ANY SUCCESS STORY ABOUT NO CONTACT AT ALL ?
This topic was created in the No Contact forum by Silk on Saturday, November 9, 2013 and has 14 replies.
Who made the first step after a break up and come back ? You or Libra ?
I still can't get over the fact you have a pic of someone holding a giant Dick
I'm so jealous (*_*)
I'm so jealous (*_*)
Silk,
I had an ex Libra. First I feed him attention then ignore for life...
He contacted me after 4 mos. And That's the time I never let him to see me again. I never even
receive his 3 missed calls.. I kept cancelling. 1 week later, I find a Taurus man.
Not to be rude, but if you think he is a no good liar you can't communicate with, why do you want him to come back? You also more or less answered your own question in another thread...
A couple of my ex's were Libras. And regardless of who called the relationship off, the Libra always came back 1st.
But keep in mind that I used to be the typical overly-stubborn Aquarius. And they knew this. And it killed them inside b/c they knew that they didn't have a chance in hell at me giving in unless they made the 1st move.
Sometimes I think the Libras came back not b/c they wanted me back, but b/c they hate the silent treatment. It's like they want you to still be at home in bed, crying over them even if it was their idea to go separate ways. Libras know just how hard Aquarians love, so it throws them off when we can completely disappear even though we gave them the impression the whole relationship that our life would be completely F'd up without them.
It's like they come back just to test the waters. They hate making enemies with people, so sometimes they wait until the storm has settled before finally coming back & giving their apologizes and saying their peace/closure. To the other person, it may seem like a Libra is just playing mind games or is playing the push/pull game.
But now that I know more about Libras after having dealt with so many, I realize that this is not their intention. They hate tension. Whereas others completely stop caring about how they're perceived once a relationship is over, Libras STILL care! Even if they have a reason to hate you for the rest of their life, they can't necessarily stomach you hating them, even if they never intend on rekindling anything with you!
This is 1 of those things that may only make sense to Libras lol
But keep in mind that I used to be the typical overly-stubborn Aquarius. And they knew this. And it killed them inside b/c they knew that they didn't have a chance in hell at me giving in unless they made the 1st move.
Sometimes I think the Libras came back not b/c they wanted me back, but b/c they hate the silent treatment. It's like they want you to still be at home in bed, crying over them even if it was their idea to go separate ways. Libras know just how hard Aquarians love, so it throws them off when we can completely disappear even though we gave them the impression the whole relationship that our life would be completely F'd up without them.
It's like they come back just to test the waters. They hate making enemies with people, so sometimes they wait until the storm has settled before finally coming back & giving their apologizes and saying their peace/closure. To the other person, it may seem like a Libra is just playing mind games or is playing the push/pull game.
But now that I know more about Libras after having dealt with so many, I realize that this is not their intention. They hate tension. Whereas others completely stop caring about how they're perceived once a relationship is over, Libras STILL care! Even if they have a reason to hate you for the rest of their life, they can't necessarily stomach you hating them, even if they never intend on rekindling anything with you!
This is 1 of those things that may only make sense to Libras lol
Signed Up: Mar 30, 2012
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I agree, Krys. I've seen it recently with my ex. He sure does talk a lot of shit about others and me, but man, face to face, he's kissing ass and nicey nicey. It actually amuses me because our mutual friends tell me all the stupid crap he says, yet he acts entirely different toward me. All for the sake of not getting on my bad side.
As far as "success" OP? Meh. Regardless of sign, when someone comes back around, it's usually not for any good intent or good reason and won't lead to any type of success. They come back because they want something, whether it be sex, to see if they can get an emotional boost from you by playing around, or as Krys said, to make sure you don't hate them or any other negative issue involved that effects THEM only. Even if they come back with the intent of another attempt at a relationship, it's because all their other options failed and they're crawling back.
All are self serving reasons though.
As far as "success" OP? Meh. Regardless of sign, when someone comes back around, it's usually not for any good intent or good reason and won't lead to any type of success. They come back because they want something, whether it be sex, to see if they can get an emotional boost from you by playing around, or as Krys said, to make sure you don't hate them or any other negative issue involved that effects THEM only. Even if they come back with the intent of another attempt at a relationship, it's because all their other options failed and they're crawling back.
All are self serving reasons though.
I don't know "your story" but yeah I have a success story about no contact. A few weeks ago I told my ex we weren't friends and not to contact me anymore. After ignoring (or giving nasty responses to) a couple messages, it has worked. There hasn't been any contact.
When I'm done, I'm done. No contact, no matter what. Recently, two ex-Cancers and one ex-Aries attempted contact. I'm not sure if it's because they want something (LOL), missed me, or just want to make sure I'm not mad at them. One wants to be just friends...hmmmm, let's see...you were an asshole to me when I devoted myself to you, NOW you want to be my friend.... I'll just move on and be happy without that drama.
Libra guy made it clear he didn't want a relationship, not right for each other....
Forgot about him and called me well over a year later asking me to meet him. WTF?! I didn't go.
Forgot about him and called me well over a year later asking me to meet him. WTF?! I didn't go.
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Posted by LibraSid
I don't know "your story" but yeah I have a success story about no contact. A few weeks ago I told my ex we weren't friends and not to contact me anymore. After ignoring (or giving nasty responses to) a couple messages, it has worked. There hasn't been any contact.
Is this the aqua ex?
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by LibraSid
I don't know "your story" but yeah I have a success story about no contact. A few weeks ago I told my ex we weren't friends and not to contact me anymore. After ignoring (or giving nasty responses to) a couple messages, it has worked. There hasn't been any contact.
Is this the aqua ex?click to expand
It is. I had a lapse in judgement a few months ago and took her up on an offer to hang out "for old times sake". We had a lot of fun for a few weeks then it was back to her old games. It's a shame but at least the no contact thing is working as intended
That's the Libra I understand...the one that loves so deeply they will keep trying against all odds...hoping
Posted by sweethearts
That's the Libra I understand...the one that loves so deeply they will keep trying against all odds...hoping
I've always thought of myself as a "hopeless romantic", now I'm thinking it's more like "hopeless in romantics"
No one.... if someone pulls that no contact shit on me... i would forever give them the no contact shit they wanted
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