Libra men I hear you all are serial monogamist

Posted by LibraSid
Guessing can be fun at the beginning... The thrill of of chase, and all that. But if I'm chasing and chasing and am still left guessing, I'm going to take it as a lack of interest. We may still hang out or whatever but I will pull back. Most anybody is like that though. If one person is interested in making something, they are gonna want to know the other is in it too. From what I read around here, us libras need more reassurance than most.

Posted by size zero superhero
^ Initially, that whole vibe is intriguing.
After awhile it becomes misleading and/or confusing and results in us questioning the validity of our own perspective, concerning where we stand with you(the royal "you" & not you personally). Going by personal experience and for the sake of anecdotal evidence, I do not fare well with mixed signals on the long-term.
We are a sign known for our limited attention-span, which is sure to emerge if kept in doubt for too long.

Posted by pinklibra
Reassurance can mean by action or by telling us. Honestly I would love to have both from a love interest. Because once I??m in, I??m innnn. Libra??s do need the reassurance once they are in love with you, because they want to be reassured they made the right decision. You must understand how long it took us to make a solid decision to see where this is going to go with you, and if you send mix signals after we having declared our love for you, now the worrying, analyzing, disappearing, aloofness, insecurity, urge to drop it and run begins. Honestly in your defense it may not have anything to do with us, but we don??t know that, you have to tell us that. Even then, we will only excuse the mixed signals as need for space and will draw completely away anyway, and will ONLY return when YOU seek US. After all, you were the one throwing the mixed signals. Let me know when you??re ready to move forward, if my interest is still there (Which depends on how deeply I felt in the first place) then I??d oblige. However, if you leave a Libra hanging no matter what your reason was, they will hesitate to let you in again. They will also hesitate about cutting everyone they are kicking it with for you again too. No one wants egg on their face for a second time. Ew. They will expect you to be fair and understand their hesitation. It??s only right. They understood your need for space, you need to understand their need for security. It??s best to be straight up with a libra when they are in love point blank. Our mind is complicated enough, we don??t need anyone??s help tampering with it.