Leo man hurted me so bad
How do I move on? I left the state that I was living at with him and moved to another state to move on. But I just keep crying everyday and every night. I started to take sleeping pills so that I don’t have to feel the pain and sleep my sorrows away. Im n...
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Posted by Southerness_I have just found out my Leo were married and he didn't tell me. When I asked him, he started to blame me trying to digging information to sabotage our relationship. I asked him how could he hide that information if he wants to have a good relationship; and, how could he blame it on me. I'm shock and speechless. Now he ignored me back.Posted by RH01112019Posted by Southerness_Posted by AL4813
Ahhhh you're a scorpio..... it makes total sense now... Let me tell you this, I am a freshly divorced Leo man who divorced a scorpio woman. It was a disgusting breakup full of anger and hate... I'm not a going to bore you with the details but these two signs are simply not meant to be.. I did everything I could to please that woman, but her negative toxic nature was simply too much.
If I didn't have a child with her I would have zero contact with her..... in the end these signs just love differently.
We actually got along great. But when I would catch him in lies and doing other things he knew didn’t help our relationship that’s when things would go south. I told him all I want is his honesty because I’m a straightforward person and an honest person especially to someone I love so I expect that in return. All I wanted was to be happy and I tried my damn hardest to make him happy I even started changing myself to become someone else that I felt would benefit our relationship which anyone that knows me know that I’m very comfortable with who I am. I almost lost myself in the midst of it all. When we broke up he even tried making me stay. A lot of the times he would take me on extravagant trips or go the extra mile to do things that I like in bed to fix things. So this time after the break up he wanted to take me on a cruise to Costa Rica, a place that I always wanted to go. I had tears in my eyes and told him taking me to Costa Rica will not fix things. It’s kind of like covering up what needs to be fixed but not actually fixing the problem. He even had plans to buy a Catamaran (a type of boat) and wanted us to go live on a boat together. Said that he can’t wait to do that with me. But there are just too many things that he put me through that continued to break my heart over and over again. I just couldn’t take it anymore and the pain is too agonizing.
I had been more than forgiving towards him. My friends thought I was stupid for constantly taking him back but I kept making excuses for him. Never thought I would be that woman. There were messed up things he did that he didn’t know that I knew but I chose not to bring it up to keep our relationship above water. I will not put on here what he has done because I don’t think it matters. Like I said I know nice Leos my best friend/cousin is a Leo but I think I have had the bad one out of the bunch.
Just really want to know do Leo men acknowledge their wrongs? But I guess some one that’s selfish would never.
What did he lie about?
Omg everything. Smh I even told him he doesn’t have to do that. Just say it like it is you will not hurt my feelings I would have more respect for you if you just tell me what it is and how it’s gonna be. And he’s so predictable too I even knew when he was lying to me in my face. So everytime he lied I would let him know and catch him in the lie so he could know I wasn’t dumb.
I just won’t go and name off any of the things because I don’t feel like it’s relevant.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83He was married, but not anymore. I wanted to talk to understand why he can not tell me before I found out..Posted by RH01112019Posted by Southerness_Posted by RH01112019Posted by Southerness_Posted by AL4813
Ahhhh you're a scorpio..... it makes total sense now... Let me tell you this, I am a freshly divorced Leo man who divorced a scorpio woman. It was a disgusting breakup full of anger and hate... I'm not a going to bore you with the details but these two signs are simply not meant to be.. I did everything I could to please that woman, but her negative toxic nature was simply too much.
If I didn't have a child with her I would have zero contact with her..... in the end these signs just love differently.
We actually got along great. But when I would catch him in lies and doing other things he knew didn’t help our relationship that’s when things would go south. I told him all I want is his honesty because I’m a straightforward person and an honest person especially to someone I love so I expect that in return. All I wanted was to be happy and I tried my damn hardest to make him happy I even started changing myself to become someone else that I felt would benefit our relationship which anyone that knows me know that I’m very comfortable with who I am. I almost lost myself in the midst of it all. When we broke up he even tried making me stay. A lot of the times he would take me on extravagant trips or go the extra mile to do things that I like in bed to fix things. So this time after the break up he wanted to take me on a cruise to Costa Rica, a place that I always wanted to go. I had tears in my eyes and told him taking me to Costa Rica will not fix things. It’s kind of like covering up what needs to be fixed but not actually fixing the problem. He even had plans to buy a Catamaran (a type of boat) and wanted us to go live on a boat together. Said that he can’t wait to do that with me. But there are just too many things that he put me through that continued to break my heart over and over again. I just couldn’t take it anymore and the pain is too agonizing.
I had been more than forgiving towards him. My friends thought I was stupid for constantly taking him back but I kept making excuses for him. Never thought I would be that woman. There were messed up things he did that he didn’t know that I knew but I chose not to bring it up to keep our relationship above water. I will not put on here what he has done because I don’t think it matters. Like I said I know nice Leos my best friend/cousin is a Leo but I think I have had the bad one out of the bunch.
Just really want to know do Leo men acknowledge their wrongs? But I guess some one that’s selfish would never.
What did he lie about?
Omg everything. Smh I even told him he doesn’t have to do that. Just say it like it is you will not hurt my feelings I would have more respect for you if you just tell me what it is and how it’s gonna be. And he’s so predictable too I even knew when he was lying to me in my face. So everytime he lied I would let him know and catch him in the lie so he could know I wasn’t dumb.
I just won’t go and name off any of the things because I don’t feel like it’s relevant.
I have just found out my Leo were married and he didn't tell me. When I asked him, he started to blame me trying to digging information to sabotage our relationship. I asked him how could he hide that information if he wants to have a good relationship; and, how could he blame it on me. I'm shock and speechless. Now he ignored me back.
Well why would you care if he ignores you now that you know he’s married?
Wouldn’t you be wasting your time?click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Girl shut up.Posted by Southerness_Posted by RH01112019Posted by Southerness_Posted by AL4813
Ahhhh you're a scorpio..... it makes total sense now... Let me tell you this, I am a freshly divorced Leo man who divorced a scorpio woman. It was a disgusting breakup full of anger and hate... I'm not a going to bore you with the details but these two signs are simply not meant to be.. I did everything I could to please that woman, but her negative toxic nature was simply too much.
If I didn't have a child with her I would have zero contact with her..... in the end these signs just love differently.
We actually got along great. But when I would catch him in lies and doing other things he knew didn’t help our relationship that’s when things would go south. I told him all I want is his honesty because I’m a straightforward person and an honest person especially to someone I love so I expect that in return. All I wanted was to be happy and I tried my damn hardest to make him happy I even started changing myself to become someone else that I felt would benefit our relationship which anyone that knows me know that I’m very comfortable with who I am. I almost lost myself in the midst of it all. When we broke up he even tried making me stay. A lot of the times he would take me on extravagant trips or go the extra mile to do things that I like in bed to fix things. So this time after the break up he wanted to take me on a cruise to Costa Rica, a place that I always wanted to go. I had tears in my eyes and told him taking me to Costa Rica will not fix things. It’s kind of like covering up what needs to be fixed but not actually fixing the problem. He even had plans to buy a Catamaran (a type of boat) and wanted us to go live on a boat together. Said that he can’t wait to do that with me. But there are just too many things that he put me through that continued to break my heart over and over again. I just couldn’t take it anymore and the pain is too agonizing.
I had been more than forgiving towards him. My friends thought I was stupid for constantly taking him back but I kept making excuses for him. Never thought I would be that woman. There were messed up things he did that he didn’t know that I knew but I chose not to bring it up to keep our relationship above water. I will not put on here what he has done because I don’t think it matters. Like I said I know nice Leos my best friend/cousin is a Leo but I think I have had the bad one out of the bunch.
Just really want to know do Leo men acknowledge their wrongs? But I guess some one that’s selfish would never.
What did he lie about?
Omg everything. Smh I even told him he doesn’t have to do that. Just say it like it is you will not hurt my feelings I would have more respect for you if you just tell me what it is and how it’s gonna be. And he’s so predictable too I even knew when he was lying to me in my face. So everytime he lied I would let him know and catch him in the lie so he could know I wasn’t dumb.
I just won’t go and name off any of the things because I don’t feel like it’s relevant.
What if he isn’t lying?
If you keep accusing someone of lying, because you’re suspicious or you have baggage of exes being liars, and they aren’t lying, what do you do?
He says “not lying”
You say “yes you are. I know you are and I can prove it!”
Then you convince yourself you’re right and he’s wrong, so now you’re mad at him.
It sounds like your exchange is fueled by your doubts.
Why stay with someone you don’t trust?click to expand
Posted by Aria1Thank you.
I think you just came across a bad apple. The "leos" I know are very nice people (both male and female). My male friend has an awesome zest for life and whenever we hung out we had a blast together.
Sorry you're hurting though.
He can be sooooooo amazing when he wants to be but the other side of him is extremely toxic. And it’s not just the lies it’s loads of other things that are just all wrong. sometimes I wonder if he has mental issues and needs to see a therapist. I honestly think once I move forward that We can be friends in the future. I don’t think he is relationship or marriage material, not for me at least.
@RH01112019 I can’t tell you how many times my Leo done left me shocked and speechless. He would also do the same thing when I would find out stuff about him he would try to dig information on me and try to play that reverse psychology. You have to make them think about what they have done by not arguing with them then walk away and give them space.
He has actually came out and said that he was wrong for somethings and continued to apologize. Every since I left he has been calling me trying to make things right but I’m just too tired and can’t take anymore disappointments. I hung in there as long as I could.
He has actually came out and said that he was wrong for somethings and continued to apologize. Every since I left he has been calling me trying to make things right but I’m just too tired and can’t take anymore disappointments. I hung in there as long as I could.
It's " hurt", not hurted. Sorry.
Posted by Aria1
Ignore her OP...
Sometimes people get in a bad mood.
If you'd like more advice you can PM me.
Okay cool I really appreciate it
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