Libra mens sexual fantasies??

This topic was created in the Libra forum by libra sun on Friday, January 18, 2013 and has 17 replies.
I love you Libra guys and your willingness to please definately comes in handy in the bedroom however it seems that finding out what a Libra man wants in bed is like trying to get blood out of a stone. In my experience I find Libra men seem to be very versatile and can easily adapt to being the dominant one or the submisive one depending on their.partner but deep down what do you actually want?!
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never dated someone as my sign. i wonder whats it feels like...
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Posted by libra sun
I love you Libra guys and your willingness to please definately comes in handy in the bedroom however it seems that finding out what a Libra man wants in bed is like trying to get blood out of a stone. In my experience I find Libra men seem to be very versatile and can easily adapt to being the dominant one or the submisive one depending on their.partner but deep down what do you actually want?!


easy we want her to enjoy herself so she keeps comming back for more. If she enjoys herself then she will make it enjoyable for you simple as that... What I think we want is someone who will have sex openly with us without any shyness or reasonable inhibitions it always amazes me when women are shy of there stretch marks or whatever imperfections they think they have .
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Interesting. Me and my Libra were stuck in this la la land where neither of us was dominant or submissive , we were both just in this middle weird place. He would always say "whatever turns you on turns me on" .Also being a Libra I am similar but I still have my own preferences.
In the end I told him he either has to "man up" or back down and his response (which I knew it would be) was "which would you prefer" haha told him I didnt care which just pick!!
He picked to man up and I decided he wasnt manly enough to play that role so decided to be the dominant one. And in the end he finally admitted he had always wanted tio be dominated by a woman. So I was like "wtf?! Wjy didnt you just say when I asked?" and he just shrugged lol.
He is a very open person but seems to be really secretive when it comes to sex. He will try anything (and I mean ANYTHING) I suggest but wont say what he actually wants, so frustrating!
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We both have a lot of scorp in our chart and the sex is amazing I just want to.know what he really really wants even if its something that would make most people run away haha. Im currently working my way through the A-Z of sexual encouters until I find out exactly what it is! He never knows what he's going to walk into when he gets in from work lol
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Posted by tiziani
Haha, that is pretty much what I imagined a Libra-Libra relationship to be like. Everytime I've met a Libra woman they are fascinating to talk to and share with, but there has never been enough spark (too similar) to take it further.
If he is not telling you then that is probably sure sign that he has fantasised about things that truly have no boundaries or limits. Sometimes things are to be shown rather than told. If you do more of the showing of what you want (without waiting for his permission or the green light but just raw feeling) then you might get the change in him that you desire.
But you know, it must be tough being an Air sign trying to provoke fire out of another Air sign.


He knows what I want and will happily do it. Its what HE wants that us the issue. He insists he doesnt want anything but I refuse.to accept that lol
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libra_sun, your libra and my old cancer guy are very similar in this area. I've tried so many different ways of asking him what he's into and he would drop me the same exact line. I thought cardinal signs wanted to lead! The only way I could discover what he liked was when I took the initiative and experimented. Found out a lot that way.
I was with a libra once whose chart was also marred with scorpio placements Winking He was pretty kinky and dominant. He liked re-enacting porn material and was a huge fan of going down on a girl which was awesome. I never had doubts or questions about what he liked. He was very open.
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We're not dating we are married lol. He's def not down for a threesome even with another woman. he likes ass play but can take or leave it
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Posted by ninjamu
libra_sun, your libra and my old cancer guy are very similar in this area. I've tried so many different ways of asking him what he's into and he would drop me the same exact line. I thought cardinal signs wanted to lead! The only way I could discover what he liked was when I took the initiative and experimented. Found out a lot that way.
I was with a libra once whose chart was also marred with scorpio placements Winking He was pretty kinky and dominant. He liked re-enacting porn material and was a huge fan of going down on a girl which was awesome. I never had doubts or questions about what he liked. He was very open.


Haha my guys obsessed with going down almost as much as full on sex!
He doesnt own any porn though which I thought was strange (dont all men watch porn?!) but he has a very high sex drive and is up for anything he just wont suggest it himself
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My best friend who is a Libra wont ever date libra guys as she says its like being with her brother! Haha. I have never been able to resist them. Only the venus in scorp ones though venus in libra/virgo just dont do it for me
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Well, since you asked an no Libra Men have stepped forward here goes: this here Libra has Mars and Venus in Sag , being domiate is kinda natural but with my partner we switch it up alot.I'm thinking most Libra men would prefer the more sumissive role . or 'you seduce me'' role. I love that myself !. Lingere,high heels,nylons,and a female dressed like a classy whore drive me crazy . (My Virgo wife is good at that ! she has mars in Libra so we just 'click' sexually ) I love dirty talk , it gives me incredible orgasms. Eye contact is a SERIOUS turn-on in bed . I like to give first (it's a Libra thing) but I'm greedy in the end. Anything whith whips and chains is not really necsessary . I think Ive said enough here , can't give away everything . I'm guessing you have to check the man's Mars, Moon, Venus and Eros to get the whole picture.
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Thanks libragem. Very similar to my Libra so hopefully he does like those things and isnt just.saying he does because I do lol. When we first got.together he saiid he was into underwear and I thought "isnt every.man?!" but he is REALLY into it, loves when I put something sexy on for him. He dropped into.the submissive role like a natural but he will still dominate every nowand then. Since I have forced (for lack of a better word lol) him to open up sexually he has started to talk dirty which I love but he seems to have an issue with being."that way" with his wife
Its like he has put me on some purity pedastool and see's me as something he cant be dirty with lol. I always feel him hesitate before he does or says something dirty and ive told him its a turn off and he needs to clear his mind and just be in the moment and not worry about offending me lol
He also isnt into whips and chains but he likesme to spank him, he even leaves a wooden spoon on his pillow for me sometimes because he's too shy to ask for it bless him
I just dont want it to be years down the line and I find out that he's unhappy because theres something we could have been doing that he wouldnt speak up about. I have been like that in past relationships and wasnt happy and should have spoken up.
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Also def agree about the eye contact. I used go be quite sexually detatched but he likes to have eye contact which I found uncomfortable at first but now just seems natural. Also the one thing he has been forthcoming about is his interest in tantric sex (but once again only after I mentioned it!!) . Apparently this is meant to be something Libra men excel at?? But either way he ordered a book lol
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Posted by tiziani
Haha, that is pretty much what I imagined a Libra-Libra relationship to be like. Everytime I've met a Libra woman they are fascinating to talk to and share with, but there has never been enough spark (too similar) to take it further.
If he is not telling you then that is probably sure sign that he has fantasised about things that truly have no boundaries or limits. Sometimes things are to be shown rather than told. If you do more of the showing of what you want (without waiting for his permission or the green light but just raw feeling) then you might get the change in him that you desire.
But you know, it must be tough being an Air sign trying to provoke fire out of another Air sign.


He knows what I want and will happily do it. Its what HE wants that us the issue. He insists he doesnt want anything but I refuse.to accept that lol
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I think his "nothing" means "everything"...
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Think you may be onto something there sid! But dont.most people usually have one thing that tops everything else?! I know some people may want to just keep it as fantasy (like many people fantasize about 3somes but the reality is they dont want to actually.do it) but still thought if so.he he would share it with me. Maybe im just too nosey haha
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Posted by lblibra
easy we want her to enjoy herself so she keeps comming back for more. If she enjoys herself then she will make it enjoyable for you simple as that... What I think we want is someone who will have sex openly with us without any shyness or reasonable inhibitions it always amazes me when women are shy of there stretch marks or whatever imperfections they think they have .


This was very close to my first thoughts.


One of the ways I view sex is that of exploring and bringing pleasure to each other. It turns me on knowing that I am making you moan and squirm like that. If getting you to moan and squirm means you want me to blindfold you, tie you up, kiss (or lick/tickle/massage/dick slap) every inch of your body... I'm in. If it means doggy style and me pulling your hair bringing your body up to mine and passionately kissing you while we grind away, that sounds great too. If tomorrow you want to tie me up, we still have rope from the other night let go!
As for personal preferences, I love oral sex... giving and receiving. I've never done anal but am open to try the giving side of that. In general, I just like to take my time. I am mutli orgasmic and will literally have sex all night long til we're both just heaps of sweaty flesh passed out it ecstacy. I want to break your single night orgasm record.
I wonder sometimes if I have some sexual problem because we're always told not to view women as sex objects, and I don't... unless we're having sex. Then I want to be your tool of pleasure and you to be mine. When we're done I'll go back to my sweet respectful self, when it's on though... it's on. Is that wrong haha?
I think my biggest sexual need is to feel desired. I like passion, kissing, eye contact... the position and costumes are interchangeable.

I know I'm a freak, but you asked Tongue
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Posted by libra sun
Think you may be onto something there sid! But dont.most people usually have one thing that tops everything else?! I know some people may want to just keep it as fantasy (like many people fantasize about 3somes but the reality is they dont want to actually.do it) but still thought if so.he he would share it with me. Maybe im just too nosey haha


I fall into that group. I think every guy has fantasized about a threesome but in reality... eh. I am a one woman guy. I fantasize about everything, some things I'd actually like to try and some I wouldn't. I have worried before that my partner would think I was too much of a freak if I voiced my fantasies. But after reading some of the shit people on here do to each other I don't think I'm too far out there.
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