Loving the Libra man

A man who has no balance like his Zodiac symbol. He is not the gentle, cool, calm and charming guy like what you see. He has another dark side of aggression, stubborness and he likes to start an argument the most. Sometimes he can be so depressed and unstable. Up and down like he is trying to balance himself most of the time. To many people, he is a friendly guy and always smile even when he is mad or upset. His voice always gentle and calm.

He always set and comb his hair as if he comes out from a shampoo advertisement. Mostly Libra men are good looking, even the ugly one is charming. When he smiles, it is so bright that the whole world is smiling with him too. When he is in a balance mood, he is the type of person you want to be with. In other unbalancing mood, he likes to make people argue about something and watch it with fascination and fun. He will wait to be the one who compromise and clear thing up. He likes to be in a conflicting conversation.Libra man is lazy by nature. After his tired day at work, he likes to sit still and just look out of the window or read quietly. He likes to be in his own world. After recharging his battery, he will be very energetic again and may even take you out that night. Libra man normally will not do any shocking or abnormal things to be noticed. He likes to be conformed with his crowd, but if you watch him carefully, you will see the difference. If he wear a shirt, it will have to be a zipper front instead of buttons, or a special tie bar. There is always something in him that he will not allow totally conformity to take him over. A straight forward , no non-sense guy.

He is careful and delicate indetails. He will spent extra time to doing it right, than comes back to correct them later. He hates people who boast, or exaggerate. He does not like over-dressed woman or make herself a center of an attention. He loves to read. He loves poems and loves art. When he works he can work like crazy, but after work he can turn on romantic jazzy music and treat you so gently. He loves to give people advice and normally give a good advice.If you fall for him, you will stay like being trapped in a spider web.

If you want to break up with him, he will persuade you a zillion ways to stay and you can not stop him anyway. After he persuade you to stay, or after a big fight, he will be so sweet to you as if he has never hurt your feeling before ever. He will has his own way to win a girl love and affection. Once she says yes

So I found this and it shocked me!! I am seeing this libra man and he is driving me nuts!! It's like he fights with me on purpose. After I get mad ... he then and hour later acts like nothing even happened ... as if he didn't even know I was mad. I don't get it!! It's like he is so charming and has a smile that will melt your heart, but at the same time you wanna ring his neck. Someone please tell me how to handle him. I just don't think I can do it anymore. Is there a certain way he want's me to act? Help please!!

For example ...
This weekend we were suppose to hang out. I told him it didn't matter what we did. After changing his mind like 10 times he text me saying that "6 of us are leaving @ 8:00 to go to the concert" He never asked me if I wanted to go or if that was a good time for me nothing!! I said "okay have fun" He was like "huh?" Like he was clueless or something. Well I get home and he called me and asked what I was doing. I said I am waiting on my friend to get off and then we are going to go somewhere, but that I didn't know where yet. Well he was getting dressed and said okay well we are fixing to leave and he said I could keep texting him If I wanted to. Well my girlfriend and I decided to go to the concert. We showed up like 3 hours late. There were hundreds of people there and as soon as we walked in and paid I turned around and he came right up to me. Gave me a hug and kiss and said "It's about time you got here!" I honestly didn't even think I was gonna see him with all those people there. Do you really think he was waiting for me ... I never even said I was going!?! It was wierd. But he would never tell me he wanted me to go with him ... so I didn't. But it was like he didn't get it. I figured I would catch him with a girl or something like that. But he was just there with his brother. Can men really be this clueless? HELP!!!

yep, especially Librans

(( But he would never tell me he wanted me to go with him ... so I didn't. ))

We never put such things in words. It has to be understood that he needs you to be with him every place he wants to go. There is no invitation needed. If you dont jump in and walk with him, obviously he will think there is something wrong.

"This weekend we were suppose to hang out. I told him it didn't matter what we did. After changing his mind like 10 times"

Why didn't you suggest something for both of you? I think he'd like something spontaneous...He just had too many options , especially when he had to make a decision that involved you....Besides , it can be fun to mull over all the options together , just don't get lost 🙂


" I figured I would catch him with a girl or something like that."

Sounds unhealthy ...I think in the back of your mind , you already don't trust him....

If he did not invite you DIRECTLY to go with him or with the group why the hell would you choose to go to the same event 3 hours later and then hope to catch him with someone? Sounds like you're wanting to play games and that is not smart or mature. You should have done anything Else in the world but go to that concert. HE should have been wondering what YOU were doing all evening while HE was at the concert.

Don't let your Libra play that "hint-around-the-bush game with you or you'll only be setting yourself up for him to do it to you always and MORE my dear. Be independent and do your own thing. Sounds like you're chasing him by you showing up at the concert.

If he had wanted you to go, he should have asked you, by you NOT showing up he would have been disappointed. Then he'll learn he should ask you personally and be specific if he wants to see you in a situation like that. Unless you're into trying to improve your ESP skills and you're into arguments because YOU DIDN'T GET YOUR ESP RIGHT then do yourself a great service and be the mature one and show him those tactics aren't going to work with you.

EXAM is right....sounds like you already don't trust him. But that's probably because you have more of an interest emotionally in him then he has in you at this point and you are uncertain where YOU stand with him. You aren't his GF yet so if you're only dating him, even if he went with another girl to the concert, you don't have the right to be jealous or angry with him if you're not in a committed/exclusive relationship.

Just enjoy his friendship and the dating because that's all you 2 are right now is FRIENDS dating.

Good luck!

****Well he was getting dressed and said okay well we are fixing to leave and he said I could keep texting him If I wanted to.***** Are you sure you didn't "hint" something to the affect that you "might" show up at the concert later by texting him during the evening? If you did,...then it probably wasn't such a mystery that he was checking the entry for you when you arrived.

This is what happened sunday:
He text me of coarse and asked what my plans where ... like he wanted me to say nothing. Well I did say nothing and asked him if he wanted to hang out. He said "it depends" What the hell does that mean? It's like he's playing with me or something. Well He told me he would call me later. I said okay. Blah blah he called and I asked him what he wanted to do ... mistake I know ... and he said well I'm suppose to do this, but this is going on and blah blah. I wanted to kill him!! So I suggested a couple of things, but those wern't good enough either. It's like I just don't know what to do. He said call me later and I'll let you know. So I called him an hour later. He never picked up. I simply text him and said "I called u". Well I waited for 2 hours and nothing. So I took my butt to church. I got tired of waiting on him. It shouldn't be like that, but I guess being a libra I always put my man before me. Anyway he text me as soon as service started and said "when". He waited 5 mins and text "you never called". 20 mins later he called and of course I couldn't answer. Then 30 mins later text me saying "I guess you don't wanna talk to me anymore?" Well after I got out I text him and said "I was in church". He said "ok". And then "Have a good nite". Now it was about 7:45 at this time. What the hell right? Who goes to bed that early? I said "ok". So my girlfriend from church and I went out to eat. I never told him though. He called me at 11:30 (I was asleep) and told me I left my ID at his house and he wanted to know where I wanted to meet him to get it. He said well just call me tomorrow and let me know. He text me bright and early 7:00 a.m. and asked if I was awake and then wanted to know when I wanted to meet him. Well something happened and we got into it ... he was being a dick!! Then he said "I will mail it to you!" My heart just dropped! I was like "what the hell does that mean?" No answer ... "What are you talking about" ... and again no answer. Finally he called and as soon as I answered I was like "what the hell?" He said "if you don't wanna see me then I'll just mail it to you". He was acting like a child!! What could have brought up this behavior?
I know he likes me cause he will say things like ... when you meet my dad blah blah ... and I'll have to take you there one day ... and just little stuff like that. But apart of me feels like he is seeing someone else. I was seeing this other libra guy (for about 2 weeks) and

when we were getting ready to leave I went back inside to go and get him and tell him I was ready. H ejust like dissapeared or something ... well he was making out with another girl ... a really ugly dike looking thing too ... so YES I am scared. I don't know if I just don't trust him ... or if it's just men in general. Someone please help me understand this man. Why won't he just tell me he wan't to be with me? I thought they were suppose to be romantic and all? HELP!!!!

How many red flags do you need to acknowledge....... the bridge is OUT? Sweetie, just TRY to remove your emotional attachment you have for HIM and keep it in perspective: You are dating him and still trying to get to know one another. What you do know of him so far is he is indecisive, immature, and likes to play games. Don't ever think you are going to change that. That has to come from within him to WANT to change when he is ready!! You're expectations are what are disappointing you because he isn't meeting those expectations.

Also: *****he wanted to know where I wanted to meet him to get it. He said well just call me tomorrow and let me know. He text me bright and early 7:00 a.m. and asked if I was awake and then wanted to know when I wanted to meet him.****** He is asking you when and where. You should have given him a place and time. I am suspecting that things got out of hand when you threw it back at him to decide when or where or something equal to his indecisiveness. (Libras will take FOREVER to decide) He then turned it around on you by saying: ****"if you don't wanna see me then I'll just mail it to you".**** Again, more games. If it's like this now.....it will likely be this way with him again, and again, and......

Thanks for your input templeofjaguar ... even though it's not what I wanna hear. It's funny cause he is 24 (the oldest guy I have ever been with) and yet he is the most confusing. Go figure. I thought libra's tell you how they feel?

I don't know what finally happened with you,
But if you are surprised that your Libra acts immature at 24, mine is 34 and is still immature.
All the behaviour your Libra displayed, are a total match with what mine does to me.
But now that I have read this about him, I am seriously thinking of dumping him, I don't need heart ache man.
And templeofjaguar, you don't have to be mean to her, you are just playing mind games on her to make her feel worthless, while in all reality, men are worthless.

Posted by thinktank1979
I dated a libra for 2 years. Love of my life, we had so much fun, but in the end it came down to him not being able to commit to me the way I needed him to. His carefree spirit was what I loved most about him, but in the end, it also became our downfall. If you are ok with happy go lucky, back and forth, indecision and no serious commitments, this guy is for you. If not, cut your losses.


Love him to death - still do. But finally had to cut ties with him. He was killing me inside.

I am pretty sure that my wife is thinking and will be saying the exact same thing.......

especially the last line......


Augustus

this sounds like more of an accurate description of my ex libra guy. although he wasn't one to start arguments just to sit back, watch in awe, then get all diplomatic and clear the air. no, he's a fighter. he'll start the argument alright and keep at it like a politician. also he LOVES an over-dressed woman! he wished i was like that all the time. he wanted me to dress like models in the magazines did. he wanted a trophy gf. oh yeah, he wants the perfect, ideal package of a woman. there's no satisfying that man! ha!