Libra men I hear you all are serial monogamist
Posted by pinklibra
Reassurance can mean by action or by telling us. Honestly I would love to have both from a love interest. Because once I??m in, I??m innnn. Libra??s do need the reassurance once they are in love with you, because they want to be reassured they made the right decision. You must understand how long it took us to make a solid decision to see where this is going to go with you, and if you send mix signals after we having declared our love for you, now the worrying, analyzing, disappearing, aloofness, insecurity, urge to drop it and run begins. Honestly in your defense it may not have anything to do with us, but we don??t know that, you have to tell us that. Even then, we will only excuse the mixed signals as need for space and will draw completely away anyway, and will ONLY return when YOU seek US. After all, you were the one throwing the mixed signals. Let me know when you??re ready to move forward, if my interest is still there (Which depends on how deeply I felt in the first place) then I??d oblige. However, if you leave a Libra hanging no matter what your reason was, they will hesitate to let you in again. They will also hesitate about cutting everyone they are kicking it with for you again too. No one wants egg on their face for a second time. Ew. They will expect you to be fair and understand their hesitation. It??s only right. They understood your need for space, you need to understand their need for security. It??s best to be straight up with a libra when they are in love point blank. Our mind is complicated enough, we don??t need anyone??s help tampering with it.
Haven't been on in a while but yes this is exactly it. I couldn't have said it better, and am glad I didn't get the chance to try. Mixed signals fuck with my head hardcore.
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Just want your imput on something....
I have been talking to a Cap Guy for 3 months, first part was great. He was very communicative, very affectionate, we clicked right away. Then 1/2 way through something happened with his daughter which made him do a 180. He still was communicating just not as often (I should say very very seldom was there contact). I had no clue if he was still interested or not but at least he was still commincating. A few of you gave me some really good advice and I did some of it, pulling away, not being so clingy but in the end nothing changed. I knew I need patience to be with this man, but being a virgo that was the hard part. I am always analizing things no matter what. So I talked with him last week and told him how I felt, that I need just a little more communication from him and maybe a little more time. I suggested to see eachother once a week or even once every 2 weeks but that to me communication was valuable to me. I was scared that he wasn't going to recieve it well but he did but still nothing. So this morning I called it off, whatever it is that we had. He came back with "look friends it is".
But now I feel horrible, I feel like I let him down in some way. Which is impossible because he really didn't let me in to his emotional side, just his physical.
My question is, why do I feel so horrbile if I was only looking out for the best for me?
I have been talking to a Cap Guy for 3 months, first part was great. He was very communicative, very affectionate, we clicked right away. Then 1/2 way through something happened with his daughter which made him do a 180. He still was communicating just not as often (I should say very very seldom was there contact). I had no clue if he was still interested or not but at least he was still commincating. A few of you gave me some really good advice and I did some of it, pulling away, not being so clingy but in the end nothing changed. I knew I need patience to be with this man, but being a virgo that was the hard part. I am always analizing things no matter what. So I talked with him last week and told him how I felt, that I need just a little more communication from him and maybe a little more time. I suggested to see eachother once a week or even once every 2 weeks but that to me communication was valuable to me. I was scared that he wasn't going to recieve it well but he did but still nothing. So this morning I called it off, whatever it is that we had. He came back with "look friends it is".
But now I feel horrible, I feel like I let him down in some way. Which is impossible because he really didn't let me in to his emotional side, just his physical.
My question is, why do I feel so horrbile if I was only looking out for the best for me?
Posted by gemelioristPosted by virgosagscorpio
There's nothing wrong with being friends with your exes, I find it beneficial for me coz I get to see the reason why the relationship failed since I am seeing it now in a friendship level.
Called it weird or whatever but that's just how things are for me specially when Ive had attachment with my exes family.
Sometimes it made me say to myself "you're one lucky girl, you didn't end up with this guy" hahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
+1, You get to see first hand that there ain't nothing wrong whitcha...or him/her. Less torture as you're not wondering what's they're up to/doing....ween yourself off....preferable modus operandi for some....Hey, how you doin? LOLclick to expand
Yep! Yep! Agree!
Posted by CreepyPantsPosted by lildol
Maybe I need a new trench coat too.... hmmmm
i did that once... haha!
i was pissed about my day so i put on lingerie and a trench coat then left the house to go have sushi with a friend.
you just gotta take it upon yourself to make yourself laugh sometimes.click to expand
Ha! Thought I was the only one, good to know I'm not alone. Good job!
I think the real danger here is the compartmentalizing of relationship functions that was mentioned on the previous page. I will definitely be on the look out for that. I would rather avoid that. Sounds unpleasant.
I don't think this particular Cap is "b.s.-ing" as she said. I think he's being upfront about his need for a high level of control, in order to feel secure and move forward with anyone. He's stated that he is looking for a relationship. And she has a right to say whether she is comfortable with these "clinical trials" or not. If she still likes him knowing that, then good for her. She seems to be going into this pretty informed about the reality.
Anyone could pull out at any time. Marriage doesn't prevent that. All relationships seem like they need to be mutually negotiated. In order to move forward, a relationship needs to be mutually accepted. What is "socially awkward" for one person might be endearing to someone else. The longer you know someone the more you know. But it is helpful to know what it is you're willing to accept and what you're looking for going in...
I don't think this particular Cap is "b.s.-ing" as she said. I think he's being upfront about his need for a high level of control, in order to feel secure and move forward with anyone. He's stated that he is looking for a relationship. And she has a right to say whether she is comfortable with these "clinical trials" or not. If she still likes him knowing that, then good for her. She seems to be going into this pretty informed about the reality.
Anyone could pull out at any time. Marriage doesn't prevent that. All relationships seem like they need to be mutually negotiated. In order to move forward, a relationship needs to be mutually accepted. What is "socially awkward" for one person might be endearing to someone else. The longer you know someone the more you know. But it is helpful to know what it is you're willing to accept and what you're looking for going in...
p.s.
I've just been thinking about relationships the past couple days.
I've just been thinking about relationships the past couple days.
BITCHES BE TRIPPIN HAHA
also- leo with water moon is a great mixture me thinks
I'm going through the same thing with a Pisces. I told him how I felt and that I needed a serious relationship. He said let's remain friends, to which I replied that I was not sure whether that was a good idea.
It's been four days now and no contact on either end.
It's been four days now and no contact on either end.
What reason would there be for a virgo guy to fight his feelings for someone, or hold them back.
Do virgos even do this?
Just curious to know if there are reasons, sometimes, that virgos would do this?
Do virgos even do this?
Just curious to know if there are reasons, sometimes, that virgos would do this?
So cancers just a random question: any plans for the summer? What do you hope to get out of this summer?
I'll start off by saying this summer I am gonna turn 21 so I hope to make this the best ever. I want to just live this summer and get out and enjoy myself I hope to create some of the best memories and the best of times (:
I'll start off by saying this summer I am gonna turn 21 so I hope to make this the best ever. I want to just live this summer and get out and enjoy myself I hope to create some of the best memories and the best of times (: