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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 408 · Topics: 20
If you ask someone to do you a favor and they don't do it do you get mad at that person and expect them to kiss you ass so you'll forgive them?
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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 408 · Topics: 20
He asked and I told him I'd see and then I let him know I couldn't do it. Something unforunate happened as a result but I don't feel like it's my fault. He's a grown man, is that the leo selfishness?
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Jul 30, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 408 · Topics: 20
Yeah it was weird and I was wondering why he asked me and not one of his friends he's known for a long time. I kinda felt like he was testing me to see if he could really count on me but we haven't known each other for that long, I certainly wouldn't call him in a crisis. A part of me wanted to be nice and do it but then I decided my sleep was more important to me. I did wish him good luck though!
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He's too needy, too demanding, too expectant of you to do what HE wants you to.
You don't owe anyone squat.
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Am I now supposed to catch and kill his meals for him too!?!? Yep pretty much
per my own personal experience you did the right thing, some leo men can be some USERS, I'm not saying all but some will certainly test your boundaries to see if your desperate enough to give and give and give and help him out, thus you end up with a leo baby not a leo lion king
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so this is not typical leo behaior?
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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
so this is not typical leo behaior? If he's still in his leo cub immature phase YES, some have huge king like attitudes and feel entitled to GET what they want, if you don't want to be a person he can lean on all the time and he will lean on you if he feels your weak enough to put up with it, it will go from helping once to helping him all the time, then the whining kicks in and then he's no longer attracted to you as a lover, you become his nag and whine diary, if you want to be seen as a lover and only that then it's best to not do things you don't mean to keep up doing, yeah his ego was more than likely bruised but that's not really hard to do with a leo male, just say no and they typically sulk, I wouldn't worry about it, he will come back around and if he doesn't then he wasn't worth it.
I don't know the nature of the relationship but if it was just sex nothing intimate beyond some friendly FWB action then you did the right thing.