Sorry to ALL here !

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Babykaykesiam on Monday, January 25, 2010 and has 3 replies.
Sorry to ALL who have been irritated by my play by play posts of Leo dating. I just have no experience, and I am basically not sure of myself AT ALL in this department,
Thanks for bearing with me.... but I truly am sick of my own questions and insecurity about this. I need to take risks in life to achieve anything worthwhile, and stop neing AFRAID!
Thanks fo all who helped!
I won't be posting anymore about this!
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Babykaykesiam when ever i read your post i feel like telling something to you...but i stop myself from saying much coz actually i have no right to lecture anyone and neither i am perfect to tell you how you should be and how you shouldnt be but there are certain things i have noticed about you and i cant help but say that the problem isnt anyone but you. You are not very confident about yourself. And i guess in a way that is the thing which is effecting you not any leo guy or anyone else(without out you even realizing it i guess). I dont undertand why you use the terms like "bearing with me" etc. I mean common...it is an open forum and you have all the right to post and ask what ever you want to. Nobody is doing a favor on you by answering. Every one is free to answer or not answer. Stop beating yourself up all the time. When you love yourself and are confident about who you are people will automatically come. Not every body in this world is meant to like you and if few people do not appreciate you(i am not saying this guy doesnt but generally) then just move on. Find people who automatically appreciate you for who you are and what you are inside. Remember that no one appreciates a person who doesnt appreciates himself or herself. If you learn to love your self with confidence then you will see how people automatically get drawn towards you. You only think, would you like to be with a guy who isnt confident about himself? Who gives and impression that he isnt good enough ? Vulnerability is good and required but only to an extent.
I am not a dating expert. Have kept it to minimum in my own life but i just know one rule that is applicable in every aspect- that the art of attracting people is same for all(and here i am not talking about romantic attraction only). We all are very selfish beings and we all get drawn towards winners in life. And being a winner starts from believing that you are one.
Live your life, enjoy things you do, or do what ever you like to do, dont always look for approval of others.
If i have offended you then i am sorry
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"I don't know about you, but in general regardless of sign, these are "red flags" that the relationship is not right for me (which by the way I hardly have any experience dating either, but I have many friends and love people in general.)
If I feel uncomfortable in their presence.
If I can't express my affection freely.
If I feel like I constantly have to impress them.
If I am unsure.
If I am constantly having to reassure them.
If I feel the need to be reassured (which of course, I never admit this to them so it's more of an inner-self feeling.)
If they play mind games.
If they play games, period."
Never thought about it before but it does make perfect sense. I use to like some one ages back and nothing ever worked out with him(i am glad) and now reading this, 5 out of the above were applicable in my case then.
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