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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
Aquarians & Aries are good for eachother IF they can learn how to let their similarities AND their differences come together in a managable fashion. Aries, you guys do things on impulse. When you like something, you want it & you want it now. Aries doesn't sit around & wait for the world to come to them. Aries, when they like someone, don't waste anytime showing interest or investing in that person. BUT understand that Aquarians are more cautious & a little more careful when it comes to dating & love. That doesn't mean they like you any less. But Aquarians aren't as impulsive as Aries. Aquarians, even if they feel very strongly for someone won't let their emotions cloud their judgment. In other words, they know how to sit still. Aries doesn't mind their emotions & doesn't "think" so deeply into everything like Aquarian does. If you as an Aries can learn to have patience & understand this about your Aquarian then the friendship/relationship will work out just fine. This guy got distant for 1 of 2 reasons. 1. He's really starting to like you, thus it's normal for any guy to slightly back up the minute he can feel his emotions starting to take over OR 2. He's not really feeling you like he thought he would've, thus that's why he's backing away & only wanting to be your friend (his way of stopping the both of you from anything progressing further past friendship). Relax.
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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
Well it all depends on how deep the commitment is. The Aquarian you'll see in the very beginning (honey moon stages) will be almost completely different than the Aquarian you'll see after 2 years of commitment, for example. How Aquarians are in relationships all depends on what level the relationship is on. If the relationship just started (less than 6 months): he might be less affectionate that you wish; he will want to talk about any & everything & will often do so just to see where your mind is (lots of intellectual stimulation); he will be very blunt & honest with you about his intentions & will have the weirdest ways of showing you that he likes you; During this time you might even feel that he's holding back just a little and/or that you're expressing way more emotions than him. Now on the other hand, if you've been committed to an Aquarian for 1 year & longer, things might be completely different. If this is the case, he's probably more affectionate, very sponataneous, quick to open up about any & everything (He'll literally take your word for it when you tell him that you want to see you as his companion). During tough times or when he's very uncomfortable, you might experiences times when he randomly & suddenly withdrawls & gets very distant for awhile, only to reappear again as if nothing happend. Like I said, it all just depends
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Aquarians are usually very loyal. They aren't ones to cheat, especially if they've been with you for a long time due to how much emotional energy they put into their partners, thus not having any space/room for anyone else to even slightly intrigue them the way their partners do. In relationships, Aquarians are usually very honest, up front & blunt about everything. They can be very unpredictable. When having deep convos with them, you might notice how they can bounce from 1 subject to the next with the quickness but yet be thorough & "deep" about each topic they bring up. You might notice your Aquarian just staring at you with a blank/detached look while you are talking; this is b/c they are really listening to you & taking everything in. Aquarians aren't usually possessive; they know better, considering they cannot stand it when someone tries to fence them into anything. Aquarians, as more time goes by will be more & more affectionate with you but won't necessarily ever or always be "all up on" you every second. They will give you your space as well as expect you to have your own seperate life outside of them.
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Very well said Roxi
"give this man the opportunity to do the right thing by your daughter and schedule access and financial support and make them clear cut arrangements. then if he goes ahead and fucks up his role as father, that's his loss."
That is what happened to me. And my sons fathere fucked up and know he has not respect for him. But like my mom said to me "don't ever talk bad about his father let him find out for him self" And she was so right.
I was the good mother his father was welcome to see his child I never denied him but what he kept doing was saying he was coming to get him and never showed up... I had to take on the responsibility of calming my child down because he was expecting his father and he never showed. Which to me was on of his fathers biggest mistake.
His other mistake was He figured that he was hurting me by not coming around and kept telling him that he was hurting the child this has nothing to do with me and him but he could never see that.
His father stayed away for 2 months when my son was just getting to know him when he showed 2 months later my son did not had forgotten who his father was. The look on his father's face was pure hurt. I look at his father and said "You are doing this to your child"
All I can say is keep your focus on your child if he wants to see her let him if he don't then don't trip. Go to your nearest court and file for child support. I never did, because my pride would not let me so I struggle and made it on my own. Times are hard and you need the help.