Libra male's, when you love someone...

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Mirztery on Thursday, July 11, 2013 and has 5 replies.
Do you guys stick till the end? As in not giving up? My boyfriend is a Libra with Venus in Scorpio.
I will but if it gets too damn hard and there are many obstacles that are constantly getting in the way...I'll push you away and eventually it will end..
If I find that I have to retreat a lot eventually I won't come back. I tend to think for us, a relationship just has to "work". There should be some effort, but it shouldn't feel like a job. Fighting to make it work just screws up my balance and eventually I will bail. But it will take me a long time to get to that point.
Need Help in understanding Libra Man!
Hey guys i too join the gang and need help in understanding this libra male. Lol. He is 5 yrs elder to me. Born on sept 30,1985 at 11:48pm. I am sharing the details just in case someone into astrology and can help me out in understanding his birth chart.
How we net?
1-2 months I was looking for job change. I told this libra male to fwd my resume in his company. I randomly found him on linkedin. Later when I got a call for interview, I messaged on him on gmail that I need his guidance related to interview. He called me on the same day at guided me well. Nxt morning got a message saying all the best.I am sure you'll do well. I called him and said thanks. I met him after the interview. We talked for 5 mins or so and later I went back home.
Few days later I said hi to him on whatsapp in evening. He replied at night saying sorry he was out with frnds. I replied nxt morning saying hi again. We exchanged few msges as he was in class. He is presently doing some course which will probably end in August end. His dad passed away when he was young. Since then we started talking almost everyday except weekends when he has classes. He has hectic schedule. Still he used to manage msging on whatsapp while in office and studying at night. We met once in June end after my interview in his company and again in july beginning.
Confusion starts-
He told me he has this course which needs his attention. We are more than friends but he does not want to unnecessarily push things when he does not have time for them. He used to be exciting and lovey dovey when we met but later he is kind of aloof busy studying, working and his family. I did discuss the same with him on which he said that he does try to take out time for me but cant help. And does know that I feel bad. He too feels bad but right now with the course he can't help.
He told me that his mother was looking for a girl for him last year but right now he told his mom to wait as he is busy with this course. I do give him space and let him do his things. But sometimes I really feel like talking to him. He never ignores my messages. I always get a reply. I tried making a plan to meet him last sunday. He told me that he wants to see a movie and requested me to do online booking as he was in class at that time. While I was doing that he suddenly remembers to ask his mother is she has some work. He later msges that he has do wit his mom to a relative place so we will need to cancel the plan. I was really irritated. He later messaged me in evening saying that he is still there till dinner so he wont be able to message me regularly.I found it weird as I was not frantically messaging or calling him. I just replied alright.
Next morning he himself said hi to me. And continued the convo.
He really a mystery to me. I really dont know what to do. I really like him and dont want to act stupid and lose him. I again tried making a plan this sunday by msging him if hes free and can meet. I called him but he didnt answer my call. Later he msged in evening saying he was asleep so he just saw my call and msg. He doesnt really call me. He said for him msges are more convenient as he can msg while studying or when hes with family.
Physical relation-
When first time we met we kissed each other on cheek.
At the time of our second date he was holding my hand while watching movie. He even kissed on my hand.He was doing this unusual thing ie. he was rubbing my arm with his fingers and rubbing my ear.Later while he was dropping me home he gave me a peck on my neck.
I told him that he is confusing me as he says he likes me but right now he cant into a relationship and then these physical gestures. Later he said that hes sorry for confusing me and he crossed his line. So he did a mistake. Whats on his mind? I really want him.. Does he like me? Are there chances of us getting into relationship after he is done with the course? Is he confused? Is there someone else? Help Me!!!! Just to add..I am arian!