShade LOL!

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Smh.

OP, I know you care for you friend but in truth she's just as selfish as the guy is...if not more. She found out he was engaged FOUR MONTHS before he got married which is plenty of time to break it off...but she refused to see past what she wanted and she got it. She's not a victim a d yes he's equally responsible.

What raises my ire is that no one ever thinks about the spouse in these situations. He/she is the one who is getting it the worst. It always involves some bull crap flight of fancy exaggerated love story which is only used in the service of covering up the fact that you dealing with two douchebags. It would be a different story if she didn't know he was engaged but she knew and went for it anyway. Be doesnt love her nor her him.
I hear you how ever it bothers me that everytime a spouse is unfaithful to the one that they chose to be "committed" to that it is always expected of the third party to be the one to walk away. Never faulting the who brought in the third person in the first place who should have never started the relationship. To my friends defense they were 7months in a relationship before she found out. And when she made the attempt to end it he didn't want to. So call them both what you may but its not her responsibility to have consideration for his fiancé feelings..... It my sound cold but all fair in love in war....
Bollocks all is fair in love and war. I found that out 7 months into a relationship. I'd have dumped his sorry ass there and then no matter how much I cared. He'll only do the same to her but then she sounds like a self-absorbed, heartless cow anyway.

I feel sorry for his wife she's the only one that deserves any form of sympathy and I hope karma comes around and gives them pair a smack in the face.

Ps. I'd put money on you being the "friend" you got very defensive in that last message.



???????? I didn't get defensive at all. You just lost that money cause I'm not the friend Is it was i would have said so you hold no power here your opinion matters to me NOT?????? but I will say that you and all those who didn't answer my question instead got all in their feelings about what is been done I bet money that your either alone with noooooo one because someone cheated on you and left you for who ever or you wish..... Either way I could give 2 monkey phuck balls what you think....... Get out your feelings it was just a question that's what you do on forums.????????? get out you feeling....You MAD?awww????




As if you are going ti admit if it's you anyway!!

I know my opinion won't matter to you because you have come here looking for validation for your friends actions. However I'm still going to give it.

You've just lost your money. Just because I'm a decent person with morals and integrity and get on my high horse over something like this does not mean I've been at the receiving end of It. Which I can clarify I haven't. I'm not alone either I'm dating. I was married for a long time and before you jump the gun I left him and no it wasn't because he cheated. Infact it would have made my life a lot easier and I'd have left him immediately if he had because that's one thing I would never be able to come back from. I'm just an empathetic person and I know of people that have been cheated on (doesn't everyone,) and it's soul destroying to see what it does to someone but the extent of what her husband has done, still marrying after meeting your friend. He's a selfish men as is your friend. His wife deserves so much better.

???? again like it said if it was me I would admit it. BECAUSE DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK!!!!! mash potato brains. I don't know how far you got in school but when the teacher ask a question after giving the situation or Scenario they just require an answer.... Not your judgment so again save that for church..... I asked a question not for validation because in my opinion people do what they want always have. What is right or wrong depends on who looking? But thats just me. So it clear that your to emotional to answer the simple question soooooo......be gone before someone drops a house on you..... Go find a forum where you can vent about how you husband/boyfriend like left you for the gym teacher or something. And yall can talk about how awful men are for cheating ?



I'm head of the finance department for a company so clearly I have shit for brains!!

I'm a very objective person. There's no question of who's right or wrong in this instance!

Be gone before someone drops a house on you ? what are you 12? ?

It's an open forum and I'm free to post what I like, when I like to whom I like.

Clearly literacy isn't one of your strongest points. If you read my post correctly you would have noticed that I left my husband and it wasn't because he cheated. This also has no relevance to the topic. I put responsibility for this at both the husband and your friends door. I never said all men cheat, for some reason because I don't agree with both of their actions you assume I'm a man hater?!



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Yeah I read that collection of bovine feculence you spewed on the page. However when made the decision to place judgment...tha is only for the most high who you are not and once you made the decision to come for me at that point I could have cared less about your opinion because just like azz holes everybody has one. But clearly just how you got all defensive and all in your feelings no matter what you say it clearly displays otherwise. But again I don't care about that either.


Am I 12...?.Good one... Again coming for me..OK

Well mother Teresa hold on to your friars and veil.

I'm true to my sign im the queen of sarcasm and I love to dabble in the art. Patty-ism

So for shyts and giggles I like to get under people skin...like morphine that itich you just can't scratch..... anywho I have grown tired of this your your emotional display . Of disapproval for Mistresses no longer amuses me I must find something else to supply my laughter so let me Mortal Kombat this shyt and finish it.

I do find it funny when you call someone out or challenge their competency they must tell you their job position.... WTF.....WHO CARES! Oh wait you do....

I don't care about your job what you do for living your ex-husband that you so called left( I'm happy for him) and his mistress I don't care about your opinion all you had to do was answer the damn question if you didn't want to answer the question and you felt like this form was too personal for you you didn't have to answer s*** but you chose to so with that being said no one cares about how you feel and yes it is an open Forum but let's stick to the question next time save the personal stuff for your therapist that you so clearly need now good day to you sir or ma'am or whatever the hell you are I don't care about that either?(drop mic )Capricornruleforever

Is out

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Posted by Capricornruleforever
Look everyone I akesd a simple questions.... Focus people just answer the question save your sermons for church.... At the end of the day no one can judge anyone so save the be cause for all anyone know they have a open marriage... Ijs....Thanks those who can comprehend and actually answered the question.
People have answered the question multiple times, you just didn't get the answer you were expecting. He cheated because he can. Why overthink it?
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she didn't comment on it? not at all?

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We're such animals.


Hi everyone Big Grin


Hi! smile

How've you been? I've heard great things about you. Thanks for gracing us with your presence again

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Life is good. Doin the cap dance, working working working. yes, I poke my head in here from time to time. I have no idea who's who amongst those who have changed accounts tho. But hello anyways! Hope you've all been great.

Sorry to interrupt the convo. Just saying hi!

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Cap guy friend cheated with Libra friend while his wife was going through breast cancer. Wife passed away, about 5 years later the Libra was diagnosed with breast cancer... For those of you that don't believe in karma, read this again.

For me you can put any sign into this equation.

plus: it is not karma. it is the increasing probabilty of dying from cancer.


and that women better go yearly to doc than trying to please men. but maybe one year of getting laid tastes good enough and can replace all the years they lose.

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Posted by Capricornruleforever
Look everyone I akesd a simple questions.... Focus people just answer the question save your sermons for church.... At the end of the day no one can judge anyone so save the be cause for all anyone know they have a open marriage... Ijs....Thanks those who can comprehend and actually answered the question.
People have answered the question multiple times, you just didn't get the answer you were expecting. He cheated because he can. Why overthink it?
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I wasn't looking for a particular answer there was no writing or wrong answer. Your answer Was that because he could or can....thanks its Duly noted

I'm a Capricorn we over think everything.... however I wasn't overthinking this I just wanted a multitude of opinions without all of the melodrama and judgment placing that's one of the reasons why I asked for a male opinion vs a female opinion because in most cases females tend to get all emotional about it.....

Oh and before everyone gets all feminist on me. I'm not saying that female shouldn't answer the question just would have preferred for an opinion from someone who's been on both side of the fence. Which I actually got from a few other commentators that's all no heavy thinking there.

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