Loving the Libra man
If he did not invite you DIRECTLY to go with him or with the group why the hell would you choose to go to the same event 3 hours later and then hope to catch him with someone? Sounds like you're wanting to play games and that is not smart or mature. You should have done anything Else in the world but go to that concert. HE should have been wondering what YOU were doing all evening while HE was at the concert.
Don't let your Libra play that "hint-around-the-bush game with you or you'll only be setting yourself up for him to do it to you always and MORE my dear. Be independent and do your own thing. Sounds like you're chasing him by you showing up at the concert.
If he had wanted you to go, he should have asked you, by you NOT showing up he would have been disappointed. Then he'll learn he should ask you personally and be specific if he wants to see you in a situation like that. Unless you're into trying to improve your ESP skills and you're into arguments because YOU DIDN'T GET YOUR ESP RIGHT then do yourself a great service and be the mature one and show him those tactics aren't going to work with you.
EXAM is right....sounds like you already don't trust him. But that's probably because you have more of an interest emotionally in him then he has in you at this point and you are uncertain where YOU stand with him. You aren't his GF yet so if you're only dating him, even if he went with another girl to the concert, you don't have the right to be jealous or angry with him if you're not in a committed/exclusive relationship.
Just enjoy his friendship and the dating because that's all you 2 are right now is FRIENDS dating.
Good luck!
Don't let your Libra play that "hint-around-the-bush game with you or you'll only be setting yourself up for him to do it to you always and MORE my dear. Be independent and do your own thing. Sounds like you're chasing him by you showing up at the concert.
If he had wanted you to go, he should have asked you, by you NOT showing up he would have been disappointed. Then he'll learn he should ask you personally and be specific if he wants to see you in a situation like that. Unless you're into trying to improve your ESP skills and you're into arguments because YOU DIDN'T GET YOUR ESP RIGHT then do yourself a great service and be the mature one and show him those tactics aren't going to work with you.
EXAM is right....sounds like you already don't trust him. But that's probably because you have more of an interest emotionally in him then he has in you at this point and you are uncertain where YOU stand with him. You aren't his GF yet so if you're only dating him, even if he went with another girl to the concert, you don't have the right to be jealous or angry with him if you're not in a committed/exclusive relationship.
Just enjoy his friendship and the dating because that's all you 2 are right now is FRIENDS dating.
Good luck!
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