Do you guys test?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by ladylibra21 on Tuesday, February 16, 2016 and has 41 replies.
I find I do this a lot. Maybe Scorp energy from being on the cusp? For example. I am starting to like my Cancer FWB. I wasn't expecting to have one but shit happens. He has Gemini moon so I wanna see how flighty he is before I start liking him too much. So he popped back up yesterday after almost a week of not talking which didn't really bother me, but I did wonder where he went, but he started the convo then started short answering me like he was annoyed I had not reached out to him so I told him I missed him and I did but I wanted to see how he would react if I let me guard down and he got more talkative but when I got too mushy he was like "Thanks" LOL( @gemguyaz34 insider) but I was testing him to see how he would react when he got back from vacation tomorrow I wanted to see if he got distant or picked up more conversation.

Do you guys do this? I give stupid little test all the time.
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THANKS. But seriously you know it's one thing to get a feel for where someone stands but to do it all the time can create un-needed issues. I just made a similar comment in the most recent Scorpio moon thread. But then I also just remembered you were on the Libra/Scorpio cusp. Gotta watch that, you could unintentionally cause a problem especially if the other person sees a pattern and figures out that's what your doing.
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-and I might add, a Gem can be very sharp at figuring out and then you could get confronted on why, which I know you Libras do not like confrontation. So if you want to know, just ask him. smile
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-and I might add, a Gem can be very sharp at figuring out and then you could get confronted on why, which I know you Libras do not like confrontation. So if you want to know, just ask him. smile

Ugh you know I hate being direct lol Maybe he will cook for me like he said and we can talk then, but like I said last night Cancer Venus is full of shit Tongue THANKS! LMAO!
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I find I do this a lot. Maybe Scorp energy from being on the cusp? For example. I am starting to like my Cancer FWB. I wasn't expecting to have one but shit happens. He has Gemini moon so I wanna see how flighty he is before I start liking him too much. So he popped back up yesterday after almost a week of not talking which didn't really bother me, but I did wonder where he went, but he started the convo then started short answering me like he was annoyed I had not reached out to him so I told him I missed him and I did but I wanted to see how he would react if I let me guard down and he got more talkative but when I got too mushy he was like "Thanks" LOL( @gemguyaz34 insider) but I was testing him to see how he would react when he got back from vacation tomorrow I wanted to see if he got distant or picked up more conversation.

Do you guys do this? I give stupid little test all the time.

He's your FWB, you can't expect him to text you if you're not meeting after.
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I find I do this a lot. Maybe Scorp energy from being on the cusp? For example. I am starting to like my Cancer FWB. I wasn't expecting to have one but shit happens. He has Gemini moon so I wanna see how flighty he is before I start liking him too much. So he popped back up yesterday after almost a week of not talking which didn't really bother me, but I did wonder where he went, but he started the convo then started short answering me like he was annoyed I had not reached out to him so I told him I missed him and I did but I wanted to see how he would react if I let me guard down and he got more talkative but when I got too mushy he was like "Thanks" LOL( @gemguyaz34 insider) but I was testing him to see how he would react when he got back from vacation tomorrow I wanted to see if he got distant or picked up more conversation.

Do you guys do this? I give stupid little test all the time.

He's your FWB, you can't expect him to text you if you're not meeting after.
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I don't expect him too but we were talking a lot and then I hurt his feelings. I apologized, but he got guarded after that so I am just curious about why his feelings got hurt if he doesn't like me like that.
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I find I do this a lot. Maybe Scorp energy from being on the cusp? For example. I am starting to like my Cancer FWB. I wasn't expecting to have one but shit happens. He has Gemini moon so I wanna see how flighty he is before I start liking him too much. So he popped back up yesterday after almost a week of not talking which didn't really bother me, but I did wonder where he went, but he started the convo then started short answering me like he was annoyed I had not reached out to him so I told him I missed him and I did but I wanted to see how he would react if I let me guard down and he got more talkative but when I got too mushy he was like "Thanks" LOL( @gemguyaz34 insider) but I was testing him to see how he would react when he got back from vacation tomorrow I wanted to see if he got distant or picked up more conversation.

Do you guys do this? I give stupid little test all the time.

He's your FWB, you can't expect him to text you if you're not meeting after.

I don't expect him too but we were talking a lot and then I hurt his feelings. I apologized, but he got guarded after that so I am just curious about why his feelings got hurt if he doesn't like me like that.
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The point at issue here is another one:

- he's willing to cook for you;
- you miss him if he doesn't text you.

Why can't the two of you be in a normal relationship?
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Posted by ladylibra21
Posted by gemguyaz34
-and I might add, a Gem can be very sharp at figuring out and then you could get confronted on why, which I know you Libras do not like confrontation. So if you want to know, just ask him. smile

Ugh you know I hate being direct lol Maybe he will cook for me like he said and we can talk then, but like I said last night Cancer Venus is full of shit Tongue THANKS! LMAO!
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So is a Sag Venus..
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I find I do this a lot. Maybe Scorp energy from being on the cusp? For example. I am starting to like my Cancer FWB. I wasn't expecting to have one but shit happens. He has Gemini moon so I wanna see how flighty he is before I start liking him too much. So he popped back up yesterday after almost a week of not talking which didn't really bother me, but I did wonder where he went, but he started the convo then started short answering me like he was annoyed I had not reached out to him so I told him I missed him and I did but I wanted to see how he would react if I let me guard down and he got more talkative but when I got too mushy he was like "Thanks" LOL( @gemguyaz34 insider) but I was testing him to see how he would react when he got back from vacation tomorrow I wanted to see if he got distant or picked up more conversation.

Do you guys do this? I give stupid little test all the time.

He's your FWB, you can't expect him to text you if you're not meeting after.

I don't expect him too but we were talking a lot and then I hurt his feelings. I apologized, but he got guarded after that so I am just curious about why his feelings got hurt if he doesn't like me like that.

The point at issue here is another one:

- he's willing to cook for you;
- you miss him if he doesn't text you.

Why can't the two of you be in a normal relationship?
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Exactly! Each has to give a little bit. Delicate dances don't get you nowhere..
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I find I do this a lot. Maybe Scorp energy from being on the cusp? For example. I am starting to like my Cancer FWB. I wasn't expecting to have one but shit happens. He has Gemini moon so I wanna see how flighty he is before I start liking him too much. So he popped back up yesterday after almost a week of not talking which didn't really bother me, but I did wonder where he went, but he started the convo then started short answering me like he was annoyed I had not reached out to him so I told him I missed him and I did but I wanted to see how he would react if I let me guard down and he got more talkative but when I got too mushy he was like "Thanks" LOL( @gemguyaz34 insider) but I was testing him to see how he would react when he got back from vacation tomorrow I wanted to see if he got distant or picked up more conversation.

Do you guys do this? I give stupid little test all the time.

He's your FWB, you can't expect him to text you if you're not meeting after.

I don't expect him too but we were talking a lot and then I hurt his feelings. I apologized, but he got guarded after that so I am just curious about why his feelings got hurt if he doesn't like me like that.

The point at issue here is another one:

- he's willing to cook for you;
- you miss him if he doesn't text you.

Why can't the two of you be in a normal relationship?
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Because I cant tell if he is full of shit or not lol.
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I find I do this a lot. Maybe Scorp energy from being on the cusp? For example. I am starting to like my Cancer FWB. I wasn't expecting to have one but shit happens. He has Gemini moon so I wanna see how flighty he is before I start liking him too much. So he popped back up yesterday after almost a week of not talking which didn't really bother me, but I did wonder where he went, but he started the convo then started short answering me like he was annoyed I had not reached out to him so I told him I missed him and I did but I wanted to see how he would react if I let me guard down and he got more talkative but when I got too mushy he was like "Thanks" LOL( @gemguyaz34 insider) but I was testing him to see how he would react when he got back from vacation tomorrow I wanted to see if he got distant or picked up more conversation.

Do you guys do this? I give stupid little test all the time.

He's your FWB, you can't expect him to text you if you're not meeting after.

I don't expect him too but we were talking a lot and then I hurt his feelings. I apologized, but he got guarded after that so I am just curious about why his feelings got hurt if he doesn't like me like that.

The point at issue here is another one:

- he's willing to cook for you;
- you miss him if he doesn't text you.

Why can't the two of you be in a normal relationship?

Exactly! Each has to give a little bit. Delicate dances don't get you nowhere..
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Oh he is wonderful and I plan on attacking him as soon as he walks through my door again, but I think im just filling a spot and I have to keep reminding myself that.
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Posted by daydream_achiever
I do test but I often don't realize I'm doing it until I'm actually in the middle of doing it. It starts from a place that I'm not consciously aware of.

Pluto rules my chart, conj Asc. Venus Scorp 1st house.

Same here I just recently stopped myself in the middle of doing and I asked myself if it was at least a good test to try and I thought it would be.
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I find I do this a lot. Maybe Scorp energy from being on the cusp? For example. I am starting to like my Cancer FWB. I wasn't expecting to have one but shit happens. He has Gemini moon so I wanna see how flighty he is before I start liking him too much. So he popped back up yesterday after almost a week of not talking which didn't really bother me, but I did wonder where he went, but he started the convo then started short answering me like he was annoyed I had not reached out to him so I told him I missed him and I did but I wanted to see how he would react if I let me guard down and he got more talkative but when I got too mushy he was like "Thanks" LOL( @gemguyaz34 insider) but I was testing him to see how he would react when he got back from vacation tomorrow I wanted to see if he got distant or picked up more conversation.

Do you guys do this? I give stupid little test all the time.

He's your FWB, you can't expect him to text you if you're not meeting after.

I don't expect him too but we were talking a lot and then I hurt his feelings. I apologized, but he got guarded after that so I am just curious about why his feelings got hurt if he doesn't like me like that.

The point at issue here is another one:

- he's willing to cook for you;
- you miss him if he doesn't text you.

Why can't the two of you be in a normal relationship?

Because I cant tell if he is full of shit or not lol.
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What makes you skeptical?
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I retract my previous statement. You can't trust people for shit.
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I find I do this a lot. Maybe Scorp energy from being on the cusp? For example. I am starting to like my Cancer FWB. I wasn't expecting to have one but shit happens. He has Gemini moon so I wanna see how flighty he is before I start liking him too much. So he popped back up yesterday after almost a week of not talking which didn't really bother me, but I did wonder where he went, but he started the convo then started short answering me like he was annoyed I had not reached out to him so I told him I missed him and I did but I wanted to see how he would react if I let me guard down and he got more talkative but when I got too mushy he was like "Thanks" LOL( @gemguyaz34 insider) but I was testing him to see how he would react when he got back from vacation tomorrow I wanted to see if he got distant or picked up more conversation.

Do you guys do this? I give stupid little test all the time.

He's your FWB, you can't expect him to text you if you're not meeting after.

I don't expect him too but we were talking a lot and then I hurt his feelings. I apologized, but he got guarded after that so I am just curious about why his feelings got hurt if he doesn't like me like that.

The point at issue here is another one:

- he's willing to cook for you;
- you miss him if he doesn't text you.

Why can't the two of you be in a normal relationship?

Because I cant tell if he is full of shit or not lol.

What makes you skeptical?
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I am a certified stalker and I notice dates and times on things. There is this girl who could just be a friend, BUT they went hiking 16 weeks ago. Yeah could jus be a friend thing. He is super close to his family they do live 5 hours away but he made Thanksgiving dinner with her. I know this because I stalked her page and there is a picture of him watching tv smiling with a thumbs up as she takes a picture. She takes a picture of the table and there are only 2 plates. So its not like it was a friendsgiving or something it came off as an intimate thing to me. Mind you it wasn't snowing around Thanksgiving here so it wasn't like her couldn't go see his family. He willingly stayed behind. Also he sent me 2 pictures yesterday while he was out of town visiting family and he caption
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Haha well I leave my leo alone with the tests now. In the beginning, it must have been grueling for him. I've had nothing but jackasses in the past and pushed all the good guys away. To my surprise, he kept blowing me out of the water, passing all my retarded little tests to see if he's full of crap LOL. Through my little attitudes and expectations, he continued to be a steady, good man. It feels so good to not have to test someone I'm into. We've come to such a good place in our relationship. For the first time, I fully trust and deeply love. Actually, sometimes I feel it coming, like i wanna create a test... But I back down and let it go. I still do it quite silently at work or with some family lol

And now I sound like a crazy woman.

Yes! I have been hurt way too many times! I know this guy is a FWB, but I don't want to mess with him if he has a girlfriend. That is not my game and it is just the principle of the matter that I have to serve justice to people. Even though I hate being hurt I love catching people in lies.
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captioned that he took that picture the other day. He never takes selfies all of his Instagram is picture of mostly funny objects and things he likes the only pictures of him self on there include friends and videos of him fenceing. So in my head im like who did you send that picture to? LOL I am crazy I know, but I gotta protect myself. Don't trust no man.
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Not really. I take people as they present themselves. I figure that is who they want to be and I honour that. I don't pry because I figure if you want me to know, you will tell me.

For example, let's say you are a coworker and I hear a rumour that you were just diagnosed with cancer. I would never, ever let on unless you were the one that told me. Furthermore, I would never, ever tell unless you wanted me to. I am extremely private and really, deeply respect other people's privacy.

In the case of having cancer, I think it is essential that you have people in your life who just treat you as the person you were before you got the diagnosis. Who talk about things other than the illness. Just seems respectful.

So yeah. I don't really test. I just accept and once betrayed remember.
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I have an amazing lie detector. I can feel a lie in my body.

most of the time, unless I am angry, I just let it go and take notice. I don't call people on it. I know who I can and who I can't trust.
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My name is LibraMudra.
I am a LibraScorpio.
And I test people like a mother fucker.

That Scorp influence, yo.
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Not really. I take people as they present themselves. I figure that is who they want to be and I honour that. I don't pry because I figure if you want me to know, you will tell me.

For example, let's say you are a coworker and I hear a rumour that you were just diagnosed with cancer. I would never, ever let on unless you were the one that told me. Furthermore, I would never, ever tell unless you wanted me to. I am extremely private and really, deeply respect other people's privacy.

In the case of having cancer, I think it is essential that you have people in your life who just treat you as the person you were before you got the diagnosis. Who talk about things other than the illness. Just seems respectful.

So yeah. I don't really test. I just accept and once betrayed remember.


That is different I am the same way I will poker face it all day and wait for someone to tell me something private. I only really stalk people who are trying to get close to me because I want to know if they are genuine, but I will pretend I don't know anything until they really lay on the act and I have tons of proof then I lay it out there for them to see. Playing dumb is one of my best talents and it is funny to see the shock when people realize I wasn't fooled.
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Libras def test people alot until they make up their minds, their soulmate needs to be a perfect
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Libras aren't "testers," Scorps are.

"Testing" is just a bullshit tactic used by those trying to manipulate someone.
"Testing" is an excuse desperate hoes use to justify being manipulated.

It's one thing to do something to see where someone stands with you. Like, oh hey, I have a feeling this person wouldn't give a shit if I disappeared off the face of the planet. I'm just gonna scale back on initiating everything to see if my gut is right.

But then there's the type you see here, excused all too often by the desperate women clinging on to a loser- "Well he's treating me like shit. He's "testing" me to see if I love him."

That's just bullshit behavior right there. I will never understand why these severely desperate chicks make excuses for it. You're in a relationship, no? Or at least trying to be. Why do you need to be "tested' like it's a drug test just to grace some dude with your presence?

Straight up Libras don't do much "testing." I have noticed that those with Scorp influence tend to, but like I said, that's a Scorp (or any water sign) thing.
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Do you ever feel that these tests create more problems at times? I got to this point with my man where I was like... "Right, I'm gonna lose him" because I keep doing this to see if he will pass and he passes. There's absolutely nothing to test. Can't test just to test. That's exhausting for both parties lol. But it's so hard with all the past hurts and with situations like FWBs, not wanting to have someone else's dude get it.

This was actually good for me to read today!! When it feels like things go a bit silent between my man and I, I feel this urge to create something he needs to pass, especially because we live so far apart. Different countries. We see each other every few months for about a month. But then I remember, oh, yea, he's not a loser like the rest of your boyfriends. He's doing homework, working to save money to have trips out here and spending every minute of free time with me on skype and put a beautiful ring on it lol

It really is damaging. I have seen Leo and Scorp women do this garbage and they end up sabotaging their relationships with that neurotic crap. Calm the fuck down ladies, haha.

Anyone who has high enough self esteem and can see that shit from a mile away will grow tired of it really quickly and/or drop it. I've dealt with a few Pisces guys who tried this bullshit with me, except I saw right through it and didn't even give them the response they were "testing" for. I ignored that shit and continued on like nothing had happened. It did grow tiring after awhile and I had to distance myself because it's just ridiculous constantly being manipulated and fucked with like that. If someone has to constantly "test" the object of their affection, maybe they need to work on themselves a bit before attempting to date again. You can't go through life being paranoid as fuck, thinking everyone is out to fuck you over, so you end up doing silly shit like this. It's immature and childish.

Not a shot at you specifically, but a general "you."
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I don't make up lies when I test I just put out little bits of information to see how people respond. Like with this guys I let him know I like him a little more than I said I did to see how he would react. To see if he would disappear. There is a difference in testing where you stand and just plain ol manipulation.
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Also I didn't start testing him until I noticed a suspect picture and did some investigating. Before that it was smooth sailing.
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Never had a fwb. I'm to chicken, blah
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Never had a fwb. I'm to chicken, blah

This is my first. And I don't think I would be testing him if he didn't act like he wanted more and I didn't see a red flag.
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Yeah I don't do confused. I like soild and firm grounds. Fwb would seem to be robbing me. Jus my opinion. I think courting is a very important phase for me it gives me the opportunity to learn the other and vice versa. But testing yes I have done this too. And I've been tested alot smh it was frustrating and draining in a negative way.( I was always expecting a certain reaction that never came. Lol silly me)

Can't sleep with someone jus to get my rocks off...that why I masturbate lol lol. I take my feelings seriously and my body even more.

Again jus my way of thinking.
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Do you ever feel that these tests create more problems at times? I got to this point with my man where I was like... "Right, I'm gonna lose him" because I keep doing this to see if he will pass and he passes. There's absolutely nothing to test. Can't test just to test. That's exhausting for both parties lol. But it's so hard with all the past hurts and with situations like FWBs, not wanting to have someone else's dude get it.

This was actually good for me to read today!! When it feels like things go a bit silent between my man and I, I feel this urge to create something he needs to pass, especially because we live so far apart. Different countries. We see each other every few months for about a month. But then I remember, oh, yea, he's not a loser like the rest of your boyfriends. He's doing homework, working to save money to have trips out here and spending every minute of free time with me on skype and put a beautiful ring on it lol

It really is damaging. I have seen Leo and Scorp women do this garbage and they end up sabotaging their relationships with that neurotic crap. Calm the fuck down ladies, haha.

Anyone who has high enough self esteem and can see that shit from a mile away will grow tired of it really quickly and/or drop it. I've dealt with a few Pisces guys who tried this bullshit with me, except I saw right through it and didn't even give them the response they were "testing" for. I ignored that shit and continued on like nothing had happened. It did grow tiring after awhile and I had to distance myself because it's just ridiculous constantly being manipulated and fucked with like that. If someone has to constantly "test" the object of their affection, maybe they need to work on themselves a bit before attempting to date again. You can't go through life being paranoid as fuck, thinking everyone is out to fuck you over, so you end up doing silly shit like this. It's immature and childish.

Not a shot at you specifically, but a general "you."

lol when I start getting that feeling... I ask myself "wtf are you doing? Just stop" you are totally right, though. Some silly shit. 5 years ago, I would have never admitted to even doing this. But 5 years ago I was with a Scorpio and the games back and forth were a total mind fuck. Fuck.
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Would you say you picked this up from dating the Scorp
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Never had a fwb. I'm to chicken, blah

This is my first. And I don't think I would be testing him if he didn't act like he wanted more and I didn't see a red flag.

Be wary for sure. I had a fwb who was struggling with whatever the hell feelings it was that he had. It got obnoxious.

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lol when I start getting that feeling... I ask myself "wtf are you doing? Just stop" you are totally right, though. Some silly shit. 5 years ago, I would have never admitted to even doing this. But 5 years ago I was with a Scorpio and the games back and forth were a total mind fuck. Fuck.
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Yeeeah, some Scorps are fucking psycho in relationships. That "control freak" bit some have is just out of control.
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Never had a fwb. I'm to chicken, blah

This is my first. And I don't think I would be testing him if he didn't act like he wanted more and I didn't see a red flag.

Be wary for sure. I had a fwb who was struggling with whatever the hell feelings it was that he had. It got obnoxious.

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lol when I start getting that feeling... I ask myself "wtf are you doing? Just stop" you are totally right, though. Some silly shit. 5 years ago, I would have never admitted to even doing this. But 5 years ago I was with a Scorpio and the games back and forth were a total mind fuck. Fuck.

Yeeeah, some Scorps are fucking psycho in relationships. That "control freak" bit some have is just out of control.

Scorpio in Venus and Mercury...

Fun stuff.
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I can relate to an extent- my Venus is in Taurus- fixed. It annoys the shit out of me. Logic is always kicking the Taurus in the nuts to calm the hell down haha.
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This forum is poppin', I love it. Hi, everyone. I hope you all don't mind if I join the conversation. I literally made an account here so I could put in my 2 pennies.

But yes, coming across this forum came right in time. I was recently testing this Pisces that I had a brief FWB relationship with like 6/7 years ago. It ended with him disappearing on me slowly, like the typical fish. He took initiative (whoa, doesn't sound like a Pisces, am I right?) but yes, took initiative to hit me up after I posted some new cute pictures on Facebook, which I'm hardly ever on. we exchanged numbers. I wasn't paying him much mind at first, then when I didn't respond to him for like 3 days he hit me up like, "oh are you one of those people who take weeks to respond?" like he wanted my attention. which of course, you know us Libras, we get excited at even the tiniest hint of love in the air even if we don't much like the person at first lol. After that I gave him all my time and we were talking almost every day for over a month.

Someone here mentioned how crazy they can get as far as analyzing relationships. But me too, because when I was bored I literally wrote down the dates and times and how long we talked for that day as well as who hit up who first, like testing him to see if he would hit me up first sometimes and he passed the test most times, so that was cool. (I would never admit that usually but it seems like here is a safe space)

Anyway, my tests were the same where I could say little cute things and gauge his response. I really should have quit while I was ahead because he would just be like "haha lol," unless we were sexting THEN he would send long juicy replies back. but I figured, hey he's a pisces and all the pisces I've come across are kinda little boys and don't take much serious. but that's what I liked about him most. we could just be silly about things along with talk about serious things or sexting, but def silly. I have so much on my plate right now, I got addicted.

But yes, as I started getting more and more into him I just couldn't take it anymore. As you all know V-day was recently. Well I made sure not to hit him up all day that day 'cause I didn't want to put pressure on him. Last Pisces I somewhat dated lied to me about where he was on valentine's day and claimed he couldn't see me 'cause he was sick, when really he was with his ex-girlfriend Sad ive heard pisces have trouble getting over their exes. anyway, this guy moved to another state after college so it's not like he could see me anyway.
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So anyway, the next day I brought up the topic of relationships and then told him that I have the biggest crush on him and his response was "oh, I didn't know lol" (I died inside...we've been talking everyday and we sext, you're not an idiot). That's usually the point where if he felt the same, he would say it back. but I couldn't leave well enough alone AGAIN and straight asked if he liked me more than a friend, and that I wouldn't be mad about his answer (to make him feel comfortable about telling me. how about that? I'm the one who put MY heart on the line yet worrying about HIM feeling comfortable about rejecting me, what in the world haha.)

If you guys dealt with Pisces at all, you know that they run (more like swim) away faster than we do when confronted with something even the least bit uncomfortable. So yes, he never responded! I didn't resend the message because come on, it's 2016, of course he got the text. And I didn't want to make him swim away even farther. so I gave it like 24 hours before I hit him up like "uhh" and he's like "hey, lol" (I died). and I basically confront him on not responding to my question and he's like "what are you talking about?"

I'm like, is he seriously gonna sit here and act like he never got it. dude, who still does that after like middle school? and so I'm like dude, you're a horrible person. we can still be cool afterwards but I just need to know. and continues to insist he didn't get the message. he even sent me a screen shot of his phone. but that proves nothing because duhhh you could have deleted the message THEN took the screen shot. I'm not dumb and I've had an iphone before. How annoying is that, Libra ladies, how he's just thinking I'm a fool! I've had a pisces straight lie to my face about a situation that put my health in danger, so of course one could lie about getting a text.

anyway I was just gonna be like forget it, and at this point I'm already writing him off as a complete lying butthole but shoot, I came this far and I still want my answer. so before I wipe him off the face of the earth in my mind, I re-ask him the question and he's pretty much like "sorry if I lead you on but I thought we were just friends. I'm not looking for anything." I already knew that was coming, but I'm just mad at how he wants to act clueless and lie, ugh typical pisces with their fake innocent "who me, I don't know what's going on" act. how can you call me beautiful, sext me, call me cool, seem jealous and interested when I mention going on a date with someone, talk to me everyday and respond to my messages in a matter of minutes, and apologize when you haven't responded in a while, talk to me all through the day then when you get off work until you go to sleep yet you DON'T like me as more than a friend?

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And the fact that he lives in another state made me feel like we had something special 'cause he can't just use me for sex since he's miles away. so I figured that couldn't have been his end game. and I usually started the sexting lol...im like I didn't ask if you were looking for something, I just asked if you like me. I didn't ask for a proposal or even to be your girlfriend....this ended with me giving him tips to not chat up a girl every day or sext if you only like her as a friend 'cause it's confusing. he said "understood" and I said "I need you to overstand" lol.

Has anything similar happened to any of you? it was so frustrating.

You guys, I'm so sorry for the rant. Really needed to get this off my chest as closure 'cause I was just left with my head spinning by this Pisces. Pisces never commit to me it seems lol. The most committed signs I've noticed for me is Leo and Scorpio, and both I just felt so smothered. Pisces would be so perfect if he had one loyal non-lying bone in his body lol. Same for Sagittarius, love them but so hard to pin down. Geez...rant over. Sorry again, needed to purge.
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Posted by TheLibraMudra
Pisces men make terrific friends.

... And that's it.

AMEN.

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Ahahaha. Yes he actually did open my eyes to being more empathetic to people. I always thought I was an understanding person, but apparently I wasn't doing it right. Thanks, Pisces, for that at least grounding me a bit, pffft.
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Posted by leeberated
Ahahaha. Yes he actually did open my eyes to being more empathetic to people. I always thought I was an understanding person, but apparently I wasn't doing it right. Thanks, Pisces, for that at least grounding me a bit, pffft.

...more like stomped into the ground ugh
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by TheLibraMudra
My name is LibraMudra.
I am a LibraScorpio.
And I test people like a mother fucker.

That Scorp influence, yo.
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So is it a Scorpio-influence thing? I have Scorpio venus and mars (and possibly rising). But I don't test people, at least not knowingly or intentionally, that I can recall. I take people at face value. In fact I'm quite naive and can fall for other people's lies. I don't have a good lie detector. I really want one though...

Is this testing thing also something that people learn because they've been fucked over one too many times in prior relationships? They then bring their trust issues into the current one and thus the testing begins...?

I'm trying to understand this because I've never felt the need to test in my relationships, be it romantic, familial, friends, work, etc.
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Posted by letterbox10
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by TheLibraMudra
My name is LibraMudra.
I am a LibraScorpio.
And I test people like a mother fucker.

That Scorp influence, yo.

So is it a Scorpio-influence thing? I have Scorpio venus and mars (and possibly rising). But I don't test people, at least not knowingly or intentionally, that I can recall. I take people at face value. In fact I'm quite naive and can fall for other people's lies. I don't have a good lie detector. I really want one though...

Is this testing thing also something that people learn because they've been fucked over one too many times in prior relationships? They then bring their trust issues into the current one and thus the testing begins...?

I'm trying to understand this because I've never felt the need to test in my relationships, be it romantic, familial, friends, work, etc.
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Realistically, it depends on the individual and how mature they are. Insecure, immature people "test." Stupid, naive bitches use "testing" as a valid excuse for shitty behavior.

Like I've said before, it's one thing to say back off a bit to see where you stand with a person if you aren't sure. It's another to start saying and behaving certain ways to bait a reaction to bolster your own ego/self esteem.

I've noticed that Pisces and Scorpios are notorious for this because they're so fucking emotional and ridiculous at times. Scorps because they're control freaks, and Pisces because they're sociopaths like that.
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