Gentle Suggestions (Page 2)

Thinking of you is an understatement. When we like someone the thinking is non-stop. But we cannot tell you because it would be highly embarassing.

Also we are always thinking about the timing 'will s/he think me needy or a loser if I respond in the next three minutes?'

Reputation is important...

*** You know, I don't really know what works for a Libra man. But hinting is good. Sentences with ambiguity are sexy - is she referring to the deed or something else?

THIS!

*** The reinacting is way too forward. You're telling him he can have it. Don't. Make him wonder if he can still have you.

THIS!

***I would take his mind forward so that he could anticipate what's to come, something new and a little different. That will keep his interest. With air, plant seeds forward.

THIS!

*** Reminiscing about the good times is a favorite past time of the Libras.

Yeah. I can still actually have mini-orgasm when thinking about the last Leo if he pops into my mind unexpectedly. If just the structure of certain sentences ... and it has been months! The delivery was perfect too. Don't know what was with that guy. He just did it for me. (shrugs)

BUT I would prefer a more unobvious hint. Something really flirty and ambiguous. Of course it is all about delivery. The trick is to make him wonder. He needs to be reminded but unsure.

With the message you left you are saying I am still thinking about that time and it was the best. You need to say that was great but I think *WE* can do better. Of course not in an obvious way.

*** one of the areas of sex ruled by Libra is breathing ... But we actually turn breathing into an erotic act.

THIS is interesting. Actually explains a lot. Nic if you remember where you read that let me know.

**Also we are always thinking about the timing 'will s/he think me needy or a loser if I respond in the next three minutes?' **

This begs another question, and sort of goes back to the heart of this thread. Would it be okay then to tell the Libra "I'm dying to know your reaction, I'd love for you to respond back". In other words, would it work to give them permission to call us back, or to let them know we really want them to, or do we need to let them make that decision themselves?

"I'm dying to know your reaction, I'd love for you to respond back".

NO! Do NOT do this!

You don't want to be caught. You want to dangle. You want to be within reach but just out of reach.

Mystery. Don't give it all away. Seduction is a fine art. One Libras love to master.

OK girls... Been there as you know. Libra men LOVE receiving naughty messages it turns them on completely. I consider this foreplay, that leads to hot steamy sex at the end of the day. If you text a naughty message they will respond with a naughty one. The virbal naughtiness not so much. The text messages, almost everytime. If not he will mention it later in your conversation to let you know he received it and he might even tell you what his bodily reaction was when he received it....

I love doing this. I don't do it all the time, because I don't want it to become too normal. But once a week or sparatically is best...

QS!!!

how are you sweetie? How were your holidays? yadda, yadda?

HP next time text him!!!! Gaurantee a response... Trust...

Also, I got on here way after the fact. I would have suggested a message like.

I was driving down ***** road and saw this black BMW and got this chill down my spine, and this wicked grin appeared on my face, hmmm I wonder why? ugghhmmm....

I know late, but you get the point.

Listen to thelibra :

"No need for any gentle suggestions in bed if your libra has ever dated a scorpion girl. Like gemini, libra keeps shifting roles in bed continuesly." Hehehe

True, about reputation. Libras always care what others think, especially their friends. Unlike the Scorp. We can care less. We just do as we please. What makes up happy.

oops... "what makes us happy"

Maygirl!!! I totally agree with LS, never beg a Libra, good way for him to lose interest. Pressure. Let it flow... You can never let them know how much things they do or not affect you initially.

Got the picture LS and QueenS! You know, it didn't strike me as begging when I wrote it. That's why it's so great to hear other's points of view!

I would just like to respond back with some of the flirty, sexy messages himself. Maybe I need to text him from now on instead of vm.

Queen --- loved your suggestion on what HP should have said. Perfect and hit the right note!

LS, sorry, just jumped back on here. Holidays were great... Been interviewing for a new job lately - outgrown my current one. I actually had an interview at Harpo Productions!!!! Ofcourse me and 20 others for the same position. Pray for me. I can get us girls free tickets to Oprah's show if I get it...

I am just recouperating from the holidays, hung out way too much. Now it is time to buckle down and get serious... My libra friend who went back to the ex Sag. Been on my ass.. Texts and calls. Weak, but LS you would be glad to know I haven't folded.

How have you been. What up with Mr. Leo?

Hindsight, meet 20/20

you'll get it, QS. Harpo Productions (HP), Houston Peach (HP)...you will get it by mere coincidence!

Thanks, HP, that is funny (HP). I sure hope so.... How are you doing after surgery almost back to normal?

Good, good. Just waiting on the biopsy results.

Not having to take pain meds today, which is a good thing. I posted some doozies...(check out the Cheerios thread)

I believe it was "Sextrology" by starsky and cox

I never watched that show.

doh, never mind.

Hahaha...it's ok.