Libra male's, when you love someone...
If I find that I have to retreat a lot eventually I won't come back. I tend to think for us, a relationship just has to "work". There should be some effort, but it shouldn't feel like a job. Fighting to make it work just screws up my balance and eventually I will bail. But it will take me a long time to get to that point.
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Yeah Im also pretty jaded. Another Gemini joining in on this complain train!
Not lucky in love what so ever. But there never seems to be a shortage of the WRONG man you know?
Just found out my younger sister is eloping and getting married to her 3rd guy she met off the internet. She's a dating amateur including meeting off dating sites. I can't believe it too. I've been on places like match.com, okcupid, blah blah. Just like she did and she meets this foreign guy and BAM eloping. I can't even find someone I can stand for more than five minutes or who DOESN'T just want to F on the first date. UHHH!
Not lucky in love what so ever. But there never seems to be a shortage of the WRONG man you know?
Just found out my younger sister is eloping and getting married to her 3rd guy she met off the internet. She's a dating amateur including meeting off dating sites. I can't believe it too. I've been on places like match.com, okcupid, blah blah. Just like she did and she meets this foreign guy and BAM eloping. I can't even find someone I can stand for more than five minutes or who DOESN'T just want to F on the first date. UHHH!
Homosexuality is wrong. Pedophilia is wrong. Child abuse is wrong.
Equally wrong, Equally bad.
Equally wrong, Equally bad.
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Piscvirgaquafish is probably right.If u ready for the torture, go aheard and have FWB with him.but if u not, just swim away to safer waters.Trust me have been there, Just exactly the same story as urs.Right now am going through torture. Its really hard for Pisc-scorp to have a FWB relationship, coz definitely one is always gonna get hurt.
For my situation right now, its like we in the stage of hurting each other by making each other jealous.but again we keep treetrunking together as if nothing happened.If u wanna stay, just make sure u don't find urself in an awkward situation
For my situation right now, its like we in the stage of hurting each other by making each other jealous.but again we keep treetrunking together as if nothing happened.If u wanna stay, just make sure u don't find urself in an awkward situation
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I'm sorry to hear that. some people in life are lucky in different areas. I'll bring up Hugh Hefner again as an example....he's been lucky in all his past 80 plus years, in finance/business/building an empire. Ok, I personally don't think he's lucky in love as he goes through them like water. But you know sometimes, those "moments" are what we should all live for. Not everyone is going to be lucky in everything. There's so very few in this world that would even achieve that. Even so, the ones that are considered lucky don't feel lucky at all.
I'm sorry to hear that. some people in life are lucky in different areas. I'll bring up Hugh Hefner again as an example....he's been lucky in all his past 80 plus years, in finance/business/building an empire. Ok, I personally don't think he's lucky in love as he goes through them like water. But you know sometimes, those "moments" are what we should all live for. Not everyone is going to be lucky in everything. There's so very few in this world that would even achieve that. Even so, the ones that are considered lucky don't feel lucky at all.
Posted by cunninglinguist
oh hell no.
cliff notes this shit.
Omg I just laughed my ass off!
effective?
I'm thinking of getting one.
I hear it's wise to get one equipped with some sort of VG-2 or Spectre cloaking. But I wonder how many states are using that tech?
Most states it's actually legal to use radar detectors with the exception of Virginia and DC. There are a few states where it's illegal to use laser jammers.
My biggest question is getting the detector with VG-2 and full Spectre protection and if they are even effective. That kind of technology seems to rely on other cars on the road being clocked to pick up the signal before your ass is caught. Better than nothing I suppose. I've used a friends radar detector before. It's helped. I just dont remember all the feature on his.
I'm thinking of getting one.
I hear it's wise to get one equipped with some sort of VG-2 or Spectre cloaking. But I wonder how many states are using that tech?
Most states it's actually legal to use radar detectors with the exception of Virginia and DC. There are a few states where it's illegal to use laser jammers.
My biggest question is getting the detector with VG-2 and full Spectre protection and if they are even effective. That kind of technology seems to rely on other cars on the road being clocked to pick up the signal before your ass is caught. Better than nothing I suppose. I've used a friends radar detector before. It's helped. I just dont remember all the feature on his.
Ok so are you with someone? Cause Im about to be a mega bitch and say no single people want to hear that kind of thing, especially from people that are in relationships.
Last thing that we need to hear is something like "Oh don't worry your time will come", or "It will find you when you aren't looking", "I used to be like that"...Yeah um shut up for real. That isn't constructive. Like what so ever.
Oh love will find you when you aren't looking. Um it doesn't work like that at all. Everyone knows that too. So every time I hear that I maim someone. How the hell can you find something when you aren't even looking. Nothing just falls into your lap. It takes a shit ton of work, trials and tribulations, sometimes people do luck out but I don't believe in luck.
I believe more over in compromising. And I get that. Im fine with compromising with someone on petty reasons such as personality quirks and what not. But I will NOT budge on the set ground rules. Like having a car, place, and a job. Also you need to be over your ex, no past loves still in the picture. But the things I just mentioned someone has something messed up with those fundamentals which I don't deal with.
I for one will NOT budge on my standards. It just lets me know a lot of women are putting up with some straight up crappy guys. I won't do it. I can bitch in the mean time how it's shitty dating because it is.
Last thing that we need to hear is something like "Oh don't worry your time will come", or "It will find you when you aren't looking", "I used to be like that"...Yeah um shut up for real. That isn't constructive. Like what so ever.
Oh love will find you when you aren't looking. Um it doesn't work like that at all. Everyone knows that too. So every time I hear that I maim someone. How the hell can you find something when you aren't even looking. Nothing just falls into your lap. It takes a shit ton of work, trials and tribulations, sometimes people do luck out but I don't believe in luck.
I believe more over in compromising. And I get that. Im fine with compromising with someone on petty reasons such as personality quirks and what not. But I will NOT budge on the set ground rules. Like having a car, place, and a job. Also you need to be over your ex, no past loves still in the picture. But the things I just mentioned someone has something messed up with those fundamentals which I don't deal with.
I for one will NOT budge on my standards. It just lets me know a lot of women are putting up with some straight up crappy guys. I won't do it. I can bitch in the mean time how it's shitty dating because it is.
I love love, I love surprises, I love romance, I love to be affectionate when I'm with someone I have given myself to.
However, when I don't know how the other person feels or we are in that grey area of dating... good luck buddy. I will not only confuse you, but I will confuse myself on how I feel about you, because I am an emotional retard.
When I'm in the early stages of dating, I get a bit jealous, insecure, and doubtful. However, once we seal the deal and are exclusive and in a committed relationship, I'm a completely different person. No more jealousy, no more bouts of irrational behavior and insecurities, and you actually know how I feel. None of this I like you today, and don't want to have anything to do with you the next. It's just getting to that point in a relationship. Whether it be that I scare them away with my many layers, my being hard to read... or what have you.
It's tough sometimes to find one that sticks, and one that want to stick and that I care just as much about. It's when they do stick, that I am able to relax, because at that point, they've seen me at my worst and all of my colors... and it's all smooth sailing from there, so I can relax, sit back and enjoy.
However, when I don't know how the other person feels or we are in that grey area of dating... good luck buddy. I will not only confuse you, but I will confuse myself on how I feel about you, because I am an emotional retard.
When I'm in the early stages of dating, I get a bit jealous, insecure, and doubtful. However, once we seal the deal and are exclusive and in a committed relationship, I'm a completely different person. No more jealousy, no more bouts of irrational behavior and insecurities, and you actually know how I feel. None of this I like you today, and don't want to have anything to do with you the next. It's just getting to that point in a relationship. Whether it be that I scare them away with my many layers, my being hard to read... or what have you.
It's tough sometimes to find one that sticks, and one that want to stick and that I care just as much about. It's when they do stick, that I am able to relax, because at that point, they've seen me at my worst and all of my colors... and it's all smooth sailing from there, so I can relax, sit back and enjoy.
Yes. It's all about communication
